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Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Nobody: 4:53pm On Feb 18, 2015
Mathematical:
lmao.. guess 65 ,that's if ya game iz tight cheesy

Emusmith wept embarassed
Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Nobody: 4:54pm On Feb 18, 2015
amokeme:
you want me to cry ne?

No dearie...how's school? cheesy
Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Nobody: 4:57pm On Feb 18, 2015
naijaboiy:
19 guests shocked

Emusmith you dey do party?

Lolzz...You're invited joor oo grin
Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by amokeme(f): 5:01pm On Feb 18, 2015
emusmith:


No dearie...how's school? cheesy
just there jare... I want to go home already... cry
Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Nobody: 5:06pm On Feb 18, 2015
amokeme:
just there jare... I want to go home already... cry

Wow, when? cheesy
Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by amokeme(f): 5:08pm On Feb 18, 2015
emusmith:


Wow, when? cheesy
when ke?? Still far o... Am just wishing cheesy
Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Nobody: 5:09pm On Feb 18, 2015
amokeme:
when ke?? Still far o... Am just wishing cheesy

Like when? smiley
Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by amokeme(f): 5:19pm On Feb 18, 2015
emusmith:


Like when? smiley
may cry
Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by StunnazJay(m): 5:23pm On Feb 18, 2015
What I'm trying to say is: Apologizing or not-apologizing are acquirable habits. Whichever one of the two one does constantly, would be easy to fall back on. Unless the person consciously chooses not to.

emusmith:



You're tryna say, You don't apologize or it's okay not to?
Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Nobody: 5:26pm On Feb 18, 2015
amokeme:
may cry

Wow, to PH? smiley
Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Nobody: 5:27pm On Feb 18, 2015
StunnazJay:
What I'm trying to say is: Apologizing or not-apologizing are acquirable habits. Whichever one of the two one does constantly, would be easy to fall back on. Unless the person consciously chooses not to.


Oh, I see. OK smiley
Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by amokeme(f): 5:29pm On Feb 18, 2015
emusmith:


Wow, to PH? smiley
nope smiley
Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Nobody: 5:31pm On Feb 18, 2015
amokeme:
nope smiley

embarassed To where ?
Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by amokeme(f): 5:34pm On Feb 18, 2015
emusmith:


embarassed To where ?
hehehe... So if you had asked "to where" initially what will happen to you? tongue anyways, to many places..
I stay in kano tho
Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Genea(f): 5:34pm On Feb 18, 2015
watered:
Oshe! After all I'm not willing to settle down anytime soon so it doesn't affect me...

Genea did u just see this?
no i havent seen dis ,lemme read
Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Nobody: 5:36pm On Feb 18, 2015
amokeme:
hehehe... So if you had asked "to where" initially what will happen to you? tongue anyways, to many places..
I stay in kano tho

smiley...Kano is a cool place na
Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by LewisO: 5:38pm On Feb 18, 2015
Typing...
Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Nobody: 5:49pm On Feb 18, 2015
LewisO:
Typing...

You sha...undecided
Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by amokeme(f): 5:56pm On Feb 18, 2015
emusmith:


smiley...Kano is a cool place na
lol.. I know na. Missing it so much.. Those ota is just somehow
Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Mathematical(f): 5:56pm On Feb 18, 2015
emusmith:


Emusmith wept embarassed
grin
Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by LewisO: 6:13pm On Feb 18, 2015
emusmith:


You sha...undecided

tongue
Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Nobody: 6:19pm On Feb 18, 2015
Mathematical:
grin

You don burst my bubbles...

Is He on NL? wink
Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Nobody: 6:19pm On Feb 18, 2015
LewisO:


tongue

Guy cheesy
Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Nobody: 6:20pm On Feb 18, 2015
amokeme:
lol.. I know na. Missing it so much.. Those ota is just somehow

Lol...cheesy
Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Mathematical(f): 6:59pm On Feb 18, 2015
emusmith:


You don burst my bubbles...

Is He on NL? wink
Who?
Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Nobody: 7:01pm On Feb 18, 2015
Mathematical:

Who?

OK... from No. 1 - 64, is any here on NL? cool
Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Mathematical(f): 7:04pm On Feb 18, 2015
emusmith:


OK... from No. 1 - 64, is any here on NL? cool
loolz.. don't take my joke serious.. I got none on here tho.. am strictly here to learn and have fun kiss
Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Nobody: 7:21pm On Feb 18, 2015
Mathematical:
loolz.. don't take my joke serious.. I got none on here tho.. am strictly here to learn and have fun kiss

I wasn't...cool

I'm here to learn and have fun too. That makes us even...OK. wink kiss
Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Mathematical(f): 7:23pm On Feb 18, 2015
emusmith:


I wasn't...cool

I'm here to learn and have fun too. That makes us even...OK. wink kiss
Okay.. wink
Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Nobody: 10:40pm On Feb 18, 2015
Mathematical:
Okay.. wink

Nice Pm tho smiley
Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Rick9(m): 11:19pm On Feb 18, 2015
Blackett:


Getting tired of these dumbass lists.
Thanks a lot the dumbass lists are kinda annoying and misleading.
Re: POSSIBLE Tips To Curbing Break-up Situations In Your Relationship. by Mzflexydeeva(f): 7:29am On Feb 19, 2015
emusmith:
This thread is especially for all those whom have had to undergo the pain of a break up or perhaps divorce AND those whose current serious relationship is dwindling at the edge of a cliff .

<<<I pray this article helps>>>


Probably, you're now casting rocks at him or her but I tell you, if you look keenly, you are responsible in a way.

Almost every one is in a relationship: Platonic, Love or Marriage. Break up or Divorce as it were is an ANTI-RELATIONSHIP virus. It's always sticking its ugly nose at both of you- for separation. The ball, however is in your court. smileycool

How Do I Prevent Break Up Situations In My Relationship?


1. Be The Bigger Person.

Stop being irresponsible. There is a misunderstanding? Be the first to say, I'm sorry. It won't hurt a fly.
Do you know that by doing so he or she respects you more? Why? You just did what she's been too proud to do. I practised this once on a girl and the result was amazing and immediate. Try it today. Don't try to defend your actions anymore. smiley


2. If He Doesn't Call You, Call Him.


Two wrongs can't make a right.
Folks are always expecting the other to call first. If she doesn't call, so you won't? I'm not referring to just casual and sexual relationship. In a serious relationship, who calls most shows who love most. Call him, you're not breaking "protocols", hun. If you love him, show it. If he's a jerk or a kid, he'll freak out and run.



3. If All Of A Sudden He Stops Calling, Don't Push It. Cut Him Some Slack


Sometimes, she has got her wedding all planned out in her mind with him in it of course. She loves him dearly and that causes her to expect soooo much. He stops calling and caring as before, she starts suspecting. She aggravates over the phone. She yells at him, "Why are you not picking my calls?". Probably, it's work stress and family stuff. Give him a little space, meanwhile text him occasionally. Patience is the word. Protect your Reputation, Morals, Dignity and Chastity cool This is the period where some impatient girls deem it necessary to "trap" him through sex or pregnancy. How foolish! SMH!



4. Don't Plan To Retaliate


If she bursts your balloon by not laughing at your jokes, don't try to retaliate. It is uncalled for. If she gives the attitude by not replying your question, don't retaliate. It's hard? That's the way to keep the relationship strong and going. smiley



5. Forgive Ahead.

Decision not to sleep with grudges in your heart even while you're single is one of the most important decisions you will ever make.

Nothing separates like an unforgiving attitude. You just refuse to forgive him/ her. Perfect You! See where it has got you?



6. Being Hasty To Conclude


You hear something said against him and the next thing you're calling and yelling. How immature! How would you feel if later you discover it wasn't him. You feel like a... child.



7. Always Speak Up!



Not speaking may lead to regrets tomorrow. Misinformation might have led to your breaking up... because you didn't speak!

This is where quiet and dull girls are not good enough. You should know when to speak and when to be still joor!

You speak with Discretion, Respect and Maturity.

Discretion: Use wise words.

Respect: Use magic words. wink

Maturity: Know when to say what.



ASSIGNMENT: If you love him or her, Pick up the phone and call her or him. Break the damn silence! Do something about the way you disregard him or her, even in the public.

Go, Go make it work! ( Voice of Janet Jackson in Why Did I Get Married?) wink

Have a nice day. smiley
well said

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