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Love Or Lust? Which Led To Your Marriage? by nkemdirim104(op):
After some months of marriage, you are then struck with the arrows of reality.
He doesn't seem to be what I had known him to.
She's not totally what I had expected.
He pays less attention to me now.
She is no better than other ladies.

But some months back you said these to her or him;
You are my everything...
I can't do without you...
My world is meaningless without you...
You are my life...

Were you dreaming when you said these.
I do understand why there's so many broken homes today...
When love or lust is gone, the two bodies are exposed to all imperfections.

Get this, there will be a time in your married life when those feelings won't feel like it again as stated from the beginning, marrying some one only because you love him or her is a lame excuse.
Marriage is more than a mere love conviction.
Did you check his or her approach to life, his or her driving force, his or her relationship with others. If he or she has the same vision as yours. There must be a meeting point of ideas from both partners. Then other differences is loved-up or covered by love.

Without this, you might end up marrying out of lust.
Today society has made it even difficult to tell lust from love. A man or woman shouldn't be judged by physical appearance only but of inside.
Sadly many don't have much going inside but outside.
If you consider outside before inside, you are actually taking to the direction of lust.
Beauty is in vain.
Charm is deceit.

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Re: Love Or Lust? Which Led To Your Marriage? by Nobody: 9:43am On May 01, 2015
[color=#150000]When I'm married, I'll tell you. [/color]
Re: Love Or Lust? Which Led To Your Marriage? by mhizpeaarl(f): 9:49am On May 01, 2015
Am not married. But it certainly is gonna be LOVE. That BANGING HOT BODY wil definitely grow old nd sagged. But with love everything will be perfect grin
Re: Love Or Lust? Which Led To Your Marriage? by Venom104: 9:56am On May 01, 2015
mhizpeaarl:
Am not married. But it certainly is gonna be LOVE. That BANGING HOT BODY wil definitely grow old nd sagged. But with love everything will be perfect grin
your lips tho.. cheesy i could marry for that wink
Re: Love Or Lust? Which Led To Your Marriage? by buygala(m): 9:57am On May 01, 2015
Lust I know.... love I don't undecided


So I am gonna marry my friend who I can't stop lusting after smiley
Re: Love Or Lust? Which Led To Your Marriage? by demmy0325(m): 10:01am On May 01, 2015
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Re: Love Or Lust? Which Led To Your Marriage? by Ben1975(m): 6:04pm On May 01, 2015
Hi nkemdirim104

Ben1975 here

Can you drop me your email and contact phone number?

These are mine:

08 134 966 599
residual.income.for.all.2004@gmail.com

Everybody have a wonderful and productive day smiley

Ben Ajose
Re: Love Or Lust? Which Led To Your Marriage? by ivyy(f): 6:07pm On May 01, 2015
Take it to the family section
Re: Love Or Lust? Which Led To Your Marriage? by Cherlene(f): 6:09pm On May 01, 2015
Good evening

Have not been MARRIED YET.

Cherlene
Re: Love Or Lust? Which Led To Your Marriage? by dechandel(f): 6:09pm On May 01, 2015
buygala:
Lust I know.... love I don't undecided


So I am gonna marry my friend who I can't stop lusting after smiley
Aint you getting married to your babymama anymore¿?? undecided
Re: Love Or Lust? Which Led To Your Marriage? by tpiadotcom: 6:09pm On May 01, 2015
is op married?
Re: Love Or Lust? Which Led To Your Marriage? by buygala(m): 6:21pm On May 01, 2015
dechandel:
Aint you getting married to your babymama anymore¿?? undecided
Of course I am... smiley

and where did I say my baby mama isn't my friend who I keep on lusting after? huh
Re: Love Or Lust? Which Led To Your Marriage? by mhizpeaarl(f): 7:29pm On May 01, 2015
Venom104:
your lips tho.. cheesy i could marry for that wink
lol u gatta b kidding me grin
Re: Love Or Lust? Which Led To Your Marriage? by nkemdirim104(op): 9:45pm On Aug 01, 2015
[quote author=Ben1975 post=33317850]Hi nkemdirim104
Ben1975 here
Give ur Skype username again pls
Re: Love Or Lust? Which Led To Your Marriage? by octopusfreaky(f): 9:52pm On Aug 01, 2015
I'm actually not in love with this guy for now coz all I see is me lusting for his physique.. God grant me real love**winks**
Re: Love Or Lust? Which Led To Your Marriage? by Ben1975(m): 11:57am On Aug 02, 2015
Hi nkemdirim104

My skype is temporarily out of action...sorry

08104753691
(08134966599 I am sim swapping this number cos thieves don steal my phone huh )
ben@eliteeca.com
residual.income.for.all.2004@gmail.com

Speak soon

Please if you don't see a reply message from me in your inbox check your spam folder it is probably there smiley



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Re: Love Or Lust? Which Led To Your Marriage? by Ben1975(m): 10:58am On Aug 04, 2015
Sorry temporairly off Skype

ben@eliteeca.com
residual.income.for.all.2004@gmail.com
08134966588 I am sim swapping this number a thief stole my phone huh
08104753691

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