Ignore the uselessness you will surely find in these comments and wait patiently for the few sincere people on this website to give their advice.

That's my advice.

U dnt need love to marry, u jus need a pvssy

Seek for more advice and prayers through a christian counsellor Brother. It is well with you.

dljbd1:
The twins, are they identical?

Yes they are...

Sweetyie:
Ofcos u can love again. Channel d little iota of love to ur kids. They are something to love

lol.

Guys with big hearts are all always falling victim. sorry bro.

U can. Just pray to God about it.

2dice:
U would my friend .... Not to worry the patient dog get the fattest Bone

Dats in the old days. Now the patient dog will eat empty plate

My heart goes out to you, from your post you seem to be a nice guy. But it seems you have a way of letting women toy with you, probably you act desperate with them and make them see you like a pushover who will always be there for them (rebound lover) after being with other men.

Sometimes in life you have to be firm, what you don't like wouldn't stop happening to you if you are okay managing it. You need to get a grip on yourself and close the door on all these and stand for what you want and believe in. All the best man.

take ur baby mama to T.B Joshua for deliverance, u'll love d new her. thank me later.

MissNairaland1:
Talking about love, i never heard of one meeting his/her partner on Nairaland...............................But i have this strong feeling i will meet mine someday...somewhere.....somehow

But some peepz actually gat their partner on nl.

MEGGATRON:
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Thanks bro, I'm wishing you a great life as well, thanks again!

2dice:
U would my friend .... Not to worry the patient dog get the fattest Bone

Thanks for your support my friend!

Sorry! It may be difficult to find love again but surely do need a woman in you life for many reasons

Nollywood movies sha . . .
God bless the President.

Hmmmm.... na ws Oh.
First of all, congratulations for your twins.
Secondly, you have to move on. People do make mistakes.

Your children are blessings in disguise. Just focus on training them as for now.
Take your time to look for a better relationship. You would be less desperate now cos you are now a father and won't be worrying over age.

I might be the one. Who knows?

you will find love sure....it only takes time....

folajoseph:


Yes they are...

Awesome! I love to have identical twins. I tab into this IJN
NOTE
Just the identical twins and not the whole story.

fanex:
no o. good thing is that its time for you to go kill yourself.

Lol, you're funny!

folajoseph:
I'm an ardent reader and i will like to share my story with you since a problem shared is a problem half solved.

I'm a 30 years old man, i started dating a girl in August 2008 (she's igbo and i'm yoruba) we live in the same estate and the relationship was the best time of my life until one day, not long into the relationship i was planning to move to my own apartment since i was staying with parents as i walking her home she told me we should call the relationship quit after about 1 year, i asked her why and she said because i was moving, i explained to her that we would always visit each other but she said No, so i left her and went home feeling bad, i didn't even sleep that night.


To cut the long story short she apologized and we were back together, not long after she moved to Enugu from Lagos to stay with her sister and we only talked on phone, all of a sudden she broke up with me again for no reason, in fact she broke up with me 3 times without stating any reason and came back begging me by herself (thought she was still a virgin), when she did it the 4th time, i had fallen out of Love with her, the passion was gone.

I had wasted over 3 years with this girl and i felt used so one night i came back from work and went to a bar alone to get drunk, i met a girl through a lady friend and we had s*x that night, my x called me after then and started begging me again but i said this time it’s over for good but unknown to me the girl i had s*x with was pregnant but didn't tell me, when she was 7 months pregnant her mother called me to break the news to me, i was sad because she didn't tell me for 7 months that she has been pregnant and secondly she was a rebound girl i never Loved her.

She gave birth to twins(2 boys) though i have a good job but it would have been better to have the kids with the one i Loved, i later found out that she was a promiscuous girl that sleeps around and to my greatest surprise she is also a clepto whom i have bailed out of different situations which made me to take my kids away from her to my parents whom have been taking better care of them though i pay all their bills conveniently (in fact i'm happy i had those kids, they are amazing and people always commend me when they see me with them especially in their school)

Now i find it hard to forgive the mother of my kids for not telling me initially and also my girlfriend for all she did to me (though she said it was due to tribal difference) but i find it hard to meet nice girls plus i don't know if i can Love again, i need help.

I wonder what you are complaining about your rebound escapade. I wonder how you can meet a woman and sleeping with her for the first night without using protection. You are even lucky you did not catch HIV or something.

Really??

godoluwa:
But some peepz actually gat their partner on nl.

U bang olosho, u no use condom

my brother I experienced d same thing in relationship too.exactly d same thing I went through, though she had a son for me.I loved her until she started misbehaving so I had to quit.my second did exactly what ur first girl did bt what's d big deal, life goes on.
not every woman is meant to stay in our lives so, if they choose to leave dnt beg them, is because they aren't good enough
d worst kind of woman never to get married to is d emotionally unstable ones, that switches mood like stabilizer cos they lack d capacity to be faithful,lack d capacity to luv so d earlier they vacate our lives, d better for us

blublahd:

I dont get, are you the biological father of the kids or you just added your own seed to another man's 7 months old seed?

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folajoseph:
I'm an ardent reader and i will like to share my story with you since a problem shared is a problem half solved.

I'm a 30 years old man, i started dating a girl in August 2008 (she's igbo and i'm yoruba) we live in the same estate and the relationship was the best time of my life until one day, not long into the relationship i was planning to move to my own apartment since i was staying with parents as i walking her home she told me we should call the relationship quit after about 1 year, i asked her why and she said because i was moving, i explained to her that we would always visit each other but she said No, so i left her and went home feeling bad, i didn't even sleep that night.


To cut the long story short she apologized and we were back together, not long after she moved to Enugu from Lagos to stay with her sister and we only talked on phone, all of a sudden she broke up with me again for no reason, in fact she broke up with me 3 times without stating any reason and came back begging me by herself (thought she was still a virgin), when she did it the 4th time, i had fallen out of Love with her, the passion was gone.

I had wasted over 3 years with this girl and i felt used so one night i came back from work and went to a bar alone to get drunk, i met a girl through a lady friend and we had s*x that night, my x called me after then and started begging me again but i said this time it’s over for good but unknown to me the girl i had s*x with was pregnant but didn't tell me, when she was 7 months pregnant her mother called me to break the news to me, i was sad because she didn't tell me for 7 months that she has been pregnant and secondly she was a rebound girl i never Loved her.

She gave birth to twins(2 boys) though i have a good job but it would have been better to have the kids with the one i Loved, i later found out that she was a promiscuous girl that sleeps around and to my greatest surprise she is also a clepto whom i have bailed out of different situations which made me to take my kids away from her to my parents whom have been taking better care of them though i pay all their bills conveniently (in fact i'm happy i had those kids, they are amazing and people always commend me when they see me with them especially in their school)

Now i find it hard to forgive the mother of my kids for not telling me initially and also my girlfriend for all she did to me (though she said it was due to tribal difference) but i find it hard to meet nice girls plus i don't know if i can Love again, i need help.

Tell me why" I always Fall for your Type" u knw dat Song!?
You are definately confused about the genetics of those kids. Run a DNA. As for that one u really Do love, quit dat relationship and make sure u stay far away from her as u can. Its not easy though, but its so Possible. She's like NEPA in ur life.

Did you do a DNA test to make sure that the twins are yours? Not that it matters, but it would suck if their mother recants her story in the future and claim that they aren't yours since, according to you, she is promiscuous.

nkem123:
my brother I experienced d same thing in relationship too.exactly d same thing I went through, though she had a son for me.I loved her until she started misbehaving so I had to quit.my second did exactly what ur first girl did bt what's d big deal, life goes on.
not every woman is meant to stay in our lives so, if they choose to leave dnt beg them, is because they aren't good enough
d worst kind of woman never to get married to is d emotionally unstable ones, that switches mood like stabilizer cos they lack d capacity to be faithful,lack d capacity to luv so d earlier they vacate our lives, d better for us

You're right my brother, emotionally unstable girls are not just good enough!