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Re: How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by Gurgle(f): 9:50am On Aug 01, 2015
LEvuls:


Room-Tops grin

Ah go away! I haven't eaten and plus something bit my leg yesterday, its itching me
Re: How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by elantraceey(f): 9:58am On Aug 01, 2015
Tallesty1:
Chill lady, the lady is an enemy, she wouldn't have bleeped her best friend's husband-to-be if she was a good friend.

Secondly, considering what would be at stake should he confess his sins then I believe it's better kept the way it is, "secret".

You don't necessarily have to confess to a pastor to receive forgiveness, do you?

Repent and move one. It is simple as that

What you don't know do not hurt you...........

Cutting all ties with the lady is the best option if you ask me because the guilt feeling(if she's got conscience) will keep her away from them and safe them from future mistakesgrin


All this kind of secrets always have a way of bringing themselves out in the future .


A Lady that can sleep with her best friend's fiance for six months doesn't have a conscience. How are you sure she will even want to leave?

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Re: How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by Tallesty1(m): 10:00am On Aug 01, 2015
elantraceey:



All this kind of secrets always have a way of bringing themselves out in the future .


A Lady that can sleep with her best friend's fiance for six months doesn't have a conscience. How are you sure she will even want to leave?
So what do you suggest he do?
Re: How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by LEvuls(m): 10:03am On Aug 01, 2015
Gurgle:


Ah go away! I haven't eaten and plus something bit my leg yesterday, its itching me

Ah come close! I want to take a look at the bite plus I got something for your stomach cool
Re: How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by elantraceey(f): 10:06am On Aug 01, 2015
Tallesty1:
So what do you suggest he do?


Tell her straightway, then it will be her choice to get rid of her friend herself , the girl won't be able to stand in her front again self. If she loves him much , she'll forgive him and move on.
Re: How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by Tallesty1(m): 10:09am On Aug 01, 2015
elantraceey:



Tell her straightway, then it will be her choice to get rid of her friend herself , the girl won't be able to stand in her front again self. If she loves him much , she'll forgive him and move on.
And if she doesn't love him much, she will use a sharp blade to cut off his joystick while he's sleeping shey?

Chill Dearie.

It is better left unsaid.
Re: How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by Fraih(f): 10:11am On Aug 01, 2015
What if shes currrently reading this....
Re: How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by adewumiopeyemi(m): 10:26am On Aug 01, 2015
he only need ur advise not to insult him
OmaBliss:
[size=15pt]Your case is terrible!

U not married to her yet and u already cheating. Haba!
If u decide to stop cheating on ur fiance with her friend and don't bother telling ur fiance anything. Do u think her friend would agree to it?


I bet she'll use it to blackmail u one way or the other so u had better tell her and know ur fate.
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Re: How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by Gurgle(f): 10:26am On Aug 01, 2015
LEvuls:


Ah come close! I want to take a look at the bite plus I got something for your stomach cool

cant believe a creature could have the effrontery to come and bite me while im still awake angry

what is it. hope its a large portion, im very hungry o
Re: How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by LEvuls(m): 10:36am On Aug 01, 2015
Gurgle:


cant believe a creature could have the effrontery to come and bite me while im still awake angry

what is it. hope its a large portion, im very hungry o

Eyaa ndo nnu
but u should have seen it since u were awake


Sure I got enough for if only you don't gourmandise every every in my house?
Re: How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by Gurgle(f): 10:38am On Aug 01, 2015
LEvuls:


Eyaa ndo nnu
but u should have seen it since u were awake


Sure I got enough for if only you don't gourmandise every every in my house?

yeah I had my legs under the table

Lol oga

you for make provision na grin
Re: How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by OmaBliss: 10:41am On Aug 01, 2015
adewumiopeyemi:
he only need ur advise not to insult him
[size=15pt]Pls wats ur definition of insult on d comment I made?[/size]

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Re: How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by Mznaett: 10:56am On Aug 01, 2015
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Re: How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by Adaeze003(f): 10:58am On Aug 01, 2015
Bugatie:
Am not sure you wanna do that.

Just don't cheat on her again!

Easier said than done...

One saying comes to mind, bath a pig, perfume a pig... you know the rest.

*Wanted to spit on the thread but it ain't worth my saliva*

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Re: How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by Adaeze003(f): 11:04am On Aug 01, 2015
elantraceey:



Tell her straightway, then it will be her choice to get rid of her friend herself , the girl won't be able to stand in her front again self. If she loves him much , she'll forgive him and move on.

You mean if she's desperate enough or, if she loves his money, she'll forgive and move on?

Any human with a working brain will see this as a huge red flag. It's like as she was busy planning the wedding he was busy bleeping her best friend. And you're saying she'll just forgive and move on?

Thinking of it sef, the only reason she'll forgive and move on is if she doesn't love HIM.
Re: How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by Nobody: 11:31am On Aug 01, 2015
#angry
Some people don't have consciences, let alone, fear God. You and her bestie? That's wicked of you. Because of some cheap few minutes, you decide to ruin a relationship that has lasted for 5 years.
The worst part is you and the so-called 'bestie' repeated such again and again for SIX months! You got no conscience!
I'll advise you seek God in sincerity, and seek counsel from someone godly(like a pastor)
#stillverymuchangry
Re: How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by Nobody: 2:48pm On Aug 01, 2015
mirinda2132:
My broda better give ur fiancee a good treat and confess to her. Pray she forgives you.
U Don't have to tell her because MARRIAGE is ONE CHANCE..

The MOMENT U tell her, She will always use it against u, in time to come.

WOMEN Don't FORGIVE especially when it involves their emotions.
Re: How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by Nobody: 2:51pm On Aug 01, 2015
insycarc:
I and my fiancee have been dating for 5years. I love her and respect her, because of that I decided to propose to her.. Our wedding is around the corner and I have a secret which I don't intend to take into our marriage. I have being sleeping with her best friend for 6 months now who happens to be her chief bride's maid to be and confident and I am not proud of it.. How do I tell my fiancee of my evil acts without hurting her or changing her love towards me... Please help me, I am confused, should I tell her after our marriage?

you be mumu o..
why would you wanna tell her undecided
just stop sleeping with her friend. case closed.
Re: How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by rman: 6:48pm On Aug 01, 2015
Just stop whatever you are doing with the chief bridesmaid and move on. No need telling.
Re: How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by Pierocash(m): 8:34pm On Aug 01, 2015
insycarc:
I and my fiancee have been dating for 5years. I love her and respect her, because of that I decided to propose to her.. Our wedding is around the corner and I have a secret which I don't intend to take into our marriage. I have being sleeping with her best friend for 6 months now who happens to be her chief bride's maid to be and confident and I am not proud of it.. How do I tell my fiancee of my evil acts without hurting her or changing her love towards me... Please help me, I am confused, should I tell her after our marriage?
I smell lies
Re: How Do I Confess To My Fiancee I Have Been Sleeping With Our Chief Bride's Maid by sneak3(m): 8:55pm On Aug 01, 2015
@op that's suicidal... But pls stop that treacherous act.

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