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Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by ceaser: 8:41am On Sep 04, 2015
shadowgwalker:
the doctor for enter one chance if the girl had died there in his hospital, since she did it secretly, investigations would have concluded that she started the job with the doctor. If I were to be the doctor I will even call her parents sef. Imagine?
Nah Naija we dey oh!the doctor loves his job. He got to secure his head.

You are wrong. Proper documentation absolves the doctor from blame. A patient folder/case file in the hospital is a legal document presentable and admissible in a court of competent jurisdiction. That is another reason why he needs to ensure he obtains a written and signed consent from the kady authorising full disclosure of her health status if she so desires and to whatever individual or group she names. If the attending physician takes proper history and examination and have such documented, he is covered as long as the first procedure was not carried out in that hospital.
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by Homguy(m): 8:43am On Sep 04, 2015
Wilson125:
I had this call on tuesday morning from a strange number, the caller told me I needed to see her in the hospital, dan abia precisely, that ma girlfriend was on admission,she called her name ( ma girlfriend's name)...when I got there, my girl was admitted already, so many question popped out, but her friend was unable to gimme answers, so I decided to meet the doctor, when i asked him what the problem was, he told the abortion she did was not successful, the operation didn't go well,

I was like: who went for abortion? who was aborted?
he said my girl had an abortion somewhere and the operation wasn't proper, that she was bleeding seriously when her friends brought her, he asked me if I was not away base on how i reacted, I was shocked to the point I have to take medication to help recover, this is someone that claimed her virginity was intact and she wouldn't want to lose it till she marries, I loved and respected her wish, I never knew she was only acting along all this while..

God! that was way 2 much for me, I made the necessary payment for her treatment and left.. she called on that tuesday night, I picked and heard she was okay, so I told her to take care of her self and I ended the call...

Since then She has been calling, sending in sms telling me she is sorry, seriously I don't know what to do with her or what to tell her, these are just the reasons I don't want to pick her calls..

what should I do with this girl? ...m totally confused..
take it from me, its possible that lady just using you as a seat filler. She had been having sex but in order to to have anything intimate with you, but still enjoy the perks and sweets of being your girlfriend, she lies she is a virgin...she never loved you to start with. By the way, I think you are quite too emotional, you shouldn't be thinking of doing anything with that naughty lady bro, let her go cool of her heels ather partners abode.
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by ben1daEbiri(m): 8:47am On Sep 04, 2015
pet4ril:
am not surprised when you said she, it's against the ethics of medical professions to do dat but dey are all human beings as well and human being always like disobeying what is supposed to be guiding them and if they see nothing wrong in disobeying d word of God, what is there in disobeying our great professional ethnics... please medical personnel in d hux, learn to keep your patients condition confidential not even to a best friend or ur family members... know and die with it alone
and when you die with it you expect to goto heaven?that's a no brainer
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by mentorandfriend(m): 8:50am On Sep 04, 2015
dicefrost:
Op, your story is fictitious, and a slap on the medical profession. No doctor will reveal a patient's condition to you just like that, especially such a sensitive one.
Don't mind the storyteller.
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by AbiJr: 8:56am On Sep 04, 2015
to guys: the fact she lied doesn't mean u take every virgin in ur life to b a liar.

u can't test a lady's virginity
they are still virgin every where
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by jhendor(m): 9:03am On Sep 04, 2015
Tapout:
seriously, u don't know what to do?? undecided ....chie, embarassed some guys dey fall my hand scatter cry ....okay I'll give u my little advice


"buy an expensive ring, close ur account if possible....then use ur knees and walk to her place (make sure it's bleeding excessively before u reach).....then conclude by proposing to her......


no need to thank me, it's nothing

Lol
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by pet4ril(f): 9:08am On Sep 04, 2015
ben1daEbiri:
and when you die with it you expect to goto heaven?that's a no brainer
dats the ethics and what will he/she gain in spreading somebody's health condition dats supposed to be kept secret?
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by tolzy90(m): 9:12am On Sep 04, 2015
Never conclude like that bro.. She might hav been raped. Or cm 2 think of it y did they cal u knowing wat ur reaction would be. Y didn't they cal d guy responsible for it? Pls, listen 2 wat she has 2 say b4 drawing ur conclusion.
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by ugbah007: 9:13am On Sep 04, 2015
No mind the girl yeye dey smell.but bros how come you settled for a virgin,who virgin don help?oloshos everywhere.
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by Fourwinds: 9:15am On Sep 04, 2015
pet4ril:
OMG!!! I never believed gals lied about been virgins, what is there to tell a guy u have an ex n he knows what that means because he also has an ex n know what dey did together. Virgin or no virgin a man that will love and cherish you will always do it. Is it not men that are marrying prostitutes and change dem? What is it with the current virgin thread? Haba!!!
it is just a means by some girls to stop a guy from entry their ASO ROCK and to hold on to guy because he will feel virgins are scarce
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by Nobody: 9:16am On Sep 04, 2015
ceaser:


You are wrong. Proper documentation absolves the doctor from blame. A patient folder/case file in the hospital is a legal document presentable and admissible in a court of competent jurisdiction. That is another reason why he needs to ensure he obtains a written and signed consent from the kady authorising full disclosure of her health status if she so desires and to whatever individual or group she names. If the attending physician takes proper history and examination and have such documented, he is covered as long as the first procedure was not carried out in that hospital.
That one does not happen in Nigeria. This same reason why patients die of bullet wounds because they send the patient out to go get a police report. An unconscious person will start answering questions before treatment? Even if she answers, how sure will the doctor be that she's saying the truth.


I know a story sImilar to this, the girl was saying she has never had sex meanwhile the cos of her steady vomiting was as a result of pregnancy after series of test was carried out. She lied because it was her fiance that took her to the hospital.
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by Nobody: 9:23am On Sep 04, 2015
histemple:


Yes I agree with you, the doctor has no other choice than to reveal it--------although that is still unethical.

Because in the first place, a qualified doctor is not supposed to carry out abortion without someone else signing for the patient.
Exactly , thats my point. The doctor got to keep his record clean.
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by Olaa: 9:33am On Sep 04, 2015
Wilson125:
I had this call on tuesday morning from a strange number, the caller told me I needed to see her in the hospital, dan abia precisely, that ma girlfriend was on admission,she called her name ( ma girlfriend's name)...when I got there, my girl was admitted already, so many question popped out, but her friend was unable to gimme answers, so I decided to meet the doctor, when i asked him what the problem was, he told the abortion she did was not successful, the operation didn't go well,

I was like: who went for abortion? who was aborted?
he said my girl had an abortion somewhere and the operation wasn't proper, that she was bleeding seriously when her friends brought her, he asked me if I was not away base on how i reacted, I was shocked to the point I have to take medication to help recover, this is someone that claimed her virginity was intact and she wouldn't want to lose it till she marries, I loved and respected her wish, I never knew she was only acting along all this while..

God! that was way 2 much for me, I made the necessary payment for her treatment and left.. she called on that tuesday night, I picked and heard she was okay, so I told her to take care of her self and I ended the call...

Since then She has been calling, sending in sms telling me she is sorry, seriously I don't know what to do with her or what to tell her, these are just the reasons I don't want to pick her calls..

what should I do with this girl? ...m totally confused..
Are you a VIRGIN! too? If you are, it will be easy to move on with her else it will not be, and you may have to weigh it if you can live with the thought.
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by schumastic(m): 9:38am On Sep 04, 2015
ZianaJordana:
That's why I said I guess he's not the one who impregnated her i.e. He thought she was a virgin, so he obviously wasn't the one who impregnated her.


maybe you should read it agin and understand better...cus he said, she claimed her virginity was intact and want it to be so till when she gets married...that's y he was shocked and took pills when the doctor told him she did abortion..so my dear he has not even slept with her yet.
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by GodblessNig247(m): 9:41am On Sep 04, 2015
Blizzyblinkzy:



Dis he hear 4rm her? Everybody has got his/her own opinion.

U are the senseless he-goat here
Stop using such insolent words. It doesnt say good of u. U have to be decent undecided
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by GodblessNig247(m): 9:44am On Sep 04, 2015
Vivipop:
Why would someone lie about her virginity in this 21st century? Some lies though...


Is really laughable grin Does that make her a good girl? funny grin
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by Cutekriss(m): 9:45am On Sep 04, 2015
Nigerian girls with their ''i am a virgin'' syndrome, being deceiving guys since 300BC...... Do what ur heart tells u to do...... I dont see any need for confusion, if u love her forgive her buh if u dont anymore then call it quits......!!! undecided
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by balancediet(m): 9:49am On Sep 04, 2015
Tapout:
seriously, u don't know what to do?? undecided ....chie, embarassed some guys dey fall my hand scatter cry ....okay I'll give u my little advice


"buy an expensive ring, close ur account if possible....then use ur knees and walk to her place (make sure it's bleeding excessively before u reach).....then conclude by proposing to her......


no need to thank me, it's nothing
Seconded
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by olutunde12(m): 9:56am On Sep 04, 2015
[quote author=BeeBeeOoh post=37617320]It's true she lied & the fact remains that "Trust" is gone, but if I may Ask; Is It Her Virginity You Loved or Is Is Her That You Loved??



Forget Sir, He would have loved her for who she was. But she formed a faulty base on which he layed his love for her. If I were him, I would prefer a known prostitute to that slut.
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by olutunde12(m): 9:59am On Sep 04, 2015
He would have loved her for who she was. But she formed a faulty base on which he layed his love for her. If I were him, I would prefer a known prostitute to that slut.
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by Nobody: 10:16am On Sep 04, 2015
Duara dullard get sense pass you.

mumu general
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by dubemivan(m): 10:18am On Sep 04, 2015
That girl needs Jesus urgently... @Op preach to her the goodnews! This soul can not perish this way and languish in Hell.... #Devil is a bastard#
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by drlayla(m): 10:19am On Sep 04, 2015
no matter what the situation a doctor would never expose the privacy of a patient i guess u met a chemist man who parades himself as a dogtor or ducktor abi na dunctor

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Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by Nobody: 10:21am On Sep 04, 2015
BeeBeeOoh:
It's true she lied & the fact remains that "Trust" is gone, but if I may Ask; Is It Her Virginity You Loved or Is Is Her That You Loved??






9ja girls deceiving men since the days of David & Goliath..
Are you crazy?
Should a liar and killer be trusted?
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by NDOSHA: 10:24am On Sep 04, 2015
Letting go is the hardest thing for a man to do yet it makes us strong>>> just let her go
The memory is already there and is a bad one
Seeing her around will cause you more harm
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by Capsule101(m): 10:49am On Sep 04, 2015
just forget about her. she s a great fool
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by Balet: 11:05am On Sep 04, 2015
Wilson125:
I had this call on tuesday morning from a strange number, the caller told me I needed to see her in the hospital, dan abia precisely, that ma girlfriend was on admission,she called her name ( ma girlfriend's name)...when I got there, my girl was admitted already, so many question popped out, but her friend was unable to gimme answers, so I decided to meet the doctor, when i asked him what the problem was, he told the abortion she did was not successful, the operation didn't go well,

I was like: who went for abortion? who was aborted?
he said my girl had an abortion somewhere and the operation wasn't proper, that she was bleeding seriously when her friends brought her, he asked me if I was not away base on how i reacted, I was shocked to the point I have to take medication to help recover, this is someone that claimed her virginity was intact and she wouldn't want to lose it till she marries, I loved and respected her wish, I never knew she was only acting along all this while..

God! that was way 2 much for me, I made the necessary payment for her treatment and left.. she called on that tuesday night, I picked and heard she was okay, so I told her to take care of her self and I ended the call...

Since then She has been calling, sending in sms telling me she is sorry, seriously I don't know what to do with her or what to tell her, these are just the reasons I don't want to pick her calls..

what should I do with this girl? ...m totally confused..
Eeya sorry o. But the question to be asked is that are you yourself virgin?
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by zinny20(f): 11:07am On Sep 04, 2015
Lol Story Dat touches d gods
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by DONFASZY(m): 11:10am On Sep 04, 2015
ladies wit big lie dat can kill
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by Bjergtrolde: 11:17am On Sep 04, 2015
Wilson125:
I had this call on tuesday morning from a strange number, the caller told me I needed to see her in the hospital, dan abia precisely, that ma girlfriend was on admission,she called her name ( ma girlfriend's name)...when I got there, my girl was admitted already, so many question popped out, but her friend was unable to gimme answers, so I decided to meet the doctor, when i asked him what the problem was, he told the abortion she did was not successful, the operation didn't go well,

I was like: who went for abortion? who was aborted?
he said my girl had an abortion somewhere and the operation wasn't proper, that she was bleeding seriously when her friends brought her, he asked me if I was not away base on how i reacted, I was shocked to the point I have to take medication to help recover, this is someone that claimed her virginity was intact and she wouldn't want to lose it till she marries, I loved and respected her wish, I never knew she was only acting along all this while..

God! that was way 2 much for me, I made the necessary payment for her treatment and left.. she called on that tuesday night, I picked and heard she was okay, so I told her to take care of her self and I ended the call...

Since then She has been calling, sending in sms telling me she is sorry, seriously I don't know what to do with her or what to tell her, these are just the reasons I don't want to pick her calls..

what should I do with this girl? ...m totally confused..

So much for patient confidentiality?
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by Greenbullet(m): 11:21am On Sep 04, 2015
Greatfes17:
If you love her, then her not being a virgin may not be a serious issue.

I doubt if you will ever love her as you did before. BUT, the truth remains that she will love bettee if you ever accept her back.
big lie,she will think you are a gullible na then she go really start.
Re: She Lied To Me About Her Virginity.. by Amen747: 11:23am On Sep 04, 2015
Wilson125:
I had this call on tuesday morning from a strange number, the caller told me I needed to see her in the hospital, dan abia precisely, that ma girlfriend was on admission,she called her name ( ma girlfriend's name)...when I got there, my girl was admitted already, so many question popped out, but her friend was unable to gimme answers, so I decided to meet the doctor, when i asked him what the problem was, he told the abortion she did was not successful, the operation didn't go well,

I was like: who went for abortion? who was aborted?
he said my girl had an abortion somewhere and the operation wasn't proper, that she was bleeding seriously when her friends brought her, he asked me if I was not away base on how i reacted, I was shocked to the point I have to take medication to help recover, this is someone that claimed her virginity was intact and she wouldn't want to lose it till she marries, I loved and respected her wish, I never knew she was only acting along all this while..

God! that was way 2 much for me, I made the necessary payment for her treatment and left.. she called on that tuesday night, I picked and heard she was okay, so I told her to take care of her self and I ended the call...

Since then She has been calling, sending in sms telling me she is sorry, seriously I don't know what to do with her or what to tell her, these are just the reasons I don't want to pick her calls..

what should I do with this girl? ...m totally confused..
Na u dull pass.
So u no even touch breast. My babe tell me say she be V and even told me she would go with me for virginity test. I jst played along for 3 months until she landed in my bed. Her tootoo deep lyk borehole. I jst dey enjoy dey go until her day of reckoning comes

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