NoLoveNoPain:
This lady was introduced to me last year December and we started as friends, we seldomly contact each other and we're not really into each other but all of a sudden things took a different turn and we became best of friends, always online updating each other how the day is going. I work with a filling station while she works as a hotel receptionist and we're in our late 20s, perfect age to start a family. She always ask questions on when I will be ready to have my family and I always tell her to be patient with me to at least get a better job that matches my B.Sc qualification or at least raise a seizable amount to start my personal business (Diesel Supply to Corporate business entities e.g. Banks, Hotels etc) while she also change her job.

Sometimes in June, during one my journeys to her pleasure island, I noticed a blister on her right nipple and she said i should not navigate to the area, I don't even bother to ask what happened to her. After that day, I discovered the blister refuses to heal up and I was worried. My mind said someone is exploring that arena but I don't want to believe those thoughts. One weekend in July, while checking music CD in her shelf, I stumbled on a HIV medical test result, pack of accurate (urine pregnancy test), though the result was negative but I was very disturbed, scared and worried. I asked her what was the motive behind the test and what is she doing with more that a dozen of test kit, she mumbling some excuses like "I sell those test kit to people who are ashamed to get them in pharmacy store etc.

I confided in my friend who said I should go for a test which I did and was negative.

I became very restless at work because I'm really into this lady. With no proof or anything to justify her wayward life, I took her phone and activated "automatic call record". I activated the call record on Sunday, I stylishly sent the recorded conversation to my phone last night (Wednesday) when I visited her because she's on a night shift, as I type, I'm heartbroken, the very first conversation I listened to open the lid of canker-worm, I've been dating/sleeping a prostitute since the last 10 months, the sad part is that I don't know how one of his customer knew about me because in two separate conversation, they made jest of me and most likely another man is with her at work as you read this.
I feel so weak......

you are a grown man to advise yourself on the next line of action

if you cant decide for yourself what to do then sorry for yourself

Why would you have a heartbreak when you are supposed to be upset ? Heart break is a sign of weakness. Go to a strip club and see naked women, it will help inform you how worthless prostitutes are and help heal your fragile heart. Act like a G.

I suppose you were a strong man who was ready to stomach whatever comes out from your witch hunting. You got what you were looking for, i still dont understand why you should grow this weak and vulnerable. you brought urself this pain by ur lack of trust and intrusion of privacy so face the music urself. I am sure if you are in her shoe u will do thesame. and i'm sure you are not such a saint too, so use ur morality and sense of fairness to judge this case and not your over-bloated but punctured ego.

AfroKnight:
Bro the fact is she won't change even if you marry her. She'll only get smarter at hiding her activities.

Don't reveal the fact that you snooped on her. Just tell her you suspect that she's cheating. Then allow the relationship to grow cold. She's very smart and I'm pretty sure you'll never catch her in the act. So just grow indifferent about the relationship for a few weeks then end it.

That's nice..
There are LADIES I can't marry especially when considering their occupation.

Even when they assume MARY, these occupations predisposes them to such rubbish.
And considering how weak they are, they will always succumb.

Examples :
HOTEL staff of any category....... .. . NEVER
BANKER... ......... .. NEVER
Highlife MUSICIAN....... .... .. NEVER
ACTRESS............. .... ... NEVER
BORN AGAIN prostitute. .... .... NEVER.
BAR tender....... .. NEVER.
CLUB/PARTY event planner.... ... NEVER
? SECRETARY to one big oga.

Thank God, just LEAVE her and move on.
Don't EVER LOVE WOMEN.
Because they change rapidly with changing circumstances.
The BEST U can do to a woman as a man is to show CARE...... .. That's all.

Move on dude.
It's a myth if you think females are holy or don't play games too.I once stumbled on a popular but well hidden blog where mostly females (married and singles) narrated their escapades. Just let's say they do it so much better.

Use your head. Take a hike!

bayocanny:
no be only cook story na boil story, were u coerce into reading the story if u don't have any meaning things to say why can't u roll over

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free2ryhme:


you are a grown man to advise yourself on the next line of action

if you cant decide for yourself what to do then sorry for yourself

It's an easy decision my brother, she is yet to know that i've caught her and a friend said I should just stop all my contact with her with no reason and that's what I'm doing.
Thanks.

ephemm:
she works as a hotel receptionist - that's a very difficult career path for even a decent lady in the first place.

then on a 2nd thought, u got what you looked for, if u sniff the privacy of anyone, u will certainly find a skeleton in their cupboard.

Most times, what you don't know, may not hurt you.

wish U best of luck with the next girl.

to calm your heartbreak, don't tell her your findings, buy a trailer load of condom, and straph her 4 times daily till u finish it and walk away.

I made my post short to avoid unnecessary points not to paint her so bad, she used to receive calls from men in my presence to spite me anytime she ask when i'll be ready to settle down but I always think it's a bluff. If I had follow my intuition since, I would have discovered this long ago and won't be at a risk.

eleko1:
If U truly love dis girl,u both need to sit down nd have heart to heart talk.If she fail to change her wayward lifestyle of 'GBANJO NI TEMI,kick her outa.

Heart to heart talk keh?

whirlwind7:
Dude, just walk away!
You feel weak and dejected from getting heartbroken? Well, here's a news flash: That's EXACTLY how a heartbreak feels!
You will get over it with time. Don't pay any attention to that guy up there who advised you to have a "heart to heart talk". That's bullsh!t. Women are too damn complicated in the first place, without this additional dilemma. You don't need it.

If she had a heart, she wouldn't continue in her business, and at the same time planning to settle down with you.
The 10 months you've dated is enough time for her to have call it quits with her side job, if she was serious. You are just lucky she is checking herself for HIV infection. But that, plus the pregnancy test kit, is a pointer she is having unprotected sex with her clients!!!

The thought of this nearly made me puke. You have been dipping your magic stick into a public toilet! Don't just stop at testing for HIV only.
Go check up yourself for every STIs known to man. Gonorrhea, syphilis, herpes, herpertitis, staphylococcus infections, scratch and win, piss and drop, you name them!

Lawd help us!

Thank you so much for this piece, a lot of things I never paid attention to is now becoming clear to me. She once coerced me to follow her to a doctor for treatment when I never complained to be sick, that was sometimes in March, after her persuasion yielded nothing, she accused me of infecting her with STI and the doctor has to treat both of us so as to eradicate the infections but I find it funny. I did not follow her, I never had the infections, I never cheated on her, she went and got treated and had to made me paid 3k for the treatment.

I was told to come back for another HIV test by December, I was told there is a window period of 3 - 6 month.

Thanks so much.

EggovinMma:

Wetin funny for this matter now? dey find trouble there.

automatic call record, pls hw u do am?

Timoleon:


i tire for people o....i wonder why people cant just be happy for who or what they have, the moments they have , and let life move on the happy note....they always av to sniff for dirt eh? who doesnt have dem? its either you accept her for who she is or you leave her to find your preference....it is not a by force something!!!

I keep my post short to avoid unnecessary talks but trust me, I did not deliberately sniff on her.

For 10 months, I did not know her phone combination and never for once wanted to know while she knew mine. I deliberately don't add it that she sometimes receive calls from men to spite me whenever she ask when will I be ready for marriage and tell her to be patient. I deliberately don't add it to the post that she's an "early leaver", she has no formal qualification, she feel insecure with me, there was a time she asked if I can marry her even without her formal education and told her I was just fortunate myself and education is not the only qualification for a marriage to work fine. If I had considered some factors, I wouldn't have started anything with her in the first instance.

remember007:
Just take heart, fix ur life, do som Test and follow your heart... Try to talk to her but if u feel its a damaged situation then ples just move on.God wil bring a good girl who will accept lov you just the way you want to be loved

Amen. Thanks.

nnamdiokere45:
automatic call record, pls hw u do am?

Some China phones under call settings has it.

@op, in matters of indiscriminate sexual relations, women are as bad or even badder than men.
For all cases the discretionary rule is 'Don't get caught'.
You might want to give yourself the satisfaction of seeing the look on her face when you tell her how/what you have found. No sense forming nice guy now. You'll only look weak.

PinkBarbie:
Cooked story

I won't go extra mile for you to believe but i've decided to leak some of our whatsapp conversation prior to my discovery of her canker-worm.

eleko1:
If U truly love dis girl,u both need to sit down nd have heart to heart talk.If she fail to change her wayward lifestyle of 'GBANJO NI TEMI,kick her outa.

O ti ya were!!!

sylvalord:
Suck it up LOSER!!

I've never be a looser, I only let go this.

NoLoveNoPain:

I keep my post short to avoid unnecessary talks but trust me, I did not deliberately sniff on her.

For 10 months, I did not know her phone combination and never for once wanted to know while she knew mine. I deliberately don't add it that she sometimes receive calls from men to spite me whenever she ask when will I be ready for marriage and tell her to be patient. I deliberately don't add it to the post that she's an "early leaver", she has no formal qualification, she feel insecure with me, there was a time she asked if I can marry her even without her formal education and told her I was just fortunate myself and education is not the only qualification for a marriage to work fine. If I had considered some factors, I wouldn't have started anything with her in the first instance.

the message is still the same..... after knowing all her short comings you choose to continue or not to continue....there are people whose girlfriends are proudly ashewo dey know, but thats their own happy pill, there are people who will never have anything to do with ashewo dats their own path. your initial post says it all, theres a guy that they both make jest of you....it means the guy knows hes not the only one, but hes happy with what he gets. find your hapiness wherever it maybe.

Eyaaaa sorry...but come to think of it,all the runs girls roaming around every night are in a relationship.

PinkBarbie:
What does it mean?

was thinking......''s.tupid'' or ''small''....as the case may be

It happens... move on!

EVILFOREST:

That's nice..
There are LADIES I can't marry especially when considering their occupation.

Even when they assume MARY, these occupations predisposes them to such rubbish.
And considering how weak they are, they will always succumb.

Examples :
HOTEL staff of any category....... .. . NEVER
BANKER... ......... .. NEVER
Highlife MUSICIAN....... .... .. NEVER
ACTRESS............. .... ... NEVER
BORN AGAIN prostitute. .... .... NEVER.
BAR tender....... .. NEVER.
CLUB/PARTY event planner.... ... NEVER
? SECRETARY to one big oga.

Thank God, just LEAVE her and move on.
Don't EVER LOVE WOMEN.
Because they change rapidly with changing circumstances.
The BEST U can do to a woman as a man is to show CARE...... .. That's all.

Lol. You dey vex o.

BoboYekini:
Wetin funny for this matter now? dey find trouble there.

It's funny honey!
Wetin you win make u talk? It's a man's world, dear! Make una enjoy!

BoboYekini:
Wetin funny for this matter now? dey find trouble there.

It's funny honey!
Wetin you won make i talk? It's a man's world, dear! Make una enjoy!

chimkaire:
was thinking......''s.tupid'' or ''small''....as the case may be

Hhhmmmmmm....am coming