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This has to do with a relationship that has been going on for four years and it has been based on distance, where by in a year, the two rarely see each other up to one month in the whole of the year.

Of a truth the distance has not been pleasant at all, over the year, the calling and texting was there at all time only that the lady rarely call and later on, the guy came to discover that the lady knows nothing about relationship, caring and what love mean. Whenever the guy ask "do you love me at all? she will say "yes". All she believe was that she love the guy but she doesn't express her feeling. this lady is a very reserve one, she is not dating any other, but the problem is that she doesn't know anything about relationship and she ask the guy to help her out and of which he consented to.. I know everyone like to feel loved but now the question is what will you advise because now the guy want to settle down but the lady wants to delay the process since she doesn't have a clue about relationship, is it advisable to move into marriage with this lady cos on several occasion when the guy want to break up with her, she kept on begging..

# Please I need great comments (advice) and not insultive ones.

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Idydarling:
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Its not a book, this is reality

Op, what I'll encourage you to do is try and buy her or encourage her to get some books, novels, magazine's on relationship. Try as much as possible to see each other often, so that you can relate one on one. I see her as someone that's not expose, hence, her attitude. I don't think she has friends which she can relate with. Be her friend too. And see how it goes. Cheers.