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Jobs/vocations You Would Prefer Your Fiancee/wife To Undertake. by Adesolomon2014(m): 8:08pm On Jul 03, 2016
Nowadays, Men prefer a woman that will add something(daily bread/income) to the table whether monthly/weekly/daily and making sure that their(woman) responsibilities is not forsaken. To me, i would prefer a woman that will work and still take care of the family therby balancing her work:life. There and then questionable statements such as JOBS THAT CAN BE UNDERTAKEN BY A WOMAN(WIFE) WHICH WILL NOT AFFECT HER RESPONSIBILITIES AT HOME comes to mind.

For me, I would prefer my woman to be a BUSINESSWOMAN(entrepreneurship) that can go to her shop/office at her own convenience, additionally my wife to be can also be a LECTURER because am sure her scheduled lecturings will not affect her home responsibilities.

A vocation such as DOCTOR or NURSE (full-time) is a no-no for me due to the responsibilities and hazards attached to the job.

To you people, do add two(2) Yes-Yes and No-No jobs you will like your woman to and not to take up respectively.

Insights to this topjc will be welcomed from married folks. As for me, I neva marry ooo grin. Still on my toes to the top.[
Re: Jobs/vocations You Would Prefer Your Fiancee/wife To Undertake. by DrSexMata(m): 8:25am On Jul 04, 2016
Hello solomon,

1. Its much better if your wife makes that decision herself, based on her passion, personality traits , strengths and weaknesses.

2. Bear in mind that not everyone was wired for enterpreneurship or teaching, therefore a a coporate-career-driven wife might get furstrated running a business, and in most cases transfers that furstration on her children and/or husband.

3. Being a mother, wife and a business/career woman isnt something to be handled lightly.

4. Communication between you both is king, at the end of the day.

Goodluck.

G. Vik @sexmata.com

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Re: Jobs/vocations You Would Prefer Your Fiancee/wife To Undertake. by STENON(f): 6:03pm On Jul 04, 2016
Hmmm...


As a Future Lecturer,
I'l like my spouse to come from the medical discipline.

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Re: Jobs/vocations You Would Prefer Your Fiancee/wife To Undertake. by pendragon35(m): 12:51am On Jul 05, 2016
I love teahers jst lyk ma mum is,i pray my hearthrob is such as well;i mean carbon copy of ma mum.100%
Re: Jobs/vocations You Would Prefer Your Fiancee/wife To Undertake. by Adesolomon2014(m): 8:50pm On Jul 05, 2016
DrSexMata:
Hello solomon,

1. Its much better if your wife makes that decision herself, based on her passion, personality traits , strengths and weaknesses.

2. Bear in mind that not everyone was wired for enterpreneurship or teaching, therefore a a coporate-career-driven wife might get furstrated running a business, and in most cases transfers that furstration on her children and/or husband.

3. Being a mother, wife and a business/career woman isnt something to be handled lightly.

4. Communication between you both is king, at the end of the day.

Goodluck.

G. Vik @sexmata.com

I understand you perfectly sir, Communication is the key.
Am not against her being a career driven woman but i dnt ever want this to affect our personal, family and sex life cus most career women tends to put 70% to 80% commitment to their career while the remaining 30% to 20% goes to the family. Though if my woman is reading this, she might say am selfish but am just being realistic.
Re: Jobs/vocations You Would Prefer Your Fiancee/wife To Undertake. by Adesolomon2014(m): 8:51pm On Jul 05, 2016
STENON:
Hmmm...


As a Future Lecturer,
I'l like my spouse to come from the medical discipline.

Thats stil ohk. Medical line is still cool for the men. A no-no for the woman(in my own perspective ooo)
Re: Jobs/vocations You Would Prefer Your Fiancee/wife To Undertake. by Adesolomon2014(m): 8:53pm On Jul 05, 2016
pendragon35:
I love teachers jst lyk ma mum is,i pray my hearthrob is such as well;i mean carbon copy of ma mum.100%

Cool one, But they will never be the same....Mama's love too strong wink

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