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oshikoyaodemi:
You can have the marriage you want. Really, you can. See, the beauty of “happily ever after,” is that you get to create it, and you get to choose it. However, if you want to create the marriage of your dreams, you need to be ready to work for it, sacrifice for it, and be patient as you nurture your marriage day-in and day-out.

Creating the marriage you want starts with you. Are you willing to make some positive changes? Are you willing to change your outlook on your marriage? If so, then great things are on the horizon, my friend.
Here are 4 practical tips that will help you create the marriage you want:

1. Lower your expectations
In your little casa on the hill, you are quickly coming to realize that she is not the wife you had hoped for. He’s not the husband you always dreamed of. Every day there are hundreds of things he or she does that you never expected – and most of those things annoy you, frustrate you, or hurt your feelings. All of a sudden everything that your spouse does is wrong (or perhaps just different than the way you would do it), and it seems to give you reason to constantly be angry, critical, and/or frustrated!

Your husband or wife isn’t who you thought they were....Continue Reading @

http://www.gisttrace.com/2016/09/4-tips-to-creating-marriage-you-want.html?m=1

oshikoyaodemi: