LordAdam:


Thumbs up on your subsequent story.

The problem with the citizens in this country is that we are all fond of staying in the closet about virtually everything.

Yet these things happen everyday. It'd surprise you that it happens in a close frequency to the way it happens outside the shores. It just isn't talked about.

Abortion is illegal, yet anyone can get Misoprostol over the counter. There are gay clubs in the country. There are even spots in this country to pick up call guys. Org.y parties everywhere. Hook up for swingers and cougars. Our tertiary institutions are dens of folks on sex hyper drive--same sex relations, FWB's, orgie.s happen all the time.

I'm a realist tho'.

We're all Nigerians after all. Which is code word for "we all have a bit of conservativeness in us."

It's like a demon we all have to deal with, regardless of how liberal we are.

I really do wish the OP the best. That he is even open to the idea of dating her says a lot about him being a progressive. 95+% of these self-righteous loathing guys on and outside the forum wouldn't even consider it.

It'd be like the classic case of trying to screw anyone in skirt after crossing puberty, but searching earnestly for a virgin when it's time to get married.

-Lord

well said, i actually left for months as i got tired and bored with self righteousness attitude with mos people on here, now you my friend seem to understand the psychology behind most Nigerians, wild, naughty, freaky but very well conservative, a whole lot goes on on a daily basis, trust me i know, i experience and i make some happen, the OP got my respect tho, i totally get his stance and i also appreciate most of the comments on here, it reminds me the state of mind and exposure and acceptance level of the average Nigerian, i am not into long things or formings, i'm down to earth, easy going but open minded, i understand how humans are, i understand a lot of girls are sex starved and are curious but can't show it b4 thy get tagged with negative names, a lot of guys want to screw every girl then come on nairaland and talk about marrying a virgin, pure pathetic minds, my thoughts tho.

Talk2Bella:
There's absolutely nothing wrong with dating her just make sure she feels the same way about you

not only that, he needs to tell his friend and all 3 of them sit and chill together and notice the atmosphere, if his friend and babe are completely cool and seem free and flow when all 3 are together then he is 1 step in making her his girl, i am trying to process why a lot of people are killing themselves over a girl having a 3sum.... these things do happen na...

3rdlegxxx:


not only that, he needs to tell his friend and all 3 of them sit and chill together and notice the atmosphere, if his friend and babe are completely cool and seem free and flow when all 3 are together then he is 1 step in making her his girl, i am trying to process why a lot of people are killing themselves over a girl having a 3sum.... these things do happen na...

Matured minds respect each other no matter the circumstance

Lleigh:
Everyone going against this guy....
What would you do if your wife or gf said we need to spice things up.
What will you do?

At the end of the day, this guy will do what he thinks is right for him.
A lot of couples can't really tell each other what they want, for the fear of being judged.

U sound too much like a female version of me, that is just weird and creepy, noticed like 3 of your posts and it's totally like what i'd say, anyways enjoy

Talk2Bella:


Matured minds respect each other no matter the circumstance

True talk dear, true talk..... like ur open mindedness, seem like the cool, naughty, crazy but down 2 earth type of girl, anyway do enjoy your evening

3rdlegxxx:


True talk dear, true talk..... like ur open mindedness, seem like the cool, naughty, crazy but down 2 earth type of girl, anyway do enjoy your evening

Talk2Bella:

babe I don't understand all these your smiles ooo.. speak the language I understand joor

3rdlegxxx:
babe I don't understand all these your smiles ooo.. speak the language I understand joor

Smileys sometimes portray things which when said might seem flirty

Talk2Bella:


Smileys sometimes portray things which when said might seem flirty

nah i'd rather have the flirty ones, smileys to the waste bin

3rdlegxxx:


U sound too much like a female version of me, that is just weird and creepy, noticed like 3 of your posts and it's totally like what i'd say, anyways enjoy

Haha. ...we are not alone...

Lleigh:


Haha. ...we are not alone...

Now that sounds even more creepier

3rdlegxxx:


Now that sounds even more creepier

I meant they are loads of people out there with similar minds.

It's what makes the fabric of life soo interesting.

people go on the street,pick a know prostitute,change her and make her that which they want. what's the different?coz u had her with ur friends? she's ready to go down with u,are u ready to stand with her? are ready not to call her names anyway she goes wrong coz it will happen? are u ready to stand the jokes ur friends will throw at u when u guys are together? if u are the type that don't care and she's ready to respect you,i think to my own opinion,,,,U ARE GOOD TO GO

Lleigh:


I meant they are loads of people out there with similar minds.

It's what makes the fabric of life soo interesting.

was just teasing dear, i totally get your points tho...

chocolateme:
Your mind tells you that you and your NIGGA are the first set of people she os ever having three some with abi? You forgot to mention if you are ok with her adventurous nature and quest to try new things.
Well birds of the same feathers flock together..
Follow your heart my friend.

Lol
Na bitter tears go follow at the end of the tunnel.

Op don't forget to send us VI and asoebi Modafuccker..!

Amelian:






Lol
Na bitter tears go follow at the end of the tunnel.

Op don't forget to send us VI and asoebi Modafuccker..!

lol.. you no get joy. Pity am small na