I don’t know why I started thinking about this, I just see so many failed relationships around me and it got me thinking, did any of them ever had a breakup plan? Were they ever prepared for something like this? Did they think it would last forever?


Have y’all noticed that the relationships which last these days are the ones which started almost a decade ago, or 8-7-5 years ago before the massive hype and invent of different social media? It’s like the more the world and technology evolves the harder it is to find true love anyway everyone needs to have a breakup plan.


I am not trying to discourage anyone from loving or being steadfast in their relationships but the way things are now, y’all need to have a breakup plan, y’all need to realize that happily ever after might not be for everyone, you might date him for just six months and he takes you to the alter, you might date him for 15 years and one day you wake up and he’s gone, PUFF! Married to another lady vice versa.


What should a breakup plan look like, it’s simple


1. Never be too dependent on a partner


2. Always have it in mind not all relationships lead to marriage


3. Before you take him/her to mama, be sure he/she is the one


4. Don’t live together until you’re married


5. Getting pregnant won’t make him stay or love you any harder


6. What are you future plans? Do they involve him or her?


7. When was the last time you were happy together?


These are perfect breakup plans, you take plans like these into every relationship, you add, subtract, multiply and divide and see if you’re relationship has gotten to the place where you begin to ask yourself these questions.


If you’re too dependent on a partner, your breakup plan will backfire


You have already started making wedding plans even when he/she doesn’t seem ready; your breakup plan is failing already.


How many potential fiancé/fiancée do you want to take home to mama?


Living together is one sure way to finish the sweetness before marriage.


Do you see him/her in your future, if no time to review your breakup plans


When was the last time he/she made you soulfully happy?


These might seem like guides to a happy/not so happy relationship but they are breakup guide, excuses to leave before it gets worse, always have it in mind that while you’re there making future plans, your partner might be dusting out his/her breakup manual.


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Isabella Ibeji

http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/10/do-you-have-breakup-plan-when-youre.html

Love does happen naturally maybe because of maturity a fake relationship can easily be detected by me.

I no longer fall victim but the victimizer.

Coz of my experience.

I even think say having 25 or more Babes for Corner Na the break up plan



Op,


Gerrarahia mehn

bella, shaki dat nyaaa-ash on ma face

Being independent is the best breakup plan. Most times, the "left" wails uncontrollably not because she/he deeply love the other party but because of those things that won't be enjoyed again while the affair last.

On a more serious note, things I see these days makes me wonder if there is anything like ..........


Unconditional Love.


Op like seriously, Break up plan


Tf?

Hope for the best

Diddyydiva:
On a more serious note, things I see these days makes me wonder if there is anything like ..........


Unconditional Love.


Op like seriously, Break up plan


Tf?

there's nothing like that

dollyjoy:
Being independent is the best breakup plan. Most times, the "left" wails uncontrollably not because she/he deeply love the other party but because of those things that won't be enjoyed again while the affair last.

thank u, u nailed it

Diddyydiva:
I even think say having 25 or more Babes for Corner Na the break up plan



Op,


Gerrarahia mehn

see his mouth

Dejiih001:
Love does happen naturally maybe because of maturity a fake relationship can easily be detected by me.

I no longer fall victim but the victimizer.

Coz of my experience.

heartbreaker

Talk2Bella:




there's nothing like that

There is nothing like unconditional love




Actually there is sis

Talk2Bella:




there's nothing like that

You call ursef a rel. coucilor yet you believe the bolded

yorhmienerd:
You call ursef a rel. coucilor yet you believe the bolded

There's nothing like unconditional love, the sooner you know this the better, can you give your girlfriend you kidney even when you know you might not end up with her?

Without attaching emotions, can someone tell me what unconditional love means I'm waiting

Obviously most people use the word but don't know it's meaning

Diddyydiva:
There is nothing like unconditional love




Actually there is sis

Oya what's unconditional love

When was the last time you loved someone unconditionally

Common mouth odor people break up and yet you still believe there's unconditional love common, there's love, live that will make you ask where was that person before love that would shake you and give you orgasmm without s*x but how unconditional is such love?

Talk2Bella:


Oya what's unconditional love

When was the last time you loved someone unconditionally

Common mouth odor people break up and yet you still believe there's unconditional love common, there's love, live that will make you ask where was that person before love that would shake you and give you orgasmm without s*x but how unconditional is such love?

Now I know why you created this thread, you don't believe in love. You don't believe in loving someone unconditionally, You don't believe in loving someone to the extent of putting them first before you.

Unconditional love is aching for the person's smile like it is a lottery.

Giving all your best to someone without expecting back.

Unconditional love is when you are asked ' why do love him' and your reply will be ' I just love him for no reason.'

Unconditional love is when you love and accept someone with all his or her flaws .

Unconditional love is that love that holds our grannies together till death do them part.

I hardly love, but when I do I do it unconditionally. My lady there I one person out there who wants to love you unconditionally.

Diddyydiva:
Now I know why you created this thread, you don't believe in love. You don't believe in loving someone unconditionally, You don't believe in loving someone to the extent of putting them first before you.

Unconditional love is aching for the person's smile like it is a lottery.

Giving all your best to someone without expecting back.

Unconditional love is when you are asked ' why do love him' and your reply will be ' I just love him for no reason.'

Unconditional love is when you love and accept someone with all his or her flaws .

Unconditional love is that love that holds our grannies together till death do them part.

I hardly love, but when I do I do it unconditionally. My lady there I one person out there who wants to love you unconditionally.

na true

judeefcc:
na true

I don't; Buh I know someone who does......... Bibijay123

Yes nah, plenty side chicks

Breakup plans? That's just silly.

Then there was no need going into the relationship at first.

Diddyydiva:
Now I know why you created this thread, you don't believe in love. You don't believe in loving someone unconditionally, You don't believe in loving someone to the extent of putting them first before you.

Unconditional love is aching for the person's smile like it is a lottery.

Giving all your best to someone without expecting back.

Unconditional love is when you are asked ' why do love him' and your reply will be ' I just love him for no reason.'

Unconditional love is when you love and accept someone with all his or her flaws .

Unconditional love is that love that holds our grannies together till death do them part.

I hardly love, but when I do I do it unconditionally. My lady there I one person out there who wants to love you unconditionally.

There is nothing like unconditional love Diva.

There are always criteria before dating or loving, your condition for dating might be, Intelligence, financial buoyancy, slim, dark blah blah blah, all those are unconditions and when you consider those factors before dating then it is right to say your love is conditionally based or why do you reject some men advances and accept the others? Why not love them "unconditionally" as you said?


There is nothing like i "Love you for no reason" btw,there is always a reason why you chose that one person above the rest.

Bella don finally carry her lies enter fp

babs01:
Yes nah, plenty side chicks

hehehehehe



Confirm.

Diddyydiva:
There is nothing like unnconditional love




Actually there is sis

Do you know what it means to love unconditionally?
Can you love your neighbours child the same way you love your child?

There's nothing like unconditional love.
The key word is not love but UNCONDITIONAL.

After the girl I love so much left, that's whem I started having a break up plan.

I go into a relationship mindset of ending it soon.

Truth is i now find it difficult to love any girl with my heart.

I will be in the relationship, but my heart is far away from it