[b]"I have been in relationships and I have found out that love doesn't guarantee the success of a relationship.

Love cannot help you stick to one person
after all, cheating isn't always a product of not loving your partner. In fact, Loving someone doesn't guarantee not falling in love with any other person.

Relationships work out mostly because of our head too
not only our heart, It's works out because of emotional maturity, friendship empathetic intelligence and self discipline.

You see, times will come when you'll see more beautiful, handsome, intelligent, sexy, curvy and God fearing people than the one you're in a relationship with. In those times, Love will not help you, self control will help you, emotional intelligence will help you, commitment will help you.

No matter how you feel for someone, the person you're committed to ranks first in your life... You think married people don't see better people than the ones they married? You think they don't feel funny
sometimes? You think they don't catch feelings? They do.
But understanding that COMMITMENT is
greater than FEELINGS is a great arsenal to destroy that impulse.

You can fall in love with anyone, but building a relationship takes absolutely more than what attracted you to them, It takes more than Love.

We are too fond of loving when it's convenient, when it's sweet. We are too fond of loving when love is there but that can only last for just the first 3-6 months of the relationship, after then, you'll realise that the feelings
have dropped, It's now your responsibility to make it work, not love's responsibility.

Building a relationship is hard work, it's like building a career, It's like pursuing a dream. It's always tough, it will sometimes be so bitter but you can make it work.

Everyone falls in love, it takes no effort to do that, but staying in love? Building a relationship? Only few do
that. That's why we must find one person and
commit to that one, discipline yourself, bridle your emotions.

Relationships cannot be readymade. You must build it and it's never always about love.

On the long run in marriages, It's not love that keeps them together again but commitment.

In conclusion: The kind of love that attracts two people
together is not the kind of love that will keep them together.
Be emotionally strong!
Sticking to one person is not natural,
You must develop yourself to do that..Never want someone that stand next to you life because he/she is lonely either want someone who stand by u because they can not imagine standing next to anyone else....

Think before u get into it......[/b]

Very educative and profound. Well said, Poster. Lalasticlala, this is an eye opener and a refresher course too.

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Aderola15:
Op take

I be even think say na money you wan give me o. lol

Rayfield:
Very educative and profound. Well said, Poster. Lalasticlala, this is an eye opener and a refresher course too.

Thanks Bro!

GentlemanUnltd:

I be even think say na money you wan give me o. lol

Looool, give my kisses back to me then

Aderola15:
Looool, give my kisses back to me then

Lol, and you would exchange it with a bag full of green backs?

GentlemanUnltd:

Lol, and you would exchange it with a bag full of green backs?

Green grass? Of cus Sir . Don't let us derail this beautiful thread

Aderola15:

Green grass? Of cus Sir . Don't let us derail this beautiful thread

Lol!
Next time then!

Aderola15:
Op take

Hey.

firstking01:
Hey.

Hello

Aderola15:
Hello

How you doing??

Rayfield:
Very educative and profound. Well said, Poster. Lalasticlala, this is an eye opener and a refresher course too.

Can u pls summarize in just a sentence...

Loved to read but can't..

I was going to be nasty in the other thread, but I read this and.....
How apt, love isn't always enough.
You have to want it to work and work forever too.

This is a very inspiring write up, Weldone!