judian:
This is actually the first time am posting on this site, I actually love my boyfriend with all of my mind and soul, I cherish him soo much, because of him I cut all ties with any man, I Dnt even have male friends only female friends,i Dnt go out on dates, I hardly chat with other guys, but the issue is my ex keeps trying to keep in touch with me which I have tried on several occasions to avoid him.my ex called me yesterday about 15times and I ignored his call, I later called him back and told him not to call me anymore that it's causing issues for my relationship, today I met with my boyfriend and he went through my call log only to see my ex missed calls and also my call to my ex, without asking me anything he started accusing me and saying I want to go back to my ex and also that my ex have gotten a better job and we are planning to get married. Am soo angry and pissed, I really love my boyfriend but am confused.i need your advise

judian:
This is actually the first time am posting on this site, I actually love my boyfriend with all of my mind and soul, I cherish him soo much, because of him I cut all ties with any man, I Dnt even have male friends only female friends,i Dnt go out on dates, I hardly chat with other guys, but the issue is my ex keeps trying to keep in touch with me which I have tried on several occasions to avoid him.my ex called me yesterday about 15times and I ignored his call, I later called him back and told him not to call me anymore that it's causing issues for my relationship, today I met with my boyfriend and he went through my call log only to see my ex missed calls and also my call to my ex, without asking me anything he started accusing me and saying I want to go back to my ex and also that my ex have gotten a better job and we are planning to get married. Am soo angry and pissed, I really love my boyfriend but am confused.i need your advise

JuicyLucy:
15 missed calls I too would be concerned. To ignore your ex only to call him back was a bit childish. Your ex needs to be cut off. Block him, be rude to him, let your boyfriend pick up the ex's call and tell him where to go.

Jealousy to some extent is healthy but if his makes you unhappy then talk to him about.

Communication seems to be missing here.

TrapQueen77:



He so jealous & so insecure..

Well, there's a lot of men boiz having this kind of attitude.. If he can't grow up and think more matured, no matter how u explain it to him, he won't listen to u anymore.. He will only believe in what he thinks & u be in the deep shii..

Alondra:
Cutting off your social life because for relationships is quite insane, You may reduce some social activities but complete cut out is dangerous.

I think your relationship lack trust. Correct me if I'm wrong but your boyfriend is a jealous type that gets annoyed at a sight you with another guy. And your Ex is just another excuse to get uncontrollably jealous. You are dating a Possessive Man.

My advice is: Talk to him, Complain bitterly about his attitude when you guys are in a lovey mood. And if he doesn't change, take a break. May I input this, Rome was not built in a day.

J3RK:
"I don't have male friends" Why?? Because your Bf told you so?? #Pity . You're a disgrace to womanhood, You should be thrown to the Apes

makydebbie:
Honestly I was expecting you to say this

mumuupikin:



See mumu advice

mumuupikin:



Girl u mumu o come be my gf jawe, dt ur bf no cherish u. I can take care of u and we can be mumus together

J3RK:
If it isn't Deborah the Nairaland Stalker....

makydebbie:
Urgh, stalker?
•rolls eyes•

J3RK:
Well, You can roll ur eyes till they come off, I coudn't give two hoots about it.. Go Get a Mo'fvcking Life and stop engaging me #Malawian_goat

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Alondra:
From a mumu's perspective, You may be right

Switup:
so that ull be calling her mumu evry day abi?? >

mumuupikin:



Of course u sef mumu with us

Switup:
omg!!! mumupikin, is that u i quoted?? No vex. No vex. Ur moniker does d trick. Pardon my err mbok