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| Am I Doing The Right Thing? by ikeno(op): 1:37pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
Need candid advice from NLers. I don't know if am doing the right thing;this has to do with the fact that I prefer sending text messages than physically expressing my feelings towards the opposite sex. If I get offended by someone,I rather send a text to he/she expressing my emotional anger than confronting the person.This also applies when I have emotional feelings towards a girl,I do rather send her a text than telling her in person. Its really affecting me personally and also relationship wise. |
| Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing? by Cutehector(m): 1:38pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
No one will take you serious when you express your feelings through text.. |
| Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 1:40pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
ikeno:I guess you are a stammer. Talk to her, if she no gree you move to the next |
| Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing? by phensbassey: 1:41pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
sir you need to physically express yourself. there is little or no emotions conveyed through text.. |
| Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing? by gbegemaster(m): 1:52pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
ikeno:Dont worry. Am sure you'll meet a woman who also prefers texting. Good luck. 3 Likes |
| Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing? by snakebeat: 1:58pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
ikeno:How old are u sir? Text method of communication is often used by weak men...i'm sure anytime u try to speak, your heart beat fast.... |
| Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing? by amprat: 2:07pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
The problem is not being able to express yourself at all,seems you're more of a writer than a talker,being able to express through writing is good but talking is better women work more with spoken words. I once lost a wonderful lover cos he couldn't express himself years down the line after the breakup am shocked to realize what I meant and still mean to him, but it's too late, Don't loose precious moments and people please work on yourself . 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 2:47pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
Oyind18:Salvage...  |
| Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 2:48pm On Mar 25, 2017*. Modified: 3:49pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
I prefer texting too, cos I tend to pour out my mind when I text someone. Everybody can't be the same. 1 Like |
| Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing? by Acidosis(m): 3:28pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
ToriBlue:OP, I present you a wonderful wife. Cheers. |
| Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing? by typingmaster: 3:52pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
Cutehector:Fallacy of generalization! Actually, some people don't care whichever way one chooses to express him/herself. |
| Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing? by helinues: 4:09pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
At times, you need to face reality. Be a man and express your feelings in person. But try not to be rude no matter what |
| Re: Am I Doing The Right Thing? by Nobody: 9:06pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
ikeno:Maybe you could provide more information; something doesn't add up Like the part about sending a text to someone you like. How did you get the number in the first place? (I guess, certainly NOT by sending an SMS.) So you see; you actually do speak sometimes. Maybe you're worried that you don't speak enough. There is nothing wrong with written communication; there are times when written words could be more appropriate. However you'll need to get a sense of when SPEAKING will get your thoughts out better. You can't keep writing all the time. After all, the world is NOT Nairaland 1 Like |
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