Jackeeh:
Wait! Wait on God! Take your mind off children and focus your attention on the Giver of children. You've done your part so allow God do His, that is if you have any faith in HIM.

mrstheo:
God is the giver of children my brother, just put your mind off it and God will surprise u and your wife pretty soon. I'm in same situation as u are. Have made up my mind not to let it weigh me down. All is well

Mskrisx:
If God be God...
If the sun still shines at day and moon at night...

My brother, before the end of next year, u will carry ur boys... Save there is no God. Quote me when she brings them forth.
You can keep doing what u feel will help as to feel relaxed but the end point is that I wrote above.

QUOTE ME WHEN SHE BRINGS THEM FORTH.

mhizEvangee:
stop seeking for the miracle of God.....Go close to God of miracles. God has not stopped doing good.
my aunty married, for 15yrs, no issue and d husband died.she was left with nothing. she got married to another man ,they stayed 7yrs before they had a child "Baby Testimony"
Keep trusting God, He never fails

bonjovi12:
Got married in 2011.No children.
Doctors have diagonised medical issues with me.Wifey has got some issues too but we have had them sorted.
There are spiritual issues on wifey father's side.We have been praying.We have sowed seeds.We both love kids.We don't envy anyone but bless them when they have their kids.
Have seen almost all my friends,church members and family all have kids.Some of them got married after us but are on to their second, third issue.
Just heard that the wife of one of my guys that acted up during his marriage is preggies.Almost couple i know has kids.
Have done procedures except IVF until a couple of years back.Spent money.
We decided to use money to do other things and just trust God to come through.
I'm not a saint.I.try for God.Bless people and do service.
Prayers have revealed we would have kids.We have both had dreams about having our kids.
Today I'm just down. Depressed. Wish I had enough dough so i can risk doing enough IVF to give us our children but worried about squandering my lil savings and not get desired results.
I need help.Pastors have ripped us off.Most of them wanted or wants something in return.
Just pray God can just do it and now too.
Wifey was not handling it well before till she signed out.Now is she just trying to live her life.
Its getting to me.I am a correct Guy that people admire and some envy cos I have got some other things going on for me.
I want above every thing else to be a father.Can't stand the stigma. I need help.Is there anyone out there who can help?
Real,genuine individual prolly been in this before and knows and understands how it feels and overcame.
I don't know.Just sad but cos I have a relationship with God no matter how ffed it is sometimes cos of my sins,I am still hopeful.

bonjovi12:

Thanks bro.Been there,done that.
Not.easy taking your attention off children when everything and everyone reminds you off the absence of kids in your life.
If you have not gone through this you may never understand the pain

Jackeeh:
Wait! Wait on God! Take your mind off children and focus your attention on the Giver of children. You've done your part so allow God do His, that is if you have any faith in HIM.

bonjovi12:

Thanks bro.Been there,done that.
Not.easy taking your attention off children when everything and everyone reminds you off the absence of kids in your life.
If you have not gone through this you may never understand the pain

bonjovi12:

Thanks Sis.
May God hear your prayers and ours IJN

hungryboy:
The Op is right ,
If you haven't experienced what he is going through,
You'll never understand the pain

A wise man was told me,
Do things that make you happy
If a child is what you need to make you feel complete ,
Please by all means get one,
Whether through adoption or surrogacy

Or just try impregnating another woman
Are they both in Nigeria?Cant quite reckon with this experience

If you love your wife enough to stick by her no matter what,
Please do.
What am basically trying to say is,
Do whatever you wish to ,




Don't be influenced by outsiders opinions

My Mum's aunty is in her sixties and she got no kids, and she is still married to her husband for over 30yrs now


I always envy the love the have for each other

ItsQuinn:
OP go and commit suicide!

poshestmina:
You don't joke with people's pains ...not cool!

ItsQuinn:
Too bad for him! I don't give a f*ck

poshestmina:
You don't joke with people's pains ...not cool!

poshestmina:
Suite yourself!

bonjovi12:

You just gave her the attention she craves.Ignore her.

poshestmina:
Was just suprised a 'human being' could be so insensitive ...I pray God grants ur request ,it's well .

mrstheo:
God is the giver of children my brother, just put your mind off it and God will surprise u and your wife pretty soon. I'm in same situation as u are. Have made up my mind not to let it weigh me down. All is well