3months ago I met one hot tall American man with abs and tattoo that can make you slap you aunties. We started texting back and forth and he told me that he is in love with me and he wants to marry and I should be ready to marry me.

The problem is I have been living with this guy that relocated back from abroad sometime last year and I feel like he is suffocating me because he does not do nice things for me like he used to before. When he was in the UK he would buy me shoes and bags but now he has been complaining that business is not going smoothly since he came back home and started afresh. I am deeply annoyed by his actions because he is not considering how I feel about having to post my videos and pics on social media with the same clothes and accessories over and over again.

So this American guy is into construction and he has a home of his own and his children live far away with their mother in another state, so I am guaranteed no disturbance. We have been planning how I will get K1 Visa to join him so we can get married and live happily ever after. He will sponsor me once I get there and he promised me that I will not have to work because he will get the bills paid and all I will have to worry about is my blog and youtube videos since they are very popular.

This guy from the UK that I will now refer to as my roommate, has not made things easier for me. I need money and he is not providing. I told my future hubby that I will get my visa paid up by myself but this roommate of mine has not given me enough to do so. I told him I needed to go to US to buy some stuff for my business so that I do not have to ask him for money for my stuff again but he has failed to co-operate. He is stopping me from being with the love of my life and I have been miserable since. What do I do to him since he is being selfish and thinking of his own business alone without thinking about my future? Mature advice only.

When a new rich dude comes into the scene, they begin to see all the faults in their boyfriend. SMH! Don't worry, I bet u av never met your American boyfriend and also, is he marrying u there or here from your parents?
I just pray u don't get your fingers burnt.

Too many problems on Nairaland. People can no longer take decisions for themselves. Do we look like special advisers or prayer warriors?

SMH

Some people are just liabilities

Walahi buhari is not the only sick person in this country... So many madt people looking sane.

Only you have an American and UK boyfriends.

Pls follow your American boyfriend... Leave that UK roommate of yours.... Take your bad luck to the American guy and kill his destiny like you killed the Uk own....

OP are you for real?

gold digger / Help Me Out Of This Complicated
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by mizzochocinco . 38 posts & 1085 views.

mizzochocinco:
3months ago I met one hot tall American man with abs and tattoo that can make you slap you aunties. We started texting back and forth and he told me that he is in love with me and he wants to marry and I should be ready to marry me.

The problem is I have been living with this guy that relocated back from abroad sometime last year and I feel like he is suffocating me because he does not do nice things for me like he used to before. When he was in the UK he would buy me shoes and bags but now he has been complaining that business is not going smoothly since he came back home and started afresh. I am deeply annoyed by his actions because he is not considering how I feel about having to post my videos and pics on social media with the same clothes and accessories over and over again.

So this American guy is into construction and he has a home of his own and his children live far away with their mother in another state, so I am guaranteed no disturbance. We have been planning how I will get K1 Visa to join him so we can get married and live happily ever after. He will sponsor me once I get there and he promised me that I will not have to work because he will get the bills paid and all I will have to worry about is my blog and youtube videos since they are very popular.

This guy from the UK that I will now refer to as my roommate, has not made things easier for me. I need money and he is not providing. I told my future hubby that I will get my visa paid up by myself but this roommate of mine has not given me enough to do so. I told him I needed to go to US to buy some stuff for my business so that I do not have to ask him for money for my stuff again but he has failed to co-operate. He is stopping me from being with the love of my life and I have been miserable since. What do I do to him since he is being selfish and thinking of his own business alone without thinking about my future? Mature advice only.

You are a very disgusting lady. I checked your profile and all I could see is your plan to marry a rich man only. Can't you hustle and be independent? Continue to search for a rich man that will be gullible to marry you as a liability. Stu.pid lady.

And the so-called husband to be cannot send u d money for visa? Y should your roommate sponsor d visa?

smdh. what a gold-digger. can't believe I just read this rubbish.

LMAO, I have a feeling a man is behind this moniker.

why are women like this
everything is not about money!!!!

stop being materialistic

You're a dude trying to perpetuate the female gold digger stereotype

And people believe the OP, who's just trying to get a reaction?

Abeg, dream on o jare.

We're all allowed to day dream aren't we?

Fake story

cococandy:
You're a dude trying to perpetuate the female gold digger stereotype

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You will soon be sending kola nuts and apologies.

If this is a real post, Madam you need to correct your head. A man working in construction in the US does not make a lot of money. The work is also seasonal. I know a lot of men who work in construction that are living out of homeless shelters. If he has children in another state and they are under the age of 18, be assured he pays child support. This man will not be rich, nor will he be your knight in shining armor. Be careful that he does not want to bring you here to become his Workhorse.

Why don't you go to police and file an FIR against him?

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OP, you've been skipping on your pills! Why nau?

Abeg who get dat Lil Wayne pic

Nah, this has to be a joke from a troll

It's too ridiculous to even give any piece of advise.

Aah





Golddigger.


Get a life sis

edoman2016:

You are a very disgusting lady. I checked your profile and all I could see is your plan to marry a rich man only. Can't you hustle and be independent? Continue to search for a rich man that will be gullible to marry you as a liability. Stu.pid lady.

please go back to focusing on your life if you have nothing valuable to add

cococandy:
You're a dude trying to perpetuate the female gold digger stereotype

Auntie when did you give me a peniis? Are you done breastfeeding? Have you done the laundry? Have you warmed the bed for your husband? Mind your work abeg! If housewife isn't enough work for you, make i show you directions to craiglist so you can get a real job to keep you busy

BiafraBushBoy:
Too many problems on Nairaland. People can no longer take decisions for themselves. Do we look like special advisers or prayer warriors?

SMH

If you cannot give mature advise unfollow the thread. It is really that simple

MhizzAJ:
Some people are just liabilities

What kind of asset are you? What value have you added to Nigeria? After you have figured it out that you have not added value to any man anywhere on this planet or in this lifetime, kindly go and make your noise somewhere else please.

coolcatty:


Walahi buhari is not the only sick person in this country... So many madt people looking sane.

Only you have an American and UK boyfriends.

Pls follow your American boyfriend... Leave that UK roommate of yours.... Take your bad luck to the American guy and kill his destiny like you killed the Uk own....

Bad luck follows jealous people who do not want others to prosper because they have never had the opportunities others are getting without sweating for it. Let that sink in

Another attention seeking thread.

FortuneTeller:
If this is a real post, Madam you need to correct your head. A man working in construction in the US does not make a lot of money. The work is also seasonal. I know a lot of men who work in construction that are living out of homeless shelters. If he has children in another state and they are under the age of 18, be assured he pays child support. This man will not be rich, nor will he be your knight in shining armor. Be careful that he does not want to bring you here to become his Workhorse.

Being in construction does not automatically equate to being a labourer Auntie Jelousy! Abeg Auntie go and pray to the Lord to do wonders in your life instead of focusing on wishing others the worst. Good things happen to good people. Maybe if try being a nice person good things may follow you too. Take it easy and take it to the Lord in prayer.

Ishilove:
Another attention seeking thread.

And it is not your attention that I am seeking. Like I said MATURE ADVICE ONLY, if you have nothing to add, carry on and leave this thread alone. You will not lose a leg or grow a tumor if you unfollow the thread.

mizzochocinco:
Being in construction does not automatically equate to being a labourer Auntie Jelousy! Abeg Auntie go and pray to the Lord to do wonders in your life instead of focusing on wishing others the worst. Good things happen to good people. Maybe if try being a nice person good things may follow you too. Take it easy and take it to the Lord in prayer.

Alright silly girl (or gay boy). Keep up with your fairytale.