DeadRat:
Shebi it is headache she is giving you... My ex nearly sent me to hell

Lol.. Guy I can relate. Dah sh!t is so provoking bruh

Empressabbie:
The truth is, you can never trust her again. There shouldn't be an excuse for cheating, and she could do it over and over again. Leave her, she doesn't deserve you

Tnx dear.

yeyerolling:
a weak guy is a guy who caught his babe cheating , stayed and still receiving bull Sh.it from her. Dump her ass or turn her to side chick. Gals plenty to dey tolerate hoes. Wat about d guys she fuks wey no dey facebook?. Give her number to one of ur bad guy friends and seee if he no fo fuk am too

Tell me you have never cheated before, I still dnt understand why guys think they are the only one allowed to do rubbish.... Cheating is a two way thing nigga...... You dey form watin you nr be

BabyApple:
why did you refuse to respond to my mail?

Sorry hun, really don't check my mails

FreddyKruger:
Point of correction "never love these hoes" and never "stay faithful" to a hoe no matter how much love she professes to u. Cheat on them and never trust them.
Am sure u realise how stupid u felt knowing you've been sticking ur dick in one cunt while she's been fvcking every tom dick and harry. Don't leave her or send her packing...just go get another hoe and start fvcking that hoe...then on to the next hoe...when she finds out u cheating and don't have her time anymore, she'll probably have a 4.5 magnitude heartquake which could result in suicide or madness. In the end u win.
Next time use ur head!

some people..

betwithblaze:
I have been dating my girlfriend for a year now. We really love each other as things went on and we got to know each other better. She had Lil problems with trust issues so she initially found it difficult to trust me. We are presently schooling in different schools and we don't live in the same city as well. As times went by, she soon found out about my faithfulness, honesty and loyalty which made her love me the more. I trusted her and believed that she would reciprocate the same measure of honesty and loyalty that I've shown her over the times. She gave me enough reasons to trust her, of which I didn't hesitate. We kept having good times not until things went sour during the last ASUU strike when she visited me. I randomly went through her facebook chats and lo and behold I came across this mess - it was a chat between her and another guy. They were into stuffs like real stuffs. I immediately called her and showed her the chat. Her excuse was that it was during my exams she had to hook up with the dude due to the fact that she couldn't get enough of my attention as at then. God of mercy. She broke up with him by sending him a text in my presence. I sent her off but she kept begging me in tears until I considered things as a mature guy and forgave her. Since I accepted her back, she has been trying to cook up things that are far beyond my understanding. Each time she gets me pissed off and I complain she would relate it to that issue of the past, instead of apologizing. She would then try to blame me for referring to the past, of which I never had in mind. I tried my very best to make her understand this but she wouldn't. She would seldom complain about me not trusting and loving her anymore. We now have issues on a daily basis, and it pisses me off big time. Please guys, what do you really think is the best way out. Thanks.

once a cheat, always a cheat.



Her reason for furking another dude is STUPID... You'll get more hearth breaks in the future of this relationship, its not a curse bro, just a normal thing... As in #IsaNigerianThing..

Khallyella:
If you're not comfortable in a relationship, Leave.

hey, you're beautiful...

FreddyKruger:
Point of correction "never love these hoes" and never "stay faithful" to a hoe no matter how much love she professes to u. Cheat on them and never trust them.
Am sure u realise how stupid u felt knowing you've been sticking ur dick in one cunt while she's been fvcking every tom dick and harry. Don't leave her or send her packing...just go get another hoe and start fvcking that hoe...then on to the next hoe...when she finds out u cheating and don't have her time anymore, she'll probably have a 4.5 magnitude heartquake which could result in suicide or madness. In the end u win.
Next time use ur head!

.I love this guy already

She's a cheat,however do not dump her..keeping fvcking her..get urself another chick...dnt stop fvcking her..

yeyerolling:
Ur in school . instead make u dey think of ur GP or lofe after school. U carry woman matter for head. Weak guys everywhere

What has GP got to do with this.?

tosyne2much:
What has GP got to do with this.?

Epp me ask am bros.

betwithblaze:

Epp me ask am bros.

Na so dem dey do. They try to bring other people down making it look they're serious with their lives

If a university student is not eligible to be in a relationship, when will the time be?

tosyne2much:
What has GP got to do with this.?

d main concern of a student na him GP not babe. wey no send am. gp shud gv him headache

Op self, why you gotta let free knacks escape you?

I'm a one woman, one man kind of guy but if I ever catch you cheating I'm not gonna make a fuss. I will turn you to a cum dump pending when I get myself a new girl.

Now make me proud, fvck her life up a little after all she gave you a phoolishh excuse for her infidelity.

yeyerolling:
d main concern of a student na him GP not babe. wey no send am. gp shud gv him headache

Very good of you. For your mind, you have spoken wisely shey?

tosyne2much:
Very good of you. For your mind, you have spoken wisely shey?

baba yes. How cheating babe go dey gave person headache na. Dump am or turn am to side chick na

yeyerolling:
baba yes. How cheating babe go dey gave person headache na. Dump am or turn am to side chick na

Now you're talking.. But shey you know it's not easy to dump someone you love just like that?

FreddyKruger:
Point of correction "never love these hoes" and never "stay faithful" to a hoe no matter how much love she professes to u. Cheat on them and never trust them.
Am sure u realise how stupid u felt knowing you've been sticking ur dick in one cunt while she's been fvcking every tom dick and harry. Don't leave her or send her packing...just go get another hoe and start fvcking that hoe...then on to the next hoe...when she finds out u cheating and don't have her time anymore, she'll probably have a 4.5 magnitude heartquake which could result in suicide or madness. In the end u win.
Next time use ur head!

Blood of Lucifer. You're wicked óò. But on a more serious note, your comment made a lot of sense.

These ladies ain't loyal

another weak hearted guy spotted. oh lawd save the male species

DOUBLE ENTRY

sekxy:
smh

Point out what's wrong in his comment instead of shaking your boobs.

You forgave a cheating girlfriend as a 'mature guy'?
Same cheating girlfriend keeps playing victim and emotionally blackmailing you with the incidence?

You deserve a hot slap!!

Dump her

Jigga Bring ur ears here let me tell you what to do...dump her.

thank God you even snooped through her phone....U would have been her longterm assistant boyfriend
..
ever since...I experienced such with my ex...I find it terrifying snooping again..

betwithblaze:

And who told you am a weak guy.. What's your definition of weakness oga..ur talking to a hardhearted nigga. But I use my brain in treating pple with hardness. My g.p isn't suffering either. Am a strong two one guy in mech engine bruh

I think he is right to say that you are weak.
Any man that tolerates a cheating woman and fail to take a firm decision on whether to dump her or not is certainly a weak man.
I have dated 2 girls that cheat on me in the past. One was caught in the act and reported to me while I was far away in another state serving my country. The other wasn't caught in the act but through her Facebook chat with 2 guys, I suspected she was cheating. I didn't tolerate them any longer, I didn't open a thread here or consult anyone for advice; I just dumped them and move on without even minding how much I've already invested in them. That's how strong men act.
Once you are sure your girl is cheating, just dump her ass and move on. If she offend you in other way apart from cheating, you may hang on for a while. Presently, I'm trying to hang on to a girl who offended me without even knowing what she has done because she has a few character flaws that I'm trying to see if I can correct or help her to change. As far as she hasn't cheated on me, I'll hang on for as long as I can and only dump her when I am 100% sure that she won't change at all.
Cheating is the worst thing to tolerate in a relationship! Quote me anywhere.

betwithblaze:
I have been dating my girlfriend for a year now. We really love each other as things went on and we got to know each other better. She had Lil problems with trust issues so she initially found it difficult to trust me. We are presently schooling in different schools and we don't live in the same city as well. As times went by, she soon found out about my faithfulness, honesty and loyalty which made her love me the more. I trusted her and believed that she would reciprocate the same measure of honesty and loyalty that I've shown her over the times. She gave me enough reasons to trust her, of which I didn't hesitate. We kept having good times not until things went sour during the last ASUU strike when she visited me. I randomly went through her facebook chats and lo and behold I came across this mess - it was a chat between her and another guy. They were into stuffs like real stuffs. I immediately called her and showed her the chat. Her excuse was that it was during my exams she had to hook up with the dude due to the fact that she couldn't get enough of my attention as at then. God of mercy. She broke up with him by sending him a text in my presence. I sent her off but she kept begging me in tears until I considered things as a mature guy and forgave her. Since I accepted her back, she has been trying to cook up things that are far beyond my understanding. Each time she gets me pissed off and I complain she would relate it to that issue of the past, instead of apologizing. She would then try to blame me for referring to the past, of which I never had in mind. I tried my very best to make her understand this but she wouldn't. She would seldom complain about me not trusting and loving her anymore. We now have issues on a daily basis, and it pisses me off big time. Please guys, what do you really think is the best way out. Thanks.

When a woman starts behaving in such manner its usually her way of trying to manipulate u emotionally. Its her way of backing u up into a corner so she can do as she pleases under little or no interference. Don't argue with her again, jst observe and if u notice anything fishy again dump the girl without notice or any explanations.

Khallyella:



Sorry hun, really don't check my mails

Please i would to talk to you off Nairaland. Is it possile?

....different strokes for different folks bro. Have you ever sat to think why your babe is acting the way she is? Anything wrong in her grooming ,values or her expectations of you? It is obvious you love her but her subtleties seem not right up your alley but methink you have the mental strength to engage such cunningness provided there is a shred of hope she would come to her senses and appreciate your tenancity. Is the man in the mirror faultless or blameless as far as this relationship is concerned? Do you really, from the start , know who she is and what she wants(It isn't enough excuse to cheat on you though)?

Is she deliberately cheating on you because you can't meet up somewhere and where? Why isn't she comfortable with those other guys but you?
When you have weighed your heart and efforts , and feel the need to take a decision that makes everyone happy especially you, please do not disobey your mind.

It is important you know that certain two persons ain't just meant for each other no matter what.
May God guide you right.

betwithblaze:
I have been dating my girlfriend for a year now. We really love each other as things went on and we got to know each other better. She had Lil problems with trust issues so she initially found it difficult to trust me. We are presently schooling in different schools and we don't live in the same city as well. As times went by, she soon found out about my faithfulness, honesty and loyalty which made her love me the more. I trusted her and believed that she would reciprocate the same measure of honesty and loyalty that I've shown her over the times. She gave me enough reasons to trust her, of which I didn't hesitate. We kept having good times not until things went sour during the last ASUU strike when she visited me. I randomly went through her facebook chats and lo and behold I came across this mess - it was a chat between her and another guy. They were into stuffs like real stuffs. I immediately called her and showed her the chat. Her excuse was that it was during my exams she had to hook up with the dude due to the fact that she couldn't get enough of my attention as at then. God of mercy. She broke up with him by sending him a text in my presence. I sent her off but she kept begging me in tears until I considered things as a mature guy and forgave her. Since I accepted her back, she has been trying to cook up things that are far beyond my understanding. Each time she gets me pissed off and I complain she would relate it to that issue of the past, instead of apologizing. She would then try to blame me for referring to the past, of which I never had in mind. I tried my very best to make her understand this but she wouldn't. She would seldom complain about me not trusting and loving her anymore. We now have issues on a daily basis, and it pisses me off big time. Please guys, what do you really think is the best way out. Thanks.

OP I will tell you something about a girl I knew back then in school, she loved her BF so much, the guy is her screensaver, the guy bought phone for her and did so much for her and she reciprocates that too. Guess what? This girl loves attention and company, since her BF isn't around, being intimate with her takes showing her you care and have the ability to satisfy her in bed, with patience you will eventually sleep with her or continue sleeping with her even though you guys are not dating. Back then when guys were still bad Shia!!

One more thing, if your mind tells you she us cheating, it's very likely that indeed she is....any person with multiple partners will expose you to STD risks, be guided and be careful!