Petdaughter:


Stop generalizing! What's with this Nigerians this and Nigerians that! You do realize we are a nation of different tribes right? so why would you think all 186million+ of us think alike? You are not kowtowing to anybody, its basic human manners. Knowledge is freely shared on this platform and everyone deserves to be treated with equal respect. If you don't like how "Nigerians" roll pls look away from this thread and face somewhere else. You are trying to act more American than Americans. Or are you a VO in disguise? Say who you really are and state why you are always so disgruntled about honest people trying to have their babies in America. I hope you realize that lots of dishonest people with bad intentions don't bother to read up this thread? Pls be polite to people here or look away. If you have nothing nice to say, say nothing!

If there were all honest people here, this thread would not exist... i would encourage you to take your own advice. Politeness begets politeness. QED.

This is an open forum, not a personal blog, so unfortunately you cannot control who posts and how they post. You can only control what you post. Last I checked, i never quoted you in the first place. It is beyond me why you’re shedding more tears than the bereaved.

TWoods:


If there were all honest people here, this thread would not exist... i would encourage you to take your own advice. Politeness begets politeness. QED.

This is an open forum, not a personal blog, so unfortunately you cannot control who posts and how they post. You can only control what you post. Last I checked, i never quoted you in the first place. It is beyond me why you’re shedding more tears than the bereaved.

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Honestly, Im convinced you are a child! That's why you are reading but not comprehending. I'll peg your age at maybe 20 or 21. You feel so privileged that you live in America. I feel sorry for people like you, who surround their worth to a country. Especially one that your black life does not even matter. You think you are better than people in Nigeria because you live in the US Pls study or work or do whatever the heck you went to America to do in the 1st place and stop bothering hormonal Auntys like me. Ain't nobody got time to be arguing with a child

Petdaughter:

Aunty, you don’t sound anymore mature. As I said earlier, you seem more upset than the person who asked the Medicaid question. I wonder why...

If you didn’t think it was a privilege to live in the United States then why are you here, paying thousands to have a child here?

TWoods:


Aunty, you don’t sound anymore mature. As I said earlier, you seem more upset than the person who asked the Medicaid question. I wonder why...

If you didn’t think it was a privilege to live in the United States then why are you here, paying thousands to have a child here?

Where I choose to have my child is none of your nosey business! I'm not upset at all, I'm actually irritated by your overall responses on this thread and I know you can do better but you just choose to always sound cocky and sarcastic. Anyway since you have missed the point from my 1st response to you, I don't see you changing your mentality. However, if you come for me best believe I'll come back at you ✌️

Petdaughter:


Where I choose to have my child is none of your nosey business! I'm not upset at all, I'm actually irritated by your overall responses on this thread and I know you can do better but you just choose to always sound cocky and sarcastic. Anyway since you have missed the point from my 1st response to you, I don't see you changing your mentality. However, if you come for me best believe I'll come back at you ✌️

Where you choose to have your baby isn’t my business, on that we are agreed. Except it exposes the utter inanity of you whining about others feeling privileged to live in the United States. Shouldn’t where I live be none of your business too?

What is good for the goose... it is your choice to be irritated by my response and your decision to respond to it as you see fit. It is my choice to be irritated by any hint of fraud... why you feel entitled to your choice and how I express mine is befuddling.

TWoods:


Where you choose to have your baby isn’t my business, on that we are agreed. Except it exposes the utter inanity of you whining about others feeling privileged to live in the United States. Shouldn’t where I live be none of your business too?

What is good for the goose... it is your choice to be irritated by my response and your decision to respond to it as you see fit. It is my choice to be irritated by any hint of fraud... why you feel entitled to your choice and how I express mine is befuddling.

Loooool!!

See this statement "I feel sorry for people like you, who surround their worth to a country. Especially one that your black life does not even matter"...and this is the same country she has hopefully spent millions in naira last year and will be spending more millions of Naira this year just to have her children be citizens of(American Citizens).

Some Nigerians and Hypocrisy is like 1 and 2...

@All can anyone recommend any Doc. or Hospital in St.Louis,Missouri

Weperwema:
@All can anyone recommend any Doc. or Hospital in St.Louis,Missouri

Missouri Baptist

But u are not spending ur money when u embrace Medicare talks. Bwahahahaha.. We don't like America but lie and die to give births there.

Petdaughter:


Who are you? Twoods sidekick or Twoods himself? I see you always second the motion to all the rubbish he spills. That statement was thrown directly at Twoods so mind your damn business. How I spend my millions is also none of your business! What the hell does loooool even mean? Clearly you are also a child, so buzz off

Bwahahahaha..

Beautyaddy:


Loooool!!

See this statement "I feel sorry for people like you, who surround their worth to a country. Especially one that your black life does not even matter"...and this is the same country she has hopefully spent millions in naira last year and will be spending more millions of Naira this year just to have her children be citizens of(American Citizens).

Some Nigerians and Hypocrisy is like 1 and 2...

peace004:
Good evening every1
Part 2: second interview which was emergency time 6:30am on Wednesday.
Got to the embassy exactly 6:15am with Dh, went in den d it was a lady who did d finger print 4 me & my Dh & we where d first @ her own corner so dere was good communication cos she pleaded with smiles 4 my Dh to help adjust d finger print machine which he did adjust about 4 times b4 she was comfortable with it, my Dh did his finger print successfully but mine took a little bit longer cos my palm was sweating, Guess it was tension but finally done with it and went to line up 4 d interview.
Dey where about more Dan 15 ppl in front of us, I observe all where denial & when we got closer I saw only blue paper on d front of all d V.O hmm my tension increase ooh, God is @ work as me & my Dh was directed to d same V.O lady dat did our finger print...wow
She said
V.O: smiles & said U with Good morning
Dh & Dw: Good morning 2gather.
V.O: Ur passport pls
V.O: U guys ar married rite
(My passport still remain my dad's name)
Dw & Dh: yes 2gather
V.O: How long av u been married. Do u Av any children
Dw: A year plus & no we ar expecting our first soonest
V.O: when is ur due date
Dw: bla bla bla January 2018
V.O: wat do u do & u ever be employed b4
Dw: Home maker for now & no av never been employed
V.O: and u to Dh
Dh: I run my own company, deal on bla bla bla & apart from dat I ...!!!
V.O: interrupted & ask Dh to elaborate more on wat it means about wat d company does
Dh: explain with more light on it & explain in a simple way 4 her to understand
V.O: okay continues u where saying sometin b4 I interrupted u
Dh: I also own bla bla bla apart from my company
V.O: how many staffs u av
Dh: 16 staffs
V.O: where is ur other investment located
Dh: Benin city @ bla bla bla street
V.O: what's ur total budget for d trip
Dh & Dw: 2gather "$23k 350"
V.O: Can I c ur bank statement
Dw: Gave her my Dh personal statement & also joint account with me & Dh
V.O: she went through my Dh account statement & also d joint account statement, she ask us how do we intend to get Dollars?
Dh: we can get through our bank & it will b easy cos wify is leaving by December & me by January toward the due date so we can split d funds into 2 parts.
V.O: she went through Dh personal statement again for about sometimes, Wats dis company transaction for.?
Dh: payment on personal contract I did with bla bla bla.
V.O: How long ar u staying
Dw: 10wks
Dh: 3wks plus
V.O: brought d white paper from under of no where cos it was only blue paper in front of her & said u Av been approve, make sure u carry all ur body proof bla bla bla.
D funny part of it she gave us d white paper & 2gather with our both passport.
Dh: ask where do u want us to drop d passport..?
V.O: she na smiled & said sorry give me back d passport...!!
We where d first dey gave white paper after all other V.O's Daniel more dan 15 ppl b4 us.,
Imagine oooh very funny..lol lol lol Jajajaja hmm..it was God's grace here & I give glory to almighty God.

congratulations my sister and may Jesus stand by your bed on the day of delivery, My advice for pple is that u follow your spirit as it leads you, some wifes are not working in big companies with big salaries and yet given visa, both couple also went and granted visa, so Follow your spirit

elfmann:
But u are not spending ur money when u embrace Medicare talks. Bwahahahaha.. We don't like America but lie and die to give births there.

I don't hate America and it's not a do or die for me. However, having dual citizenship creates great opportunities. I've never touched or plan to use Medicaid so I'm sure that "embracing" statement is not directed at me as I pay all my bills in full. My point is that we should pass our points politely without assuming people on here are going to give birth fraudulently.

Twoods I was addressing is the one that acts upset when people ask of Medicaid innocently. Think about it, If they think it was ok to use it, they won't come here to verify. They'd just go ahead and use it. Pls get my point and don't make this a joke.

Really.... I got a b1/b2 last time (2015) and just renewed in March via dropbox without any problems. Am I supposed to be worried abt anythg as I intend to both with it around April next year. I know an supposed to do a change of intent along the line. Pls educate me on this.. As I don't know the current devote. Thanks my lovely people.

jenyjay:


Yes i think it's best not to use dropbox if your last visit was to have a baby or if your present reason is to have one.Saves from a lot of stress.

aremso:



congratulations my sister and may Jesus stand by your bed on the day of delivery, My advice for pple is that u follow your spirit as it leads you, some wifes are not working in big companies with big salaries and yet given visa, both couple also went and granted visa, so Follow your spirit

Thanks...Yes true talk.
God bless u my sister.

Thanks for your response. How did you resolve the accommodation issue? Are you also on a tourist visa or a medical one? Which state did you settle on? Can you PM me so we discuss further?

Thanks again!

Oke2017:
Hey,

Where exactly do you intend to give birth? If you have a particular state in mind then you have to google it .. send them a mail and also wait for their reply.. i did the same, and got lots of replies. Its simple and not a big deal. Send as much mail requesting for cost of delivery... then you can weigh your options. Im due in April and im leaving 2nd week of March. Ive gotten a hospital, im just waiting on March so i can leave.









quote author=zizirecords post=62670283]Dear Family,

My wife and I plan to deliver in the US early next year. I am completely new to this. Can anyone share a step-by-step guide along with recommendations? Even helpful links? Costs will be helpful as well. We have the visa already (Tourist). When should we travel? During the visa interview, we confessed about the pregnancy (very early stage then) and the VO said if we decide to give birth, we should try to pay all bills and he wrote that in our file.

Thanks in advance!

Good afternoon mama's & papa's, My destination is Richmond Texas Oakbend precisely.. Am planning to 2 leave second week of December due in January so all d Houston or Texas mama's pls halla me: email: peace4okolie@gmail.com

Also pls I need advice on wat Airline is more comfortable 4 pregnant woman & booking of flight ticket when L.O arrive.
"KLM, Emirate, Turkish or Qatar airways"

It's a joke when folks ask of Medicare. Na una contributions? LOL. Seriously when pple ask 'innocently' it is because their bills skyrocketed and since the hospital doesn't trust u obeying d payment plan, the former pushes it to d govt. U push it here and expecting a favorable take, all in all, no free lunch, even d discount being bandied here, is being picked up by residents who work out their assessed.. Maintain ur trust with d embassy.. paying 100% no matter what. U need to apologize to that guy u guys always gang up against.. U know black lives matter involves u too!

Petdaughter:


I don't hate America and it's not a do or die for me. However, having dual citizenship creates great opportunities. I've never touched or plan to use Medicaid so I'm sure that "embracing" statement is not directed at me as I pay all my bills in full. My point is that we should pass our points politely without assuming people on here are going to give birth fraudulently.

Twoods I was addressing is the one that acts upset when people ask of Medicaid innocently. Think about it, If they think it was ok to use it, they won't come here to verify. They'd just go ahead and use it. Pls get my point and don't make this a joke.

@justwise o!!! Where are you? See quarrel ......

Ok everyone... group hug...no more vexing abeg, ejo, biko, please...

Summary of the matter:

1) we will be polite to each other...no matter the question asked.

2) we will not take Medicaid or any other benefits that are not our due...and in all matters relating to honesty and integrity.. .we will do better.

3) we will give people the benefit of the doubt and assume they really don't know that's why they are asking.

Don't be angry.....ehn....please.

@nefertitiram How can i have a private chat with you?Thanks for the info....

elfmann:
It's a joke when folks ask of Medicare. Na una contributions? LOL. Seriously when pple ask 'innocently' it is because their bills skyrocketed and since the hospital doesn't trust u obeying d payment plan, the former pushes it to d govt. U push it here and expecting a favorable take, all in all, no free lunch, even d discount being bandied here, is being picked up by residents who work out their assessed.. Maintain ur trust with d embassy.. paying 100% no matter what. U need to apologize to that guy u guys always gang up against.. U know black lives matter involves u too!

QED. Its just that simple. When people ask for discounts and medicaid, they don't exist. Someone else is picking up the slack (either in form of taxes or insurance premiums). The hospitals happily push these as options since it is a lot easier for them to send government a bill than trust you to pay what you truly owe. Have the integrity to do exactly as you promised at your visa interview... pay 100% of what you owe. The idea of medicaid should never come up at all... black lives do matter, but we cannot demand others respect us if we can't respect basic rules of decency.

If you're upset about this, sorry. But the truth isn't going to change simply because you have a problem with it. Episodes such as the above are reasons i no longer subscribe to the Nigerian version of "christianity". 99.9% of the cheats, liars and uncouth folks here are likely the first people in church on sunday.

TripleKMama:
TKM Jnr turned d big 1 two weeks ago. Praise God!!
Special shout out to my NL mommas & papas, all NJ crew & Dr Fares fans
Na work make me scarce like dis. Happy celebrations & Merry Christmas! Love y'all.

Chei... you no come invite us abi.

Wehdone!!!

nefertitiram:


Na to spread wrapper for ground sleep better sleep. Use your bag as pillow to avoid strange disappearance. Take a blanket from the plane for additional comfort.

Yes o!
I use my bag as pillow or leg support every time for years...