I'm currently dating a girl from Kiev with a 3 year old son. We met through A Foreign Affair’s website. She already married someone back then and when their relationship turned sour, they divorced. Honestly, I respect the fact that she is a divorcee. The experience has made her more mature which is one trait I appreciate in a woman.

However, the best quality I like in her is her naturally caring attitude. Maybe it's her instinct as a mom that makes her nurturing. All I can say is that she really has a good character. But, her being a mom is also giving me a bit of a worry. I don't have a problem with her having a child. My worry is that I might not be a good fit for the little boy. I care about him too because I really like his mom. Am I wrong for worrying too much about him?

Some of my friends are telling me to call things off but some of my other friends are telling me that it's okay to date her. I don't know which side should I be listening to. They both give me good points and reasons which makes making a decision more difficult. Is it a good thing to listen to the advice of friends? Should I just open up to my girlfriend about this concern? Any advice on my situation?

Am coming

The Law of women proportion:

The more the children a woman delivers, the more humble she becomes.

If she is truly a good woman that will make u happy, pls go for her biko and she is even honest.

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If you date a woman with a child, you must understand that her child will always come first. You loving the child like your own is the best way to show her you love her. Keep doing it and you don't have to worry about asking her anything. Don't ask - the dilemma would be seen as indecision.

I don't get you sir..
Date or marry her?... But deep down, you know what you want sha

Bro if U love her U can go ahead, but they normally hide their frustration and depression before marriage,they have swallow bitter pills,most of them become thorns in the flesh of their man,if U have tick skin that can absorb the following and more go ahead.
ex husband threat, unwanted and unwarranted visitation, communication,affected and emotion attachment
Wife comparison,frustration, depression, insecure, seclusion moody,accusation of bias towards her first child, love diversion etc
Ur family (some) prejudice, condemnation, hatred and sentiment toward her and her child
Ur ability to take care of her child like urs and tolerance
Some of her family and friends will have preference for the ex even if he is a devil remember some people still love buhari
Her child rejection, disrespectful,dishonesty,hatred and thorn in Ur flesh etc
I will stop here because I don't want to scare you.

It's good to listen to advice from friends but it is also good to look at the issues objectively before making a decision

adadike281:
If she is truly a good woman that will make u happy, pls go for her biko and she is even honest.

We'll said

lomaxx:
If you date a woman with a child, you must understand that her child will always come first. You loving the child like your own is the best way to show her you love her. Keep doing it and you don't have to worry about asking her anything. Don't ask - the dilemma would be seen as indecision.

Seconded...

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adadike281:
If she is truly a good woman that will make u happy, pls go for her biko and she is even honest.

ha...you have chest.o...do you hit the gym regularly

Dont let anyone advice you.. Follow your heart & Also use your brain....its your life

lucas28:
I'm currently dating a girl from Kiev with a 3 year old son. We met through A Foreign Affair’s website. She already married someone back then and when their relationship turned sour, they divorced. Honestly, I respect the fact that she is a divorcee. The experience has made her more mature which is one trait I appreciate in a woman.

However, the best quality I like in her is her naturally caring attitude. Maybe it's her instinct as a mom that makes her nurturing. All I can say is that she really has a good character. But, her being a mom is also giving me a bit of a worry. I don't have a problem with her having a child. My worry is that I might not be a good fit for the little boy. I care about him too because I really like his mom. Am I wrong for worrying too much about him?

Some of my friends are telling me to call things off but some of my other friends are telling me that it's okay to date her. I don't know which side should I be listening to. They both give me good points and reasons which makes making a decision more difficult. Is it a good thing to listen to the advice of friends? Should I just open up to my girlfriend about this concern? Any advice on my situation?

Mafking:


ha...you have chest.o...do you hit the gym regularly

Gym ke? no be person wey get strength they go gym. lol.

if you are an idealist, go ahead no problem. if you are a realist, run away problem is waiting. if she was a widow, good. but divorcee? that bad character wey make her no fit stay with that man go reach your turn.

It's quite hard to really understand people totally. OP, you need to dig deeper to understand why she divorced at first. Your judgement is being clouded by love and hence you are only seeing her good aspects only

adadike281:
Gym ke? no be person wey get strength they go gym. lol.

lol...buh those boobs are too confident na(let's even ignore the yansh for now)...what's your secret if its ain't gym....
BTW... show daddy your face na

Mafking:


lol...buh those boobs are too confident na(let's even ignore the yansh for now)...what's your secret if its ain't gym....
BTW... show daddy your face na

I think its hereditary. coz I am an exact replica of my mum.

adadike281:
I think its hereditary. coz I am an exact replica of my mum.

wow....sha make sure any errands that mum sends you, you do it wholeheartedly, cus all some girls inherited from their moms is a pair of #20 puff puff boobs

lucas28:
I'm currently dating a girl from Kiev with a 3 year old son. We met through A Foreign Affair’s website. She already married someone back then and when their relationship turned sour, they divorced. Honestly, I respect the fact that she is a divorcee. The experience has made her more mature which is one trait I appreciate in a woman.

However, the best quality I like in her is her naturally caring attitude. Maybe it's her instinct as a mom that makes her nurturing. All I can say is that she really has a good character. But, her being a mom is also giving me a bit of a worry. I don't have a problem with her having a child. My worry is that I might not be a good fit for the little boy. I care about him too because I really like his mom. Am I wrong for worrying too much about him?

Some of my friends are telling me to call things off but some of my other friends are telling me that it's okay to date her. I don't know which side should I be listening to. They both give me good points and reasons which makes making a decision more difficult. Is it a good thing to listen to the advice of friends? Should I just open up to my girlfriend about this concern? Any advice on my situation?

9/10 of divorcees wil never tel u d truth why they did it.

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