Once the time comes, I have vowed that it will be done the way my grand father and ancestors did theirs. Wearing all those gowns and suites and going to a church will be a no-no for me. The pastor may come to the our venue and then pray and invoke God's blessings on us. Afterwards, the marriage will be registered in the appropriate ministry. Ka Chineke mezie okwu.

[quote author=PenlsCaP post=63074148]Tho we now see it as norm.. becoz conji is a bastard. ...But spiritually its wrong.
It should be only after marriage by right.[/quote]which marriage are u referring to, traditional or white?

Re

BornAgainMay:
No.

Read up

https://www.nairaland.com/4220892/does-pregnancy-belong-me-confession

Read what? That rubbish by the whites?

[quote author=lexy2014 post=63075476][/quote]sorry white bro

bizzai:


https://www.modernghana.com/amp/lifestyle/10419/can-christian-couple-have-sex-after-traditional-marriage-cer.html

madam thank u 4 ur plenty grammar and English. Pls ask urself, did Isaac and Rebekah wait 4 church wedding b4 they started doing d needful?

kpaofame:

And what. Is marriage by right....
God of Abraham, Isaac and Jacob don change abi.... Who be the priest or Reverend when wed Isaac or Jacob, abi in the wedding of Cana of Galilee dem write say Jesus read solemn matrimony vows for the couple.. In the scripture once the family of the Man pays the bride price they are married...
Any other thing is just addendum... Which is not compulsory, its just a borrowed culture of the white because they didn't accept African beliefs.

U hav a point but im commibg to anser u later

PenlsCaP:
Tho we now see it as norm.. becoz conji is a bastard. ...But spiritually its wrong.
It should be only after marriage by right.

After marriage. What do you understand by marriage and when is marriage consummated?

PenlsCaP:
sorry white bro

then d traditional marriage isn't a marriage abi?

lexy2014:
then d traditional marriage isn't a marriage abi?

It is but spiritually right u can only gbensh after white.

Guilderland1:
No don't sex her ooo. Just romance her till you finish ur wedding.

mental slavery. So you don't know that you are married after bride price?

PenlsCaP:


It is but spiritually right u can only gbensh after white.

which white wedding did Isaac and Rebekah do b4 they started gbenshing to borrow ur word? what spiritual law is broken whem people dont do white wedding?

A couple can have intercourse after their trad. That's the main marriage na. Is white wedding our culture? Won't the pastor pray for the couple during Thanksgiving in church. We just like to stress ourselves sha.

No and and remain father

PenlsCaP:


It is but spiritually right u can only gbensh after white.

And can you back this your claim up from the Bible?

lexy2014:
which white wedding did Isaac and Rebekah do b4 they started gbenshing to borrow ur word? what spiritual law is broken whem people dont do white wedding?

Lol that was before christ came.

itchie:

And can you back this your claim up from the Bible?

Yes i can.. brb im buzy now.

PenlsCaP:


Lol that was before christ came.

after he came what happened?

Yes. The main thing is for the bride price to be paid. It's after that we can say they're married.

PenlsCaP:


Yes i can.. brb im buzy now.

You know you can't because there's nothing like white wedding in the Bible. White wedding is just the white man's tradition. It is in no way more spiritual than our traditional marriage.

queenfav:
A couple can have intercourse after their trad. That's the main marriage na. Is white wedding our culture? Won't the pastor pray for the couple during Thanksgiving in church. We just like to stress ourselves sha.

some people just want to remain in bondage. Pls let them b if they choose to. Even d pastors prayer u are talking about, what does it do?

classicB:

Traditional marriage comes first because as a woman you have to be joined to your husband first with the consent of your parents. No pastor can join you in church without the permission of either your father or mother. That's why most times the brides father walk her down the aile in church and give out her hand to her husband meaning he has given his consent. Pastors even ask for permission of the brides father bfr joining the couple, this signifies that traditional marriage is a true marriage, so I wonder why people ask the question OP is asking sef

Well said but what if the parents are pastors na ?

1s d parents of both parties consent to it with their blessing frm dem even if una no invite anyone

U cn start f¤ckin ursefz imedi8ly

lexy2014:
after he came what happened?

"Old thing things passed away.. and things become new." .

I know that line is familiar to u

Inanna:
Yes. Incase you don’t know, what you call a “white wedding” is the traditional wedding of the westerners. All weddings are traditional to the indigenous people from which it stemmed from.
As long as the couple is recognized as husband and wife by the families involved and the society in general, they are married and are free to engage in sexual activities .

Well spoken

Guilderland1:
No don't sex her ooo. Just romance her till you finish ur wedding.

Marriage of nowadays he don even finish browsing am finish.

safarigirl:
WHITE wedding is for WHITE men, so, if you are a nigga, except, you are a descendant of a slave nigga, you have no business with WHITE wedding, even less celebrating it before your TRADITIONAL wedding

Are you a slave nigga?

Wow... Since you're not a descendant of slaves why not go back to how things were before they came


Why are you even using a phone?
It's the white men's invention.. Well it's only slave nichurs that use white men's stuff


Are you slave niggress?

yes

sisisioge:
Yes! EOD! All that long sermon na sermon

My sista, my sista..You are already doing your own even b4 the traditional. God is wasssshing u.

OP, immediately her Family accept brideprice and her Father have finished praying
for you people, you are free to fvck her blue-black in their presence

cruchenutii:


My sista, my sista..You are already doing your own even b4 the traditional. God is wasssshing u.

My broda, my broda...God is watching all of us in infinite D

makky555:


Wow... Since you're not a descendant of slaves why not go back to how things were before they came


Why are you even using a phone?
It's the white men's invention.. Well it's only slave nichurs that use white men's stuff


Are you slave niggress?

lol....so, you admit that you think the white man is superior to you, hence your willingness to dump your culture for theirs?

The black man will never be emancipated with such idiotic slave mentality.