Hi guys, lemme quickly drop this. in my last post, I said I loved 3 girls and I don't know who to choose... well... I chose the girl I love the most out of the 3 which was my course mate.. Now guys, I need your advice on my relationship... the thing is that I knew she had a boyfriend before asking her out and she told me they have been dating for more than 3 years now but I loved her so much that I don't care at all and I thought I could prove to her that I love her more than anyone could... Trust me, I've made sacrifices and decisions that normally I would not do... we've been dating for more than 3 months now and I love her more than I can say, I make sure I talk to her everyday because if I don't, I feel sick. I give her what ever she ask that I have in my power. Another thing is that she's 3 years older than I am... I buy stuffs for her even when she doesn't ask... I love her so much... but the problem is that her boyfriend... I feel so damaged, down, weak, sad, depressed when I noticed she's around her... I want her all to myself and I'm trying to be the number one but now I'm blaming myself for falling in love with her and I'm the faithful type, I don't do shit... now she treats me like an option... her feelings for me now works like a switch... sometimes she talks to me like she loves me so much and sometimes she talks as if she is tired of me. I try my best but she is not making it easy for me... when I fall in love with a girl, I am honest and truthful... I don't hide anything from her but she hides alot from me and it hurts me... sometimes it affects me to the extent that I fall sick because of this feeling... now I'm far away from her I don't know what to do... I love her so much and I'm scared of losing her and she always thinks all guys are the same... I've tried to let her know I'm different from other guys... there are still good guys out there. what should I do... please help me

all i see in your post is neediness and insecurity. you are a man for God sake!

it time to show dis girl you can do without her, ignore her and start giving less attention.

ok

Lol. Nice Nigga walked with his own two legs into friendzone. Ubunja any solution?

A poacher is what you are.. How can you be scared of loosing what was neva yours.. Tryna snatch a girl huz already hooked and you have the balls to claim she's leaving you lovelorn?

U'r such a dreamer .. U need 2 snap back 2 reality
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philcz:
Lol. Nice Nigga walked with his own two legs into friendzone. Ubunja any solution?

Dr Ubunja you attention is needed inside the emergency ward

samtinx:
Dr Ubunja you attention is needed inside the emergency ward

Let me call Harddon since he's not around.

philcz:
Let me call Harddon since he's not around.

get any professional very fast these na delicate matter with someone older than the patient