Love is already everywhere in the air as 2018 Valentines day aprroches we at www.ogashub.com however decided to create a review of lapses and other flaws that breaks homes and relationships and why most people may not be happy to celebrate 2018 Valentine as soppesed with their lovers grab a drink and enjoy..

The one who gives without taking will soon deplete themselves of their own self nourishment. This could result to unhappiness and exhaustion which would eventually hurt the person and the relationship. If you feel exhausted and out of balance in your relationship, then it might be one sided. Here are more clues that tell you you’re relationship is one sided.

1. You’re always there for them but they can’t do the same for you.
They are your number one priority in life. Whenever they need you by their side, you’re able to ditch everything in your schedule just to be with them. But when you’re on the same situation, you hardly have their attention. They can’t be with you always.

2. They’re a part of your life, without feeling a part of theirs.
You have allowed them to enter in your life. They’ve meet your close friends, peers, or even family. Whatever the events in your life is, you always make sure they’re present. However, you have a hard time entering into their lives. It’s as if their life is private and you’re not welcome to enter nor become a part of it.It makes you feel you’re just one of their colleagues and not someone special.

3. It’s always you who make the effort of having a time together.
When it comes to giving them your time, no one beats your generosity. You’re able to set aside everything if you want to be with them. But, when you ask them of their time, they’re either busy or doing something very important, as if you’re not one of those important things.
You lost count of the alibis they’ve given you. If this is the case, it’s clear they’re not that serious in the relationship.


4. You’re not your true self in their presence.
You’re on constant guard in their presence, making sure every act or word you say is right, otherwise they’ll get turned off when your actions or words don’t please them. In short, when in their company, you’re a person other than your true self. And this exhausts you because it makes you feel uncomfortable to pretend you’re someone that you’re not. Feeling discomfort in the presence of someone who is suppose to accept you as you are is definitely ironic.

5. You’re always asking for apology.
You could no longer remember how many times you say ‘I’m sorry’. An apology is always expected from you whenever they find a flaw in your manners or words no matter how simple or silly it appears. If this is a regular occurrence in your relationship, you have to think twice. Ask yourself if you want to share your life with a person who does not make you feel good.

6. You think twice before talking to them.

As a loving partner that you are, you love to call them at the end of the day just to ask how their day went. Instead of thanking you, they’ll get angry with you for disturbing them and even make you feel guilty about it.
Thus, you have to think twice every time you feel the nudge of calling them. On the other hand, they’re too busy to even give you a quick call. They seem to be so distant, you find it difficult to make a connection.

7. They make you feel that your relationship is an obligation they need to do.

You always find the initiative of keeping your romance alive. Whenever you ask them to do their part, they’ll feel as if they’re obliged to do something and not because they truly love you. They’ll give you the freedom to do all the plan and the execution, while they just go along as if they can’t do anything about it.


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Some guys or girls have been a confirm shoe shiner in their relationship, they invest in partnership that never pays, however I made First to comment for the first time since I joined nairaland, it's been God all the way, I dedicate this to my mother, happy valentine's day in advance I love you ma

For the first time i almost made the popular "first to comment" post to a front page thread.

Moderators kindly insist on my post as first to comment since the one above me initially merely booked space than make passable comment.

Thanks.

Most guys are in one

So scared about tomorrow, too many commitments.

Who ask u??

As for me, I'm going to an orphanage home tomorrow to celebrate my birthday and share Valentine's love with the kids there. I've not found a better way to spend the day than with the needy.

Don't even know what to write here. Let me just wait until i have a girlfriend first.

Your points are too obvious abeg..... Try to be creative next time

Nice. Seems like I'm currently in one.

Love is a fantasy created by men so as to be enjoying free kpanshin

❣️❣️

National association of 'booless' Nd 'baeless' folks meets tomorrow to discuss how we will avoid this tragedy next year .

we no go hear word now, Val! Val!! Val!!! Everywhere Red and White

Just laughing.
Many relationship are under this lines.

sorry I will keep using and dropping till I see true love.
rubbish world

your opinion...


but why the so much fuss about val..its just like any other ordinary day

more like 7 clear signs you're dating a doctor.

Just laughing.
Many relationship are under this lines.

sorry I will keep using and dropping till I see true love.
rubbish world

Hmm

Bet9ja & Mtn are sharing Every where you go.

Culin:
Most guys are in one

and ladies are not?
nice pic...anya!

lilian comes to my mind after reading all 7 reasons that girl issa bitch thank god i bleeped her b4 it was late

I'm never thrilled abt Valentine's day and my man knows. I show love 2 people around me everytime i can. Porto Vs Liverpool on my mind tomorrow, no time

Val this , val that and all the craps on FP. The heart of a lady /man remains the same val or no val. That shitt is for those who don't have something good to do with their time and secondary students who are new in love story.

tomorrow is:
1. real madrid vs psg
2. elzamalek vs wadi delga sc
3. few days before black panther's release
4. ash wednesday
5. like valentine stuff
..
6. porto vs liverpool
7. then CHELSEA vs BARCA would still come up
so who cares if any relationship is one sided?
me i just know say i must chop west-of-mines fish with a cool bottle of origin zero as i dy watch champions league tomorrow

Nice points OP. We all need to re evaluate our relationship from time to time, you might still be in love with your lover while they have found love elsewhere, it only takes an observant mind to discern.

Culin:
Most guys are in one

Unfortunately I find myself in one currently

deebrain:
For the first time i almost made the popular "first to comment" post to a front page thread.

Moderators kindly insist on my post as first to comment since the one above me initially merely booked space than make passable comment.

Thanks.

See bad Belle ooo, u wan pour sand 4 my Garri, why my success dey pain u, see haters oooo

Na patience go suffer everything tomorrow... Real Madrid vs PSG will be my val...

Flashaldrin:
Nice. Seems like I'm currently in one.

Chai broda it's like we are on the same lane

swiz123:
Your points are too obvious abeg..... Try to be creative next time

Show us your blog and all the nice article you've written soo far