Okay... so, I really need to rant and release my anger somewhere. I’ll just rant here instead so I apologize in advance for any butthurt members out there. To make things detailed and clear, my relationship with my girlfriend has been going on for about 3 years now. We met during my visit in her hometown in Medellin for a meet foreign tour back then. Very lovely people. The locals are friendly and energetic wherever you go. But damn, I would’ve never thought there would be one friendly and energetic Costa Rican that would get on my nerves and it HAD to be my girlfriend’s MOTHER.

Where do I even begin?! The first time my gf introduced me to her family was during our first anniversary. I visited her over one weekend and that’s when I first met someone who I had to extend my patience with. She talks way too much and says the most obnoxious jokes. I know she doesn’t have any ill-intentions but come on, it gets annoying the more I hear them.

My gf doesnt know I dislike her mom but I dread the next time I’ll have to meet her mom again. How on earth can I explain this to her? She absolutely adores her mom and her talkative nature but I can’t imagine tolerating her for even a few days. I’d just hurt her if I were to be honest. I honestly don’t know what to do. I’m almost at my limit even by just meeting the woman for just about 5 times over the span of our relationship. HELP ME.

And how sure are we that if your woman meets your mum, she won't turn out to be like your future MIL who she will hate as much as you do to her's

Get close to her, find out her good sides and focus on that.Thats the best way to survive in this world,focusing on the good side of people.You should be happy her "problem" is just talking too much.Some MIL to be have far much worse problems.This can be easily dealt with, just get to know her and focus on her good sides.

Thank God I don't have to worry about MIL who are worse than her. I really extend my patience with her for the sake of my girl.

Now that you have an issue with you gfs talkative mum and spoiled younger sister, what are you going to do?

Cutehector:
And how sure are we that if your woman meets your mum, she won't turn out to be like your future MIL who she will hate as much as you do to her's

My mom actually passed away a few years back even before I met my gf

Donald3d:
Get close to her, find out her good sides and focus on that.Thats the best way to survive in this world,focusing on the good side of people.You should be happy her "problem" is just talking too much.Some MIL to be have far much worse problems.This can be easily dealt with, just get to know her and focus on her good sides.

You're right. I'll take this time to get to know her better and hopefully, bond with her. Thank you

kensmith33:
Thank God I don't have to worry about MIL who are worse than her. I really extend my patience with her for the sake of my girl.

Right. There are MIL out there who are terror but mine is just talkative and loud. I just need to befriend her some more and see how things go between us.

ImaIma1:
Now that you have an issue with you gfs talkative mum and spoiled younger sister, what are you going to do?

For my girl, tolerate everything.