Let me explain something to you young men here and I hope you listen because I learned the hard way.

I am in the middle of a divorce right now with a woman I loved for years. In learning the hard way, I have swallowed "red pills" way beyond the scope of what many consider to be a red pill.

I had taken my wife's virginity, so the idea of having to date a used up hag in her early to mid 30's is horrific and not even conceivable for me it's like someone saying "well now you have to Bleep goats."

If you actually have had a virgin that loves you, you realize that having it any other way is like dating a used prostitute.

With feminism and birth control and condoms I now believe that MOST women are essentially dykes. If you aren't making babies and being the man (meaning boss) of the house, your dick may as well be a dild0.

The pill changes women's brains and hormones. You can research all the studies done on this. I believe it turns them into a bizarre kind of half-man over time - a sor of lilith because esentially sex is supposed NOT to be only for recreation but to make babies which most untainted and virtuous women desire most in life. As a man your role is to ensure she is taken care of and protected and her children are also extended that privilege.

My wife gradually became less and less feminine and more career-oriented as she began her career and I saw her drifting away and being more concerned with her job than her own and only child. Not my fault she did not have another child as she got a job less than 2yrs into our marriage and just less than 8mths of our child's life. We did the whole family planning thing instead of me using a condom for the sake of not getting her pregnant in-order not to jeopardize her new job which I must state here, I was foolishly at the time in support of her working.

I must confess that she wasn't ever the same after we started family planning both mentally and sexually. She became a bit frigid and emotionally cold in between having hot flashes of heat.

I have friends who have gone through the same thing. At some point in their late 20s, if a woman isn't bearing children and they're on the pill, they transform.

My advice to you guys is NEVER EVER put your wife on the Pill. Yes, she can have a job or career or whatnot but if a job is infringing on her role as your wife and mother of your child it isn't in anyway worth it. Trust me, she would be much satisfied being at home taking care of her children than working in a misogynist environment.

And to all you career ladies, I am not out to attack you but want you to know that when and if at all you get married in your early or mid-30's, it will be to a man who is exponentially more whorish than you. The marriage will be pragmatic and depend wholly on what each of your bring to the table but it will be devoid of true love.

My wife is gone for good and that's because I allowed her get a job and put her on the pill which was not what God intended for her.

Another misogynist on the lose

All I have to say is that you seem to be misogynist. It is quite obvious that you're the problem in your marriage. Stop blaming your failed marriage on birth control pills and what not. You seem too controlling and might need rehab.

Bye!

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Mynd44:
Another misogynist on the lose

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Listen, there is an amount of c0ck that can go in a woman and turn her permanently to an ashewoe

Most prostitutes go to church to pray for deliverance from ashewoe spirit.

The reason we see so many young beautiful girls doing "runs" is because women of today are more liberated to have casual sex without fear of disease and pregnacy. Use a condom and swallow a pill and you are good and if they do get pregnant they can easily flush it down the toilet. Then most STDs today which would have been a death sentence back in the day for a woman are easily treatable and curable.

This has made our women turn to sexbots and has made modern woman today feel equated to a Man and so the slut culture that pervades this generation which we see as trendy.

When a man is mad he really doesn't know.

Amberon11:
All I have to say is that you seem to be misogynist. It is quite obvious that you're the problem in your marriage. Stop blaming your failed marriage on birth control pills and what not. You seem too controlling and might need rehab.

Bye!

Well, you didn't get the full gist and I must say my marital problems are not as straight foward as I put it , but it hinges on the fact that my wife forgot her responsibility as wife and a mother all because she chose a career.

Call me old fashioned, but I have friends who have full time housewives - women that were educated to the highest level but chose family above career and their marriages are working well.

The 21st century gender bender confusion which equates women as equal to men is a means towards destabilizing the core unit of society which is the family. Take away the family and society crumbles.

Just as the Devil tempted Eve, so have they began to put this useless 21st century career woman thing into your heads.

At the end of the day, your woman will be lusted and at worst used by other men in her workplace and she will slip from her home.

Amberon11:
When a man is mad he really doesn't know.

Nobody is forcing you to marry a virgin and have her as a housewife.

Whenever you are ready to get married you can go to the trendiest nightclub and pick the best looking working class olosho and have her as your wife.

If all men insisted on marrying virgins and leaving up to their responsibility, I believe this ashewoe culture will fade out instantly.

Lazy men are the ones looking for working class ladies in order to latch on and the women know this but for the fact that they are all washed up already they will still go for broke-ass Brother Emmanuel.

I commend your wife for pursuing her career and doing what she wants.Kudos

Kinggnicole:
I commend your wife for pursuing her career and doing what she wants.Kudos

Chemicals found in contraception pills could be changing the structure of women’s brains with some worrying results.

Neuroscientists have found that steroid hormones in birth control pills could affect the way the brain works due a thinner structure caused by synthetic estrogen and progestogen.

A study of 90 women – 44 of which were taking the pill – found that the group who used oral birth control had “significantly lower cortical thickness measurements” in two parts of the brain.

The areas affected were the lateral orbitofrontal cortex, which is involved in decision making, and the posterior cingulate cortex in the centre of the brain, which, among other roles, helps process emotions and retrieval of memories.


The findings come decades after many women have reported extreme mood swings, decreased attraction to their partner and also debilitating symptoms of depression and anxiety – which could be caused by effects on the lateral orbitofrontal cortex.


Emotional instability caused by the pill, as well as in conjunction with pre-existing issues and illnesses, is likely to be detrimental to relationship harmony and could be a contributing factor to conflict and break ups.


This is in addition to the physical conditions that the pill, which was made available from 1961, can contribute to such as high blood pressure and increased risks of breast, liver and cervical cancer – according to the NHS website.

https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/health-and-families/health-news/synthetic-hormones-in-birth-control-pills-can-effect-emotions-by-changing-structure-of-brain-10184041.html

Birth Control Pill Has More Effects On Emotions Than Previously Thought

For some women, mood swings and menstrual cycles are very much in sync. But for women on the pill, hormones and emotions can get really messed up.

A new study published in the journal European Neuropsychopharmacology suggests the birth control pill affects the way women respond to emotions and, in some cases, numbs users from other's emotions – particularly during their week off of the pill.

The study, which tested the emotional responses of three groups of women — on the pill, on their week off the pill and not on the pill — and found women on the pill responded better to emotions than those on their week off.

Data showed women on the pill were able to decisively choose an emotional response to hypothetical situations more effectively than women who did not consume oral contraceptives and women who were on their pill-free week, psychology news site PsyPost reports.

"The current study highlights the need for future research to shed more light on the neuroendocrine alterations accompanying OC (oral contraceptive) intake," the study's author Sina Radke wrote in her report.

The idea that oral contraceptives affect women's brains isn't a new one. Last year researchers from UCLA found that the lateral orbitofrontal cortex and the posterior cigulate cortex were thinner in women who took the pill compared to women who didn't. These regions are believed to play an important role in emotional regulation and response to rewards.

https://www.huffingtonpost.ca/2016/07/19/birth-control-pill-effects_n_11071130.html

Is your wife a retired olosho? Is that the reason for your failed marriage? Ehya

LeOstrich:


Nobody is forcing you to marry a virgin and have her as a housewife.

Whenever you are ready to get married you can go to the trendiest nightclub and pick the best looking working class olosho and have her as your wife.

When I'm ready, I'll post a reply here.

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Amberon11:
When I'm ready, I'll post a reply here.

[/s]

Go and sit down.

You have no clue at all.

Kinggnicole:
I commend your wife for pursuing her career and doing what she wants.Kudos

Imagine if she stayed acting virtous wife for this pscycopath. I can only imagine she would have taken a gun to her head sometime in the near future.

She just inadvertently saved her own life.

Ahh.
The things we hear these days...
The kind of reasoning too....

Sincerely women are suffering in marriages.

Many men are just narcissistic control freaks.

If you work na wahala if you don't work na wahala

If she wants a career let her pursue it. I know of situations where men suddenly become brutes and start treating their wives like thrash because they feel she isn't 'contributing' even when she is taking care of both kids and household. Such wives are always stay at home moms. 90% of the time men will turn against the wife and start taking her for granted just because she isn't contributing financially. One of my married cousins who has been looking for a job for a long time since marriage calls me to talk about how her husband says stupid annoying words to her because he is feeling the pressure of being a sole provider. They don't even have a large family, it's just one kid and the guy loves in Lagos working at a 5milli a year job.
What about the ones that the husbands keeps threatening to throw them out just because they know she will not be able to survive on her own because she has no means of livelihood.
They threaten the wives to exert power and bully them.

LeOstrich:
Let me explain something to you young men here and I hope you listen because I learned the hard way.

I am in the middle of a divorce right now with a woman I loved for years. In learning the hard way, I have swallowed "red pills" way beyond the scope of what many consider to be a red pill.

I had taken my wife's virginity, so the idea of having to date a used up hag in her early to mid 30's is horrific and not even conceivable for me it's like someone saying "well now you have to Bleep goats."

If you actually have had a virgin that loves you, you realize that having it any other way is like dating a used prostitute.

With feminism and birth control and condoms I now believe that MOST women are essentially dykes. If you aren't making babies and being the man (meaning boss) of the house, your dick may as well be a dild0.

The pill changes women's brains and hormones. You can research all the studies done on this. I believe it turns them into a bizarre kind of half-man over time - a sor of lilith because esentially sex is supposed NOT to be only for recreation but to make babies which most untainted and virtuous women desire most in life. As a man your role is to ensure she is taken care of and protected and her children are also extended that privilege.

My wife gradually became less and less feminine and more career-oriented as she began her career and I saw her drifting away and being more concerned with her job than her own and only child. Not my fault she did not have another child as she got a job less than 2yrs into our marriage and just less than 8mths of our child's life. We did the whole family planning thing instead of me using a condom for the sake of not getting her pregnant in-order not to jeopardize her new job which I must state here, I was foolishly at the time in support of her working.

I must confess that she wasn't ever the same after we started family planning both mentally and sexually. She became a bit frigid and emotionally cold in between having hot flashes of heat.

I have friends who have gone through the same thing. At some point in their late 20s, if a woman isn't bearing children and they're on the pill, they transform.

My advice to you guys is NEVER EVER put your wife on the Pill. Yes, she can have a job or career or whatnot but if a job is infringing on her role as your wife and mother of your child it isn't in anyway worth it. Trust me, she would be much satisfied being at home taking care of her children than working in a misogynist environment.

And to all you career ladies, I am not out to attack you but want you to know that when and if at all you get married in your early or mid-30's, it will be to a man who is exponentially more whorish than you. The marriage will be pragmatic and depend wholly on what each of your bring to the table but it will be devoid of true love.

My wife is gone for good and that's because I allowed her get a job and put her on the pill which was not what God intended for her.

If your wife was not working and you were done having the kids you want to, how would you prevent pregnancies?

I agree that people would abuse the access to contraceptives for casual sex.

And that is where out agreement ends.

Like others, you seem not to understand that unlike other vices, sex takes two or more to tangle so both parties male and female must uphold the virtues they want. Loose men = loose women and vice versa.

Men cannot want the license to have free sex and expect their women to be chaste..... except they want to be sleeping with goats and sexdolls.

@Your wife: it is pitiful that things have broken down this way and you feel that pills are responsible for it. I do not know your story and cannot dispute it.

All I know is that other women have taken this pills for eons and led successful families & careers.

If you decide to take another go at marriage, please marry a woman who has similar views in terms of career.

Oga, I applaud your wife for finding herself and following her path. Birth control wasn't the major problem in your marriage, you felt you lost control of her because well, she's taken charge of her fertility and life. She can switch to non-hormonal birth control.

One thing should be clear to you, marrying her as a virgin wouldn't change anything. Marriage is not for everyone and even having children but societal pressure in this part of the world makes most people do it.

Finally, i met my husband a virgin and it makes me feel like I've missed out on life. I really love sex and I get it constantly and guaranteed satisfaction, I have a job, 2 kids and I am on birth control. I honestly wish I had more sexual experiences, I'm never going to act on it but there's that "maybe" always on my mind.

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LeOstrich:
Let me explain something to you young men here and I hope you listen because I learned the hard way.

I am in the middle of a divorce right now with a woman I loved for years. In learning the hard way, I have swallowed "red pills" way beyond the scope of what many consider to be a red pill.

I had taken my wife's virginity, so the idea of having to date a used up hag in her early to mid 30's is horrific and not even conceivable for me it's like someone saying "well now you have to Bleep goats."

If you actually have had a virgin that loves you, you realize that having it any other way is like dating a used prostitute.

With feminism and birth control and condoms I now believe that MOST women are essentially dykes. If you aren't making babies and being the man (meaning boss) of the house, your dick may as well be a dild0.

The pill changes women's brains and hormones. You can research all the studies done on this. I believe it turns them into a bizarre kind of half-man over time - a sor of lilith because esentially sex is supposed NOT to be only for recreation but to make babies which most untainted and virtuous women desire most in life. As a man your role is to ensure she is taken care of and protected and her children are also extended that privilege.

My wife gradually became less and less feminine and more career-oriented as she began her career and I saw her drifting away and being more concerned with her job than her own and only child. Not my fault she did not have another child as she got a job less than 2yrs into our marriage and just less than 8mths of our child's life. We did the whole family planning thing instead of me using a condom for the sake of not getting her pregnant in-order not to jeopardize her new job which I must state here, I was foolishly at the time in support of her working.

I must confess that she wasn't ever the same after we started family planning both mentally and sexually. She became a bit frigid and emotionally cold in between having hot flashes of heat.

I have friends who have gone through the same thing. At some point in their late 20s, if a woman isn't bearing children and they're on the pill, they transform.

My advice to you guys is NEVER EVER put your wife on the Pill. Yes, she can have a job or career or whatnot but if a job is infringing on her role as your wife and mother of your child it isn't in anyway worth it. Trust me, she would be much satisfied being at home taking care of her children than working in a misogynist environment.

And to all you career ladies, I am not out to attack you but want you to know that when and if at all you get married in your early or mid-30's, it will be to a man who is exponentially more whorish than you. The marriage will be pragmatic and depend wholly on what each of your bring to the table but it will be devoid of true love.

My wife is gone for good and that's because I allowed her get a job and put her on the pill which was not what God intended for her.

[/s]
You need help sire, psychological help. You just don't know it yet, but please do check into a rehab.

Every other thing aside, birth control pills really do have an effect on the brain's chemical composition. That bit should not be thrown out with the rest of the exposition.

nahzyla:

Sincerely women are suffering in marriages.

Many men are just narcissistic control freaks.

If you work na wahala if you don't work na wahala

If she wants a career let her pursue it.

who is stopping them

I know of situations where men suddenly

no man suddenly bcomes a brute
she just ignored the signs for society wedding

become brutes and start treating their wives like thrash because they feel she isn't 'contributing' even when she is taking care of both kids and household. Such wives are always stay at home moms. 90% of the time men will turn against the wife and start taking her for granted just because she isn't contributing financially.

why do women marry such 90% men 90% of the time
are they that stoopid

One of my married cousins who has been looking for a job for a long time since marriage calls me to talk about how her husband says stupid annoying words to her because he is feeling the pressure of being a sole provider.

why did she marry hungry man without job of her own

They don't even have a large family, it's just one kid and the guy loves in Lagos working at a 5milli a year job.

she shud check her demands

What about the ones that the husbands keeps threatening to throw them out just because they know she will not be able to survive on her own because she has no means of livelihood.

why did they marry such a man

They threaten the wives to exert power and bully them.

why did they marry bully

bukatyne:


If your wife was not working and you were done having the kids you want to, how would you prevent pregnancies?

I agree that people would abuse the access to contraceptives for casual sex.

And that is where out agreement ends.

Like others, you seem not to understand that unlike other vices, sex takes two or more to tangle so both parties male and female must uphold the virtues they want. Loose men = loose women and vice versa.

Men cannot want the license to have free sex and expect their women to be chaste..... except they want to be sleeping with goats and sexdolls.

why not
that is what the village public toilet is for

@Your wife: it is pitiful that things have broken down this way and you feel that pills are responsible for it. I do not know your story and cannot dispute it.

All I know is that other women have taken this pills for eons and led successful families & careers.

successfully covered up careers abi

If you decide to take another go at marriage, please marry a woman who has similar views in terms of career.

simples

mikolo80:
[s]who is stopping them no man suddenly bcomes a brute
she just ignored the signs for society wedding why do women marry such 90% men 90% of the time
are they that stoopid why did she marry hungry man without job of her own she shud check her demands why did they marry such a man why did they marry bully[/s]

Crap

mikolo80:
why not
that is what the village public toilet is for successfully covered up careers abi simples

It is only a village dog that will be content with sleeping with the village public toilet and a decent girl wouldn't want to tangle with such.

If you haven't seen successful wives with careers in your cycle, it's your loss.

Water should always seek it's own level.

crackhaus:
Every other thing aside, birth control pills really do have an effect on the brain's chemical composition. That bit should not be thrown out with the rest of the exposition.

Infact, anything medicine you take affects the brain's chemical composition.

So what do you propose in lieu of birth control?

Even if a woman is an housewife all through her life, she wouldn't give birth all through her reproductive life.

bukatyne:


Infact, anything medicine you take affects the brain's chemical composition.

So what do you propose in lieu of birth control?

Have you tried closing your legs?

Birth control and condoms make you women to act like sluts knowing you wont get pregnant.

It was not the same with your granny's generation

nana228:
Oga, I applaud your wife for finding herself and following her path. Birth control wasn't the major problem in your marriage, you felt you lost control of her because well, she's taken charge of her fertility and life. She can switch to non-hormonal birth control.

One thing should be clear to you, marrying her as a virgin wouldn't change anything. Marriage is not for everyone and even having children but societal pressure in this part of the world makes most people do it.

Finally, i met my husband a virgin and it makes me feel like I've missed out on life. I really love sex and I get it constantly and guaranteed satisfaction, I have a job, 2 kids and I am on birth control. I honestly wish I had more sexual experiences, I'm never going to act on it but there's that "maybe" always on my mind.

The lack of previous sexual experiences is not the reason you're having that "maybe" on your mind.

If you had previously done it with 5 men, you'd still end up missing your experiences with at least one of those men.

Contentment is even easier to attain when there are no previous experiences.

BlowBack:



Have you tried closing your legs?

Birth control and condoms make you women to act like sluts knowing you wont get pregnant.

It was not the same with your granny's generation

Common sense my friend is not common.

When you develop sense, quote me.

bukatyne:


It is only a village dog that will be content with sleeping with the village public toilet and a decent girl wouldn't want to tangle with such.

If you haven't seen successful wives with careers in your cycle, it's your loss.

no such thing
go check am she is failing in motherhood
you can have 2 not all 3

Water should always seek it's own level.

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nahzyla:


Crap

aka nothing upstairs from you