₦airaland Forum

My story goes like this... we claim to love each other, we sleep together, she recently bought an okada, she said it was for me and i promised to take her to my father. Not up to a month now i am thinking of leaving her for another. see this is bad and a waste of time. how can a girl you claim to love forget to call you at a certain time you both made out for? it is just like forgetting a date with a fiance. i called her later and she gave excuses like she forgot. Something is telling me she has skeletons in her cupboard.

We never have good conversation on the telephone because we both lacked passion for each other. the other day, i tried flirting her on the telephone by asking her what she was wearing, she asked me why am i asking her such questions and i said i want to touch her so badly. she angrily replied me by saying "don't touch me". it hurts you know, but i have learn my lessons now. I will never force love on anybody. i will tell her to move on when next we meet face to face.

Follow more stories and advice @ www.soakedgarri..com

Better for you...

9ice resolution,i just hope u keep it.

There are some gift you don't accept at a certain level of friendship bro. She bought you a motor bike and you accepted it, where is your dignity sir? That like she buying you a car. What kind of job is she into? Because you didn't mention it. I guess the job is the skeleton.

I always advice young people like you that it's not a most everybody will like or love you. Don't force yourself on people. Never you allow your love (no matter what) to be more than that of a woman cause they will use it against you someday. Women owns the love & the man's love is in his heart. Am glad you've learnt your lessons and as such others will emulate too.

Sometimes we ignore people that likes us and go for people who dislikes us. That's the nature of life & it has been there, you can't change it.

KingsleyCEO:
There are some gift you don't accept at a certain level of friendship bro. She bought you a motor bike and you accepted it, where is your dignity sir? That like she buying you a car. What kind of job is she into? Because you didn't mention it. I guess the job is the skeleton.

i will return the motorbike asap. thank God i did not use it for anything. it is still parked brand new in my back yard. yeah she is self employed and works as a fashion designer. we were friends for like 3 years before she accepted my proposal last month to be my girlfriend. i cant understand her again sef, thats why i feel like calling it off.

ApostleEbuka:
i will return the motorbike asap. thank God i did not use it for anything. it is still parked brand new in my back yard. yeah she is self employed and works as a fashion designer. we were friends for like 3 years before she accepted my proposal last month to be my girlfriend. i cant understand her again sef, thats why i feel like calling it off.

Brother, in a relationship that you're not sure of yet, don't own they person and don't allow the person own you. I will say you're lucky it happened on time.

All the best, just be calm and love will certainly find you in no distant time.