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Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by mikeycharles(m): 5:13pm On Apr 02, 2018
OK wtf happened to nairaland and where did all this "accepting" nature come from, with posts like this, there would have been an uproar by now.

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Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by Goldaccumulator: 5:14pm On Apr 02, 2018
Give him your sister to try

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Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by HeyCorleone(m): 5:14pm On Apr 02, 2018
obainojazz:
Sharrap, we are not talking about religion and premarital sex here. We talking anal cancer and sheer stupidity.

What about STDs you get thru vaginal sex with bae? Lol. Mr Holier than thou.

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Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by Shroud: 5:14pm On Apr 02, 2018
IjeleNwa:
I have a gay friend,we have been friend for 5years and and I have never summoned courage to tell him to stop being gay.

He engages on the act with his fellow gay fellows on the line but yet we are cool close friends.

I never liked the act but can't talk him out

I need opinions on how to go about this.




Being gay is a mental illness. You cannot ask him to stop. He needs radical therapy.

And remember, gays often have anger issues and societal maladjustment due to their mutated DNA and societal defiance.

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Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by Nobody: 5:15pm On Apr 02, 2018
Gbam!
HeyCorleone:
How many of your friends who fornicate have you tried to talk out of it? I'm even guessing you engage in act of premarital sex, and you feel homosexuality is a problem? Lol.

Remove the log from your eye first.

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Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 5:16pm On Apr 02, 2018
sexymoma:
[/b](Mind your business)[b]..... The most profitable business in this word.
@bolded true talk.

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Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by kmaster007: 5:17pm On Apr 02, 2018
you will soon join d club
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by obainojazz(m): 5:17pm On Apr 02, 2018
HeyCorleone:


What about STDs you get thru vaginal sex with bae? Lol. Mr Holier than thou.
well, continue with your gay stuff. The law will catch up with you. angry
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by HeyCorleone(m): 5:17pm On Apr 02, 2018
swiz123:
Unfortunately, your friend is among the damned.

One thing I hate about gays is their parasitic nature. They always seek for whom to convert into gayism.

Purge your beloved country of this parasite by handing him over to sars.

God bless you son

For those demoralized bastards telling the op to leave him be cos it's his nature, who told you that gayism comes natural to everyone. Some of them are normal people whose sexual orientation changed due to some situations. Some a victim of boarding school, some in prisons and some dubious ones are ritualists.

I have seen all, I have waylaid some.

Gayism should be outlawed and seriously frowned at by any moral conscious person.

Let's us join hands together and purge the world of these parasites

Why talk about Homosexuality like it's the only sin or crime in today's world? If we're indeed going to rid the world of homosexuality, a lot of other things would have to follow.

It's not a sexual orientation problem. It's a structural problem.

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Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by firo08(m): 5:18pm On Apr 02, 2018
Kill him
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by MissRaine69(f): 5:18pm On Apr 02, 2018
IjeleNwa:
I have a gay friend,we have been friend for 5years and and I have never summoned courage to tell him to stop being gay.

He engages on the act with his fellow gay fellows on the line but yet we are cool close friends.

I never liked the act but can't talk him out

I need opinions on how to go about this.
Either you are his friend or you are not you can’t pass judgement.
Being gay is not like a on and off button that you switch off it’s his orientation. So it’s simple stay and mind your own business or walk away.




Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by Nobody: 5:18pm On Apr 02, 2018
Do what you want....

I know that you are secretly lipsrsealed

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Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by NzeSteve(m): 5:19pm On Apr 02, 2018
Run for ur life b4 someone seek help to stop u b4 gay
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by victorazyvictor(m): 5:19pm On Apr 02, 2018
IjeleNwa:
I have a gay friend,we have been friend for 5years and and I have never summoned courage to tell him to stop being gay.

He engages on the act with his fellow gay fellows on the line but yet we are cool close friends.

I never liked the act but can't talk him out

I need opinions on how to go about this.




Put on mask and tell him.

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Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by MissRaine69(f): 5:21pm On Apr 02, 2018
Shroud:


Being gay is a mental illness. You cannot ask him to stop. He needs radical therapy.

And remember, gays often have anger issues and societal maladjustment due to their mutated DNA and societal defiance.
He is gay
There is no treatment for somthing that’s not a disease/infliction neither is it a mental illness.

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Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by Doctormarrvin: 5:21pm On Apr 02, 2018
There's nothing you can do. Leave him be please. I am not going to start throwing the "what of fornicators or adulterers Or pedophiles or whatever" That line is old and not very logical. It's his life and not yours,he didn't wish to be gay. Let's all enjoy what little time we have on earth and mind our businesses. We should only be concerned if he starts indulging little boys. He's an adult and so are his homosexual partners so let them live their lives. Just advice him to play safe so he doesn't die because of his sexual orientation because being branded an open homosexual can be very depressing and stigmatizing in Nigeria. I personally wish there were more homosexuals than lesbians so we straight guys can have more girls to ourselves. grin grin

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Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by Eju2018(m): 5:21pm On Apr 02, 2018
Pray for him from a sincere heart. It's only God that can change him
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by sanpipita(m): 5:21pm On Apr 02, 2018
Who is this confused closet gay, shouldn't friendship be about mutual respect I doubt you respect this your friend, how can you say he is s cool guy but just to find his sexual orientation the issue, stop defining people with sexuality, I wish he can read this and stay far away from you.

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Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by SunTzu123(m): 5:21pm On Apr 02, 2018
nextstep:
Simple. Continue being his friend if you value his friendship, and stop trying to change him.

I don't know why but I agree with quoted post. acceptance (of who he has become) must come first before disagreement. and any attempt at changing him.
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by brainhgeek(m): 5:22pm On Apr 02, 2018
Prayers and hormone replacement therapy will help him
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by MissRaine69(f): 5:22pm On Apr 02, 2018
mikeycharles:
OK wtf happened to nairaland and where did all this "accepting" nature come from, with posts like this, there would have been an uproar by now.
It’s called minding your own business what does uproars solve?

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Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by Akalia(m): 5:23pm On Apr 02, 2018
IjeleNwa:
I have a gay friend,we have been friend for 5years and and I have never summoned courage to tell him to stop being gay.

He engages on the act with his fellow gay fellows on the line but yet we are cool close friends.

I never liked the act but can't talk him out

I need opinions on how to go about this.



is his name oliver Jean? Maybe I am a friend to that your gay friend.
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by victorazyvictor(m): 5:23pm On Apr 02, 2018
dollyjoy:
That is who he is. Leave him be.
Why are most girls supporting gaysm? I've seen a lot.
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by Nobody: 5:25pm On Apr 02, 2018
U not gay and u making close friend with a gay dude.not until dat guy rape u ur eye won't clear.
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by talk2percy(m): 5:25pm On Apr 02, 2018
Just let him be....let them all go gay so that girls will be for us mehn!!!
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by babadee1(m): 5:26pm On Apr 02, 2018
IjeleNwa:
I have a gay friend,we have been friend for 5years and and I have never summoned courage to tell him to stop being gay.

He engages on the act with his fellow gay fellows on the line but yet we are cool close friends.

I never liked the act but can't talk him out

I need opinions on how to go about this.



What makes you think he can just stop even if he wants to?
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by Nobody: 5:27pm On Apr 02, 2018
Shroud:


Being gay is a mental illness. You cannot ask him to stop. He needs radical therapy.

And remember, gays often have anger issues and societal maladjustment due to their mutated DNA and societal defiance.

Keep kwayet.

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Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by mikeycharles(m): 5:27pm On Apr 02, 2018
MissRaine69:

It’s called minding your own business what does uproars solve?
Hey, behave! I was just making an observation, no need to get your Tommy Hilfiger in a twist.

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Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by Nobody: 5:27pm On Apr 02, 2018
Centino:
Ijele my man! See, it's possible grin
oya tell me
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by udwise123: 5:27pm On Apr 02, 2018
arrange better pussy give am to f**k grin grin
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by Doctormarrvin: 5:29pm On Apr 02, 2018
MissRaine69:

He is gay
There is no treatment for somthing that’s not a disease/infliction neither is it a mental illness.
You can't say that with perfect certainty and confidence because you've not personally engaged in experiments to know that. I'm not saying being gay is a mental illness or whatever. I'm just saying we only believe what we're being told because we can't or may never know for sure what's true and what's not. Hope I don't seem confrontational because I'm not.
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by Shroud: 5:30pm On Apr 02, 2018
MissRaine69:

He is gay
There is no treatment for somthing that’s not a disease/infliction neither is it a mental illness.

Don't be a victim of 'groupthink"

Homosexuality has recorded treatment success through psychotherapy especially amongst males.

Thanks to liberal media who presents this mental illness as just another way of life, gays seldom ever seek treatment.

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