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Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by Nobody: 12:04pm On Apr 03, 2018
It's so hot in here cheesy
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by Shroud: 12:07pm On Apr 03, 2018
J2381:
LOL. Talk about being sodomized with a stick. LMAO!

I still can't understand why this gays folks can't keep their sexual orientation to themselves. Heck, weed smokers don't go about screaming for acceptance, even though they've not tolerated in the society. Gay folks should take a cue from them.

Been nursing a hangover since morning. Almost drank myself to stupor from Sunday to Monday. Found it hard getting outta bed today. grin

Being cutting on beer and going Magic Moment. Just love it's brand of enveloping high grin

Gay and feminists are twin vices in arms. Their goal is to replace one custom with a barbaric one.

To change human civilization and put a hole in the fabric of humanity.

That's why people like Obi1kenobi should be donated to primatology or autism as a gift to mankind.
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by chineduemmao: 12:09pm On Apr 03, 2018
Obi1kenobi:


Use the internet available to you before you come here to exhibit your ignorance.
the way the internet made u so intelligent... show me a proof of that shit u wrote
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by Draei: 12:10pm On Apr 03, 2018
mondee02:


talking about dumb you are the dumbest thing on this earth,
no.1 me not reasoning as foolishly and ignorantly as the illiterate you are and would forever be doesn't make me a gay.
no.2 if you say I'm Gay then you need to seriously ask your Dad if he's not my partner and he'll tell you he is, we've been fucking all along. you Bastard.
I thought this Imbecilíc raccoon said he is done exchanging words with me? What happened, my reply struck your cancerous bones i bet..lol

Now you are denying being gay when it's written all over your miserable unproductive life you unfortunate fish-brained dingbat. I don't need to enter parental disses before I drag you back into the mud where you belong.

If your progenitors were like you, you wouldn't have been here, spewing gibberish like a loose lunatic. Daft irredeemable psychopathic cow. #spits. grin
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by Obi1kenobi(m): 12:14pm On Apr 03, 2018
Shroud:
change what post? What kind of accusation is this.

You better check the quality of sperm you bank in your anus. They are starting to render you an amnesic analphabetic, podgy idiot.


Not just a witless clod, but a lying cretin as well. You think I didn't observe your initial post on that mention?

Shroud:
You really must like it rough, pouf. I thought you will be smitten by the sheer horror of severing your anus with a dry stick.


But here you are cooing like a contented pigeon at the thought of me stick-fúcking you.

Now I feel like placing your teeth on the curb and stepping on the back of your head.

I know some of thw most virulent homophobes are homos fighting their repressed urges. grin We don't need to hear your sadistic sexual desires, sunshine.

Shroud:
Obi1kenobi, you're registered 2010 when Nairaland wasn't as deadly. You cannot match me pound for pound, wit for wit and improvisation.

I will leave you broken as if you were attacked by a lynch mob.

Next time, you will think twice before jumping into people's mentions.

Frustrated cúnt.

More chest beating stewpidity. I'm quaking in my boots at what an anonymous, witless keyboard warrior would have done to me. I'm soooo shaken and scared. grin
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by Obi1kenobi(m): 12:17pm On Apr 03, 2018
chineduemmao:
the way the internet made u so intelligent... show me a proof of that shit u wrote

Use the internet available to you before you come here to exhibit your ignorance.
Google is your friend. Use it.
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by J2381: 12:18pm On Apr 03, 2018
Shroud:


Being cutting on beer and going Magic Moment. Just love it's brand of enveloping high grin

Gay and feminists are twin vices in arms. Their goal is to replace one custom with a barbaric one.

To change human civilization and put a hole in the fabric of humanity.

That's why people like Obi1kenobi should be donated to primatology or autism as a gift to mankind.
LMAO! People like him litter cyBerspace with their overused anus. One could even help wonder why they can't still smell their own sh1t even after their anus is as wide as the mouth of a blue whale.

Magic Moment... when did you switch to Vodka? Don't tell me Vladimir Putin got you on a leash? LOL.

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Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by UDUJ(m): 12:19pm On Apr 03, 2018
IjeleNwa:
I have a gay friend,we have been friend for 5years and and I have never summoned courage to tell him to stop being gay.

He engages on the act with his fellow gay fellows on the line but yet we are cool close friends.

I never liked the act but can't talk him out

I need opinions on how to go about this.




My answer might look vague, so digest it slower:

Our (human) personality is not fixed. We were not born with our current personality. We have consciously or unconsciously made this personality during our lifetime. We can reshape it anytime we want.

I don’t think there is anyone out there born gay or born straight. We are just like a raw material. Whatever we want this raw material to turn into, we can do that.

Within each and everyone of us are two types of energy (good, bad/evil whatever you want to call them) within you. Everyone (men or women) has these energies in equal amount.

Initially when we are born both these energies are passive.
How much and what traits of these energies are active in you, defines your current personality
People around you, situations you face, discipline you have in your life, amount of laziness you have all activates certain traits of these two energies.

Qualities like leadership, courage, strength, taking responsibilities, will power defines your activated masculine energy.
Emotions, being calm under pressure, cheerfulness defines the activated feminine part of you.

Personalities are made, either consciously by you or unconsciously by your surroundings. You are not born with this personality.
Most people try to find out their personalities, whether they are straight or gay, smart or dumb. These are those people who are not conscious enough and let their surroundings shape their personalities.

Tell your friend to decide what he wants to do with his life, what is the definition of success for him at emotional, mental, physical, financial and spiritual level, how he wants to contribute back to the universe, whether he wants to or not. Let him build his personality according to that. Tell him to consciously pick the people he wants to share his moments with.

He needs to move from a Fixed Mindset to a Growth Mindset

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Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by Nobody: 12:20pm On Apr 03, 2018
This thread is long gone but I just feel the need to write how I feel.

I read lots of the ignorance on the thread and also sense lots of bi-curious people with gay tendencies trying to sound hypocrite while the rest just stay liberal.

Gay/Straight/Transgendered, Whatever you engage in should be respected regardless of gender, race, religion, ethnicity or status. If you have a different opinion to this then you just need to EVOLVE.

I for one is an Atheist for a start which means I don't identify with any religion/Belief system.
I also rid myself of inimical and primitive cultural practices as one who has evolve way pass petty thinking of yesteryears.

So i feel free from those chains Jean Jaque Rousseau talked about in his quote " Man is born free but everywhere still in chains." Having this feeling of internal freedom transcends hatred/dislike which you might have for people who are you don't agree with and not in same group as you hence the reason for gay/straight, Conservatives/Liberals, Atheists/Religious etc.

To that end, I consider my pansexual, Not identifying with one orientation but all, Straight,Gay, Tranny. Humanity is more of value than segregation of any form borne out of ignorance, Prejudice and Eugenics. Until you accept people for the sake of humanity peaceful coexistence, you are not refined educationally, Like Socrates puts it, The unexamined life is not worth living.

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Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by Shroud: 12:22pm On Apr 03, 2018
Obi1kenobi:


Not just a witless clod, but a lying cretin as well. You think I didn't observe your initial post on that mention?



I know some of thw most virulent homophobes are homos fighting their repressed urges. grin We don't need to hear your sadistic sexual desires, sunshine.



More chest beating stewpidity. I'm quaking in my boots at what an anonymous, witless keyboard warrior would have done to me. I'm soooo shaken and scared. grin

This losing loquacious homosexual inbred is putting words into my mouth.

Now show these nice people the post I changed.

And if you ever claim I'm a closest gay, I will have you realise I have the capabilities and desire to stand tested by nobody else than your mother.

Just two days and I will send back to your father as stretched and bent like a question mark(?)

I swear your father's dick will swim in her punny like fish pikin when e mama waka leave for ocean. Idiot.
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by Nobody: 12:25pm On Apr 03, 2018
UDUJ:


My answer might look vague, so digest it slower:

Our (human) personality is not fixed. We were not born with our current personality. We have consciously or unconsciously made this personality during our lifetime. We can reshape it anytime we want.

I don’t think there is anyone out there born gay or born straight. We are just like a raw material. Whatever we want this raw material to turn into, we can do that.


Simply put: His friend is the only one that can change himself smiley
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by Zaggie(m): 12:25pm On Apr 03, 2018
Go and Purge d war against Buhari first, then u can come back for your war
swiz123:
Unfortunately, your friend is among the damned.

One thing I hate about gays is their parasitic nature. They always seek for whom to convert into gayism.

Purge your beloved country of this parasite by handing him over to sars.

God bless you son

For those demoralized bastards telling the op to leave him be cos it's his nature, who told you that gayism comes natural to everyone. Some of them are normal people whose sexual orientation changed due to some situations. Some a victim of boarding school, some in prisons and some dubious ones are ritualists.

I have seen all, I have waylaid some.

Gayism should be outlawed and seriously frowned at by any moral conscious person.

Let's us join hands together and purge the world of these parasites
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by sanpipita(m): 12:28pm On Apr 03, 2018
aaronson:
This thread is long gone but I just feel the need to write how I feel.

I read lots of the ignorance on the thread and also sense lots of bi-curious people with gay tendencies trying to sound hypocrite while the rest just stay liberal.

Gay/Straight/Transgendered, Whatever you engage in should be respected regardless of gender, race, religion, ethnicity or status. If you have a different opinion to this then you just need to EVOLVE.

I for one is an Atheist for a start which means I don't identify with any religion/Belief system.
I also rid myself of inimical and primitive cultural practices as one who has evolve way pass petty thinking of yesteryears.

So i feel free from those chains Jean Jaque Rousseau talked about in his quote " Man is born free but everywhere still in chains." Having this feeling of internal freedom transcends hatred/dislike which you might have for people who are you don't agree with and not in same group as you hence the reason for gay/straight, Conservatives/Liberals, Atheists/Religious etc.

To that end, I consider my pansexual, Not identifying with one orientation but all, Straight,Gay, Tranny. Humanity is more of value than segregation of any form borne out of ignorance, Prejudice and Eugenics. Until you accept people for the sake of humanity peaceful coexistence, you are not refined educationally, Like Socrates puts it, The unexamined life is not worth living.

Lovely comment here, I couldn't resist not quoting, if only people ranting and venting on this thread since yesterday understand what humanity is they will find something better to talk about than discuss someone's sexuality.

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Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by Shroud: 12:29pm On Apr 03, 2018
J2381:
LMAO! People like him litter cyBerspace with their overused anus. One could even help wonder why they can't still smell their own sh1t even after their anus is as wide as the mouth of a blue whale.

Magic Moment... when did you switch to Vodka? Don't tell me Vladimir Putin got you on a leash? LOL.

Hahaha! Beer still my favourite swizzle bro. My system is just nullifying the booze effect these days. Maybe it's the anti malaria medication I was taking.
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by J2381: 12:32pm On Apr 03, 2018
Shroud:

Hahaha! Beer still my favourite swizzle bro. My system is just nullifying the booze effect these days. Maybe it's the anti malaria medication I was taking.
Aye.

Enjoy bro.
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by Shroud: 12:33pm On Apr 03, 2018
Obi1kenobi:


Use the internet available to you before you come here to exhibit your ignorance.
Google is your friend. Use it.
he ask for proof of what you write and profess. Now be the gay cúnt that you are and show him!

Don't bury your head in the sand everytime you are challenged.

Idiot.
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by Doctormarrvin: 12:35pm On Apr 03, 2018
Shroud:


Nothing will kill the west deader than thier hypocrisy of political correctness.

Gays still suffer abuse , discrimination and are hated in the West but the media and the need to feel intellectually liberated won't make them say things as they are.
exactly! I've always said their flawed sense of liberalism will be their downfall.

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Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by Nobody: 12:39pm On Apr 03, 2018
sanpipita:


Lovely comment here, I couldn't resist not quoting, if only people ranting and venting on this thread since yesterday understand what humanity is they will find something better to talk about than discuss someone's sexuality.
Thanks Bro, I actually saw the tread yesterday when it was just 2 comment page old, I had to bookmark the page to go through it today but reading through lots of filts today disgusts me, I can't but think why people can't see humanity far above the ingroup, outgroup thing. The human race still has a long way to go and alot of evolving to do.

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Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by Shroud: 12:50pm On Apr 03, 2018
J2381:
Aye.

Enjoy bro.
thanks bro. Will be taking the entire week off.
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by boyjo: 1:07pm On Apr 03, 2018
swiz123:
Unfortunately, your friend is among the damned.

One thing I hate about gays is their parasitic nature. They always seek for whom to convert into gayism.


It is a spirit that hypnotizes them and pollutes their soul.
A very filthy spirit that reeks and repulses.
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by mondee02(m): 1:08pm On Apr 03, 2018
Draei:

I thought this Imbecilíc raccoon said he is done exchanging words with me? What happened, my reply struck your cancerous bones i bet..lol

Now you are denying being gay when it's written all over your miserable unproductive life you unfortunate fish-brained dingbat. I don't need to enter parental disses before I drag you back into the mud where you belong.

If your progenitors were like you, you wouldn't have been here, spewing gibberish like a loose lunatic. Daft irredeemable psychopathic cow. #spits. grin

But have you asked your gay Dad yet?
Secondly I have no doubt you truly are a cow,
thirdly all those insults you layed I hope they are meant for your mom,dad,sisters and brothers, your mother's fucker you son of a fucking Bitch...
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by mondee02(m): 1:14pm On Apr 03, 2018
If your progenitors were like you, you wouldn't have been here, spewing gibberish like a loose lunatic. Daft irredeemable psychopathic cow. #spits. grin [/font][/color][/b][/quote]

But have you asked your gay Dad yet?
Secondly I have no doubt you truly are a cow,
thirdly all those insults you layed I hope they are meant for your mom,dad,sisters and brothers, your mother's fucker you son of a fucking Bitch...

If I truly am a gay I can't deny it because of a moronic idiot like you, and if I am I've told you that your dad is my lover then.
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by Draei: 1:30pm On Apr 03, 2018
mondee02:


But have you asked your gay Dad yet?
Secondly I have no doubt you truly are a cow,
thirdly all those insults you layed I hope they are meant for your mom,dad,sisters and brothers, your mother's fucker you son of a fucking Bitch...
Pained fàggot, keep mentioning your extended family filled with pigs and apes. You jumped on the wrong post so you're getting pummeled for your acute foolishness, next time you mind you fućking business, jobless Goat. grin
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by openmine(m): 1:30pm On Apr 03, 2018
Doctormarrvin:
i get you. They shouldn't be encouraged yeah? Nigeria is even tolerant. If you were to tell the "liberal" whites that homosexuality shouldn't be encouraged,you'd be getting death threats by now. Although discouragement still has a long way to go.

lol...like what some one said earlier...dere are some liberties that can become distorted and appear as stupidity...

as much as most of the innovations or thought process on earth emanated from the whites, they can't always be right about everything... and the rest of the world must not swallow all that the whites give us including permitting shameful acts!

True about discouragements but there is still no harm in emphasis!

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Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by Nobody: 2:00pm On Apr 03, 2018
Find out his relationship with his parents. Especially his dad. There's a type of therapy he can try out, lol. For real.
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by J2381: 2:45pm On Apr 03, 2018
Shroud:
thanks bro. Will be taking the entire week off.
Awesome.

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Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by mondee02(m): 7:14pm On Apr 03, 2018
Draei:

Pained fàggot, keep mentioning your extended family filled with pigs and apes. You jumped on the wrong post so you're getting pummeled for your acute foolishness, next time you mind you fućking business, jobless Goat. grin

I can't be pained by the insults you are laying on your father and mother, you bastard son of a bitching prostitute.
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by Draei: 7:23pm On Apr 03, 2018
mondee02:


I can't be pained by the insults you are laying on your father and mother, you bastard son of a bitching prostitute.
If you aren't pained like a miserable pillock, you would've stopped quoting since you claimed you're done exchanging words with your moronić father but here you are...

Welcome back for more torment, how do you like being served? Hot or cold? Choose one while i still got your time you, Unpleasant piglet.
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by mondee02(m): 7:34pm On Apr 03, 2018
Draei:

If you aren't pained like a miserable pillock, you would've stopped quoting since you claimed you're done exchanging words with your moronić father but here you are...

Welcome back for more torment, how do you like being served? Hot or cold? Choose one while i still got your time you, Unpleasant piglet.

Son of a prostitute born to a gay father
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by Draei: 7:41pm On Apr 03, 2018
mondee02:


Son of a prostitute born to a gay father
Proboscis monkey, getting tired so soon.? Foolish fool, just get the fučk outta my sight and sin no more. #Bye! grin
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by mondee02(m): 7:51pm On Apr 03, 2018
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Proboscis monkey, getting tired so soon.? Foolish fool, just get the fučk outta my sight and sin no more. #Bye! grin[/quoti

Have I been in your miserable sight before?
no! not me! it's your grand father you're seeing not me, I can never be tired mind you, I'll only ignore you because I've known who you are and continuing exchanging words with you makes me same as you, Bastard Sycophant.
Re: My Friend Is Gay, How Can I Tell Him To Stop? by MrReeseG(m): 9:19pm On Apr 03, 2018
Na wa o... Here have turn to place where everybody is showing off their vocabulary... It's okay sha... I'll just keep watching

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