Based on what I know now, advice I will give to any young man; never waste your time on any woman wey no send you in the name of likeness for her or claiming you love her Rather devote your time to the woman that sends you, has time for you and likes you.

Talking from experience. That one that likes you very much will be happy with you and make your life worthwhile. She will give you peace and a lovely home because that's purpose of relationship; marriage.

Many men have lost wonderful women all in the name of crushing on another woman wey no send them. Focus on the woman that sends you very well, find ways to make her happy, you will thank me later.

hmmm

pansophist:


Of course, and the reason is simple.

Women wants security, protection and a provider. In the olden days, the warriors, strong hunters etc gets the best girls. It was a right of passage for men at those times. Right now, things have changed. A rich man will easily buy all of the above, and given the hypergamous nature of the female, such men are attractive in her eyes regardless of how he looks. To be able to fulfill a woman infinite material desires is something most men can’t meet hence, it’s difficult to ignore a rich unattractive man. There is no such thing as an unattractive rich man.

Furthermore, the reason why you’re attracted to women with curves is because attraction for men is based on youthfulness and fertility. A curvaceous woman are biological clue for fertility and youthful woman gives clue that she can conceive healthy children. That’s also a reason why people consider a woman above 30 a cargo.

So there you are, you’re obviously expressing your evolutionary hardwiring

Women want protection from what and by who?

Optmus:


I have hoped that NL will add a 'Downvote' button for useless comments such as the one on quote above.

Please click like if you think the above comment is trash.

Out of 2,038,856 members only 3 people and you think the post is a trash

Please check your brain, is it still dia?

mimimile93:


Of course a lady will help me eat it.

But before she does that, I'll send her 6ft first.


I can't sweat for a leech..

My nigga!

It just feels like you're talking to me right now. I've been depressed for days cos of this. But las las I go dey alright,

I got rejected from a lady more than 2 times. Although we’ve been a very good friends to each other and our friendship is more than 2 years now.. she will still tell me no whenever I come up with same thing.

Tho I used to send her money because she’s not financially stable. I doesn’t send her money to attract her but just using that to helping her. I had the inclination to woo her before so I wasn’t trying to gain her attention by sending her money..

The moment I told her my mind, she was like “Dude, why are you just telling me this now and why haven’t you express yourself since” she would still tell me “NO”.

Toks2008

It's surprising that you know this. So next time when creating one of your other numerous threads on "top 10 ways ladies can keep their men", do know that a man that doesn't want to be kept can never be kept.

You're very correct.

Toks2008:


Nevertheless a lady whose preference is wealth will rather be with an ugly fat short guy with enough money to give her than be with a super drop dead gorgeous broke guy...nah still preference...

For me I find it weired that I don't care if a lady is pretty or not...just have that curve I want and im all yours even if your face is very ugly...that is a preference so you can imagine how a very pretty lady with pako body will feel if I reject her...

I thought you people said women were thrash and y'all were getting sex dolls?
Why are you now depressed over a woman?

chiraqDemon:
It just feels like you're talking to me right now. I've been depressed for days cos of this. But las las I go dey alright,

It seems so simple to me:

Then forget whom you want!

Period

But.. OP. What can we do to salvage tHIS SITUATION

joyberry:
Nice write up,i just hope some vain,insecure people will adhere to it.You see some guys or ladies go beserk ,whenever someone turns them down bases on their preference ,forgetting we all have individual preferences and wants.

I beg help me tell them my sister, some people take this things as do or die affairs, in life you win some and loss some. it is not everyone that will like you, likewise there are so many out there who are searching for someone like you, it is vise versa

DonPiiko:
Toks2008 please I will borrow your first and second paragraph for twitter.

Without the 3rd, it doesn't make much sense

Sewgon79:


I beg help me tell them my sister, some people take this things as do or die affairs, in life you win some and loss some. it is not everyone that will like you, likewise there are so many out there who are searching for someone like you, it is vise versa

but your love and happiness is not guaranteed going into a relationship with the person that likes you

Amberon11:
Toks2008

It's surprising that you know this. So next time when creating one of your other numerous threads on "top 10 ways ladies can keep their men", do know that a man that doesn't want to be kept can never be kept.

I don't create such threads...i'm more into realistic contents.

lawrykings:


but your love and happiness is not guaranteed going into a relationship with the person that likes you

Neither is it guaranteed by going into a relationship with who does not like you...

I guess it is a harsh reality we have to deal with...We just have to hope to desire someone that will have a level of desire for us too and you just have to keep up trying to find such.

Toks2008:


Neither is it guaranteed by going into a relationship with who does not like you...

I guess it is a harsh reality we have to deal with...We just have to hope to desire someone that will have a level of desire for us too and you just have to keep up trying to find such.

that's a fúcking hard truth

djon78:

Based on what I know now, advice I will give to any young man; never waste your time on any woman wey no send you in the name of likeness for her or claiming you love her Rather devote your time to the woman that sends you, has time for you and likes you.

Talking from experience. That one that likes you very much will be happy with you and make your life worthwhile. She will give you peace and a lovely home because that's purpose of relationship; marriage.

Many men have lost wonderful women all in the name of crushing on another woman wey no send them. Focus on the woman that sends you very well, find ways to make her happy, you will thank me later.

what about if the woman that is crushing on you does not have what you want in your kind of woman

Toks2008:


Oversabi...I T K...olodo

hmmm

moststylish:
what about if the woman that is crushing on you does not have what you want in your kind of woman

Exactly...Dats woh m thinking too..

Pls help guys n girls, i dont know what to do. There's this my female colleague at work. I like her so much. I think she likes me too. She touches me, play with me, starts conversations wit me most tym, tell me things about herself, stares and hold her gaze at me. Smiles at me. We've kissed and hug before. Then i told her how i feel. That i like her and wana date her. She didnt say anything. Then i kissed her. But then again she told me she has a bf and she hates me. But each time i decide to stay away from her she will started coming to me. She wil want to talk to me. She even calls me to keep her company. Am confused. What can i do?

Toks2008:
There is nothing as painful and as embarrassing as rejection especially from someone you strongly desire...some find it difficult to cope with rejection and they tend to see themselves as inferior to whoever rejects them....some will start asking themselves questions like "was it my behaviour?,or what i said..could it be because I'm not fluent or the way I dress...but it has nothing to do with all these....that person may still reject you even at your best.

But as painful as it may appear I believe this is perfectly normal and should not be a reason for anyone to feel bad or insecure in anyway.

The truth of the matter is that everyone out there has a preference and this does not mean you are less better than who they want.

Some ladies can't stand a short guy,And some don't mind at all...some ladies love dark guys and some can do anything to be with a fair complexioned guy...some ladies only date men with very wide age gap while some can't date any guy beyond their age group.ladies just love crazy things about guys like beards,bow leg,pink lips,six pack,stammering,shyness,financial stability and so on and if you don't fit in there is absolutely nothing you can do than to try your luck somewhere else rather than making it a do or die thing.

As a lady,You are beautiful in your own unique way but that guy you so much desire might not even bother his head about you just because you are not what he wants...

Some guys love booty while some love tits...some love them big while some can die for a petite lady...some don't mind single mums while some guys can't date such....and the list goes on...

The epitome of this write up is to let you know that no matter how you look,no matter your condition or situation,you are not just going to be what some people want and at the same time,you are exactly what some people out there are praying and hoping for and the fact that you are rejected by someone does not mean thousands out there don't want someone like you.

It's all about preference....

Hope this makes sense.

Spot on...

Elder001:


Women want protection from what and by who?

From men, by men.

pansophist:


From men, by men.

are you kidding?

Protection from men and by men?

Any full grown ass woman who is expecting another human to protect her is a disgrace to humanity.

And what do you mean by “protection from men”?

Toks2008:


Oversabi...I T K...olodo

na wao u dey use oga pix dey form meme.u no fear.

Mumin247:
Pls help guys n girls, i dont know what
to do. There's this my female
colleague at work. I like her so much.
I think she likes me too. She touches
me, play with me, starts
conversations wit me most tym, tell me things about herself, stares and
hold her gaze at me. Smiles at me.
We've kissed and hug before. Then i
told her how i feel. That i like her and
wana date her. She didnt say
anything. Then i kissed her. But then again she told me she has a bf and
she hates me. But each time i decide
to stay away from her she will started
coming to me. She wil want to talk to
me. She even calls me to keep her
company. Am confused. What can i do?

she dont know wat she wants.she must be under 18.

lefulefu:
na wao u dey use oga pix dey form meme.u no fear.

Seun nah my boy in davido's voice

The person is just not meant for you

Elder001:


are you kidding?

Protection from men and by men?

Any full grown ass woman who is expecting another human to protect her is a disgrace to humanity.

And what do you mean by “protection from men”?

Your narrative is out of touch with reality and divorced from the dynamics of gender relationships.

Women instinctively seeking out protective qualities in the male is as a result of evolutionary predisposition, hence, the typical requirement of women predilecting taller males to shorter ones. Women on average have less body mass, muscles, heights, and strength in comparison to the male, and it is of nature's doing for men to compliment hence, the protective body features men intrinsically possess.

Not just humans share this trait, but other species do as well. The male, as a gender is a protective one, which physical dominance can serve as a deterrence to ward off oppositions.