ADVICE NEEDED please.
It happened on last year.i came to abuja from enugu to learn buisness from my uncle who is a tyre dealer.Our initial plan was to stay with my brother at his house with his wife and two kids.when i came,i was offered the visitors room.everything was moving fine except my observations on his wife's excessive chats and calls when uncle is not arround.i was suspecting her of cheating on my uncle but i didnt have a concrete evidence.my uncle is a very busy man,not too educated,rich.Wifey is a house wife,always at home chatting or watching movies(very lazy)nothing lacks at home.whenever big bro is arround, she conducts herself so well like virgin mary,but immediately he steps out,she turns nicky minaj(my agemate and school mate back then,now talks to her school head boy anyhow)I decided oneday, to be on her matter because her cheating on my brother was so much.i started looking for a way to hack her phone for evidences(her phone is always on lock). one sunday,junior was playing winning eleven with her phone,i snatched it from him ,searched her facebook and whatsapp,lo and behold!!! I was right.i saw her nude pictures and love messages from 2 men which from their pictures, whould be above 50.then i saw an unsaved number too,opened the picture and saw our neighbore's sent kiss smileys. I was shocked.immediately,i took a screen shot and sent them to my own account.
After about one week of contemplating on wheather to spill the bean or not,i decided to.After an advice from a friend,i bought a new sim,opened whatsap with it and sent those nudies and screen shot chats to my uncle's whatsap number. I came back from church on sunday, and met uncle beating wifey.he stopped immediatelly i came in.tommorrow morning,they travelled to village where uncle dumped her.we later found out that uncle had once caught her snapping naked,after a short quarell,he forgave her and kept his cool.He also overheard her saying "i love you too" after a lenghty phone call.he still let it slide.and many other misbehaviours of hers that pains my brother.At village,wifey conffessed of cheating(landlord's son,pastor,and two other men). Her family begged for weeks but uncle said it is over.

My problem now is that whenever i travel to the village and see her hanging arround with these village touts,i feel disturbed.my mind always tells me that i did the wrong thing but i was just trying to save my uncle.adive me on what do please.i always feel like am the cause of her predicaments.

Pardon my poor grammer please.

If she is your taste, you can also chop and clean mouth.
Since she is cheerful giver

Look away simple

You did no wrong exposing a cheating wife or you don't know that a wife who cheats on her husband is very much capable 9f killing him........
Let your mind be at rest you aren't the cause of her ordeal BTW with her hanging out with in your words touts show how much of a remosful and respons9person she is

be ur Brodas keeper.
dat is wat d Bible teaches.
u did d rite thing n if u hav anoda chance similar to dis don't hesitate to do it again.
quite clever of u exposing her without saying a word to ur uncle otherwise maybe she 4 don com 4 ur a**.fear women .weldone

u did the ryt tin bro, even the bible support dat a cheating wife can be divorced(based on adultery) u saved ur big bro from lot of misfortunes.. kudos

Oga na when you don already cum you wan con dey find condom


deed's done already, whether right or wrong, shiit already went down........


According to you, 1year have passed and obviously, the bitch has moved on (with her kind the village touts), so i think you should too




but op how do you sleep at night knowing you made your nephews/nieces indirectly motherless...............how could you have been so inconsederate and insensitive

who knows the level of hurt your uncle and his kids prolly felt................................you know the home wrecker title will forever be pasted on your forehead right?











































































































abeg na joke i dey o before you go commit suicide out of guilt

You are not responsible in anyway.
If anything – you did well by protecting your brother from the unmentionable deadly STDs. Nice. It was only a matter of time anyway. She got what she deserve.

youngest85:
If she is your taste, you can also chop and clean mouth.
Since she is cheerful giver

Guy,i aint that sex starved

samysmoothfresh:
Oga na when you don already cum you wan con dey find condom


deed's done already, whether right or wrong, shiit already went down........


According to you, 1year have passed and obviously, the bitch has moved on (with her kind the village touts), so i think you should too




but op how do you sleep at night knowing you made your nephews/nieces indirectly motherless...............how could you have been so inconsederate and insensitive

who knows the level of hurt your uncle and his kids prolly felt................................you know the home wrecker title will forever be pasted on your forehead right?











































































































abeg na joke i dey o before you go commit suicide out of guilt

He remarried.they are happy.the girl no even send.

MichaelBukamzy:


[b]He remarried.[/b]they are happy.the girl no even send.

na so

your brother is wise................no time to cry over an olosho or accept her back

You did the right thing man. You deserve an accolade

You've done well OP

It was a happy ending after all

You deserve an award.

Everyone's saying you did the right thing", but I'm offpoint I don't like taking same train with everyone... life will be filled with Bordon if we all reason alike.

Dude! you did the wrong thing, you came in in less than a year and wreck a union that has been on before the birth of "Junior". you should have mind your business, your brother knows the kinda woman he married, but you came in and played the "Nice Guy" card and flipped everything outside down. put yourself in little junior shoes, if I happen to be little junior and found out you fücked up a once peaceful family and separate me from my mom... I'll pay your kids back in folds by ruining your marriage in the future.

yeah, that's the train I'm taking

even by ur uncle has remarried and moved on...oga that one don go jhoor

U should have faced ur own business. Sometimes doing aproko for another person marriage can backfire. Well all d best as ur uncle has chased his olosho wife away.

youngest85:
If she is your taste, you can also chop and clean mouth.
Since she is cheerful giver

haba ur own brother wife? Dat one na abormination bros

You followed THE BRO CODE I send you props man, you handled it well

" It’s your responsibility to tell your bro if ever you find out that his girl is cheating on him. Sometimes a guy can do everything in power to prevent cheating in his relationship; but despite his efforts, things don’t work out, or the underlying problems are too deep, and his girl ends up stepping out.

So, if you find yourself in possession of such delicate information, handle the situation carefully. But do be sure to handle it. Similarly, if your friend is deciding to get serious with a girl:

It’s your responsibility to give your honest opinion about her. That’s not to say that you need to trash her if you don’t approve, but do tell him if you don’t think they are a good fit for X reasons. But if you think she’s a keeper, tell him that as well!

The bro code is all about honesty and loyalty among men."

And how are you sure junior is your brothers son?

Uyi168:
And how are you sure junior is your brothers son?

Sense wii not kee you

@Op u did a noble thing. Never feel guilty about ever! Would you have preferred your uncle having one mysterious illness? Or having him killed by his wife? Aultery is killing your partner slowly while enjoying the act.

Offpoint:
Everyone's saying you did the right thing", but I'm offpoint I don't like taking same train with everyone... life will be filled with Bordon if we all reason alike.

Dude! you did the wrong thing, you came in in less than a year and wreck a union that has been on before the birth of "Junior". you should have mind your business, your brother knows the kinda woman he married, but you came in and played the "Nice Guy" card and flipped everything outside down. put yourself in little junior shoes, if I happen to be little junior and found out you fücked up a once peaceful family and separate me from my mom... I'll pay your kids back in folds by ruining your marriage in the future.

yeah, that's the train I'm taking

I rather wreck the fuckn marriage that let my bro,get killed by an adulterous wife

MichaelBukamzy:



I rather wreck the fuckn marriage that let my bro,get killed by an adulterous wife

If that is your reply, then this thread wasn't necessary.

You did the right thing. I am proud of you.

To hell with these hoes posing as wives