Regret is simply something you wish you knew earlier in life. Tallulah Bankhead said: “If I had my life to live over again, I’d make the same mistakes, only sooner.”The main difference between successful people and others is that successful people get to know very early in life what others know later.

1.Greatest Hindrance To Success Is Not Failure, But Previous Success

Our previous success can hinder us from moving to the next level when we become so full of them. Don’t build your future on your previous successes; rather, let them give you more impetus to be more successful.

2.Education Without Discovery Of Your Gift Won’t Take You Far In Life

Your education is not your secret to wealth and fulfilment; the discovery of your gift is. The core purpose of the education should be discovering one’s gift as early as possible.


Any education that does not teach us to discover, nurture and develop our gifting and uniqueness is a waste. There is no man that is as poor and miserable as the one that carries all his gifts, talents and potentials to the grave. Real wealth is discovering your gifts and talents and making the world a better place through it.

3.Rejection Is Often Redirection

Sometimes, the greatest thing that will ever happen to some of us is rejection. The reason has been that most times, rejection is simply redirection. When people continually reject you, it is because God is redirecting you. One of the core secrets of great people is in their ability to handle and overcome rejection without harbouring any form of bitterness. Don’t ever give in to people’s rejection; rather, ask God to redirect you to your place of destiny fulfilment.

Alexander Graham Bell said: “When one door closes, another opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us.God sometimes allow men to reject us so that we don’t settle for less than what he has for us, because those that settle for less don’t get the best out of life. Whether in relationships or career, we must have a healthy approach to rejection, which is to see it as redirection.

4.Your Words Matter

John C. Maxwell said: “A word of encouragement from a teacher to a child can change a life. A word of encouragement from a spouse can save a marriage. A word of encouragement from a leader can inspire a person to reach his/her potential.”It is not what you are going through that defines you, but what you say in what you are going through. If God cannot change your word, he cannot change your life. What you are going through is temporal, but what you say in what you are going through is permanent. Be wise with words. Be mindful of your words. No matter what any prophet says about you, you always have the final say.

5.Your Value Does Not Decrease Based On Someone’s Inability To See Your Worth

I have often said that when you learn how much you are worth, you will stop giving people discounts. Tim Fargo: “If you want to improve your self-worth, stop giving other people the calculator.” We must believe totally that we carry within us a special form of “currency” that cannot be devalued. In order to maintain a healthy self-image, there are three things that must be vehemently resisted in life: “Don’t ever look down on yourself,” “Don’t ever allow anyone to look down on you” and “Don’t ever look down on anyone.”Nobody, I repeat, nobody, can make you inferior without your own consent. An internal security will always produce an outward stability.

6.Be Yourself, Everyone Else Is Already Taken

Myles Munroe said: “Most people don’t know who they are, so they die as someone else.” The privilege of a lifetime is being who you are. Until you live a life that is truly yours, you have not lived.Many people live a larger part of their life wanting to be someone else. For all the time you work hard to being someone else, they are wasted years.

7.Stop Asking For Permission

If you live on people’s acceptance, you will die from their rejection. Madonna Ciccone said: “Poor is the man whose pleasures depend on the permission of another.”I have observed that the greatest hindrance to living a fulfilling life is being ‘stuck’ on other people’s opinion and permission. There are two things that we can perpetually live on: ‘Permission’ or ‘Conviction.’ Great people live on the latter, while the former is meant for lesser souls. Live on conviction and stop asking for permission. Make no apologies for following your heart; a man on a mission needs no permission.

8.Making Mistakes Is An Integral Part Of Success

Tony Robbins said: “No matter how many mistakes you make, you’re still way ahead of everyone who isn’t trying.” In life, the fellow who never makes a mistake takes his order from the one who does. Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new. When we were in school, the smartest people were always those that didn’t make mistakes in class. I am sure you remember them; they always get the good grades and sometimes even 100 per cent. As time went on, you suddenly realised that the real smart people were actually those that made enough mistakes and learned from them. Mistakes are integral parts of the learning process. Any learning process that does not accommodate making mistakes will always short-circuit learners’ capacity for innovation. Abraham Lincoln said: “The man who is incapable of making mistakes is incapable of anything.”

9.The World Owes You Nothing

[/b]The worst form of mentality to carry around is ‘entitlement mentality.’ Next to it is ‘victim’s mentality.’ All you will ever get from life are the things you demand from it. No one will give you what you deserve; you are the only one that can create the life that you want. The worst thing that can happen to you as a young person is to refuse to grow up. You refuse to grow up when you believe that someone else must take responsibility for your life and life circumstances. John Wooden said: “You can make mistakes, but you aren’t a failure until you start blaming others for those mistakes.”

[b]10.Failure Is Feedback

The only thing worse than failure is our wrong approach to it. Our approach to failure will determine how long we stay in it. The acclaimed father of modern automobile, Henry Ford, forgot to put a reverse gear in his first car. It was a massive error for a car that was much awaited by many. When Ford was asked to say something about his global blunder, he ended up redefining the erroneous interpretation of failure. He said: “Failure is simply an opportunity to begin again, this time more intelligently.”Many people fail continuously simply because they do not learn from the previous failure. Nelson Mandela said: “I never lose; I either win or learn.”Don’t see failure as setback; see failure as feedback.


11.There Is Nothing That Is Ready-Made

There is nothing that is ready-made; all you need has been given, the challenge is just that they might not be in the form that you need it. The reason why there is scarcity in your life is not because you don’t have what you need; it is simply because what you need is in a form that you are too lazy to work upon. The liberating truth against scarcity is to believe that you already have what you need, but not necessarily in the form that you needed it. You need to work on what you have presently to get what you need out of life. Nobody gets the best out of life automatically; the best comes as we work on the good that we have presently.

Truth is, no relationship is perfect. We can, however, make our relationship more fulfilling and exciting. A good relationship requires effort, hardwork and dedication from both partners. The wife or husband that you want does not exist; you may need to work on the lady or man in your life presently to get what you want.

12.Value Family And Relationships More Than Money

Family is everything; you must never sacrifice family for business. Those that succeed at home will eventually employ those that struggle at home. Walt Disney said: “A man should never neglect his family for business.”I have come a long way in life to realise that the only resources that is inexhaustible in life is relationship. This doesn’t suggest that we shouldn’t make money, but rather, we must not prioritise it above relationship.

https://www.akelicious.net/2018/09/12-things-you-will-always-wish-you-knew.html

This is the type of article I want on the front page today not news about the electioneering rape in Osun State.

God punish APC, God punish Buhari, God punish IGP and God punish everyone that would quote me wrongly.



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A good reason to visit Nairaland once again. Thank you Sophia for this wonderful piece. Good job.

Great.

Sadly no body told me when I was young that Buhari will inflict so much pain on Nigerians....at least I would have still voted for Jonathan.

I always wish i knew idiotic buhari will be this lifeless.

Family is everything; you must never sacrifice family for business. Those that succeed at home will eventually employ those that struggle at home. 

Family is TRULY everything.


We woke up with this beautiful lyrics this morning...
Lord I give you my life,
I give you my soul,
I live for you alone...........
sing till fade........

blahc007:

I asked for a song that will be in my heart, u just reminded me of dis... God bless u bro/sis

God bless you too my brother.
Have a blessed weekend ahead.
Stay blessed.

Anigreat:


I always wish i knew idiotic buhari will be this lifeless.

JudasNaCarrot:
Great.

Sadly no body told me when I was young that Buhari will inflict so much pain on Nigerians....at least I would have still voted for Jonathan.

They will never have any meaningful thing to contribute or learn from from a good thread like this, that can change their lives for the better, but always so fast to bring their lifeless comment.
These are the people that have turned this great forum to a beer parlour gist center.
Too much pains.
Too much failures.

MajorJeffery:
A good reason to visit Nairaland once again. Thank you Sophia for this wonderful piece. Good job.

You can say that again man.
What a great thread!

post=71621732:


They will never have any meaningful thing to contribute on a good thread like this, but always so fast to bring their lifeless comment.
These are the people that have turned this great forum to a beer parlour gist center.
Too much pains.
Too much failures.

Who's this suya boy sef?

Your stupidity stinks man.

..............brb...........
We rather chose to ignore gutter language.
We are too suave for that!

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Myles Munroe said: “Most people don’t know who they are, so they die as someone else.” The privilege of a lifetime is being who you are. Until you live a life that is truly yours, you have not lived

Another good point by the OP!
Beautifully written!

How i wish i knew this early in life.
Very good topic.

JudasNaCarrot:
Who's this suya boy sef?

Your stupidity stinks man.

Bro, don't stoop so low to answer a common bbq griller, show him that you're not a zombie like him, by ignoring him.

You see the way this little boy that scored 120 in JAMB some months also is talking to his future lecturer's colleague (praying he passed his 3rd try in the exam)?!
That's is what they have turned Nairaland to!

Anigreat:


Bro, don't stoop so low to answer a common bbq griller, show him that you're not a zombie like him, by ignoring him.

post=71621794:
You see the way this little boy that scored 120 in JAMB some months also is talking to his future lecturer's colleague (praying he passed his 3rd try in the exam)?!
That's is what they have turned Nairaland to!

Lol... Not everyone is a looser like you, instead of thinking of how to revive your dead bbq business be running from one thread to another on nairaland to drop useless and meaningless comments. Shame on you.

Our previous success can hinder us from moving to the next level when we become so full of them. Don’t build your future on your previous successes; rather, let them give you more impetus to be more successful.

This is a very good point by the OP.
Very beautiful thread.

Anigreat:





Bro, don't stoop so low to answer a common bbq griller, show him that you're not a zombie like him, by ignoring him.

Good talk brother....thanks.

True

A lot I wish I knew when I was still smaller

Some people have no contribution here.
Political thugs they are.

Well written...no better truth spoken than this..
Thanks Op

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Ekpekus:
Well written...no better truth spoken than this..
Thanks Op

Yes man.... Truer words have never been spoken.

Epic!

Rejection is what many people fear most therefore they avoid many things.Good write-up.

Op, so you went to LinkedIn and copied some of Brigette's post?

Nice writeup though

very good piece

post=71621728:
Family is everything; you must never sacrifice family for business. Those that succeed at home will eventually employ those that struggle at home. 

Family is TRULY everything.


We woke up with this beautiful lyrics this morning...

Lord I give you my life,
I give you my soul,
I live for you alone...........
sing till fade........

So why blame Mr. P (Peter Okoye) who chose his family (Lola and kids) over business?

Educative

lonelydora:



So why blame Mr. P (Peter Okoye) who chose his family (Lola and kids) over business?

Who is that for?!
Where is that from?!
Who is blaming who for his family ?!
Where?
When?

nice write up, I so much love the last lines put your family first before business.
keep it up.

Horlaboy51:
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post=71622273:

Who is that for?!
Where is that from?!
Who is blaming who for his family ?!
Where?
When?

You said family is everything nah

Good write up. So many are destined to fail because they devote their time and energy in politics fighting one politician or the other instead of channeling that energy into something meaningful.