Daboomb:


Please dont insult the woman, you guys of today are just too myopic to accept reality!
You dont have to DO ANYTHING ILLEGAL OR CRIMINAL, to make your wife comfortable.

It is simple:
- Get a GOOD Education and come out with a good grade
- Train and Develop yurself with SKILLS that are in Demand, marketable Skills
- Dont be lazy, dont do drugs, dont indulge in things that would reduce your worth and market value and dont do anything ILLEGAL or UNLAWFUL
- Leave time in you rlife to communicate with God or whatever you belive in.
-Develop Standard morals and values about life

I swear, if you do these five simple things during your Youthful years are you are not comfortable by 30yrs, confront me and l would set you up in business, with enough capital that would make you rich enough to throw back my Capital in my face, in less than seven years from the day l gave it to you.

Comfortable Life is not Magic, it is a painstaking process of step-by-step, coupled with dilligence, which most young people dont have.
Anyone who can HONESTLY say, with their hands on their heart, that they have done all the five things above and are still uncomfortable in life, need deliverance.
I will offer it.

As in eh
See the way they just misinterpreted the message
I know the economy is hard enough but most Nigerians wants to make money sharp sharp

It's like due to the country's hardship mostt people are already embracing the "average lifestyle "
And anybody that contradicts or counters it becomes an enemy

This generation women can’t stay with you if the money goes o! Especially when they weren’t there when you were still hustling.

yettymuse:
If in 2018 you do not understand that money is the OYEL that lubricates a relationship, you are either IRRESPONSIBLE or in a SITUATIONship!

if money if was the in toto in a marriage or relationship then wealthy ppl wont have been getting divorced nau. Only poor ppl would have been getting divorced. Money is important in a relationship true but so is loyalty,sincerity and love.

lexy2014:

D statement reads thus: "When u run out of cash, she falls out of love".

4a person to run out of something means d person had that thing b4. To run out of money means u had money b4. So d context isn't about those who don't have jobs. D statement is clearly saying if u run out of money, ur wife's love 4u will wane which isn't supposed 2b. Having Money shouldn't b a condition 4 winning or securing a woman's love b4 or during marriage.

Look carefully:

There should be no deceit in courtship.

The emphasis is on avoiding deceit

Don’t marry a wife on credit.

An instruction that one should live within ones means

Whatever you can afford is what you should do. Cut your coat according to your cloth (not your size).

Reiterating the previous instruction and clearly showing that the amount of money in possession is not the issue.

Get a job before marriage. When you fall out of cash she falls out of love.


Clearly the message is, do not lie or borrow money to create the appearance of a lifestyle you do not truly have the capacity to sustain otherwise when you run out of money, the woman who fell in love with you on the basis of your false pretenses will fall out of love with you.


Be objective.

foyeks2001:
Is Mummy justifying those married women cheating on their husbands? Like what if the man loses his source of income?
So women are permitted to fall out of love?

Hmmmmmmm I guess buhari was right with his lazy youth comment. The woman said get a job before you marry not become a millionaire before you marry. Even billionaires have moments when they are financially not OK so equating the statement to asking women not to faithful in times of want is totally baseless. Many girls will pester a guy into marriage and even make him feel like it doesn't matter if he isn't working. But as soon as they become Mrs, the story changes and they start bashing him as to how he can't even provide.

Daboomb:


Give three Gbossas to that Woman, for being able to call a spade, a spade! Everything she said is bang-on, though it might not be palatable to our ears

Look, we need to face REALITY.

Not just Nigerian women (other women to varying degrees though the Nigerian woman has taken it to unprecedented heights due to their greed) but ALL WOMEN are controlled by MONEY and the Material things Money can buy.

There is a reason, God did not create Woman, immediately he created man because he could have created both of them at once.
HE knew that the Man has to "acquire wealth" so to say, otherwise the Woman will just stray-away if he has nothing to show her as his wealth.
When Eve was finally created, EVERYTHING WAS SET, garden was like today's Mansion, Food was plenty, all animals were named and all WORK was ALREADY DONE, the Woman just "packed-in" to enjoy everything, just like the Women of today insist on a "made-man".

Let us stop blaming women, let us just recognise them for who they are: Materialistic, Opportunistic and Unreliable Sex Partner.
End of story!

And just look at what Eve did immediately Adam was out of sight: She made friend with "another Man", obeyed the starnger even more than her Husband and God.... and brought desolation ot his household and generation.

Somebody should tell me or show me how the "average woman" of today is DIFFERENT from the above discription.
No difference, only 'times' has just evolved and become more sophisticated.

Women are who they are, love them for who they are but be aware of what you are getting into, when you encounter one.
Me, l will always love women but l make "allowance" for their treacherous nature because l know it must come to play, sooner or later.

so wat of if u come happen to lost that ur oil paying job...what of if dat ur thriving business in the past no longer rakes in money as b4.will it be ok to u if ur wife now dumps u and the kids and runs after another man who is financially capable?. See guy no matter wat u say but deep down we all need someone who appreciates us not for our money but for who we are.no matter how we deny this our human heart craves for true companionship.

abiodunalasa:

So it is because of money she remain in love with Pastor Adeboye

Nigerian women and money sha !!! Even this highly placed and respected woman is not left out of the parasitic mentality

When your ship is taking in water, you dont jump. You just simply grab a bucket.

Money should never ever be precursor to love. Period. Full stop.

You see, this is how alot of you psychologically feable yet parochialy diminished minds come online disgracing yourselves


Reading is meaningful and profitable when done with understanding.


Go back and assimilate the first two statements.


SHAME.


Mai bakin kwando irinka mtcheew.

Daboomb:


Point of correction!

She did not marry her husband in POVERTY... He may not be stinkingly rich yet but she married him a graduate, with "POTENTIAL-CERTAIN" to be RICH...and he is rich as expected!

SMART Women knows that POTENTIAL si what you look for in a man ...and a Graduate of Mathematics in thos days surely has POTENTIAL.

Anyone with Potential is already Rich because it is Potential that brings Money (except in these 'Buhari days' of Ritual money )

Why would she marry a graduate, when she could have married a lazy young man who plays Baba Ijebu/NairaBet all day, doing nothing else?

Women equates Marriage to COMFORT, MONEY BRINGS COMFORT and any Man with POTENTIALS, will eventually have MONEY
Its a simple equation

Initially, I did not want to comment on the topic, but your posts - quite logical - make me to do so. Yes, while you and Foluke are right regarding the theory of money being very important in a relationship/marriage (I have witnessed the effects of a man not having money - the wife has separated from him), are you saying that it is right for a woman to leave a relationship/marriage if/when (the economy ain't funny these days) the man loses his source of income (job or business)?

Such a shame this is coming from a woman who many women take a role model.

All shades of a bland advice. Soo irritating.

End Time Love !! I Leave Her Case For Daddy Frezee

I beg to differ. If she falls out of love, she must be ready to fall out of the marriage. This is very misleading and makes marriage contingent upon pecuniary gains.

I can't believe this is coming from a supposed servant of God

SmartyPants:


Look carefully:

There should be no deceit in courtship.

The emphasis is on avoiding deceit

Don’t marry a wife on credit.

An instruction that one should live within ones means

Whatever you can afford is what you should do. Cut your coat according to your cloth (not your size).

Reiterating the previous instruction and clearly showing that the amount of money in possession is not the issue.

Get a job before marriage. When you fall out of cash she falls out of love.


Clearly the message is, do not lie or borrow money to create the appearance of a lifestyle you do not truly have the capacity to sustain otherwise when you run out of money, the woman who fell in love with you on the basis of your false pretenses will fall out of love with you.


Be objective.

Be objective about what?

rastaLivity:
everything about RCCG is CASH. every sermon is centered around money. May God help the gullible and feeble ones. Amen

Not only them, my Church do family harvest, children harvest, youth harvest, first fruit harvest, group harvest, general harvest, thanksgiving service for a succesful harvest, and all na different date,
And I Wonder how people harvest money, is money planted on a tree?

MallamJackson:



You see, this is how alot of you psychologically feable yet parochialy diminished minds come online disgracing yourselves


Reading is meaningful and profitable when done with understanding.


Go back and assimilate the first two statements.


SHAME.


Mai bakin kwando irinka mtcheew.

since u have assimilated u should have been gracious enough to share what u had assimilated

Radiant1020:


You could still be an assistant pastor in redeem and still misinterpret the message

Goodnight

pls interpret d message specifically "when u fall out of cash, your wife will fall out of love".

Nigerian ladies are scammers.

Daboomb:


Give three Gbossas to that Woman, for being able to call a spade, a spade! Everything she said is bang-on, though it might not be palatable to our ears

Look, we need to face REALITY.

Not just Nigerian women (other women to varying degrees though the Nigerian woman has taken it to unprecedented heights due to their greed) but ALL WOMEN are controlled by MONEY and the Material things Money can buy.

There is a reason, God did not create Woman, immediately he created man because he could have created both of them at once.
HE knew that the Man has to "acquire wealth" so to say, otherwise the Woman will just stray-away if he has nothing to show her as his wealth.
When Eve was finally created, EVERYTHING WAS SET, garden was like today's Mansion, Food was plenty, all animals were named and all WORK was ALREADY DONE, the Woman just "packed-in" to enjoy everything, just like the Women of today insist on a "made-man".

Let us stop blaming women, let us just recognise them for who they are: Materialistic, Opportunistic and Unreliable Sex Partner.
End of story!

And just look at what Eve did immediately Adam was out of sight: She made friend with "another Man", obeyed the starnger even more than her Husband and God.... and brought desolation ot his household and generation.

Somebody should tell me or show me how the "average woman" of today is DIFFERENT from the above discription.
No difference, only 'times' has just evolved and become more sophisticated.

Women are who they are, love them for who they are but be aware of what you are getting into, when you encounter one.
Me, l will always love women but l make "allowance" for their treacherous nature because l know it must come to play, sooner or later.

You are a genius for this. Straight to the point and bang on.

However it depends on her age. Nothing pisses a knowledgeable man off than a washed up, old hag 45+ lady who thinks she is young and hot and demanding all the above. That's the reason an awful lot of men over 56 are unmarried.

Mrs Adeboye is not preaching the Bible here and I am shocked she could say such a thing. I do know that is how many women react when there is no money but a true believer that walks in the God kind of love will act differently.

The God kind of love is not selfish. It doesn't think about himself or herself. It thinks about the welfare of the other person.

The attributes of this kind of love are contained in 1st Corinthians 13.

I think the Church has lost the message of love which is the new commandment of Jesus.

If a wife love for her husband is tied to money, she is not different from a prostitute.

MyVILLAGEpeople:
Just look at some of those mumus up there displaying their stupidity as usual.


They won't read the context to understand what she is talking about. But just rush to comment based on the topic. mtcheeew.

That her statement wasnt well stated, it justifies alot of evil acts women might engage in if they end up with a broke man...

MyVILLAGEpeople:
Just look at some of those mumus up there displaying their stupidity as usual.


They won't read the context to understand what she is talking about. But just rush to comment based on the topic. mtcheeew.

They are called, fault finders "
How can a man without a paying job marry a wife,
If he borrows to pay bride price, what happens when children start coming?
I am not surprise, there are families that have left their burdens on others to carry, and when you stop helping they will theme you stingy!

lexy2014:
and d reality is that not every man will always have money in his pocket just d way pastor adeboye has. D reality is that u can't use what a person calls reality to create ur own reality. Reality is relative. So mrs adeboyes idea of reality isnt universal as far as a mans income is concerned. Her husband is rich& she is certain their investment will keep yielding. What do u expect her to say? If a guy uses money 2 win a woman's attention, there will a time it won't b there.That's y I ended my post by saying that having Money shouldn't b a condition 4 winning or securing a woman's love b4 or during marriage. That's d reality

No Sir!
Reality is NOT relative.
It is what is 'on ground' as can be percieved with all th five senses of everybody.
For example, if a Kettle is black in color and my eyes are not defective, l will certainly see is as a black kettle and so will you, with a good eye.
That is reality. What is REAL.

But due to EXpECTATION, you can decide to call the Black kettle a Blue kettle simply because you want it to look blue or you have a Blue one or it suits you if it is blue in color.

Like l said in one of my post, What all WOMEN cant do without is COMFORT and it is MONEY that provides that COMFORT.
Any Man with POTENTIAL will eventually have MONEY and will eventually be able to provide that COMFORT that 'holds a woman down'.

The DNA of Women has been defective from creation (I say "defective" because their REALITY is MATERIALISTIC and it is NOT SUPPOSED (EXPECTATION) to be so! We all know it is wrong for someone we love, to abandon us when we are low or without Money but that is exactly the REALITY OF WOMEN.

99% of Women will abandon a husband, once he loses his job, goes broke or they see that he has lost the POTENTIAL to provide that comfort..
The 1% are the rare breed of women, noone can find in Nigeria

lexy2014:
since u have assimilated u should have been gracious enough to share what u had assimilated

There some posts you dont quote just for the sake of it (quoting sake) it says alot anout your persona.

Now, just like I said to the other feable minded fellow earlier; go read the first two statements she made its the very foundation upon which her entire remarks stand.

If you still dont understand, then... who am I?



Ba dole bane ka yi hankali... amma shi hankali, mahimmi ne.

360great:
True talk my brother, come to my parish you will weep for the true essence of Christianity. All what they are interested is your money. The church don tire me o

Then go to Apostolic Faith Church

Gerrard59:


Initially, I did not want to comment on the topic, but your posts - quite logical - make me to do so. Yes, while you and Foluke are right regarding the theory of money being very important in a relationship/marriage (I have witnessed the effects of a man not having money - the wife has separated from him), are you saying that it is right for a woman to leave a relationship/marriage if/when (the economy ain't funny these days) the man loses his source of income (job or business)?

Well, again, its either you did not care reading the post or you ommited the the first two points the entire post is predicated upon


The entire post is hinged on the first two statements.

Go and read them.


Shike nan!

TruthinAction:
Mrs Adeboye is not preaching the Bible here and I am shocked she could say such a thing. I do know that is how many women react when there is no money but a true believer that walks in the God kind of love will act differently.

The God kind of love is not selfish. It doesn't think about himself or herself. It thinks about the welfare of the other person.

The attributes of this kind of love are contained in 1st Corinthians 13.

I think the Church has lost the message of love which is the new commandment of Jesus.

If a wife love for her husband is tied to money, she is not different from a prostitute.

MONEY is not COMFORT but it can buy COMFORT.
Dont call Women Prostitutes for being just who they are.

Women have never loved God, just for the sake of Love, from the days of Adam.
So how do you expect them to Love "man" for the sake of Love?

When God told the Man and Woman: Do not eat this one but enjoy all the other ones. That is God showing LOVE to humanbeings.
The Woman who shoudl has reciprocated with the same love, abandoned God and instead, decided she would rather go with the Satan because Satan PROMISED HER MoRE COMFORT.

So, for a WOMAN, it is always about who promised her more COMFORT and NEVER about who showed her Love.
It did not start with Mrs Adeboye, she was only stating REALITY so that there would be less expectations which lead to broken marriages.
It is in the DNA of the WOMAN that you gave me - Adam

Once 'MEN' put it into their psyche and know what is in a marriage for them, they would be better adjusted, when the inevitable happens, should it happen.

- Love does not keep a Marriage or any female relationship for that matter, it is COMFORT produced with MONEY, that keeps a marriage (that is the sure banker, take it or leave it)
- As a Man, never exhaust all your Money on your wife hoping she will stay when it is exhausted. Rather, keep building your wealth (which maintains the COMFORT that keeps the wife with you) and let building your wealth be your first priority, not your love.
- If you fail in the above, whether as a result of your fault or outside your fault, you then have to be courageous enough to accept the REALITY that the Woman you love, whose DNA is wired to COMFORT, will be soon gone.

Painful, Annoying, Sad, Agonising, Undeserved, Ungodly and even Inhuman but that is the REALITY Mrs Adeboye was warning us about.

klax:
Not your fault madam when RCCG turned maga to feed you and your family excessively and you got too fat why won't you talk thrash.

Why didn't you fell out of love when your husband was a very poor lecturer

I don't blame you it's RCCG maga's fault.

I wonder o! total rubbish advice to married ladies.

AlhajaChinyere:


You are a genius for this. Straight to the point and bang on.

However it depends on her age. Nothing pisses a knowledgeable man off than a washed up, old hag 45+ lady who thinks she is young and hot and demanding all the above. That's the reason an awful lot of men over 56 are unmarried.

I love the caveat you inserted into your Post!
it shows that you also are extremely intelligent.
A Knowledgeable Man!

How many men are knowledgeable?
How many men know that their first priority, before professing love is to get a good job or setup a good business and keep the money in-flow certain and secure?
How many men know that even a certain job or business can go kaput anytime and therefore plan for a Plan B, incase the Pot gets upset by factors/events beyond their control?

But a KNOWLEDGEABLE MAN will make plans first, before falling in love.
Most Men will profess love, spend all their time singing love songs and being around their love/woman, while not paying enough attention to the most important thing that will prolong that love.

And let me add that a Knowledgeable Man will always go for the best woman he can get!
He will never settle for an old hag.
That is why you will see a 'knowledgeable man (read: good bank balance) who is sixty years old, marry a twenty five year old woman (and we the younger ones are full of jealousy ) and would not settle for any 46yr+ old hag.

Marriage is like a Free Market: What you are offering/selling, MUST EQUATE TO to what l am willing to pay/offer for it (except in cases of foolish/unknowledgeable men and 'sharp-sharp' 419 women)

- Why would l work hard for my comfort and then waste it on an old hag, when l can splash it on something better? I dey crase?
- And why would a beautiful damsel waste herself on a broke dude who cant provide the comfort she needs? i dey crase?

That is COLD REALITY of this immoral and valueless world, my brother.
Its being like that since the days of the first Man, Adam.

Gerrard59:


Initially, I did not want to comment on the topic, but your posts - quite logical - make me to do so. Yes, while you and Foluke are right regarding the theory of money being very important in a relationship/marriage (I have witnessed the effects of a man not having money - the wife has separated from him), are you saying that it is right for a woman to leave a relationship/marriage if/when (the economy ain't funny these days) the man loses his source of income (job or business)?

Sir, l am not saying it is RIGHT. Infact, l think itis IMMORAL and l have said so in some of my post.
It really saddens me to think about it because l also have a wife!

But l am reminding you and that is the honest truth, that:

- It will always happen like that

- The reason is that "That is how women are wired". It is in their DNA, right from the first woman (and l have given many examples on this)

- That they should not be blamed because even they cant help it
- That Men should recognise this "factory default setting" of women

- That men should see it as the REALITY and PREPARE for it. Dont get too upset, if your wife runs away, one month after you lose your job, expect her to run away
- Plan well well when the money is still flowing (that is why l pity men who buy expensive gifts for their wife thinking that would cement their love and make her stay fOREVER! the day the Confort dries up, that is the day your Visa expires with her. Instead, put such money in deposits or investments that would support the COMFORT, when your current source of money suddenly stops. That is what will make her stay because the COMFORT will still be flowing till you get another source of income.

- That what Mrs Adeboye is saying is the cold, truth though because she is the wife of Daddy G.O, we EXPECT that she should not be the one saying such unpallatable truth. She is not encouraging it but she is WARNING MEN to be aware of what will hapen.

Just look around you and see how marriages are crashing like cards.
Are they mostly crashing because of "Lack of Love" or "lack of COMFORT (Money) in the family", for the woman?

A honest answer to the above, will reinforce what l am saying.

What is RIGHT/ WRONG, .....deals with Morals and Value system
What is OBTAINABLE,..... deals with REALITY.

Mrs adeboye was talking from the point of REALITY while those abusing her are thinking from the point of MORALITY.
we might not like it but we face it everyday, from the high rate of divorce that we are seeing

Daboomb:


Sir, l am not saying it is RIGHT. Infact, l think itis IMMORAL and l have said so in some of my post.
It really saddens me to think about it because l also have a wife!

But l am reminding you and that is the honest truth, that:

- It will always happen like that

- The reason is that "That is how women are wired". It is in their DNA, right from the first woman (and l have given many examples on this)

- That they should not be blamed because even they cant help it
- That Men should recognise this "factory default setting" of women

- That men should see it as the REALITY and PREPARE for it. Dont get too upset, if your wife runs away, one month after you lose your job, expect her to run away
- Plan well well when the money is still flowing (that is why l pity men who buy expensive gifts for their wife thinking that would cement their love and make her stay fOREVER! the day the Confort dries up, that is the day your Visa expires with her. Instead, put such money in deposits or investments that would support the COMFORT, when your current source of money suddenly stops. That is what will make her stay because the COMFORT will still be flowing till you get another source of income.

- That what Mrs Adeboye is saying is the cold, truth though because she is the wife of Daddy G.O, we EXPECT that she should not be the one saying such unpallatable truth. She is not encouraging it but she is WARNING MEN to be aware of what will hapen.

Just look around you and see how marriages are crashing like cards.
Are they mostly crashing because of "Lack of Love" or "lack of COMFORT (Money) in the family", for the woman?

A honest answer to the above, will reinforce what l am saying.

What is RIGHT/ WRONG, .....deals with Morals and Value system
What is OBTAINABLE,..... deals with REALITY.

Mrs adeboye was talking from the point of REALITY while those abusing her are thinking from the point of MORALITY.
we might not like it but we face it everyday, from the high rate of divorce that we are seeing

You are truly "Dabomb" you just revealed the bitter truth every guy doesn't like hearing !please i need your advice on how to maintain a steady cash flow,maybe investment advice or whatever i believe you know better Sir "so that my wife to be won't fall out of love" cheers

Ancientboy:
You are truly "Dabomb" you just revealed the bitter truth every guy doesn't like hearing !please i need your advice on how to maintain a steady cash flow,maybe investment advice or whatever i believe you know better Sir "so that my wife to be won't fall out of love" cheers

You sabi flirter person sha. And l an not Sir too, just your regular guy.
No one likes their party to be spoilt. I dont like what l an saying too but l just have to accept it now .....or later when it could shock me to death.

Seriously, it is all about PRiORITIES.
Set them right. Do the right things, at the right time.
I dont know what you do for a living, your current age-range, your educational background, your family circumstances (commitments to siblings, parents, e.t.c) and your level of determination to not be poor again.

I will assume you are doing okay for now.
1.) Eat less, Save more
2.) Defer your enjoyment/gratification to later, when you can do so without risking poverty
3.) You need Capital to do a successful business/investment. Save it if no bank will borrow you.
4.) Whatever/wherever you chose to put your money, dont tak too much risk when starting out, Stability is more important at that stage.
5.) Note that nothing last forever! Prepare for that day when your current "good living", money-flow will take a dip or even dry-out. it happens to everybody, at some stage in life, especially at the initial stages
6.) Save a certain percentage of your income, for investment in low risk, probably low returns ventures.
7.) Dont live an ostentatious life, once you have a little money in your account. leave the best part, for the later stage.
8.) Build a House, a commercial one first, if you can. Buy your land in a dry area, ( swamp not for poor people)
9.) Work hard and work smart, be strong, be focused, avoid all extremities in life but dont be a hermit. Avoid most vices (drugs, drink, gambling, excessive eating, womanising about, e.t.c
10.) Dont enrich, equip or add value to your wife, AT YOUR OWN EXPENSE (love her but never do anything at your own detriment/self sacrifice)
11.) Dont carry too much 'family' responsibility at the same time, it will draw you down or slow you down. largesse provided later, will still eb appreciated by the recipients but then you will not feel the impact too much
12.) DIY where you can, little savings here and there, add up to something and also prepare you mentally for the future
13.) Take care of whatever money you have, so MONEY will also take care of you! Money has a tendency to runaway from whoever does not take care of it..... just like women!
14.) Make good Judgements all the time, especially in purchases.
15.) Perform your bedroom duties properly! Women are not COMFORTABLE with men that cant fire on all Cylinders, when need be. That is rule #1. But dont kill yourself, if you are not that healthy to scatter the sheets, Work on your fitness, if you need to.
16.) Dont do anything illegal, be confident, think about what/where you want to be in ten years time, work towards it as a PRIORITY
17.) READ! READ!! READ!!!. There is wealth in knowledge hidden in written materials of any kind, knowledge is sourced from what you "ingest" (read). Everybody is a product of what is INSIDE their Head (Knowledge). Seek it at all times.
18.) Pray to what you beleive-in. Have a PERSONAL relationship with God, do good to others so that your prayers will not be hindered, train your kids properly and let them have respect and a sense of value for all things, especially living things (buy them a Dog to rear!), respect and love your wife to as much as she does not become a burden to your progress (banish 'buy-buy spirit' from her ). Try your best and leave the rest to your destiny.
19.) Take time out to exercise regularly, your health is the most important asset you have, dont sacrifice it for anything, not even more money. Walk instead of driving, jog, swim, play Sunday football with other pot-bellied 'Ronaldo' like us You need to prepare for old age and its baggages, right from now. The older you get, the more difficult it gets.
20.) Finally, Dont follow my advice, l was probably too drunk when writing all these.


But be assured that as long as your wife feels comfortable being with you, she wont leave you.
And if she does, you just smile and marry an even younger, more beautiful woman to replace her. You have what it takes.

Enough, let me go and do other things.

MallamJackson:


There some posts you dont quote just for the sake of it (quoting sake) it says alot anout your persona.

Now, just like I said to the other feable minded fellow earlier; go read the first two statements she made its the very foundation upon which her entire remarks stand.

If you still dont understand, then... who am I?



Ba dole bane ka yi hankali... amma shi hankali, mahimmi ne.

U are absolutely right in ur first statement cos u are actually referring to urself. Cos there's nothing u have said that has contributed 2 shedding light as far as d discussion is concerned. If u choose 2 call people names cos u feel they don't no, that's d lowest u can get especially when u aren't doing anything to fill d knowledge gap u say exists