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MissRaine69:
There are enough situations floating about where a guy has decided to pay for a girls tuition in school , even university and when she starts dating someone he has asked for all his money to be returned or expressed bitterness that she has declined his proposal.

I know, that is because I heard about it a few times, like my ex told about a similar situation that involved her female cousin.
But personally, I haven't met someone in such a situation.
Why would he demand for the money in the first place if they didn't make a kind of agreement on that?

Grayjoy:
I know, that is because I heard about it a few times, like my ex told about a similar situation that involved her female cousin.
But personally, I haven't met someone in such a situation.
Why would he demand for the money in the first place if they didn't make a kind of agreement on that?

Because he is investing in her on an emotional and financial level.
An agreement with a minor ? I don’t think that would work do you?

MissRaine69:
Because he is investing in her on an emotional and financial level.
An agreement with a minor ? I don’t think that would work do you?

A minor?
I wouldn't be too sure cause some peeps will still go ahead.
Has it ever occurred to you that many things you consider before swinging into is not considered by so many people?
So also some won't consider being a "minor".
Who is the minor by the way?

The motive of any man who invest in a woman (lover), either pronouncedly or unpronouncedly, is to perpetually subjugate her. Only malevolent men - be they servile or headstrong class of men - do such in their hypocritically disingenuous way. It's evil to invest (to pay) to enter/retain/maintain a relationship with a woman. Of course in most cases they do lose out in the end, when the beneficiary turns out to be malevolent and hypocritically disingenuous too.

Meanwhile, there's nothing wrong in a man that gives altruistically (material or immaterial), anything and everything to his woman.

Invest in only ur wife.. Anything outside ur wife is like investing in MMM

Investing in a woman, who is not your wife.. Is like investing in a Ponzi scheme.
Odikwa Risky!

Well, perhaps you expect no returns.

lefulefu:
Invest in only ur wife.. Anything outside ur wife is like investing in MMM

Especially the ones who neglect their own mothers.

Grayjoy:
A minor?
I wouldn't be too sure cause some peeps will still go ahead.
Has it ever occurred to you that many things you consider before swinging into is not considered by so many people?
So also some won't consider being a "minor".
Who is the minor by the way?

Sigh
If a 20 something year old man starts paying school fees for a girl aged 15 ( minor) what agreement could she possibly come up with at that age?
He supports her financially while she attends university The reason why he is doing this is because he views her as an investment and wants something in return. A wife.

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MissRaine69:
Especially the ones who neglect their own mothers.

those ones need special deliverance

TIDDOLL:
Investing in a woman, who is not your wife.. Is like investing in a Ponzi scheme.
Odikwa Risky!

Well, perhaps you expect no returns.

N landers nd dere myopic reasoning....I always tell pple not 2 Gv wat dey can't let go, we all know dat all fingers re not equal, so if ur opportuned to b @ d helpn end u do ur best nd leave d rest to God.

funmisticqueen:
the best way to claim a woman as yours is to invest in her.

Will you shut up? invest in her so She'll now run away to another man after the investment?
you must be very foolish for this dumb comment

MissRaine69:
Sigh
If a 20 something year old man starts paying school fees for a girl aged 15 ( minor) what agreement could she possibly come up with at that age?
He supports her financially while she attends university The reason why he is doing this is because he views her as an investment and wants something in return. A wife.

I knew exactly where you were you were going with that "minor".
If a girl is 15 and a guy 20+ is paying her fees, first of all, she have an idea something must be going on in the guy's mind, even if he doesn't say it, this girl must have an idea and the bold ones might even ask questions (a girl of about 13 years asked me that question about 3-4 years ago, just because I bought her a very expensive present) to know what's going on in the guy's heart.
Again this girl we are talking about have Guardian or parents the parents should be aware of the whole drama from the onset.
*just my thoughts *.
But in honesty, just my opinion though, you shouldn't pay fees for a lady/girl because you want to marry her. I don't really blame anyone for the backlash. And a lady as well shouldn't accept that just because you want your fees to be paid.
Except maybe these guys in question are already dating and in the course of dating as a result of "love" for each other decide to help build each other, but once the relationship can't work out, then we part ways without the sense of losing, it just can't work out between us. Not like some ladies saying "I gave him my body" and all that stuff, we both enjoyed each other's company while it lasted.
So that's the way I see it.

fancy4eve:
N landers nd dere myopic reasoning....I always tell pple not 2 Gv wat dey can't let go, we all know dat all fingers re not equal, so if ur opportuned to b @ d helpn end u do ur best nd leave d rest to God.

MissRaine69, if you got what this lady said, then you got my point.