It's sad my fellow women can be this deceptive, but we don't know what happened in that marriage, he could be the problem.

He could be those irresponsible ones, who expect sex after failing to make provision at home. If he is, he should go perform his duties.

But if the problem is from the woman, then I suggest not buy anything for her or pampering her for sex , because it will get worse. She would will just keep using sex as a reinforcement of his behaviors of getting her things:

She wants a new car, he says he can't afford it now, she denys him sex and he goes begging with the car. And buying things, only reinforce her decision, poor guy.

To fix this problem I suggest covert dread: He should show behaviors of someone cheating, but shouldn't cheat. He should go to the gym regularly to keep fit, eat healthy, go jogging and spend time with friends.

Stop all communication with her except necessary ones,, stop eating her food, And just ignore her, don't ask for sex at all.


That will get her attention. She would fear something is up and would want to offer him sex to stay. A woman worse fear is that another woman is after her price, her man or her happiness.


But the crux of the matter is, she didn't love him, she only settled for fear of not getting married. He was available, and she couldn't wait anymore Women do that alot

Mtchwwwww who is your "fellow woman" you are opening thread for? When you are not even a woman

After opening that dudes thread I realise why people will never truly be happy in their marriages, especially men, the wrong mentality yet everybody knows better, nobody wants to learn.
See the rubbish you even came up with yet you felt they were too important to go unread you decided to open a thread

xendra:
Mtchwwwww who is your "fellow woman" you are opening thread for? When you are not even a woman

Yes I am not a woman, I always want to be man, they are simple and straight forward unlike ladies who are horrible. I prefer my male friends to female ones , backstabbing bitches Mtchwwwww

Amakavula:
Yes I am not a woman, I always want to be man, that are simple and straight forward ladies are horrible. I perfer male friends to females , backstabbing bitches Mtchwwwww

Oh! You must be a bobrisky then, I can bet you already aren't female, I've seen really annoying and dumb females but never this stupid.


That or you are just looking for a boyfriend and hoping to win guys attention with this but we know the kind of guys you will get with comments like this ....SMH if that's the case then you've made my new list of stupid.

xendra:
Oh! You must be a bobrisky then, I can bet you already aren't female, I've seen really annoying and dumb females but never this stupid.

I grow up in a house full of boys so not me but you are stupid. Mtchwwwww

Amakavula:
I grow up in a house full of boys so not me but you are stupid. Mtchwwwww

I grew up in a house full of boy's too. No excuses for being stupid

xendra:
Oh! You must be a bobrisky then, I can bet you already aren't female, I've seen really annoying and dumb females but never this stupid.

That or you are just looking for a boyfriend and hoping to win guys attention with this but we know the kind of guys you will get with comments like this ....SMH if that's the case then you've made my new list of stupid.

Win a boyfriend here?? guys on Nairaland Lolx.. Godforbid !

I have seen the types of guys here, definitely not what I would want to associate with, but my froye on Nairaland is just curiousness. I like to write on relationships, and want to see how people would accept my work.

xendra:
I grew up in a house full of boy's too. No excuses for being stupid

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Amakavula:
It's sad my fellow women can be this deceptive, but we don't know what happened in that marriage, he could be the problem.

He could be those irresponsible ones, who expect sex after failing to make provision at home. If he is, he should go perform his duties.

But if the problem is from the woman, then I suggest not buy anything for her or pampering her for sex , because it will get worse. She would will just keep using sex as a reinforcement of his behaviors of getting her things:

She wants a new car, he says he can't afford it now, she denys him sex and he goes begging with the car. And buying things, only reinforce her decision, poor guy.

To fix this problem I suggest covert dread: He should show behaviors of someone cheating, but shouldn't cheat. He should go to the gym regularly to keep fit, eat healthy, go jogging and spend time with friends.

Stop all communication with her except necessary ones,, stop eating her food, And just ignore her, don't ask for sex at all.


That will get her attention. She would fear something is up and would want to offer him sex to stay. A woman worse fear is that another woman is after her price, her man or her happiness.


But the crux of the matter is, she didn't love him, she only settled for fear of not getting married. He was available, and she couldn't wait anymore Women do that alot

why not comment on the actual thread instead of opening another?

Amakavula:


Win a boyfriend here?? guys on Nairaland Lolx.. Godforbid !

I have seen the types of guys here, definitely not what I would want to associate with, but my froye on Nairaland is just curiousness. I like to write on relationships, and want to see how people would accept my work.

or in short, you're looking for attention

Ehn don't have sex na, is that why you married her?

If you are not married,pls don't talk about marriage. Until you are married that's when you keep learning about marriage not when you are single. When you are single,what I can advice is to learn how to have self discipline,make sacrifice,how to forgive,be tolerance and how to endure.these things can help shape your marriage and make it stand the test of time. You may think you know it all but when you get married you will realise you don't know half of what you are suppose to know.



Wife denying her husband sex is one of things that make man mentally unstable. One of the best ways to solve this kind of problem is through discussion. Let them sit down and discuss about it. Op advice may work in some marriages while it will only make things worse in some marriages because some women no dey care whether you eat or not,whether u dey angry or not. And you go there your muscle go wan burst,dem no care.
Let the man make the woman comfortable and let them iron it out. In marriage,not all the time man gragra dey solve problem,e dey make am worse.