PrettyMelly:


Yes I'll be going back to the state he is in January.

freedomchild:
Maybe he's feeling insecure because you changed location.. You can move on because the feelings are not much there again...... It happened to me sometime ago when I left school and also left that city. My girlfriend called and called and called but I've already lost interest because both of us aren't financially stable to be transiting ourselves to see........ Most times, outta sight is outta mind

kunleweb:



I disagree distance should easily break relationship an between adults. What about bond.time.sacrifice. some guys need.growing up to do.he has some card up his sleeve rather than play coy he ought to speak thats why good communication is the bedrock of good relations.if trust and bond has been established two years before now then what's his problem?

habsydiamond:
when a close relationship is turned into distant one, the communication will reduce due to one factor which happens to be lack of trust among the people involved..... questions like, what he doing now? Where will she be now? Hope she/ he is not living with the opposite sex..and so on... Once these questions start popping in. It will decrease the level of trust among them. The problem is that long distance relationship reduces the level of trust among lover which also leads to less attention for the affected party

PrettyMelly:
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years now. The last 3months have been something else.
I travelled out of the state we live in for a 4 month course. The First month in my new location was okay, the communication was good n everything other thing was cool.
But I noticed from the 2nd month, he stopped calling like he used to, he will be online but won't chat with me. I brought this to his knowledge, n he kept saying he's sorry n gave flimsy excuses that he didn't have airtime n all. It got to a point that in a week he will call just once n for a few minutes.
I kept talking abt it, he made me feel like I'm nagging. He kept shouting at me that I'm bringing up issues wen there is none. I do 90% of the calling n it's not cool.
Presently, he doesn't chat with me except wen i upload any pix he finds interesting on my status....but wen I call him, he sounds all loving, saying I miss u n all.
At the moment, I feel hurt n I want to move on cos I think he's taking me for granted.. I don't ask for anything just talk to me that's all. Wat do u advice I do?

kunleweb:



You spoke well my.brother but when this happens. Trust and the bond isn't established. I wouldn't want a woman to haunt me just because of the thrills.of.romance. relationships is for adults and as such distance shouldn't spoil a good thing. Rather both parties can look for ways to make it work. The guy is insecure and may be investing hisnemptions elsewhere

habsydiamond:
that's is why am saying it can work only if the parties involved can sacrifice...e.g by traveling to see eachother on weekly or monthly basis can help them secure their relationship and increase sense of trust among them

kunleweb:
By the way I enjoy the comments from. These funny guys samysmoothfresh and dandeeboss. Kudos to these mates

Thanks boss... Lightqueen come see....

DanDeeBoss:
Thanks boss... Lightqueen come see....

PrettyMelly:
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years now. The last 3months have been something else.
I travelled out of the state we live in for a 4 month course. The First month in my new location was okay, the communication was good n everything other thing was cool.
But I noticed from the 2nd month, he stopped calling like he used to, he will be online but won't chat with me. I brought this to his knowledge, n he kept saying he's sorry n gave flimsy excuses that he didn't have airtime n all. It got to a point that in a week he will call just once n for a few minutes.
I kept talking abt it, he made me feel like I'm nagging. He kept shouting at me that I'm bringing up issues wen there is none. I do 90% of the calling n it's not cool.
Presently, he doesn't chat with me except wen i upload any pix he finds interesting on my status....but wen I call him, he sounds all loving, saying I miss u n all.
At the moment, I feel hurt n I want to move on cos I think he's taking me for granted.. I don't ask for anything just talk to me that's all. Wat do u advice I do?

BecaciaBarbie:
SMH!!!!

Ivye:
Madamm...go to bar like normal humans do,not broadcast ur problems on social media okkkay!

usoroh4luv:
Melly,

It is high time you moved on. The guy is somehow not interested anymore.

When you see the red flag anytime and it seems it won't be resolve amicably, you should pack up.

Anyway, I am available. Chat me up by sending a pm

DanDeeBoss:
Thanks boss... Lightqueen come see....

lilmax:
he suspects you
that's why someone said, your girlfriend is only yours when she's with you

and that is true

kunleweb:



Whenever I reqd you guys' comments at.work. I always explode.in.uncontrollable laughter so I try to.avoid reading.you're.comments now at work By the way light queen is a gem. I'Be taken time to follow her views. She's indeed a queen at heart

kunleweb:



Whenever I reqd you guys' comments at.work. I always explode.in.uncontrollable laughter so I try to.avoid reading.you're.comments now at work By the way light queen is a gem. I'Be taken time to follow her views. She's indeed a queen at heart

LightQueen:
DanDeeBoss. comot from road make I blush small
.Thanks so much my dear, so I have a secret follower, my mama must hear this

How are you doing? and how is work?

LightQueen:
DanDeeBoss. comot from road make I blush small
.Thanks so much my dear, so I have a secret follower, my mama must hear this

How are you doing? and how is work?

kunleweb:



Work is fab. Dont ever let them change you. Hold on to your moral beliefs.

PrettyMelly:


Yes I'll be going back to the state he is in January.

DateMynd44:
he has found a better lady who obviously has something worthy to offer than you

freedomchild:
Maybe he's feeling insecure because you changed location.. You can move on because the feelings are not much there again...... It happened to me sometime ago when I left school and also left that city. My girlfriend called and called and called but I've already lost interest because both of us aren't financially stable to be transiting ourselves to see........ Most times, outta sight is outta mind

PrettyMelly:
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years now. The last 3months have been something else.
I travelled out of the state we live in for a 4 month course. The First month in my new location was okay, the communication was good n everything other thing was cool.
But I noticed from the 2nd month, he stopped calling like he used to, he will be online but won't chat with me. I brought this to his knowledge, n he kept saying he's sorry n gave flimsy excuses that he didn't have airtime n all. It got to a point that in a week he will call just once n for a few minutes.
I kept talking abt it, he made me feel like I'm nagging. He kept shouting at me that I'm bringing up issues wen there is none. I do 90% of the calling n it's not cool.
Presently, he doesn't chat with me except wen i upload any pix he finds interesting on my status....but wen I call him, he sounds all loving, saying I miss u n all.
At the moment, I feel hurt n I want to move on cos I think he's taking me for granted.. I don't ask for anything just talk to me that's all. Wat do u advice I do?