Most guys go into relationship because they want to get laid , why most guys go into it because they are serious and ready to settle down.

Ladies find it difficult to identify the one that truly loves her and she ends up losing him.

I understand that there are no perfect guy and not all ladies want to be with a guy who thinks is d@ck is everything.

She want a God Fearing Man

Hardworking Man

Funny

Intelligent and has a skills

Not all ladies want a rich man but someone who will make her happy and where she can find a long lasting Love.

He loves his family , most especially treat his Mother right.

He is Caring

Handsome both in and out.

He is gentle , calm and kind

He is a good listener

And other qualities

Guys: how can she know you truly love her and you are ready to commit?

Mature minds only

1. When a guy complement her for everything thing even it's not impressive.
2. He is always asking for her well-being and wants to be protective.
3. He is always lively when with her
4. He becomes jealous when he sees her in having another guy being the main focus of your attention.

THE LADY WHO DOES NOT CLEARLY KNOW WHAT SHE WANTS WILL FALL FOR ANYTHING THAT LOOKS LEGIT

first she must KNOW herself
next she must know or have the idea of how she wants her future home to be and how her kids must be or look like

then she must know her worth and know how she deserves to be treated.

she must have read books and have lots of married counselors who are constantly guiding her and helping her watch for signs of deceit or falsehood in herself and the guy.

she must hear what guy is NOT saying.

she must not give sex to the guy until marriage.

she must find out from people who the guy truly is.

she has to also find out if there is a curse or viral sickness or pattern of poverty in the home where the guy comes from...

she has to have male friends so she is already aware of how guys behave and desires something mORE.

she must keep improving and see if the guy will become insecure.

IF SHE DOES ALL THESE then she will know if the guy is a sex-hungry boy or a husband material.

I wish you well

Wordsfrombimpe:
Most guys go into relationship because they want to get laid , why most guys go into it because they are serious and ready to settle down.

Ladies find it difficult to identify the one that truly loves her and she ends up losing him.

I understand that there are no perfect guy and not all ladies want to be with a guy who thinks is d@ck is everything.

She want a God Fearing Man

Hardworking Man

Funny

Intelligent and has a skills

Not all ladies want a rich man but someone who will make her happy and where she can find a long lasting Love.

He loves his family , most especially treat his Mother right.

He is Caring

Handsome both in and out.

He is gentle , calm and kind

He is a good listener

And other qualities

Guys: how can she know you truly love her and you are ready to commit?

Mature minds only

When a guy genuinely loves you, you'd see it in his eyes every time he looks at you because you're precious to him.

When a guy loves you, the love is transformed into action in those quirky things he does; such as holding your hand in public, making you laugh especially when you're moody or depressed, and making sure you're home safe at night and alright.

A guy that loves you will introduce you to his friends and family because he accepts you and wants you to share his world.

Most importantly, a guy that loves you will respect you and will think twice before he insults you because he knows words once spoken can never be unspoken.

The heart just know.

Jayslicky:
1. When a guy complement her for everything thing even it's not impressive.
2. He is always asking for her well-being and wants to be protective.
3. He is always lively when with her
4. He becomes jealous when he sees her in having another guy being the main focus of your attention.

.

Wow thank you but there should be more

tripplephi:
THE LADY WHO DOES NOT CLEARLY KNOW WHAT SHE WANTS WILL FALL FOR ANYTHING THAT LOOKS LEGIT

first she must KNOW herself
next she must know or have the idea of how she wants her future home to be and how her kids must be or look like

then she must know her worth and know how she deserves to be treated.

she must have read books and have lots of married counselors who are constantly guiding her and helping her watch for signs of deceit or falsehood in herself and the guy.

she must hear what guy is NOT saying.

she must not give sex to the guy until marriage.

she must find out from people who the guy truly is.

she has to also find out if there is a curse or viral sickness or pattern of poverty in the home where the guy comes from...

she has to have male friends so she is already aware of how guys behave and desires something mORE.

she must keep improving and see if the guy will become insecure.

IF SHE DOES ALL THESE then she will know if the guy is a sex-hungry boy or a husband material.

I wish you well

Very deep but are you saying that you are the kind of guy who will not have sex with her even when you love her?

SukolaBaraki:
When a guy genuinely loves you, you'd see it in his eyes every time he looks at you because you're precious to him.

When a guy loves you, the love is transformed into action in those quirky things he does; such as holding your hand in public, making you laugh especially when you're moody or depressed, and making sure you're home safe at night and alright.

A guy that loves you will introduce you to his friends and family because he accepts you and wants you to share his world.

Most importantly, a guy that loves you will respect you and will think twice before he insults you because he knows words once spoken can never be unspoken.

Very deep thank you .

internationalman:
The heart just know.

Deep but there should be more , what if your heart goes to the wrong guy?

Wordsfrombimpe:
Most guys go into relationship because they want to get laid , why most guys go into it because they are serious and ready to settle down.

Ladies find it difficult to identify the one that truly loves her and she ends up losing him.

I understand that there are no perfect guy and not all ladies want to be with a guy who thinks is d@ck is everything.

She want a God Fearing Man

Hardworking Man

Funny

Intelligent and has a skills

Not all ladies want a rich man but someone who will make her happy and where she can find a long lasting Love.

He loves his family , most especially treat his Mother right.

He is Caring

Handsome both in and out.

He is gentle , calm and kind

He is a good listener

And other qualities

Guys: how can she know you truly love her and you are ready to commit?

Mature minds only

you dont ask the fish on how to fish, ask the fishermen.

the advice from.tripplehi is legit, all.those other ones are immature or the things guys will do to get you in their bed

Wordsfrombimpe:


Deep but there should be more , what if your heart goes to the wrong guy?

Trust me if you use your head to follow your heart it won't go to the wrong guy

funmisticqueen:
you dont ask the fish on how to fish, ask the fishermen.

the advice from.tripplehi is legit, all.those other ones are immature or the things guys will do to get you in their bed

I agree with Triplehi also but are you also saying that if you love your Lady , you won't have sex with her ?

internationalman:

Trust me if you use your head to follow your heart it won't go to the wrong guy

Deep thank you .

Boxer007:




Darling am lookin for a female to fuk mr twice so i can stop bein gay. Please can u replace Funmisticqueen?

Not interested

ASK YOUR PARENTS AND GRANDPARENTS IF THEY HAD SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE IN THEIR DAYS....

My teachings from the bible clearly helps me avoid sex before marriage.... am not doing it to be a leader in church or to be seen as one HOLY HOLY dude, I came from a home where such acts ruined the whole family so I know too much about the consequences of going against GOD'S SET PATTERN.

see let us not deceive ourselves we in this generation are taking sex like it is a new technology forgetting that we will get old one day

Wordsfrombimpe:


Very deep but are you saying that you are the kind of guy who will not have sex with her even when you love her?

Wordsfrombimpe:


I agree with Triplehi also but are you also saying that if you love your Lady , you won't have sex with her ?

if you love your ladY, u will treat her with value and that includes waiting for her and proving she is worthy of your love by offering her commitment .

tripplephi:
ASK YOUR PARENTS AND GRANDPARENTS IF THEY HAD SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE IN THEIR DAYS....

My teachings from the bible clearly helps me avoid sex before marriage.... am not doing it to be a leader in church or to be seen as one HOLY HOLY dude, I came from a home where such acts ruined the whole family so I know too much about the consequences of going against GOD'S SET PATTERN.

see let us not deceive ourselves we in this generation are taking sex like it is a new technology forgetting that we will get old one day

i am shocked. u r actually a guy and give such solid asvice.

Boxer007:


We have a deal? $ex?

Dont u get it? i prefer you gay

HA! Doctor Funmi, thanks for the comment o... I didnt know you will ever read my comment on Nairaland, also I need to specially thank you for the Spiritual, hygiene, relationship tips you give us here on NL.

God bless you Ma.

funmisticqueen:
i am shocked. u r actually a guy and give such solid asvice.

funmisticqueen:
if you love your ladY, u will treat her with value and that includes waiting for her and proving she is worthy of your love by offering her commitment .

Not in this generation

Boxer007:



Madam. Please. Just one round at least. Cant u be kind ? Help a brother please

Useless Man

tripplephi:
ASK YOUR PARENTS AND GRANDPARENTS IF THEY HAD SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE IN THEIR DAYS....

My teachings from the bible clearly helps me avoid sex before marriage.... am not doing it to be a leader in church or to be seen as one HOLY HOLY dude, I came from a home where such acts ruined the whole family so I know too much about the consequences of going against GOD'S SET PATTERN.

see let us not deceive ourselves we in this generation are taking sex like it is a new technology forgetting that we will get old one day

Ok if you say so

Wordsfrombimpe:


Not in this generation

you gotta change your circles girl or better still date someone older who believes in those ideals. Dating younger men or your agemates has a lot of pitfalls

Wordsfrombimpe:

Useless Man

it is like you are new to nairaland.

tripplephi:
HA! Doctor Funmi, thanks for the comment o... I didnt know you will ever read my comment on Nairaland, also I need to specially thank you for the Spiritual, hygiene, relationship tips you give us here on NL.

God bless you Ma.

You are welcome. Thank you. Your kind is rare here