TheCongo2:


And this is what I have been saying from the outset

sistaj:
I apologise if my earlier post came off as alarmed because that was not my intention.Shelter plans have been kiboshed.

Influential101:
Oga, you get month. .walai.. waking up beside chickens

jelmusboy:
My village after snowing

TheCongo2:


And this is what I have been saying from the outset

czaratwork:
Please as the year is almost rounding up, ignore any landlord that will want to talk you into not reporting your rent as your expense just because he or she does not want to pay income tax.

Keep your tax report straight. Moreover you may even shortchange yourself by not reporting that expense.

mikkyphp:

My landlord did this. Please tell me more

sistaj:

For the tips also coming from a good place I believe advising me to take a backseat and let hubby do the heavylifting, it doesn't matter who does . We have been going together as a team as well.We all have different personalities and some women are not built to wait for prince charming to take them to eldorado.They are capable and can do what they can without being micromanaged by their husbands. Some men are also very happy to bring home the bacon, take a backseat and let their partners take full rein.Some women also have a good track record of achieving things and management as well as leadership and there should be no tussle in relationships as to who does what.
Thanks again everyone and for reaching out.

Homguy:
brother , I am not "understanding" what you are saying

Are you saying that one should pretend to be like them?... "But you already know where you are coming from"?

Would they do the same if they were on your own turf?
How are you sure their ways are the right ways ?or it doesn't matter?

Being tolerant of other people's culture does not equal imbibing/adopting it.

sistaj:
Settlement journey. Pardon my long post...... Always lots to share when I come around to it. I have been staying with my crew in Apple Hill, Ontario where our family friend lives. Lets see how it pans out.

SixSigma1:


The first session of this training has been scheduled for Saturday November 3. There are already about 15 people attending this session.

@dfanz and @chuka01: Since both of you showed interest; I am giving you the remaining two slots for this November session. So, contact me to get the detail of time and location of the session.

@linuslynx: You mentioned that you are not landing until December; I will keep you posted of December and January sessions so that you can participate.

Tojued:
I now know why stories of people using IOM facilitated tickets are scarce. Getting a response from those people is more difficult than getting transcript from lautech.

cochtrane:


Naturally I wouldn't like to get into this argument, but I think you are getting some things wrong. I'd wager that's because of your cultural (or religious?) background, so it's almost acceptable. However, it doesn't mean that you are correct.

Your position would have been totally innocent, except you aren't admitting there's a twist to it. For someone like you who preaches respect, but secretly disapproves of their lifestyle, you run the risk of denying them their right to freedom of expression.

phf2be:


I'm sorry if post is long. Just remember Kijiji!

toboy:

Thank you so much for this input. It is important that people understand that their personal biases and ignorance, or "choices" about certain issue is not an excuse because they do have real-life consequence on other human beings. I really like .....

TheCongo2:


I have said it earlier that the Canadian culture is about mutual respect.
Therefore, we can't stone a gay person because of his sexual orientation like the white people were killing anyone in Africa who didnt convert into their culture.
We can't discriminate against gays neither because they are protected by the constitution.

However, for you to say Nigerians have a prehistoric mentality because they don't agree with homosexuality is a low self esteem in itself. It is like we have to accept anything the white master dictates. We can no longer choose what is permissible to teach our kids and what isn't.

The stone age mentality is letting other people defining who we are the same way they did in the past.

Well said boss, most importantly i think we need to teach and train our kids the African culture, i am not sure i would want my kid growing up to be gay or homo, i also think that taking our kids back to visit home( Nigeria) once in a while is very important, i am so scared that he care is not taken the western agenda to dominate the world economy and culture would eliminate our culture. I see another colonialism again.


Yes, our kids should respect everyone.
But we cant let them embrace just anything.

Please guys, say NO when your girl wants to marry another girl or her dog.
Teach your kids that homosexuality is unnacceptable in Africa. And we should be proud of our African heritage.

Ibadanboy2015:
Good morning all,

Please I am in a dilemma .

I am a guy who immigrated to Canada through Manitoba PNP route; My sister who's a PR in Manitoba actually sponsored me .

After spending a year there , I got a decent job in Nova Scotia and I left for it . I am currently working in Nova Scotia now.

My worry now is that this is going to affect her sponsoring other family members of ours .

I don't want to lose this Job and I don't wanna block other members of the family who want to come to Manitoba through PNP.

This has really given me sleepless nights and unhappy moments. I am sad .

Please elders, what can I do ? What is the way out ?

Thank You.

Hayor2014 Glitteringstar2 oohunt smslive2 Jasmine17

umazigy:
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toboy:

I had a conversation with a white person who says they respect black people but then he finds black people are "dirty, primitive, and violent people". To unpack this racial stereotype, I told him I understand why he might feel that way due to the socialization and misrepresentation of black people in North America.

sunky644:

Are you a Ladokite?
My person, transcripts thing na hell for LAUTECH oo, my wife's Masters transcript is yet to be sent since April 2018. Unfortunately we still have to apply for our undergraduate transcripts from same school for eca evaluation. Pls if you know any fastrack means kindly let me know pls. Thanks

TheCongo2:


There we go again...

In 2018, most if not all white in North America will be extremely careful to say this to a black person, very afraid indeed . Usually white people in North America walk on eggshells when interacting with black people.

But for a white person to summon the courage to tell you what you have wrote, that tells me a lot about you. You must be an extreme pushover and he took advantage of that. He took you for a dumb or someone anyone can offend with no fear of repreasal.
Are you the type of black who says things to please the white master? He may have sensed that you have an extreme low self esteem toward white people.

You even told him you understood him. Com'on now!
Someone once told me that the bullies have the eyes to see who to mess with and who not to mess with.
Personally, just as the majority of black people, no white will ever tell me this poo in my face. I am so surprised that in Canada a white person can say this to a black person. Yes, we have racism in Canada but it never blatant. It is rather subtle.

And this is the rubbish you come to post on Nairaland (a mostly black forum).
Some black will go to the extend of selling their family and culture in the name of what the white man had said.

vcole:
I think you really did go overboard here with this response. How do you make such assumptions laced with insults from a reply to a post on an online thread? C’mon. We really do need to learn to have productive conversations and embrace divergent views on issues. @toboy did not deserve this response.

SixSigma1:



@Ibadanboy2015

Just like many people have told you already, to avoid losing even your own permanent residency status in Canada you have to move back to the province of Manitoba which was the province that nominated you with certain conditions that must be met (one of which is staying in that province for a specific duration of time).

In fact, not only do you have to move back, you actually have to move back right away because the more you delay it the more it becomes difficult for you to clear yourself when (not if) they eventually know and come after you (like the Jamaican guy in the news recently). The issue here is not if they will find out that you moved out but when they will find out. I can tell you with high degree of certainty that they will find out after you file your 2018 tax by April of 2019 (they just may not come after you). Even if you do not file your tax (because you do not have to file if you are not owing or do not meet some other conditions available on CRA website), your employer will still send T4 to CRA that shows Nova Scotia as your province of employment.

While there is nothing wrong from tax perspective in working in one province and living in another, don't think of using that to justify or claim to the government of Manitoba that you have been living in Manitoba while working in Nova Scotia because as you and I know this is not feasible considering how far these provinces are apart.

By the way, apart from knowing through tax filing, there are others ways available for them to know. Tax filing is just one way for them to know. They may even already know by now but decided not to come after you yet. All in all, the little time you need to live in Manitoba without a decent job is not worth the risk of losing your PR in my view.

vcole:
I think you really did go overboard here with this response. How do you make such assumptions laced with insults from a reply to a post on an online thread? C’mon. We really do need to learn to have productive conversations and embrace divergent views on issues. @toboy did not deserve this response.

TheCongo2:


In 2018, most if not all white in North America will be extremely careful to say this to a black person, very afraid indeed . But for a white person to summon the courage to tell you this about your race, that tells me a lot about you. You must be an extreme pushover, that is the only way this can happen. He took you for a dumb. He had sensed that you have an extreme low self esteem toward white people. And you even told him you understood him. Com'on now!

Personally, no white will ever tell me this poo in my face.

And this is the rubbish you come to post on Nairaland (a mostly black forum).
Some black will go to the extend of selling their family and culture in the man of what the white man had said.

maternal:


Congo is Right. If someone said that to toboy in his face, the man is a joke to them. The prime minister can't say that to my face even off camera. He'd be too scared. White canadians are very covert with their racism. Their specialty is smiling and stabbing you in the back without you knowing it. Them letting you know They re racists gives us a strategic advantage to be able to defend ourselves. They don't like that. If a white man said that to my face I'm either taking my employer to court, or he gets punched in the face if there's no witnesses around. But They re not walking away without some sort of consequence.

maternal:


Congo is Right. If someone said that to toboy in his face, the man is a joke to them. The prime minister can't say that to my face even off camera. He'd be too scared. White canadians are very covert with their racism. Their specialty is smiling and stabbing you in the back without you knowing it. Them letting you know They re racists gives us a strategic advantage to be able to defend ourselves. They don't like that. If a white man said that to my face I'm either taking my employer to court, or he gets punched in the face if there's no witnesses around. But They re not walking away without some sort of consequence.

TheCongo2:


Thanks bro
I am still wondering how a white man can say this to a black person in 2018 in Canada.
People had lost their careers because of allegations of racism. But here we have a brother who is even proud to proclaim on Nairaland that a white man had opened up himself to him

toboy:

Black people been punching since time immemorial and last time I checked, Black folks has the highest number of incarceration in US for instance. If we gonna win a war against racism. it wont be by throwing punches at ignorant white people. We need an investment into a calculated steps and strategy than can enable black folks break the system that feeds racists.

maternal:


Honestly I think your story is BS. That could even be considered an hate crime if a white person said that in public. I'm calling this a lie the more I think about it. Such foul language is literally a crime especially against minorities.