Graciafr21:
Is not your mom fault because she sleep with the guy and your mo doesn't know about it. she know what she is doing and keep continue until she got pregnant. so don't worry about that my dear, is not your mom fault.

chymer:
Is your mom, wrong?

Now, go back and re-read what you wrote up there, and answer that question, yourself.

CreepyBlackpool:
The lady and her mother are mad like really mad, very very mad, like super mad, terribly mad, like high level madness, customised madness, HD madness, Superior quality madness, highly durable madness

CreepyBlackpool:
The lady and her mother are mad like really mad, very very mad, like super mad, terribly mad, like high level madness, customised madness, HD madness, Superior quality madness, highly durable madness

Graciafr21:
Is not your mom fault because she sleep with the guy and your mo doesn't know about it. she know what she is doing and keep continue until she got pregnant. so don't worry about that my dear, is not your mom fault.

Ardar:
You know the worst part is that the guy that got her pregnant is even a friend to my mom.

thorpido:
Not exactly your mom's fault but if you bring a girl from the village to stay with you,you should have spent time educating and counselling her.
The moment you notice anyhow waka,you put her on the next night bus.

Boys for city tear eye and 'bush meat' dey quick fall.

The milk is spilt and there is little you can do now.Your mom has to take part of the blame.When someone is staying with you,you are responsible for that person's care and guide.

Ishilove:

The lady is TWENTY SIX, not SIXTEEN. A lot of her peers are married with kids at that age. Which counseling do you want to give a grown ass woman that her own mum has not already given her?? They sent her to computer school but the aunty carried her two left legs to waka iranu waka, and got pregnant in the process.

The lady is already spoilt rotten from the 'village' and is solely responsible for her own actions.

thorpido:
I agree she's matured enough but still not too old to be guided.
The moment you come under my roof,you become my responsibility and I would be involved in your lifestyle somehow.
If I see you show signs of waywardness,I'll call your parents/gaurdian and inform them you are coming back.
I agree some village girls can be spoilt rotten but remember she didn't get pregnant in the village.She probably didn't have the freedom she's had in the city.

Ardar:
Hi everyone,

I have a very serious family problem, my parents decided to take a female relative of ours from our home town to come live with us in Port Harcourt, due to the fact that she couldn't continue with her education and had to learn a skill.

This lady was enrolled in one of these computer centers to at least be a computer literate since non of my family members had the time to teach her and she wanted to learn.

Every morning she goes on an errand for my mom before moving along to learn in the computer center, not knowing she was dating and sleeping with a guy.

My mom never thought she would ever behave in such a stupid way, I mean coming to an unknown place for the first time and already dating a guy within a short period was something my mom never expected.

She got pregnant a month before Christmas, she told no one and waited till we all travelled back home to tell her mother. All of a sudden we started hearing rumors of how the girl we brought back home got pregnant and my mom was to blame for it.

This girls mother took out the all the blame on my mom and not her daughter, this woman said that my mother neglected her daughter to fall prey to men in the city but took care of me because am her own child, till today my mom and the ladies mother are not speaking to each other.

For Christs sake this lady is 26 years old and 4 years away from clocking 30, am younger than the lady and due to my introvert nature i tend to stay indoors and out of trouble not even because of my mom, if I wanted to become wild i would have, a long time ago.

So pls is my mom truly at fault here?