x2x2:
Good day fellow nairalanders..
Don't mind my English pls..
I'm a regular and active member of this section,but I needed to open another account to seek for help in my relationship.
I will clock 32 soon and i have only dated two girls all my life.Both we agreed to be serious relationship and not just chop and go kind of...The first relationship lasted 3yrs and after i investested my all,i caught her cheating and telling me lies,i ended it. Second one ended days ago and I'm currently hrt broken as i type this right now. Same issue i had with her was cheating and lies...
I did my best in pleasing them,in s+x,funding and all that..I forgave several times,but this last one still continued..She lies more than devil himself,it took me special procedures to known that she was cheating on me.God saved me,if not I could have been swimming in various infections by now.
I can swear that in these two relationships,i never cheated on any of them,because I really don't like sleeping around and deceiving anybody..Rather i gave my all and now i have been scammed again.
So i have decided never to be nice to girls anymore,so how can i stop being too emotional? I don't wanna love again, I want to start being a player(a very wicked one). Guys in the hux how can i make my hrt become stone towards girls please....Pls don't insult or blame me...All i need is advice regarding my questions...Thanks...

coolestofall:
Nigga hold ur horses. U dnt have 2 become a player. What u did wrong in both relationships is that we're trying, trying 2 please. Never do that, only do what u feel like when u feel like. D key is 2 please ur self, then others r secondary. I bet u wld become more real when u do that.

vladhillz:
try something new for a change..32? go hoe'ing' for a year,you really need it..it will help you get your sh*t together..that I can assure you..

x2x2:
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TheMainMan:
don't go and become a player o... if you contact hiv now... who will you blame


Personally... i will advice you to hold on,work on yourself and learn from your mistakes and make sure you are ready bfr going into another relationship ... and if that one too doesn't work... don't blame yourself.

The woman meant for you is just around the corner...

x2x2:
Thanks bro.My problem is that my hrt is to soft and I pity people a lot...and its not helping me..don't tink I can ever trust any woman again,except my mum...

coolestofall:

Leave dat one. Just b ur own man. Do things 4 u, n never 4 anyone else. U go dey alright.

TheMainMan:


The woman meant for you is just around the corner...

x2x2:
Good day fellow nairalanders..
Don't mind my English pls..
I'm a regular and active member of this section,but I needed to open another account to seek for help in my relationship.
I will clock 32 soon and i have only dated two girls all my life.Both we agreed to be serious relationship and not just chop and go kind of...The first relationship lasted 3yrs and after i investested my all,i caught her cheating and telling me lies,i ended it. Second one ended days ago and I'm currently hrt broken as i type this right now. Same issue i had with her was cheating and lies...
I did my best in pleasing them,in s+x,funding and all that..I forgave several times,but this last one still continued..She lies more than devil himself,it took me special procedures to known that she was cheating on me.
I can swear that in these two relationships,i never cheated on any of them,because I really don't like sleeping around and deceiving anybody..Rather i gave my all and now i have been scammed again.
So i have decided never to be nice to girls anymore,so how can i stop being too emotional? I don't wanna love again, I want to start being a player(a very wicked one). Guys in the hux how can i make my hrt become stone towards girls please....Pls don't insult or blame me...All i need is advice regarding my questions...Thanks...

x2x2:
Thanks bro.My problem is that my hrt is to soft and I pity people a lot...and its not helping me..don't tink I can ever trust any woman again,except my mum...

x2x2:
Thanks bro.My problem is that my hrt is to soft and I pity people a lot...and its not helping me..don't tink I can ever trust any woman again,except my mum...

Randy100:
At 32, na marriage you should be talking.

Randy100:
At 32, na marriage you should be talking.

Raalsalghul:
Says who?

czarina:
Because society says so abi?

Randy100:
Because it is the right thing. It is something divine.

czarina:
You don't get it, do you? Who says he has to get married at 32?

Paxie55:
Okay.
Good luck in your molosho journey.
Don't come and ask us the symptoms of HIV
But then,
Did you consider why they are cheating? How's your sex life? Do you need divk enlargement? How long can you last? 2 secs man?
The fault may be from You, cos two ladies can't break your heart with the same reason and you still think it's not your fault. Work on yourself, are you potbellied?

Paxie55:
Okay.
Good luck in your molosho journey.
Don't come and ask us the symptoms of HIV
But then,
Did you consider why they are cheating? How's your sex life? Do you need divk enlargement? How long can you last? 2 secs man?
The fault may be from You, cos two ladies can't break your heart with the same reason and you still think it's not your fault. Work on yourself, are you potbellied?

Randy100:
When should he get married? Is it when he starts using walking stick.

jayextra:
So its only sex iishs that can make u guys cheat...there are other reasons jawe...But wah do i knw.

ranmoor:

When guys cheat, they are dogs, heartless, evil bla bla bla. When ladies cheat , they deny deny deny, if denial is no longer possible, they throw it back to the guys shoulder; maybe he wasn't there for her, maybe he is not good in bed, a lot of maybes! They never for once own up for their greed! Someone cheats on him yet it is his fault! How about quitting before dating someone else?