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Deicide:

Both of them are at fault period stop taking sides.

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Shuuussshhh STFU
I should whattt??.??.?? You really tried it.

First of all. How is the woman at fault?
Second: Where is this same energy for the person, ( let me make this clearer, for the MAN) who started this Idiotic shaming game?
Why didn't you tell him to stop the idiotic shaming game he started, You were happy and content when he was trashing that hardworking woman just because she spoke out but when I served him what he deserved you immediately remember what is fair and just.

Your biased hypocritical view didn't allow you to see his post right? Gtfo of my mentionss with that trash.

Something is wrong with all of you who think there is a problem with this woman having kids thrice with this man. (Marriage or no marriage. No one cares. Marriage doesn't take care of kids. Human beings take care of kids.)

As long as she holds up her own side of the deal by taking care of her kids which she has done there is no problem.

However there is everything wrong with a man thinking he can impregnate a woman thrice and walk away from those kids like they are nothing and he didn't bring them into this world. No body cares about his relationship with the woman, as long as he impregnated her and is a deadbeat dad. He is worse than trash.

Yet you want this woman to die in silence and shame her for speaking out.

Misogyny and gender bias won't allow some of you have sense.

Daeylar:

Your biased hypocritical view didn't allow you to see his post right? Gtfo of my mentionss with that trash.

I was typing a lot on that post until i just decided to cut it short and point out that you shouldn't take sides. You made a lot of points which i agree with but you were going about it wrongly allowing emotions to cloud your judgement.


Anyways how is P.H?

Daeylar:
Something is wrong with all of you who think there is a problem with this woman having kids thrice with this man. (Marriage or no marriage. No one cares. Marriage doesn't take care of kids. Human beings take care of kids.)

As long as she holds up her own side of the deal by taking care of her kids which she has done there is no problem.

However there is everything wrong with a man thinking he can impregnate a woman thrice and walk away from those kids like they are nothing and he didn't bring them into this world. No body cares about his relationship with the woman, as long as he impregnated her and is a deadbeat dad. He is worse than trash.

Yet you want this woman to die in silence and shame her for speaking out.

Misogyny and gender bias won't allow some of you have sense.

What is the full story?

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Deicide:
I was typing a lot on that post until i just decided to cut it short and point out that you shouldn't take sides. You made a lot of points which i agree with but you were going about it wrongly allowing emotions to cloud your judgement.


Anyways how is P.H?

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Trash.

You should have buried the whole trash in your mind, never mentioned me with such trash and never posted even the shortest form of it.
You shouldn't even have posted "at" on my mentioñs.


Nothing at all.
It was all trash.

Anyways,
My first post still Applies.
Gtfo out of my mentions with your bias hypocrisy and now you attempting and failing to be patronizing.

Daeylar:

Anyways,
My first post still Applies.
Gtfo out of my mentions with your misogyny, hypocrisy and now you attempting and failing to be patronizing.

You have changed o what happened? You weren't like this b4 and am not misogynistic. Anyways I'll stay out of your mention. Pele o :

Deicide:

You have changed o what happened?

I don't know how I was to you before to know how I have changed to you now
Is "deicide" an alternate moniker whose main i would know?

You weren't like this b4

Same answer as above.

and am not misogynistic.

OK then
Don't make posts that read as you being misogynistic then.

Anyways I'll stay out of your mention. Pele o :

Thanks,
better not to quote me at all than quote me with bias.

Is she papa ajasco's daughter Am just asking oooo... If u look closely at the 1st picture, u will ask same question

watch whom u open ur puxxy for all in the name of money. blac chyna also lament yesterday after trappin those smart dudes coz of child support

There’s nothing like a deadbeat mother unless such a mom leaves the kids with the man or other family members without caring for them or providing money to the person who is caring for them.

A mom who doesn’t provide financially but takes care of the kids is doing MORE than the person bringing money. money is just a tiny aspect of raising children. Expecting a mom to be a full time care giver without providing for her so that she can be able to be always present to do that is setting her up for failure. Men get this.

If a mom is the full time care giver. She has done more than her share. If she provides financially as well, she’s doing it all. A true balance is when the other parent is also present to take care of the kids with the mom from whom he expects financial support for the kids.

MrBrownJay1:
foolish women going on social media talking nonsense just to try to tarnish a man's image, because the dude is tired of her sorry aaass and antics.

as much as a man should do his best to feed his children, it certainly aint babymama's decision as to what he (AND babymama) MUST provide. its a MUTUAL job, not a one way street, and unless both are working together to achieve that, it will never work. we see deadbeat fatherr EVERYDAY, just as we see DEADBEAT mothers foolishly thinking that a child is a free meal ticket (aka free paycheck)!
ARRANT NONSENSE!!!

highqueen:
Smh.
My respect for some guys over the years has decreased to -00000000.0000000009.

You see, this is why they will scold women to work for money and bring food on the table, while they galavant about social media, claiming what they aren't. They would subdue you to think that women feeding men is what is written in the bible, turn your thinking faculty to be the one providing for them. These repulsive set of men are the reason why we are where we are today.

Emasculated sissies and weak vagabonds are what we have in today's men.
Only 2% deserve to be called men, others are mere dust in the air.

.

Keep complaining soon or later you'll get married. Then you will know how tinz are

You will still be one to call her desperate for marriage if she insists on marriage first.

Or maybe for some weird reason she loved him and beleived him when he talked about plans for the future together.

Employment opportunities indeed. You people always shoot yourselves in the foot with your nonsensical posts.

Samakus:



Nwokem jee zue ike biko!

How can you explain that the guy isn't providing his share of the child support? Because the hoe said so? Abegi!
It's obvious that the lady saw employment opportunity in getting pregnant for the guy. Or how do you explain that a lady will get pregnant and give birth 3 times for a guy she's not married to if she didn't have ulterior motive? Just tell me.

You’re dull

Samakus:



..and you're absolving the lady that opened her legs with the intention of tying the guy down of any blame. You're worst than Buhari! Both are to blame. In fact, the apogee of irresponsibility is when a lady opens her legs for a guy for the main purpose of getting unending child support. Our clime is different from Americas in case you've forgotten. With this harsh economic climate, one will still hope to be spoonfed by a guy in name of child support which was purely conceived and brought to fruition by the lady. That's dastardly.

If a lady got pregnant by mistake or by mutual consent with the 'impregnator' without any hidden agenda, the man should ( and I believe that over 80% of guys today will) man up and take full responsibility for the upkeep of the child and mother. But when you get pregnant for the same guy for 3 times and proceed to born them, I REPEAT, YOU'RE 'GOLDDIGGER' LOOKING FOR A CHEAP WAY OUT OF POVERTY. You deserve whatever irresponsibility you get from your 'impregnator'.

cococandy:
You will still be one to call her desperate for marriage if she insists on marriage first.

Or maybe for some weird reason she loved him and beloved him when he talked about plans for the future together.

Employment opportunities indeed. You people always shoot yourselves in the foot with your nonsensical posts.

Plans for the future together? You called me dull but actually, you're the dull one here if you believe that a lady who was deceived with the same thing for 3 good times is not to be blamed

Ugosample:


your point of view is worrisome

And its the same view many in Nigeria hold



Why does a man get a woman pregnant THREE TIMES?

The man is just as responsible for his actions as the woman

it's not as if he was bewitched or coerced

YOU DID IT And have to live with it!

Try this in Canada

your name will be "sorry"

Baba, I'm not sure we're on the same page. I never absolved the guy of blames. I'm more concerned with what the intention of the lady who allowed herself to get pregnant 3 times for the same guy outside wedlock is? Even if the girl is the dullest of them all, I don't see how she will allow goal to be scored 3 times if she didn't have ulterior motive

The deceiver is a saint I guess.

Way to refused acknowledging the shittiness and absolute asshole nature of many men.
When women say all guys are crap, people like you start frothing at the lips like rabid dogs.
When they do trust you and believe you’re respectable and honorable human beings who are expected to live up their words, then they are hoes and gold diggers.

Nothing a woman does will ever be enough. You are part of the problem

Samakus:


Plans for the future together? You called me dull but actually, you're the dull one here if you believe that a lady who was deceived with the same thing for 3 good times is not to be blamed

cococandy:
The deceiver is a saint I guess.

Way to refused acknowledging the shittiness and absolute asshole nature of many men.
When women say all guys are crap, people like you start frothing at the lips like rabid dogs.
When they do trust you and believe you’re respectable and honorable human beings who are expected to live up their words, then they are hoes and gold diggers.

Nothing a woman does will ever be enough. You are part of the problem

My dear, I'm not absolving the guy of blames. Read my comments again. This time, read slowly and dispassionately as it seems you're too excited at the prospect of venting your anger.

For the records, my point is and will remain that a lady shouldn't, for any reason, mate with a guy with the intention of tying him down in order to be getting 'allawe' on a regular basis. How on earth can a lady be 'deceived' into giving birth 3 times for a guy she's not married to? How the Bleep is that possible if the girl in question didn't plan it all along? I don't just get it. We're not talking about 1 or 2 births here. 3 my dear. 3.

I rest my pen

Daeylar:
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Trash.

You should have buried the whole trash in your mind, never mentioned me with such trash and never posted even the shortest form of it.
You shouldn't even have posted "at" on my mentioñs.


Nothing at all.
It was all trash.

Anyways,
My first post still Applies.
Gtfo out of my mentions with your bias hypocrisy and now you attempting and failing to be patronizing.

You’re getting too bitter . Don’t allow bitterness to consume you


PS ; I don’t give two fvcks about the fellow you quoted .

Elder0001:



You’re getting to bitter . Don’t allow bitterness to consume you


PS ; I don’t give two fvcks about the fellow you quoted .

Ashawo

faithfull18:
Lol, life on social media most times isn't what it is in reality. It's all an illusion.

Hmmmn..

I never knew she was married until I saw this thread o...

Mehn you never know what happens behind closed doors

dominique:


Who did this to you people?

The lady that works full time and drives for Taxify part time to cater for her 3 kids is lazy and a baby? What should we call the man that has not contributed to their upkeep in almost six months? Stop excusing irresponsible men, it's irritating. I hope and pray they all get publicly humiliated like this.

She told you she drives taxify? Or are you the one? By the way, we all know women hardly talk about positive things a guy does for them when the relationship goes sour but will focus more on the negative things without having a recourse to recount their own bad sides? How do we know whether she was not misusing the funds being sent to her beforehand?

Daeylar:
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So the children he brought into this world don't deserve the money?

People like you deserve to be thrown into solitary confinement in a maximum security prison and the key thrown away for life.

Come and lock me up.

The man is a shameless baby papa who decided to impregnate her thrice without any proper family planning methods and yet is a deadbeat.
He is just a liability. A baby is better than him.


The woman takes care yet of the kids she brought into this world. She didn't make any excuses. She immediately stepped up and took care of her kids. And even then she still is taking care of them financially, doing it all. As if she is Mary the second and no man on this earth impregnated her.

Yet illiterates on this thread are trying to make excuses as to why a man can abandon his children and form philantropist for other people's children.

You can do all the name-calling you want but it won't make me change my stance.

There are numerous scenarios like this where the man stepped in to carry out his responsibilities and the woman decides to turn it into to a money spinning venture to her advantage. It is very possible that she is the type who isn't disciplined when it comes to prudent spending.

For her to accept to be pregnant the second and third time by THE SAME MAN means that the man played his role without any inhibitions. I still maintain the lady is irresponsible and wants to bite more than she can chew! We all know how women can whip up sentiments when it comes to issues like this in the bid to blackmail the man and look like they (women) are saints.

Stop typing. You sound like a few screws are loose

skales67:


Come and lock me up.





You can do all the name-calling you want but it won't make me change my stance.

There are numerous scenarios like this where the man stepped in to carry out his responsibilities and the woman decides to turn it into to a money spinning venture to her advantage. It is very possible that she is the type who isn't disciplined when it comes to prudent spending.

For her to accept to be pregnant the second and third time by THE SAME MAN means that the man played his role without any inhibitions. I still maintain the lady is irresponsible and wants to bite more than she can chew! We all know how women can whip up sentiments when it comes to issues like this in the bid to blackmail the man and look like they (women) are saints.

cococandy:
Stop typing. You sound like a few screws are loose

What a feeble response!

I knew I would get a weak clapback and you didn't disappoint.

cococandy:
There’s nothing like a deadbeat mother unless such a mom leaves the kids with the man or other family members without caring for them or providing money to the person who is caring for them.

A mom who doesn’t provide financially but takes care of the kids is doing MORE than the person bringing money. money is just a tiny aspect of raising children. Expecting a mom to be a full time care giver without providing for her so that she can be able to be always present to do that is setting her up for failure. Men get this.

If a mom is the full time care giver. She has done more than her share. If she provides financially as well, she’s doing it all. A true balance is when the other parent is also present to take care of the kids with the mom from whom he expects financial support for the kids.

thats a damn lie that many women tell themselves in order to feel good about themselves..... there are millions of deadbeat mothers out there, who have children with men just for the sole purpose of getting a free paycheck every month, so that they can buy themselves the bling bling and goodies they desire for THEMSELVES, while that child suffers and get absolutely nothing from that money. GET REAL!

there are many deadbeat mothers who abuse their children emotionally/physically just because they are pissed (and want to get back) at babydaddy for leaving their sorry aaaass. GET REAL!

there are many deadbeat mothers who think that just because they carried a child for 9months, they deserve a medal... while we all know that its not true, and the only person that deserves a medal is the mommy/daddy that raises that child properly with all the care/love/affection/financial burden needed by that infant, for the next bloody 18yrs.

any deluded good for nothing woman can spread her legs, just like any good for nothing man can impregnate her sorry aaasss. GET REAL!

ps as for you saying that a mom who cares for the child does "MORE" than daddy who is bringing the cheddar...... shows us all how bias you are against men. they are BOTH doing what is needed to raise that child properly. could that woman care PROPERLY for her child if daddy didnt pay for the damn house and all bills?! could she PROPERLY care for that child if daddy didnt pay for the food/diapers etc?! ARRANT NONSENSE...GET REAL!!!

Ugosample:
Why are you Nigerians like this,

Getting her pregnant is a cross they BOTH have to bear, because they both did it, and he has to take and bear responsibilities just like her.

That's why I like Canada, you don't pay what you are due to pay in child support; then you are in soup....

But Nigerians mostly are not matured minds

it's excusing men for their foolishness that is to blame for so many foolish men out there (afterall, the society encourage them)

nigga; you better take responsibility and pay up

assumptions over assumptions bro.... in Canada (or anywhere else in the real world), EVERYBODY is responsible for the child's upkeep, while in Nigeria, many deluded people believe that its JUST babydaddy's duty.

HERE IS THE IMPORTANT QUESTION: if that man was indeed a "deadbeat", as this woman claims, then do you seriously think she would have THREE KIDS by him?! this looks more like a man who got fed up with this woman's antic after many years of being together, and left her sorry aaasss, while she is trying to get back at him by talking rubbish on social media.

here is a clue: unless/until the COURT has decided what a man should give as child support, let any man decide what is best to give for the upkeep of his kids... and if babymama doesnt like it?! oh well!

MrBrownJay1:


assumptions over assumptions bro.... in Canada (or anywhere else in the real world), EVERYBODY is responsible for the child's upkeep, while in Nigeria, many deluded people believe that its JUST babydaddy's duty.

HERE IS THE IMPORTANT QUESTION: if that man was indeed a "deadbeat", as this woman claims, then do you seriously think she would have THREE KIDS by him?! this looks more like a man who got fed up with this woman's antic after many years of being together, and left her sorry aaasss, while she is trying to get back at him by talking rubbish on social media.

here is a clue: unless/until the COURT has decided what a man should give as child support, let any man decide what is best to give for the upkeep of his kids... and if babymama doesnt like it?! oh well!

As you said

Let the man be paying and giving for the children upkeep

The man is an ir responsible goat if he does not do that

I don't like men who are not smart.

you got the same woman pregnant THREE times

THREE!

I wouldn't do this if I were you. One the other hand I thank God I am not you. Na wah oooo

Ugosample:



As you said

Let the man be paying and giving for the children upkeep

The man is an ir responsible goat if he does not do that

I don't like men who are not smart.

you got the same woman pregnant THREE times

THREE!

bro, A) how do you know that this man aint paying?! would you really believe anything this woman says about this man, after he dumped her?! many give what they CAN, while many deluded babymamas wants unreasonable amounts so that they can live in Banana island and drive Bentleys....while any smart man knows that providing her with a shack in Yaba, a bus pass and some food is JUST AS GOOD.

B) and even if he aint paying, there are many reasons under the moon why a man would STOP paying for a childs upkeep.... aka
- if babymamy get a new man in her life (aka remarried)
- babymama suddenly get a job and makes more money than babydaddy
- babydaddy becomes unemployed
- babymama refuses to allow babydaddy to spend time with his kids
- babymama uses the money on herself instead of the child's upkeep.

C) no man can get a woman pregnant ONCE (let alone three times) if that same woman didnt want it too. they BOTH got 3 kids, not just daddy...so let BOTH be responsible for the kids, not just daddy. too many deluded women think they can just have kids, then sit on their aaassses doing NOTHING, and simply wait for the paycheck to drop.

D) but most importantly, remember that providing for the child's upkeep is daddy AND mommy's job