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My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by comradee1248: 2:55pm On Apr 17, 2019
We got married in 2013, by 2015 I had a very terrible accident that shattered one of my leg, so I've been down since then, even though the treatment will soon be over, I did up to 6 surgeries costing quite a fotune, which my people paid.

I work with a very reputable Paramilitary organization, my salary has never been stopped.
I have never failed to provide the basic necessities in the house, even bought my own 2 bedroom flat in the process.


My wife gets angry at the slightest oppotunity..
She told me 2 times that the only reason she's still with me is our two kids...

The 1st time I didn't take it serious but the 2nd time she said it I knew I have to think twice over it.

I know I will bounce back to life and use my legs again in few weeks from now.

My plan is to pack my kids and leave her alone...

What do you Suggest I do.

Thanks

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Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by iTearHerToto: 2:57pm On Apr 17, 2019
Was she like that when your shattered legs were still intact? If NO then answer the following ;

1. Do you still bang her well the way you used to when you were whole

2. Do you still bang her well the way you used to when you were whole

3. Do you still bang her well the way you used to when you were whole

If your answers are NO then you're in for it cos she might do worse

These Hoes don't joke with good sex and the moment they can't get that from you they go on a search and if unfortunately for you they find a solution then you are a loserangry

Someone is already fvckiing your wife stupidly angry.

Forget all these you're not whole or strong enough crap, forget about money, cos they don't care. The only thing they care most about is to get banged well.. What's my own with bang sef It's Fvck, I say fvck them well and they will love you forever even if you are headless sad

It's either you do the needful and stand a chance to revive your deceased Love or run like a coward angry

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Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Sally97(f): 2:59pm On Apr 17, 2019
comradee1248:
We got married in 2013, by 2015 I had a very terrible accident that shattered one of my leg, so I've been down since then, even though the treatment will soon be over, I did up to 6 surgeries costing up to 5 million naira, which my people paid. I work with a very reputable Paramilitary organization, my salary has never been stopped.
I have never failed to provide the basic necessities in the house, even built my own 2 bedroom flat in the process.


My wife gets angry at the slightest oppotunity..
My wife Told me 2 times that the only reason she's still with me is our two kids, the 1st time I didn't take it serious but the 2nd time she said it I knew I have to think twice over it.

I know I will bounce back to life and use my legs again in few weeks from now.

My plan is to pack my kids and leave her alone...

What do you Suggest I do.
Thanks

Talk to her and find out what's going on with her. Maybe she's going through a lot and because of your state so many things have been neglected and things are not the way it used to be.

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Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by luvyaself95(m): 2:59pm On Apr 17, 2019
She just tell you the truth Is left to you to act

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Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by SageMK: 3:00pm On Apr 17, 2019
What should you do?

How about you start with a paternity test?
Sorry. I know what I am insinuating is not cool but do it.

If a woman can say this to her husband's face then she is no longer in love with her hubby. She sees herself caged in an unbearable situation — one that she hates.

So I do support your plan. Leave her but legally.

Women are not what they appear to be these days.
A wrong cup of coffee and your are history.

Life is too short to tolerate bullshìt.

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Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Baawaa(m): 3:01pm On Apr 17, 2019
My plan is to pack my kids and leave her alone...
That is not a good plan,let her satisfied herself don't be one that will chase her away

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Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by comradee1248: 3:01pm On Apr 17, 2019
SageMK:
What should you do?

How about you start with a paternity test?
Sorry. I know what I am insinuating is not cool but do it.


thanks I will do that

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Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by MrBrownJay1(m): 3:04pm On Apr 17, 2019
how can you even think of going away with the kids? dont be selfish and think of THE KIDS 1st... as much as you may not need mama, the kids do.

at least now you know who that woman is.

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Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Nobody: 3:11pm On Apr 17, 2019
Stop eating her food.

This type of woman will use Sniper and DDV4 to spice jollof rice for you and the kids.

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Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by kafulka(m): 3:22pm On Apr 17, 2019
She never loved you from the beginning she only married you for convenience

When one partner starts acting up like what u just stated you know he/she is already cheating

Be careful, she could send u to untimely death so she can be free from u especially if you have property that she can inherit

Many men have gone that way,and I'm a witness to that
.

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Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by teresafaith: 3:23pm On Apr 17, 2019
She was just saying it out of frustration/anger, not like she meant it

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Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by kafulka(m): 3:29pm On Apr 17, 2019
teresafaith:
She was just saying it out of frustration/anger, not like she meant it

Really !!!

Out of abundant of the mind speaket the mouth
.

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Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Nobody: 3:34pm On Apr 17, 2019
She meant it , she meant everything !! The truth is she now resent you for losing your legs, but there is an underlining context to that resentment. what did you do when you lost your legs ?

How did you react. Did you also panicked and was wishing to die while she comfort you or you took it as a man and even encouraged her about the future.

Women never like to be in charge, we may say it but actions never reaffirm that statement. Losing your legs is bringing out those fears.

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Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by headz(m): 3:37pm On Apr 17, 2019
What if they stop your salary now. That's the only thing she hears in her head.......Wish you a successful recovery plus she don tire to see ur face. Waka well once u re healed. Cheers

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Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by 15ssDRIVE(m): 3:44pm On Apr 17, 2019
Boss.
Abeg Abeg Abeg, cool down for Jesus. Since 2013 till now,she no leave!

Now wey e remain weeks for your to walk,you wan leave with the kids?

What if the doctor tell you again,that you need another 6 months ? Then you will need her again?

Money is different and caring is the main thing.

Think oh ...... think well-well. She might have her own Bleep ups,but you tell me .... U no get Bleep up ?

Call her home,talk to her like you daughter,ur sister,ur aunt,your Mom and finally like your loving darling wifey.
Ask here reason for those: words.
Ask where did you get it wrong?
What can be done for amendments.....

No mind people wey dey tell you say... kut her head,shootttt her. Their own case worst pass this matter wey dey ground .

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Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by crackhaus: 3:47pm On Apr 17, 2019
teresafaith:
She was just saying it out of frustration/anger, not like she meant it
You know his wife?

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Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by teresafaith: 3:56pm On Apr 17, 2019
crackhaus:
You know his wife?
I don't have to know his wife to know she never meant it.
Most of us say a lot of things we didn't mean out of frustration

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Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by crackhaus: 3:58pm On Apr 17, 2019
comradee1248:
We got married in 2013, by 2015 I had a very terrible accident that shattered one of my leg, so I've been down since then, even though the treatment will soon be over, I did up to 6 surgeries costing up to 5 million naira, which my people paid. I work with a very reputable Paramilitary organization, my salary has never been stopped.
I have never failed to provide the basic necessities in the house, even built my own 2 bedroom flat in the process.


My wife gets angry at the slightest oppotunity..
My wife Told me 2 times that the only reason she's still with me is our two kids, the 1st time I didn't take it serious but the 2nd time she said it I knew I have to think twice over it.

I know I will bounce back to life and use my legs again in few weeks from now.

My plan is to pack my kids and leave her alone...

What do you Suggest I do.

Thanks
If you're 100% certain in your heart that you have done nothing, absolutely nothing, to warrant that kind of talk from her, then you have nothing to be worried about.

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Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by crackhaus: 4:01pm On Apr 17, 2019
teresafaith:

I don't have to know his wife to know she never meant it.

Most of us say a lot of things we didn't mean out of frustration
Read that again.

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Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Viserion: 4:22pm On Apr 17, 2019
raise your hands if you think she is collecting d outside...

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Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Nobody: 4:39pm On Apr 17, 2019
comradee1248:
We got married in 2013, by 2015 I had a very terrible accident that shattered one of my leg, so I've been down since then, even though the treatment will soon be over, I did up to 6 surgeries costing up to 5 million naira, which my people paid. I work with a very reputable Paramilitary organization, my salary has never been stopped.
I have never failed to provide the basic necessities in the house, even built my own 2 bedroom flat in the process.


My wife gets angry at the slightest oppotunity..
My wife Told me 2 times that the only reason she's still with me is our two kids, the 1st time I didn't take it serious but the 2nd time she said it I knew I have to think twice over it.

I know I will bounce back to life and use my legs again in few weeks from now.

My plan is to pack my kids and leave her alone...

What do you Suggest I do.

Thanks
My advice for you,run away from that woman asap before she poison your food

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Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Preshy561(f): 4:49pm On Apr 17, 2019
Op. Worst thing you will do is to bring your family discussion to this section. As you can see, there are lots of childish comment here, even the first commenter called your wife a 'hoe '. This is what you get when you seek for advise from people who have never experienced marriage in their life.

My advise: take this to family section and get better reply. Thank you.

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Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Nobody: 4:59pm On Apr 17, 2019
comradee1248:
We got married in 2013, by 2015 I had a very terrible accident that shattered one of my leg, so I've been down since then, even though the treatment will soon be over, I did up to 6 surgeries costing up to 5 million naira, which my people paid. I work with a very reputable Paramilitary organization, my salary has never been stopped.
I have never failed to provide the basic necessities in the house, even built my own 2 bedroom flat in the process.


My wife gets angry at the slightest oppotunity..
My wife Told me 2 times that the only reason she's still with me is our two kids, the 1st time I didn't take it serious but the 2nd time she said it I knew I have to think twice over it.

I know I will bounce back to life and use my legs again in few weeks from now.

My plan is to pack my kids and leave her alone...

What do you Suggest I do.

Thanks
Run from that woman asap

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Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Apination(m): 5:21pm On Apr 17, 2019
Tell her she's free to go, it's obvious she's already whipping someone else. She could possibly poison you if you are not careful undecided

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Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by SaucyBenks(m): 5:22pm On Apr 17, 2019
comradee1248:
We got married in 2013, by 2015 I had a very terrible accident that shattered one of my leg, so I've been down since then, even though the treatment will soon be over, I did up to 6 surgeries costing up to 5 million naira, which my people paid. I work with a very reputable Paramilitary organization, my salary has never been stopped.
I have never failed to provide the basic necessities in the house, even built my own 2 bedroom flat in the process.


My wife gets angry at the slightest oppotunity..
My wife Told me 2 times that the only reason she's still with me is our two kids, the 1st time I didn't take it serious but the 2nd time she said it I knew I have to think twice over it.

I know I will bounce back to life and use my legs again in few weeks from now.

My plan is to pack my kids and leave her alone...

What do you Suggest I do.

Thanks
you are lucky she didn't kill you while your wound healed up, for the fact she said that, she can even still kill you even when you're back on your feet.... You're not safe bro.

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Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Funaki: 5:30pm On Apr 17, 2019
shocked shocked
people are wicked o, how can you say such thing to your husband's face? If she could say that out, she can do worse to you behind your back. A word is enough for the wise

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Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by Nobody: 5:33pm On Apr 17, 2019
Since you had your accident, how have you been treating her? Have you been a loving husband? In all honesty, has she been taking care of you?

I'm asking all these questions because I read a post on Facebook about two weeks ago, the woman was complaining bitterly about her husband. The man had an accident and has been confined to a wheelchair since then. The wife said the man does not appreciate anything, always raining heavy curses on her. If he wanted to poo and she didn't respond quickly, this man would defecate on himself just to punish her. He would slap her at the slightest provocation. The last one that happened before she sent in the post, the man wanted to poo and he complained that she didn't give him the potty quickly. After doing his 'business', he asked the wife to come and clean it up and then poured the poo on her as soon as she got close to him. cry cry cry

This is a woman who has been doing everything without a maid or any help. They have three or four children (can't remember), the last one still is less than a year old. The woman said she was fed up but she didn't want people to call her names for leaving.

So my question to you again, how have you been treating your wife since your accident

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Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by PharoahIII: 5:36pm On Apr 17, 2019
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comradee1248:
We got married in 2013, by 2015 I had a very terrible accident that shattered one of my leg, so I've been down since then, even though the treatment will soon be over, I did up to 6 surgeries costing up to 5 million naira, which my people paid. I work with a very reputable Paramilitary organization, my salary has never been stopped.
I have never failed to provide the basic necessities in the house, even built my own 2 bedroom flat in the process.


My wife gets angry at the slightest oppotunity..
My wife Told me 2 times that the only reason she's still with me is our two kids, the 1st time I didn't take it serious but the 2nd time she said it I knew I have to think twice over it.

I know I will bounce back to life and use my legs again in few weeks from now.

My plan is to pack my kids and leave her alone...

What do you Suggest I do.

Thanks






@op I will advise you as someone who's been in that situation before. Most people giving advice have never been in that situation before so please don't listen to them, especially the useless ones asking you to sleep with her. Please secretly do a DNA test, and if you are their father then please if possible straight from the hospital whisk them away, don't even bother coming back to that house. The worst thing that can happen to a man is for a woman to take his child to someone else, if you want me to kneel down for you I will but please leave that woman otherwise ...(I will not be the one to complete the statement but a word is enough for the wise)

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Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by IjebuWarrior: 6:12pm On Apr 17, 2019
teresafaith:
She was just saying it out of frustration/anger, not like she meant it

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Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by IjebuWarrior: 6:13pm On Apr 17, 2019
crackhaus:

You know his wife?

God bless you for that question... cool

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Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by victorian(f): 6:37pm On Apr 17, 2019
Amakavula:
She meant it , she meant everything !! The truth is she now resent you for losing your legs, but there is an underlining context to that resentment. what did you do when you lost your legs ?

How did you react. Did you also panicked and was wishing to die while she comfort you or you took it as a man and even encouraged her about the future.

Women never like to be in charge, we may say it but actions never reaffirm that statement. Losing your legs is bringing out those fears.








As in ehn? We don't like to be incharge at all when the hubby is around.

She's frustrated and want out of the marriage and at the same time, worried about what friends, family and including the husband will stamp on her as a label.


UNGRATEFUL AND WICKED WIFE! that's what people will say undecided


Op, just do the needful and divorce her before she knows u can walk again.

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Re: My Wife Told Me The Only Reason She's Still With Me Is Because Of Our 2 Kids by b0rn2fuck(m): 6:52pm On Apr 17, 2019
Brother, you married her are at convenience time, she wasn't your friend while you dating, she didn't go through struggle with you . most women are like that, she didn't love you in first place but she love you for what you achieved and how caring you are, she married you for convenience and the benefit she was getting from you .when the benefit reduce or stop, the love deteriorated

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