damiloladuke:
An American lady has taken to Twitter to give a narration on an encounter she had with a Nigerian man she met online.

According to her, the man approached her and told her he would love to marry her so he could gain access into the United States of America and they could then divorce once he gets there.

She said she was thrilled by his courage and eventually offered to help him.

She wrote:

So this Nigerian man messaged me on twitter and says “hello am wondering if you can marry me so I can gain access to America” .... That was bold !!!With that being said . He said he wanted to go to school In America .

Im currently helping him find a school and so far we have found two that will give him housing and some funds to help. He’d have to get a job but he doesn’t mind at all. It’s always good to help others.

https://lailasnews.com/american-lady-reveals-what-she-did-to-nigerian-man-she-met-online/

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Treasuredlove:
yes o. Plus the guy was really honest. I think she respects that. Unlike some people

Treasuredlove:
yes o. Pl[left][/left]us the guy was really honest. I think she respects that. Unlike some people

On the contrary, I think she's mature and enlightened enough to admit and handle the truth. Unlike some people.

Too much expectation of pleasantries and sweet words breed necessary lies. Truth is not sweet, its bitter blunt and pissing and it takes maturity to admit it.

Some women in this case would rather say ..oh! U wanna use me n dump me!...

Treasuredlove:

On the contrary, I think she's mature and enlightened enough to admit and handle the truth. Unlike some people.

Too much expectation of pleasantries and sweet words breed necessary lies. Truth is not sweet, its bitter blunt and pissing and it takes maturity to admit it.

Some women in this case would rather say ..oh! U wanna use me n dump me!...

Very true

Oluromantic:

Strongsoul:
Hello all.My ex Nigerian husband that is 30 years old divorced me because i couldnt give him papers.We live in my country.I am white.Anyway he moved on so fast.When we divorced he started going to clubs ading other girls like he never even loved me..But what i always suspected that he wil be with one woman that he chated with even while we were married.Woman is 58 years old.She is black and she has US pasport and lives in US.She has good job a car 3 kids and grandchildren.My ex husband admited to me that that woman wil come to him when he goes back to Nigeria.He told me is coz she can help his life...Bt what about kids?Can she give him kids?Wil he stay forever with her?That woman doesnt lool that old and i see they have alot similar hobies...

JjBankys:
Take heart,it is well.

Strongsoul:
bt she is 30 years older then him

JjBankys:
well he's with her because of papers and not love. You should move on with your life, I'm sure you will find someone who will treat you right.

Oluromantic:
yes but my ex husband is dating this woman...teling her he loves her

Strongsoul:
but how he wil have kids with her?

Strongsoul:
but how he wil have kids with her?

Joromi12:
how else is he supposed to get his papers The only way is to come in thru student visa and apply for work permit later( if he had dat money he would have done it). So madam leave him alone and stop stalking his life. Wicked soul

Strongsoul:
me wicked?N he is not wicked that he wil use old woman?And he is not wicked that he divorced me?

Joromi12:
the woman may gladly help him cos she get 3 years of companionship and hot sex. So what is ur business

Strongsoul:
Hello all.My ex Nigerian husband that is 30 years old divorced me because i couldnt give him papers.We live in my country.I am white.Anyway he moved on so fast.When we divorced he started going to clubs ading other girls like he never even loved me..But what i always suspected that he wil be with one woman that he chated with even while we were married.Woman is 58 years old.She is black and she has US pasport and lives in US.She has good job a car 3 kids and grandchildren.My ex husband admited to me that that woman wil come to him when he goes back to Nigeria.He told me is coz she can help his life...Bt what about kids?Can she give him kids?Wil he stay forever with her?That woman doesnt lool that old and i see they have alot similar hobies...

Strongsoul:
why 3 years?

Joromi12:
he will bcom a citizen na and go lol

Strongsoul:
i am not sure he wil leave her

rex444:
You people should have come to terms with our way of life already....we have passed through alot it affects many of us in many ways....the guy came with a mission probably to make sure his family members relocate but you dey slow am don

molybdenum0012:
Strongsoul, I understand your pain. The truth is many Nigerians here are facing serious economic problem here and desperate to get out of the country at any cost.

Your ex only needed someone that would give him a green card and you did not come through for him that is why he left you. He might even have a family back here in Lagos. Pm me


I suggest you try single Nigerian guys, you may be fortunate.

If you don't mind pm, let be friends first.

Strongsoul:
Hello all.My ex Nigerian husband that is 30 years old divorced me because i couldnt give him papers.We live in my country.I am white.Anyway he moved on so fast.When we divorced he started going to clubs ading other girls like he never even loved me..But what i always suspected that he wil be with one woman that he chated with even while we were married.Woman is 58 years old.She is black and she has US pasport and lives in US.She has good job a car 3 kids and grandchildren.My ex husband admited to me that that woman wil come to him when he goes back to Nigeria.He told me is coz she can help his life...Bt what about kids?Can she give him kids?Wil he stay forever with her?That woman doesnt lool that old and i see they have alot similar hobies...

Strongsoul:
so wil he stay forever with that woman or dump her when his family relocate?

rex444:
chances are that he loved d first and if only she helped a bit ....if it's you then you could have just helped a bit and see what's next ...

molybdenum0012:
Strongsoul, I understand your pain. The truth is many Nigerians here are facing serious economic problem here and desperate to get out of the country at any cost.

Your ex only needed someone that would give him a green card and you did not come through for him that is why he left you. He might even have a family back here in Lagos.what is your number?


I suggest you try single Nigerian guys, you may be fortunate.

If you don't mind pm, let be friends first.