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Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by Unionised(m): 1:59pm On May 29, 2019
Safiaa:
Nigerians and tradition will kill them. Stupid people. Why can’t the son take the broom from his mother? Is his hand disabled? All these stupid rules and regulations to judge someone’s character, you never jam one babe that will form house-girl just to impress the family, but the heart is black. I just honestly think it’s not that deep, seriously, and it’s not enough to break up with her.

pants on fire, you will gladly collect that broom, even though you do not like the idea.

Stop posturing...

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Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by dingbang(m): 1:59pm On May 29, 2019
guru03:
I just remember a personal experience, I took my girlfriend to our house while I was cooking she was relaxing in my room and my dad was aware, chain my Dad was mad that day?
lol.. Okay did you ask her to help you in the kitchen ?

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Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by Queenstores: 2:00pm On May 29, 2019
The girl/lady is not marriageable.
Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by Olarewaju89: 2:01pm On May 29, 2019
Preshy561:
Haa!! You are a very funny man.
She even lifted her legs and you are complaining? I will wait for her to lift my legs for me and then, when she's done sweeping the portion, she should bring it down too.

I'm meant to be pampered and petted as I'm gonna be the one to choose if I'm marrying their son or not, and also gonna be the one that's gonna choose if the family is hardworking and compatible enough for my liking.

Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by eki2000(m): 2:01pm On May 29, 2019
joyberry:
Test ko test ni,so if the girl collects the broom,she is a wife material? Based on what her ability to sweep,is that the basics for marriage, All these so called tests sef,i never heard of multi-millionaires doing such, its always the struggling ones.Who even sweeps when guests are around sef?its rude and shows the guests he or she aint wanted, if the girl is a regular at the house ,fine thats different but a first-time visitor haba sef?
All these guys on this thread, if u go to your gf house and the father starts to wash his car in ur presence will u join him to wash the car?I don't get the act of degrading or putting some tru certain tests cos he or she wants to marry your child. That why many people pretend tru out courtship to put up with their potential in-laws unnecessary tests, and unleash their true colours in marriage .
She (the mother) might have swept to make the room cleaner and appealing to her as a visitor, she ought to help the woman, this is Africa, you can only claim what you have written here when you are in America.

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Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by Graduateacher(f): 2:01pm On May 29, 2019
Easybela:
undecided all these ladies above and below me,you are entitled to your opinions, but surely, one day you all will become mother in-laws then you will understand better.

How dare she sit and watch the elderly woman sweep ,what she did is bad,she lacks respect.one day, she will be a MIL,she will be treated the same way.

One day this and that, what if she doesn't do such when her time comes? How can someone visit you then you decide to sweep while she's still there because you wanna test her sweeping skill or what?

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Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by Mariangeles(f): 2:02pm On May 29, 2019
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
smiley Great. Such test is silly. An evil lady can decode such silly test and pretend to be the angel until after the wedding. She go then show the mother in law shege
There's no need for showing shege

Only a foolish man would allow his so-called wife disrespect his mother .
...and remember, you have a mother too, so what goes around, comes around .
Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by Unionised(m): 2:02pm On May 29, 2019
bbjummy:
Sweep for what? He isn't married to her yet and besides,it's her first time there. What if the guy tomorrow calls it a quit undecided undecided I don't like eye service jare.

So you will feel cheated if you swept their house and still get dumped?

Serious....
Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by Victorisoni3(m): 2:03pm On May 29, 2019
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Why sweep when u have a visitor?
Na dem
Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by YoungDaNaval(m): 2:04pm On May 29, 2019
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Why sweep when u have a visitor?
Like seriously
Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by Nobody: 2:04pm On May 29, 2019
Mariangeles:
There's no need for showing shege

Only a foolish man would allow his so-called wife disrespect his mother .
...and remember, you have a mother too, so what goes around, comes around .
I simply painted a picture. Definitely not what I would do. Definitely not
Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by Stanmoni: 2:04pm On May 29, 2019
me that's guy will collect broom from my girlfriend mum that is sweeping in front of me talk more of been girl. thou it depends d occasion n where she's sweeping. we ought 2do things properly weather we are tested or not. respect our elders

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Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by lanjum(f): 2:04pm On May 29, 2019
Firstly, Y would the mother be sweeping when a guest is around, it shows she is not wanted at all. This is a sign for me.
Secondly, courtesy demands the lady should collect the broom and sweep not cos of anything but to show she is well trained from home.

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Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by blank(f): 2:05pm On May 29, 2019
Where are MIL like mine? She turned on big gen, put on AC for me and even made up a room for me to relax in since I was feeling tired. I can't even wash plates when she is in the same house with me, she won't let me.

Why won't I still be with her son after almost 15 years?

Don't know where they get these MIL with househelp mentality. Sweeping when you have guests in your house.

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Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by Nobody: 2:05pm On May 29, 2019
Victorisoni3:

Na dem
Naaaaa. I'm a deep rooted igbo lady
Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by Bossjakande: 2:05pm On May 29, 2019
Preshy561:

Lol. cheesy cheesy
Stop taking most of my post serious and it shall be well with you. grin
dont change mouth abeg u mean it
Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by pyro62(m): 2:05pm On May 29, 2019
Abeg make we see truth sef talk am. Why young girl go sit-down comfortably, her sweetheart mama go dey sweep and she sits comfortably
Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by YoungDaNaval(m): 2:06pm On May 29, 2019
Easybela:
undecided all these ladies above and below me,you are entitled to your opinions, but surely, one day you all will become mother in-laws then you will understand better.

How dare she sit and watch the elderly woman sweep ,what she did is bad,she lacks respect.one day, she will be a MIL,she will be treated the same way.
Thumb up!

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Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by joyberry(f): 2:07pm On May 29, 2019
Unionised:


The fact that you think it's DEGRADING says a lot.

To each his own....
Uncle leave sentiments aside,am not against sweeping as a chore,if am a regular visitor fine its ok to help her sweep,but for the first time haba,like someone said earlier did she just notice the house was dirty?

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Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by kophy(m): 2:08pm On May 29, 2019
Everyone is entitled to his opinion, but your test could come in any f irm the lady in question should forget the relationship between her and the guy because she has failed the first test. The mama is not interested in sweeping all she cares about was to know if the lady is a wife material for her son simple. African �✋✋

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Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by kophy(m): 2:09pm On May 29, 2019
Everyone is entitled to his opinion, but your test could come in any form, the lady in question should forget the relationship between her and the guy because she has failed the first test. The mama is not interested in sweeping, all she cares about was to know if the lady is a wife material for her son simple. African �✋✋

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Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by yoged(m): 2:09pm On May 29, 2019
Preshy561:
Haa!! You are a very funny man.
She even lifted her legs and you are complaining? I will wait for her to lift my legs for me and then, when she's done sweeping the portion, she should bring it down too.

I'm meant to be pampered and petted as I'm gonna be the one to choose if I'm marrying their son or not, and also gonna be the one that's gonna choose if the family is hardworking and compatible enough for my liking.
only lesbian speak like this because you know you ain't gonna marry.
Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by Ajixegun: 2:10pm On May 29, 2019
joyberry:

All these guys on this thread, if u go to your gf house and the father starts to wash his car in ur presence will u join him to wash the car?I don't get the act of degrading or putting some tru certain tests cos he or she wants to marry your child. That why many people pretend tru out courtship to put up with their potential in-laws unnecessary tests, and unleash their true colours in marriage .

I'll glad tell my girlfriend's dad to have some rest while i do the washing of his car, let alone the dad of my wife to be. And I'm sure 99% of guys would do such. Test or no test, courtesy demands.

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Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by joyberry(f): 2:10pm On May 29, 2019
eki2000:
She (the mother) might have swept to make the room cleaner and appealing to her as a visitor, she ought to help the woman, this is Africa, you can only claim what you have written here when you are in America.
.Really so she can't keep her house clean unless she has a visitor? That means she is a dirty person and besides didnt her son tell her he was coming over witha visitor ?Visitor or not one house should be clean

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Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by Bossjakande: 2:10pm On May 29, 2019
eki2000:
Na dem be this, Shiloh at 42
she don pack go Shiloh alredy now lets she tink marriage is by to sex and born baby most have a stinky attitude.
Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by Mariangeles(f): 2:10pm On May 29, 2019
First of all, she's just a guest, probably her first time of visiting (personally, I wouldn't trust a girl that'll collect the broom and start sweeping)
Secondly, why sweep when you have a guest ?

She's neither her son's wife nor his fiancee, so she did nothing wrong .

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Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by AZeD1(m): 2:11pm On May 29, 2019
If this was a test, the lady should be glad that she failed.

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Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by tonguengineer(m): 2:13pm On May 29, 2019
Preshy561:
Haa!! You are a very funny man.
She even lifted her legs and you are complaining? I will wait for her to lift my legs for me and then, when she's done sweeping the portion, she should bring it down too.

I'm meant to be pampered and petted as I'm gonna be the one to choose if I'm marrying their son or not, and also gonna be the one that's gonna choose if the family is hardworking and compatible enough for my liking.
That is why u will remain single till u become evening news paper
Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by Nobody: 2:14pm On May 29, 2019
Ancient test done wrong.. Why sweep when u have a visitor in the first place? That's wrong on its own & its like saying she's not welcome.. If she was wiser she would have just excused herself and leave the house completely. There are better ways to check see people for what they really are.. Most evil slay queens are well prepared for all these so called "tests" and then when u eventually marry them they go show u the real pepper cheesy

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Re: Girlfriend Sits While Boyfriend's Mum Sweeps - Nigerians React by Bossjakande: 2:15pm On May 29, 2019
bbjummy:
Sweep for what? He isn't married to her yet and besides,it's her first time there. What if the guy tomorrow calls it a quit undecided undecided I don't like eye service jare.
and u call urself a Yoruba girl am not sure u are

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