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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by lilyheaven: 12:48am On Jul 09, 2019
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cucumbae:
No girl will date a guy for 5 months without committing abortion for him.

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by davillian(m): 12:55am On Jul 09, 2019
Abortion is a no No for me.
If you can't marry her then dont skin dive.
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by makeherscream(m): 12:55am On Jul 09, 2019
I will just let the past be the past and focus on the present .life is too short to bother your self over things that will not make you rich.
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by ourkobo: 12:57am On Jul 09, 2019
RichardRexs:
Got back with my Ex,she told me that she did abortion (i knew the bastard) and the guy denied the pregnancy. i was moved when she told me the pains she went through. my perception didn't change but made me love her more

you loved her more indeed
why is she now your ex?

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Mariangeles(f): 12:58am On Jul 09, 2019
Fountainofyouth:



You be man.

What makes him a man ? Because he condoned abortion ? undecided

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Mariangeles(f): 12:59am On Jul 09, 2019
Fountainofyouth:



Op said psychological virgins should stay away angry





Immature peeps should also stay away undecided
To be against abortion is the new immaturity ? Wow!

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Fountainofyouth(f): 1:00am On Jul 09, 2019
Mariangeles:

What makes him a man ? Because he condoned abortion ? undecided

Is that what you deduce from his comment? Lol, because he still loves her regardless of her past.

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Fountainofyouth(f): 1:01am On Jul 09, 2019
Mariangeles:

To be against abortion is the new immaturity ? Wow!

No, to judge people based on their past is immaturity.

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Mariangeles(f): 1:02am On Jul 09, 2019
Deepfeel:

Seriously is better to leave the past behind no need of telling someone who wasn't even there when it happened it only poisons the mind
Her past might come back to haunt you don't you think ?
We all must account for our actions in this life .

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Mariangeles(f): 1:03am On Jul 09, 2019
Fountainofyouth:


No, to judge people based on their past is immaturity.
There's no such thing as "past" when it comes to abortion.
No matter how you wish it away and pretend like it didn't happen, IT DID !
You must account for it.

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Mariangeles(f): 1:06am On Jul 09, 2019
Fountainofyouth:


Is that what you deduce from his comment? Lol, because he still loves her regardless of her past.
What if he marries her and they find it hard to have a child , would he still love her ?
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Fountainofyouth(f): 1:06am On Jul 09, 2019
Mariangeles:

There's no such thing as "past" when it comes to abortion, no matter how you wish it away and pretend like it didn't happen .
You must account for it.


Tell me how someone must account for it, and there is something like past cos one can't continue to dwell on old sins, even the Bible says so.

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Fountainofyouth(f): 1:08am On Jul 09, 2019
Mariangeles:
What if he marries her and they find it hard to have a child , would he still love her ?


And what if the fault is from the husband? Or are you trying to say that all females who has aborted before are barren?

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Mariangeles(f): 1:09am On Jul 09, 2019
Fountainofyouth:



Tell me how someone must account for it, and there is something like past cos one can't continue to dwell on old sins, even the Bible says so.
The bible says "Thou shalt not kill"
Is abortion not considered killing or am I missing something ? undecided

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Mariangeles(f): 1:11am On Jul 09, 2019
Fountainofyouth:



And what if the fault is from the husband? Or are you trying to say that all females who has aborted before are barren?
Then, they both face the consequences .
The woman even more because she had the power to protect her unborn child no matter what ...
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Fountainofyouth(f): 1:13am On Jul 09, 2019
Mariangeles:

The bible says "Thou shalt not kill"
Is abortion not considered killing or am I missing something ? undecided


When the foetus has formed, it is killing, when it is just mere blood, it is not killing, that is my stand on abortion, if we should go by the biblical "thou shall not kill", what of soldiers that kill or executionists? So it is relative.

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Firstorderwizard(m): 1:15am On Jul 09, 2019
philo04:
my wife had two abortions for i met her...she told me...now we are happily married with our 3month old son..bros love is great

At your age in this generation you still dey fall in love with a naija woman ba? I pity you
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by jubrilELsudan: 1:17am On Jul 09, 2019
My perception of her will change cause I shot my hot cum in her mouth and not her kukunase.

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Shopatcandice(f): 1:22am On Jul 09, 2019
You can tell your partner after you must have given birth to all your children hahahaha. But if the abortion affected your womb, you should let him know before you say 'i do'
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Nobody: 1:26am On Jul 09, 2019
Men are the best creatures on earth. Despite all the grievous mistakes of women, we still pay their bride price and marry them with love and care...

God bless all men especially Nigeria Men...

Women, treat your kings right tongue

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by ogbonti: 1:31am On Jul 09, 2019
RichardRexs:
Got back with my Ex,she told me that she did abortion (i knew the bastard) and the guy denied the pregnancy. i was moved when she told me the pains she went through. my perception didn't change but made me love her more



stop lying on nairaland - awon movie hero wannabe! grin grin grin
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by philo04(m): 1:32am On Jul 09, 2019
Firstorderwizard:


At your age in this generation you still dey fall in love with a naija woman ba? I pity you
you have to sincerely fall in love with yourself before you can find love....
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by piagetskinner(m): 1:35am On Jul 09, 2019
MissRaine69:
Would your perception of her change or would you rather not know? Women would you tell him? If you are a psychological virgin this post is not for you.

Truth be told it would... I’d rather not know



I remember my ex... everything was going on well with us until she told me that.. and I couldn’t live with it...one thing led to another and we broke up..
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by JubrilBuhari: 1:54am On Jul 09, 2019
Fountainofyouth:



Op said psychological virgins should stay away angry





Immature peeps should also stay away undecided
That's not immuture, it's their stand. And I share their reasoning too.
I won't have anything to do with abortionists cos I won't let anyone do such if I'm involved.

I see abortionists as stone cold murder.

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by piagetskinner(m): 1:56am On Jul 09, 2019
But wait o.... who are the people impregnating the girls?? Is it not the same guys that say they cannot marry a lady who has aborted but they themselves do not hesitate to release in another lady



So this is the conclusion of the matter, guys who have impregnated ladies at any point in time, which resulted in abortion, have no moral justification to condemn girls that abort

Virgin guys should also marry virgin girls.... case closed!!

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by enemyofprogress: 1:57am On Jul 09, 2019
MariaLavina:
Psychological virgin?


grin grin
were you not the girl that got pregnant for me about 5 years ago?Have you burned the baby?is he a mail or femail children?
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by NwaJozi: 2:36am On Jul 09, 2019
Hmmm
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by VirginSearcher(m): 2:39am On Jul 09, 2019
MissRaine69:
Would your perception of her change or would you rather not know? Women would you tell him? If you are a psychological virgin this post is not for you.
OP you must be a joker
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Jaymaq(m): 3:05am On Jul 09, 2019
As an advocate of the law of averages, I think everyone should marry their kind. If you are a serial abortionist, please marry a serial gigolo who wouldn't see anything wrong in having series of abortions. But please if you are marrying your opposite, be kind enough to let him know beforehand so he can evaluate if the repercussions of your past is worth staying put with or not. Karma will always strike whether we like it or not. lipsrsealed

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Nobody: 3:06am On Jul 09, 2019
akaahs:
My now ex gf once told me that she had abortion during her college days for a man she met on Facebook and the man later denied the pregnancy, she aborted the 5 month pregnancy without any of her family members knowing not even her close friend (her mother ). On hearing this my love for her grew more because most ladies ll rather go to the grieve with this secret but she later dump me for the same man that denied everything about the pregnancy.

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Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by nereushouse(m): 3:40am On Jul 09, 2019
psychological virgin? What's that please? What kind of English is that? Damn!!!
Re: If She Tells You She Had An Abortion by Nobody: 3:42am On Jul 09, 2019
Better to know than to be in the dark, if doctor calls me to the side one day and ask if I know all the abortion she’s had, then that’s a problem.

So she better tell me ,so we can move past that and live happily ever after.

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