gforce5:
What lies? A lot of the girls I know from Corona primary, QC,Lagoon School that moved back to Nigeria after their studies eventually got married to Naija guys based in Naija. How many guys were looking their way when they were abroad? The ones who got married abroad are those who were open-minded and don't reason like your typical Nigerian girl. I don't expect you to understand since you have never lived abroad. Diaspora guys know what I am talking about. All those one you see getting married to foreigners are an exception to the norm. They understand the meaning of splitting the bills 50/50. They know how to have a bloody conversation. Unfortunately, they form a small percentage of rational Naija women abroad. They also spent majority of their lives there and hung out with a diverse group of people. Let's not even go there with the ones based in Nigeria. Only 1.5% are worth it and finding them is like looking for a needle in a haystack.

Wrong, very wrong.

ericsmith:




Is not that easy .... initially you will think you can cope buh as times goes by something in we men start to find it unbearable, B4 you know it you start drifting to these mtn slay queens. "whenever" is notjustok for someone you wana build a life with.

I can imagine. Particularly when you're in a serious relationship but you can still work out something but I understand you perfectly. The so called slay Queens will bore the hell out of your life.

Korllami007:


At that moment, they will feel useless to themselves because they think that's the only tool they can use to achieve what they want instead of using their brain and their hands. When that tool is taken from them, they become mentally handicapped because the tool (vagina) is where their brain reside.

Remove pussy from some ladies life in this part world, my brother, what you will have is nothingness.

They are lucky that their vagina does not come with an odometer reading. Otherwise, some would have exceeded the limits. I managed to get a 50k job a month for one of them at a time. Guess what? She didn't take it. It was too small in her eyes because in her mind, she knows that with a good vagina marketing, she can get up to 20k a week and 80k plus a month without going to work everyday, without much efforts plus other added benefits like shawarma, cold stone, suya, pepper soup and the likes. .

More than 50% of Nigerian ladies are into prostitution. Electronic prostitution is gaining grounds now as they cannot stand by the side of the road.

A day to my sister's wedding, I drove her to her hotel room around Ikeja at night and when I was getting back, you won't imagine what my eyes saw. There is this place called pekkas or something like that along that road. If you see the amount of ladies on the streets, you would think that it is a church program. They were not less than 1,000 that night. Mobbing every vehicle, dressed indescently. Some people's gf, some people's wives, some people's aunty. As a guy, the sight was disgusting to say the least. Is this how so bad ladies ha e degenerated? They are so lazy. They don't want to work. They want to make a minimum of 10k every night. Such a shame!

I respect the responsible and hardworking ladies.

sedutrice:

How do I put it? There are people you naturally carry out long conversation with and some very short. Probably because of different mindset or something. I don't know. If you are chatting with someone and you feel the person isn't getting what you are saying or you have to keep explaining yourself, you might decide to stick to what the person knows.
Anyway, I use OK, alright not frequently though but I wonder why it is even getting to you guys.
If the person can't keep a conversation, you have 1001 other people on your phone. Engage them more except of course the person is your girlfriend then you are done for.
You want fine girl deal with the other aspects

U have said a lot but its neither here nor there. Pls read my question again.


"If as a lady u feel d guy is chatting on a topic u ain't comfortable with, y not change d conversation to one u comfortable with? Y not spice up d conversation with something that is on record?"

gforce5:
What lies? A lot of the girls I know from Corona primary, QC,Lagoon School that moved back to Nigeria after their studies eventually got married to Naija guys based in Naija. How many guys were looking their way when they were abroad? The ones who got married abroad are those who were open-minded and don't reason like your typical Nigerian girl. I don't expect you to understand since you have never lived abroad. Diaspora guys know what I am talking about. All those one you see getting married to foreigners are an exception to the norm. They understand the meaning of splitting the bills 50/50. They know how to have a bloody conversation. Unfortunately, they form a small percentage of rational Naija women abroad. They also spent majority of their lives there and hung out with a diverse group of people. Let's not even go there with the ones based in Nigeria. Only 1.5% are worth it and finding them is like looking for a needle in a haystack.

LMAO i actually concur with this. Most Nigerian women in diaspora end up either coming back home to marry a Nigerian because Be as it may. The so-named-bad Nigerian guys always have in mind that they are the providers and they work their ass off to make sure their wives don't suffer much except for taking care of home front which isn't really a paid labor.

A lot of Nigerian women usually have the culture shock of 50/50 dating even while abroad. They cannot cope i swear.

Ask Safia/Safitu who cannot seem to date any guy in the UK successfully, always coming here to make mouth that her Man must be this and that LMAO.

UK guys that are as stingy as goats. Their one Pound would not even touch your hand even on your death beds. You must work for every penny & dating is 50/50.

lexy2014:


U have said a lot but its neither here nor there. Pls read my question again.


"If as a lady u feel d guy is chatting on a topic u ain't comfortable with, y not change d conversation to one u comfortable with? Y not spice up d conversation with something that is on record?"

I understood it at first and I have re-read it again.
Personally, when I am uncomfortable with a conversation I either end it or change the topic.
When I change topic and the person is still not forthcoming what do you suggest I do?

And about being neither here or there, if a conversation is not possible with one person, while not move to another...

truthsayer009:


LMAO i actually concur with this. Most Nigerian women in diaspora end up either coming back home to marry a Nigerian because Be as it may. The so-named-bad Nigerian guys always have in mind that they are the providers and they work their ass off to make sure their wives don't suffer much except for taking care of home front which isn't really a paid labor.

A lot of Nigerian women usually have the culture shock of 50/50 dating even while abroad. They cannot cope i swear.

Ask Safia/Safitu who cannot seem to date any guy in the UK successfully, always coming here to make mouth that her Man must be this and that LMAO.

UK guys that are as stingy as goats. Their one Pound would not even touch your hand even on your death beds. You must work for every penny & dating is 50/50.

Is there anything wrong is wanting the best?

Darling I have pounds in my account
I work, I have my own business on the side and i'm moving into my own crib in december at 24.
Can you please tell me why I should date a broke ass man with nothing to offer me? I've been in this dating games for years honey, i know what i want. I've dated men from this site, Ive dated men from from Qatar, I've dated men from the Us, Naija and Dubai, all these men were practically running around my feet and i was simply the one to cut ALL of them off. And out of all, only 2 were broke asses. I don't attract broke niggaz because i'm not broke myself.
My father is Accomplished in the Uk and my mother a social worker with two properties, lived in the UK for almost 30 years. I've never needed anything, tell me why i should suffer with one dirty silly man who only has prick to offer me? Ask your informants if you need help. I'm a go getter, i get what i want. I would rather die single than marry a man with nothing to offer me. If you have a problem with that, then burn yourself to death.

Obsessed idiot.

Focus on how to hustle your dirty body to Canada and stop mentioning me every damn minute. Idiotic rat.

truthsayer009:


LMAO i actually concur with this. Most Nigerian women in diaspora end up either coming back home to marry a Nigerian because Be as it may. The so-named-bad Nigerian guys always have in mind that they are the providers and they work their ass off to make sure their wives don't suffer much except for taking care of home front which isn't really a paid labor.

A lot of Nigerian women usually have the culture shock of 50/50 dating even while abroad. They cannot cope i swear.

Ask Safia/Safitu who cannot seem to date any guy in the UK successfully, always coming here to make mouth that her Man must be this and that LMAO.

UK guys that are as stingy as goats. Their one Pound would not even touch your hand even on your death beds. You must work for every penny & dating is 50/50.

Safia dear, I am pregnant for you plis dear.

Safitu:
Darling I have pounds in my account
I work, I have my own business on the side and i'm moving into my own crib in december at 24.
Can you please tell me why I should date a broke ass man with nothing to offer me? I've been in this dating games for years honey, i know what i want. I've dated men from this site, Ive dated men from from Qatar, I've dated men from the Us, Naija and Dubai, all these men were practically running around my feet and i was simply the one to cut ALL of them off. And out of all, only 2 were broke asses. I don't attract broke niggaz because i'm not broke myself. Ask your informants if you need help. I'm a go getter, i get what i want. I would rather die single than marry a man with nothing to offer me. If you have a problem with that, then burn yourself to death.

Obsessed idiot.

naturalwaves:

See backup .
What a sissy!The moment you posted, I know you follow her and I was not surprised .

He is a sissy because he chose to follow me,was he supposed to follow your weak and over-used butts before?.

...Many of you are crass,brash,uncouth,unintelligent,disgusting et al in your interactions with females,now they choose to ignore your lame pathetic bums,you all run to Nairalanf to wail like iddiiots complaining about being ignored or given mono-syllabic answers..Who the hell do you low-lives/under-achievers even think you are?

Just see how you are complaining about a dude following me ...please get on with your gay gang here and leave straight guys who love the warmth and flesh of females to do their thing...


Bunch of frustrated sadists.

Pascopele:
That's the stupidity we are talking about, even those pretending not to be sending their contact to anyone I just pity you... Imaging, after a conversation I ask a girl for her contact she refused bt I ask if we can still be friends she agreed but on other hand I chatted the same girl with a friends account that has Lexus latest model but to my surprise even without asking he deliberately send her contact that I should call her so that she can save my cont, I MEAN WHAT IS THE MEANING OF THAT?

You must a very jobless person to go about changing accounts because you want to catch a supposed gold digger. Better go and get busy with your life.

Safitu:
Darling I have pounds in my account
I work, I have my own business on the side and i'm moving into my own crib in december at 24.
Can you please tell me why I should date a broke ass man with nothing to offer me? I've been in this dating games for years honey, i know what i want. I've dated men from this site, Ive dated men from from Qatar, I've dated men from the Us, Naija and Dubai, all these men were practically running around my feet and i was simply the one to cut ALL of them off. And out of all, only 2 were broke asses. I don't attract broke niggaz because i'm not broke myself.
My father is Accomplished in the Uk and my mother a social worker with two properties, lived in the UK for almost 30 years. I've never needed anything, tell me why i should suffer with one dirty silly man who only has prick to offer me? Ask your informants if you need help. I'm a go getter, i get what i want. I would rather die single than marry a man with nothing to offer me. If you have a problem with that, then burn yourself to death.

Obsessed idiot.

Focus on how to hustle your dirty body to Canada and stop mentioning me every damn minute. Idiotic rat.

LMAO should i even start about how you posted your a fake passport of your on Nairaland.

You think you can deceive everyone. You are VERY DARK in complexion, Yet your pictures of you with your passport is fair and light skinned.

Your fvcking self always make it seem like our earn a decent living.

Ladies who earn a decent living to cry about a guys money every now and then, you broke idiot. You have nothing to offer, that is why you keep shouting upandan on Nairaland looking for someone who can foot your bills.

Your dirty old rag of yours had to look for a guy in Qatar you couldn't find anyone to date you in the UK. The guy left you because he already knew you were an empty vessel.

For your info, I studied in UK and even got a offer before i left school. Ask those who know me and they will tell you.

If i wanted to be in Canada, i will. I'm already leaving for an MSC in Germany which i fully paid for my myself. Tuition and accomodation fully paid in full by myself without anyone.

I won't be replying to an idiot like you, because that is what you are.

Loool

I’m dark and very beautiful baabbbyyy. I’ve never been deprived of anything.
It’s not hard for me to get what I want lol
I’m a proud U.K. and Nigerian citizen born in 1995 in kings college hospital Honeeyyy
I can go anywhere I want, I don’t need a visa
I don’t have to lie about what I have. I’ve lived a decent life and I’m blessed and happy that my parents never made me suffer.

So please take your disgusting frustrated self out of my mentions. You will never be in my league, you are beneath me and there you shall remain. Keep on stalking my page and think about me day and night. I don’t even acknowledge you, you are a nobody. Goodbye

truthsayer009:


LMAO should i even start about how you posted your a fake passport of your on Nairaland.

You think you can deceive everyone. You are VERY DARK in complexion, Yet your pictures of you with your passport is fair and light skinned.

Your fvcking self always make it seem like our earn a decent living.

Ladies who earn a decent living to cry about a guys money every now and then, you broke idiot. You have nothing to offer, that is why you keep shouting upandan on Nairaland looking for someone who can foot your bills.

Your dirty old rag of yours had to look for a guy in Qatar you couldn't find anyone to date you in the UK. The guy left you because he already knew you were an empty vessel.

For your info, I studied in UK and even got a offer before i left school. Ask those who know me and they will tell you.

If i wanted to be in Canada, i will. I'm already leaving for an MSC in Germany which i fully paid for my myself. Tuition and accomodation fully paid in full by myself without anyone.

I won't be replying to an idiot like you, because that is what you are.

truthsayer009:


LMAO should i even start about how you posted your a fake passport of your on Nairaland.

You think you can deceive everyone. You are VERY DARK in complexion, Yet your pictures of you with your passport is fair and light skinned.

Your fvcking self always make it seem like our earn a decent living.

Ladies who earn a decent living to cry about a guys money every now and then, you broke idiot. You have nothing to offer, that is why you keep shouting upandan on Nairaland looking for someone who can foot your bills.

Your dirty old rag of yours had to look for a guy in Qatar you couldn't find anyone to date you in the UK. The guy left you because he already knew you were an empty vessel.

For your info, I studied in UK and even got a offer before i left school. Ask those who know me and they will tell you.

If i wanted to be in Canada, i will. I'm already leaving for an MSC in Germany which i fully paid for my myself. Tuition and accomodation fully paid in full by myself without anyone.

I won't be replying to an idiot like you, because that is what you are.

lol...e pain you sha.

So women who are very dark in complexion are ugly?

CanadianNaija:


lol...e pain you sha.

So women who are very dark in complexion are ugly?

NO. not about dark complexion at all. Please, this isn't a skin color argument.

truthsayer009:


NO. not about dark complexion at all. Please, this isn't a skin color argument.

Ok o..carry on.

Lol, can't believe you all got to the point of throwing words at each other.




Las las Una go dey alright

CanadianNaija:


Ok o..carry on.

Read & understand what I wrote, you obviously didn't read to understand because you wanted to support your gender. It's not about that Sis. She keeps lying about her lifestyle & everyone cannot be fooled please.

Safitu:
Loool

I’m dark and very beautiful baabbbyyy. I’ve never been deprived of anything.
It’s not hard for me to get what I want lol
I’m a proud U.K. and Nigerian citizen born in 1995 in kings college hospital Honeeyyy
I can go anywhere I want, I don’t need a visa
I don’t have to lie about what I have. I’ve lived a decent life and I’m blessed and happy that my parents never made me suffer.

So please take your disgusting frustrated self out of my mentions. You will never be in my league, you are beneath me and there you shall remain. Keep on stalking my page and think about me day and night. I don’t even acknowledge you, you are a nobody. Goodbye

LMAO, who wants to be in your league? Someone who cannot cater for herself that needs a man in Qatar?

I thought you said I was frustrated & hustling for Canada? oh now you have suddenly changed the narrative now that you have discovered that I'm not broke & hungry. You think everyone on Nairaland is hungry?

You went ahead & started snooping on my profile to find out I even created a thread about Canada. Yet you say you don't even acknowledge me & you get very furious once your name is called.

You have deceived a lot of people on NL about your Uk stories times without number. Sorry, but we cannot all be fooled. Notice that It's only broke Nairaland ladies who have never interacted with people outside of the shores of this country agrees with you & think you actually grew up in the Uk.

I repeat that you are dark toned in complexion & this isn't about discriminating your skin color but the deceit at which you uploaded a picture of yours with passport on your laps whilst showing a light skinned person But you are DARK.

1. So how come?
2. Did the lightning suddenly change & turned a very dark woman to fair in your image?
3. Suddenly a Fair lady has become DARK miraculously?

You are a liar & a Fake person. You can deceive the likes of others but not me, I have lived & interacted with British born citizens all through my time in school & they don't act like a money hungry LovePeddler like you.

Ok

truthsayer009:


LMAO, who wants to be in your league? Someone who cannot cater for herself that needs a man in Qatar?

I thought you said I was frustrated & hustling for Canada? oh now you have suddenly changed the narrative now that you have discovered that I'm not broke & hungry. You think everyone on Nairaland is hungry?

You went ahead & started snooping on my profile to find out I even created a thread about Canada. Yet you say you don't even acknowledge me & you get very furious once your name is called.

You have deceived a lot of people on NL about your Uk stories times without number. Sorry, but we cannot all be fooled. Notice that It's only broke Nairaland ladies who have never interacted with people outside of the shores of this country agrees with you & think you actually grew up in the Uk.

I repeat that you are dark toned in complexion & this isn't about discriminating your skin color but the deceit at which you uploaded a picture of yours with passport on your laps whilst showing a light skinned person But you are DARK.

1. So how come?
2. Did the lightning suddenly change & turned a very dark woman to fair in your image?
3. Suddenly a Fair lady has become DARK?

You are a liar & a Fake person. You can deceive the likes of others but not me, I have lived & interacted with British born citizens all through my time in school & they don't act like a money hungry LovePeddler like you.

cezarman:


Stop the lies jare!




























It's not "i've you eaten"... It's "have you eaten"?

Lols

Safitu:
Ok

You think you are doing me?

You obviously know what I'm talking about hence your keeping quiet. Anyway, your lying ways are not hidden to me.

truthsayer009:


Read & understand what I wrote, you obviously didn't read to understand because you wanted to support your gender. It's not about that Sis. She keeps lying about her lifestyle & everyone cannot be fooled please.

Carry on means "as you were", "continue", it doesn't mean stop, or defense of any kind. You are the one who needs to read to understand.

sedutrice:

I understood it at first and I have re-read it again.
Personally, when I am uncomfortable with a conversation I either end it or change the topic.
When I change topic and the person is still not forthcoming what do you suggest I do?

And about being neither here or there, if a conversation is not possible with one person, while not move to another...

If u have changed d topic of a conversation and d guy isn't responding d way u want him to respond, don't u think its probably because u


"will be chatting off record and you expect d guy to chat along? How can? For example maybe u are chatting on a topic d guy is not comfortable with. Of course, you can't always expect d guy to oblige u".

sedutrice:

When I change topic and the person is still not forthcoming what do you suggest I do?

If u don't no what to do in such a situation, how do u expect that a guy will no what do when he is conversing with a lady that isn't forthcoming?

CanadianNaija:


Carry on means "as you were", "continue", it doesn't mean stop, or defense of any kind. You are the one who needs to read to understand.

No ma'am, you're NOT the one I was "fighting" nor "arguing" with. The accused knows what I was referring to. I reckon this is a case of false document which she is showcasing as her own. Which actually is the opposite of what she looks like in reality.

Do you understand? hence my reference to "Dark Skin". Not that I mentioned that a Woman who is dark skinned isn't beautiful.

So you simply jumped to conclusion in your first post against me.

truthsayer009:


No ma'am, you're NOT the one I was "fighting" nor "arguing" with. The accused knows what I was referring to. I reckon this is a case of false document which she is showcasing as her own. Which actually is the opposite of what she looks like in reality.

Do you understand? hence my reference to "Dark Skin". Not that I mentioned that a Woman who is dark skinned isn't beautiful.

So you simply jumped to conclusion in your first post against me.

Oga, you quoted me for not reading to understand.

I merely replied by providing you with synonyms in reference to my previous quote, incase you needed to further understand my post, before asking me to read to understand.

CanadianNaija:


Oga, you quoted me for not reading to understand.

I merely replied by providing you with synonyms in reference to my previous quote, incase you needed to further understand my post, before asking me to read to understand.

My post to you about "reading & understanding" was a reference to your first post that you jumped to conclusion.

If you go back & read my first post again, you would know your comment was unnecessary.

But honestly I apologize so we can let this go. Sorry.

truthsayer009:


LMAO i actually concur with this. Most Nigerian women in diaspora end up either coming back home to marry a Nigerian because Be as it may. The so-named-bad Nigerian guys always have in mind that they are the providers and they work their ass off to make sure their wives don't suffer much except for taking care of home front which isn't really a paid labor.

A lot of Nigerian women usually have the culture shock of 50/50 dating even while abroad. They cannot cope i swear.

Ask Safia/Safitu who cannot seem to date any guy in the UK successfully, always coming here to make mouth that her Man must be this and that LMAO.

UK guys that are as stingy as goats. Their one Pound would not even touch your hand even on your death beds. You must work for every penny & dating is 50/50.

Lol you are a smart man !

lexy2014

"will be chatting off record and you expect d guy to chat along? How can? For example maybe u are chatting on a topic d guy is not comfortable with. Of course, you can't always expect d guy to oblige u".

Very Likely but I won't come to Nairaland and create topics on dumb and boring Nigerian boys. I would just leave the conversation to fizzle out. There are people who are smarter than me, at my level of smartness and people I am smarter than. At the beginning I said it is a two-way street. There are people you will meet and you won't need to force anything . Why then worry if you can't flow with another?



If you don't no what to do in such a situation, how do u expect that a guy will no what do when he is conversing with a lady that isn't forthcoming.

That I asked simply means I want to hear your opinion not that I wouldn't know what to do.

Let me explain how I am. I usually don't even force the conversation and I don't worry my head about the 'whats' and 'ifs'.

Why I even answered was because op was making generalizations and I remembered that I have also encountered dumb and boring guys.

But why do some guys like bashing ladies? What do you enjoy in it? In fact you guys are also part of the problem you accuse them of.
If a girl is a prostitute, Biko who is she sleeping with.? If she is dumb, probably it was because she realised her body gets her more attention than her brain so she plays dumb.

I Don overtalk. I Don tire.

sedutrice:
lexy2014

"will be chatting off record and you expect d guy to chat along? How can? For example maybe u are chatting on a topic d guy is not comfortable with. Of course, you can't always expect d guy to oblige u".

Very Likely but I won't come to Nairaland and create topics on dumb and boring Nigerian boys. I would just leave the conversation to fizzle out. There are people who are smarter than me, at my level of smartness and people I am smarter than. At the beginning I said it is a two-way street. There are people you will meet and you won't need to force anything . Why then worry if you can't flow with another?



If you don't no what to do in such a situation, how do u expect that a guy will no what do when he is conversing with a lady that isn't forthcoming.

That I asked simply means I want to hear your opinion not that I wouldn't know what to do.

Let me explain how I am. I usually don't even force the conversation and I don't worry my head about the 'whats' and 'ifs'.

Why I even answered was because op was making generalizations and I remembered that I have also encountered dumb and boring guys.

But why do some guys like bashing ladies? What do you enjoy in it? In fact you guys are also part of the problem you accuse them of.
If a girl is a prostitute, Biko who is she sleeping with.? If she is dumb, probably it was because she realised her body gets her more attention than her brain so she plays dumb.

I Don overtalk. I Don tire.

bravo ,bravo ....
We understand you my lady
Not all Nigeria guys are boring ...
It's they way u chat that makes them chat the boring way ...
If u are interesting , then u will find out that most of them are very y interesting and fun to play with ...
But it's really difficult to see an opposite sex that is similar to you ...
Like my type of person ...I love technologies ,smartphones,anime cartoon ,sacry movies .. celebrity news , rapping , writing lyrics , playing games ...
But I HV not seen my type of person ....
The days of 2go was really sweet ...
WhatsApp too dry especially that normal WhatsApp that reminds person of Nigeria flag

Pascopele:
The bolded, I thought that question is a caring question

guy that one lakes sense of reasoning