Distance kept her miles away from her husband for months, she used to be a friend back in the university days. Have always been attracted to her coz she is dangerously beautiful. We hooked up in the town she hustles. Was aware she was married.Am Single. Controlled our Body contact at first but after weeks we grew fund of each other. We found ourselves alone in the apartment before u know it I started touching her, she did not stop me, I went further to UnCloth her, yet she did not say a word I kissed her thighs but on going further, we both asked ourselves, are we doing the right thing? The guilt staired at us before we started the main thing and immediately we stopped. No penetration.
The question proper now is "did we commit adultery? If yes, does repentance involve confessing to the husband apart from confessing to God?

Mba you didn't commit adultery my brother and sister.

Adultery simply committed both of you.

Dantepet3000:
Distance kept her miles away from her husband for months, she used to be a friend back in the university days. Have always been attracted to her coz she is dangerously beautiful. We hooked up in the town she hustles. Was aware she was married.Am Single. Controlled our Body contact at first but after weeks we grew fund of each other. We found ourselves alone in the apartment before u know it I started touching her, she did not stop me, I went further to UnCloth her, yet she did not say a word I kissed her tights but on going further, we both asked ourselves, are we doing the right thing? The guilt stained at us before we started the main thing and immediately we stopped.
The question proper now is "did we commit adultery? If yes, does repentance involve confessing to the husband apart from confessing to God?

The minute you guys hooked up, knowing fully well what you were both seeking....you BOTH did something wrong.

... as for her being kissed/undressed and what not? If she doesn't confess to husband then that means she definitely believes she did something wrong, and need to ask forgiveness to her husband, before he ever finds out on his own (that wifey is a h0e)

Btw being lonely, Being away, being h0rny is not an excuse!

We did not hookup for the aim of sex. The proper word was to catch up not for sexual purpose

Dantepet3000:
We did not hookup for the aim of sex. The proper word was to catch up not for sexual purpose

Why catch up with a married woman

You committed adultery because you already did in your heart.

First what is adultery?adultery is the act of having intercourse with anyone other than your spouse especially a married woman you don't necessary need to have intercourse before you call it sex, what is the act of kissing isn't that also classified under sex, pardon me but am speaking based on my perception isn't that also sex imagine you have a wife doing what you are doing with another mans wife how will u feel whAt will you called it if she told you that they only kiss and they did not really have an intercourse

Who cares?

Dantepet3000:
Distance kept her miles away from her husband for months, she used to be a friend back in the university days. Have always been attracted to her coz she is dangerously beautiful. We hooked up in the town she hustles. Was aware she was married.Am Single. Controlled our Body contact at first but after weeks we grew fund of each other. We found ourselves alone in the apartment before u know it I started touching her, she did not stop me, I went further to UnCloth her, yet she did not say a word I kissed her thighs but on going further, we both asked ourselves, are we doing the right thing? The guilt staired at us before we started the main thing and immediately we stopped. No penetration.
The question proper now is "did we commit adultery? If yes, does repentance involve confessing to the husband apart from confessing to God?

Go back and complete what you started!

did you penetrate, no. Sex is penetration in d strict term, but you have started d journey and if u continue u gonna land there. Just repent and stop such acts. No need telling anybody anything including d hubby

I really feel for alot of married men out there. While they are struggling so hard to put food in the home, the wife is busy looking for sex all in the name of he doesn't satisfy me.
The very painful aspect is the fact that many of these couple already had sex before marriage so if the lady knew she would not be able to cope with such sex issues why agree to marry him and start going to cheat on him.

Morally; yes

IMO; yes

Legally; no

Quality20:
did you penetrate, no. Sex is penetration in d strict term, but you have started d journey and if u continue u gonna land there. Just repent and stop such acts. No need telling anybody anything including d hubby

really?

9jaBloke:
Morally; yes

IMO; yes

Legally; no

You tried.

It's not sex cos there was no penetration. So legally, it's not adultery.

But it's morally wrong.





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Nooo!!

It's adulteration u commit..u do neeked person wife finish, wetin con remain

Person wey thief #50 and #500,000 na thief all of them be

My brother , it's a complex issue.
May God forgives us in this sinful generation.
Before I got married, I always say I will never have sex with any other lady after my wedding but it happened.

Women, including married women also have sexual needs that need to be met. Getting married ,contrary to what many think doesn't reduce this sexual needs but increase it. With Marriage ,sex becomes routine physical &intimate exercise, so anything that leads to separation between Husband &,wife should be avoided because any of the partners may not be able to tame the sexual urge for long.

I was discussing with a childhood friend , complaining about moral laxity among married People of these days, unlike in the 1960-1990s.
My friend surprisingly said, adultery has always been rampant but we didn't knew much about it back then because we hadn't been married then.

MiztaBobiGentle:
I really feel for alot of married men out there. While they are struggling so hard to put food in the home, the wife is busy looking for sex all in the name of he doesn't satisfy me.
The very painful aspect is the fact that many of these couple already had sex before marriage so if the lady knew she would not be able to cope with such sex issues why agree to marry him and start going to cheat on him.

MiztaBobiGentle:
I really feel for alot of married men out there. While they are struggling so hard to put food in the home, the wife is busy looking for sex all in the name of he doesn't satisfy me.
The very painful aspect is the fact that many of these couple already had sex before marriage so if the lady knew she would not be able to cope with such sex issues why agree to marry him and start going to cheat on him.

you just spoke my mind especially your last statement

greatme2good:


Why catch up with a married woman

so being married means shutting out your previous live? so men can't be friends with married women?

mezarddinny:
so being married means shutting out your previous live? so men can't be friends with married women?

Why must you be friends be married women except it's strictly business purposes??

Go and read d bible na
the word is God says once you you think am 4 mind u are as guilty as the person that did it

daddytime:
Mba you didn't commit adultery my brother and sister.

Adultery simply committed both of you.

You are bad

Dantepet3000:
Distance kept her miles away from her husband for months, she used to be a friend back in the university days. Have always been attracted to her coz she is dangerously beautiful. We hooked up in the town she hustles. Was aware she was married.Am Single. Controlled our Body contact at first but after weeks we grew fund of each other. We found ourselves alone in the apartment before u know it I started touching her, she did not stop me, I went further to UnCloth her, yet she did not say a word I kissed her thighs but on going further, we both asked ourselves, are we doing the right thing? The guilt staired at us before we started the main thing and immediately we stopped. No penetration.
The question proper now is "did we commit adultery? If yes, does repentance involve confessing to the husband apart from confessing to God?

Do you remember where it said in the Bible that if a man looks at a woman lustfully, then he has committed adultery in his heart?
I mentioned the Bible because you mentioned confession and repentance. Take your cue from that.

Actually, you have committed adultery with her several times during those visits where you claimed both of you became fond of each other. Deep in your hearts, both of you knew that sex could happen. Would happen.
You looked at her lustfully. You had erections. Pretty sure she had same thoughts and got rewarded with a wet pussy as well

No doubt, you have committed adultery. What you want to sincerely do after this knowledge is up to you.
Apply wisdom.

Quality20:
did you penetrate, no. Sex is penetration in d strict term, but you have started d journey and if u continue u gonna land there. Just repent and stop such acts. No need telling anybody anything including d hubby

So if that's what your wife did, you think it will be "no big deal"? Life as usual....?!

I appreciate your maturity. Thanks.
quote author=whirlwind7 post=81128389]


Do you remember where it said in the Bible that if a man looks at a woman lustfully, then he has committed adultery in his heart?
I mentioned the Bible because you mentioned confession and repentance. Take your cue from that.

Actually, you have committed adultery with her several times during those visits where you claimed both of you became fond of each other. Deep in your hearts, both of you knew that sex could happen. Would happen.
You looked at her lustfully. You had erections. Pretty sure she had same thoughts and got rewarded with a wet pussy as well

No doubt, you have committed adultery. What you want to sincerely do after this knowledge is up to you.
Apply wisdom. [/quote]