Lol,i had a swell time reading the comments here

Before you tie the knot with your supposed wife, pay her a surprise visit if you're the type who can't deal with dirt. Clothe dey cover plenty things. I've seen a girl of just 19 yrs of age use a pot with soot for 3 months. All she does is wash inside. You could make a mental picture of what her surrounding would look like, but she slays while going out.

It's easier to manage a dirty man than a dirty woman.

GrabHisBalls:
Very disturbing comments. Seems the ladies here now pay a blind eye to something bad and glaring like their male counterparts just to protect their gender.

@op, don't listen to anyone telling you to go cleaning kitchen or hiring a maid. Question is, how long will you clean? The reason I asked this is that in most Nigerian homes, the men are over burdened. They have little or no time for themselves. You can't be telling me to go clean up kitchen when I have a wife whose onion should be to keep the home neat. You could only tell me that if we are both very busy. Regardless, if your kitchen is dirty as a woman, you ought to be ashamed of yourself. Let's tell ourselves the truth and stop sounding Western. The other question would be, how long will you live with a maid when you have a wife? If she bath and clean up herself, then she's just lazy to do chores, which is bad. You're going to have kids if you don't have one already, this will increase the work load that those things she finds difficult doing, she'll have them in abundance waiting to get done. Men don't groom kids, women do. With a dirty wife, your kids will eat way worse things than cockroaches if her habits don't change.

Honestly you made some points I agree with. I didn't comment at first because I couldn't understand why a woman would be dirty, even in the kitchen she cooks meals.

I take that as a very serious character flaw. One that hiring a maid can't fix. This is dirtiness we are talking of here!!

A woman who can't clean her kitchen? But she will makeup and wear fine clothe? Because those are the things that matter. She has issues. Serious one. She has to change.

I don't even want to imagine the metal drain it is taking on him. Dirty and untidy people drain me. I am even drained reading the post and imagining it. No jokes o

LadySarah:


[s]Bleep off.
We'll the see who will contact sickness from cockroach infestation.

Let him keep eating outside instead of taking charge of his home.His eyes were shut when be was dating her.

All of you will keep opening threads here,you aint seen anything yet.[/s]

You just couldn't help but display how senseless and immature you really are -

Not like I expected any better from a classless git like you

pocohantas:


Honestly you made some points I agree with. I didn't comment at first because I couldn't understand why a woman would be dirty, even in the kitchen she cooks meals.

I take that as a very serious character flaw. One that hiring a maid can't fix. This is dirtiness we are talking of here!!

A woman who can't clean her kitchen? But she will makeup and wear fine clothe? Because those are the things that matter. She has issues. Serious one. She has to change.

I don't even want to imagine the metal drain it is taking on him. Dirty and untidy people drain me. I am even drained reading the post and imagining it. No jokes o

They were all reasoning in one direction. Trying to show off a politically correct viewpoint. I don't know the difference between having a dirty wife and one with very bad character. I can't deal with any if I were a man.

ctleurocollege:



She doesn't trust you, you can get an elderly woman of 50+

I think that is fine, thanks

LadySarah:
Its ’’our” not ”her ” kitchen.You can help her.Marrying yourselves should be to strengthen each other's weakness.

Help her tidy up.You guys can do it together and playfully.She will get the message. That is how we do and not issue at all.

GOD forbid any bad thing occurs like cockroach eating and she with your kids falls sick,it is still ur money that will be used for treatment.

But who told you that the one you are eating outside is better ,only if you go behind that fancy counter...

WIsdom is profitable dear

Stop encouraging wrong ideas.

GrabHisBalls:
Before you tie the knot with your supposed wife, pay her a surprise visit if you're the type who can't deal with dirt. Clothe dey cover plenty things. I've seen a girl of just 19 yrs of age use a pot with soot for 3 months. All she does is wash inside. You could make a mental picture of what her surrounding would look like, but she slays while going out.

It's easier to manage a dirty man than a dirty woman.

Abeg it's the same for both genders jare.

ctleurocollege:



She doesn't trust you, you can get an elderly woman of 50+

Just to please her dirty ass abi ?
Chinekenna!

Saao:
I think that is fine, thanks

No, it is not fine to hire an elderly woman to do your wife's duty .
She'll let go completely .

Saao:
divorce? No it's against my faith and don't want my Kid to be without her mum.

If you can't divorce her get a maid or do it yourself.

You'll have to take this as your cross. Every marriage has it's cross people aren't just talking.


When you have kids train them with an iron fist on how to care for the home and before they even become teenagers withdraw the services of a maid.

This will make cooking and cleaning a part of them and they will not end up like their mom.

Saao:
I think that is fine, thanks

She doesn't even have to live with you. She can come, cook and clean and then leave.

Mariangeles:

No, it is not fine to hire an elderly woman to do your wife's duty .
She'll let go completely .

Lol the duty he has been doing for the past 6 years abi?

This habit is already in her. She will change when Buhari speaks with a British accent.

The only other option is divorce which the op doesn't want.

But he can threaten her with it sha.

genq:


You just couldn't help but display how senseless and immature you really are - Not like I expected any better from a classless git like you

Tell him to divorce her , classic man.

I am waiting for ur own thread. ; ;DThat is when you will experience the real classlessness.

Last i will reply you.

Mariangeles:
[b]
Stop encouraging wrong ideas.

What do you mean?
Is their anyone who is perfect?
Should her divorce her or beat her since she has refused to listen?
Kitchen is a part of the house and is everybody's duty that all parts of the house is clean.
It is his cross and so he should bear it.

Mariangeles:

Just to please her dirty ass abi ?
Chinekenna!

Have you heard from his wife before passing dumb judgment? If you speak with her she will tell you a different story from this. If something is disturbing you, look for a solution because if you want to make everybody please you, you will die quick, IT'S IMPOSSIBLE.

Saao:
Hi everyone,

How do you handle a wife that careless about dirt? I complained about it to her several times but she is comfortable with it, and I'm getting comfortable eating out than in my house. I'm the type that if I noticed dirt I won't forget it. I know how to cook but it will be wrong for me to ignore her food and walk to kitchen to go and cook. Last time I'm almost ate cockroach in my soup thank God I didn't.

If you see her out side, she looked clean but her kitchen hmm, I talked severally nothing is changing.

What's the best way to handle such persons? Don't forget, she's my wife.

u no knw say na akpa dirty,before u marry am

LadySarah:
Its ’’our” not ”her ” kitchen.You can help her.Marrying yourselves should be to strengthen each other's weakness.

Help her tidy up.You guys can do it together and playfully.She will get the message.That is how we do and not issue at all.

GOD forbid any bad thing occurs like cockroach eating and she with your kids falls sick,it is still ur money that will be used for t
But who told you that the one you are eating outside is better ,only if you go behind that fancy counter...

WIsdom is profitable dear

This advice of yours is so sickening. What kind of woman is she that doesn't take the health of her own family seriously. She herself is she not an adult to know that dirty environment breeds germs which in turn can harm her family.

And yes it is her kitchen, stop trying to twist it if he the husband decides to help out in the kitchen fine but the work of cleaning the kitchen is not his primary duty but that of his wife.

Is it fair for a man to be outside hustling under the sun and rain week to week and you still expect him to come back and clean the mess his wife is supposed to do. Getting her a maid will only cement her laziness and dirty habits

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This advice of yours is so sickening. What kind of woman is she that doesn't take the health of her own family seriously. She herself is she not an adult to know that dirty environment breeds germs which in turn can harm her family.

And yes it is her kitchen, stop trying to twist it if he the husband decides to help out in the kitchen fine but the work of cleaning the kitchen is not his primary duty but that of his wife.

Is it fair for a man to be outside hustling under the sun and rain week to week and you still expect him to come back and clean the mess his wife is supposed to do. Getting her a maid will only cement her laziness and dirty habits[/quote

Scram

LadySarah:
Its ’’our” not ”her ” kitchen.You can help her.Marrying yourselves should be to strengthen each other's weakness.

Help her tidy up.You guys can do it together and playfully.She will get the message.That is how we do and not issue at all.

GOD forbid any bad thing occurs like cockroach eating and she with your kids falls sick,it is still ur money that will be used for treatment.

But who told you that the one you are eating outside is better ,only if you go behind that fancy counter...

WIsdom is profitable dear

Liar like you

genq:



Here we go again! - the disgustingly condescending tone of a NL misandrist

Whenever y'all don't wanna be held responsible for your actions, that's when the topic of equality will come up. Lazy pigs!

A dirty woman repeatedly leaves the kitchen in a filthy state. Instead of addressing her disgusting habits, you expect the man to take up responsibility of cleaning up after her - because he's her slave right?

And no, being dirty is not a 'weakness' - it's a sign of laziness and poor upbringing.

"Our kitchen" indeed

You spoke well elder. I wonder how dirtiness and filthiness = weakness.

GrabHisBalls:
Very disturbing comments. Seems the ladies here now pay a blind eye to something bad and glaring like their male counterparts just to protect their gender.

@op, don't listen to anyone telling you to go cleaning kitchen or hiring a maid. Question is, how long will you clean? The reason I asked this is that in most Nigerian homes, the men are over burdened. They have little or no time for themselves. You can't be telling me to go clean up kitchen when I have a wife whose onion should be to keep the home neat. You could only tell me that if we are both very busy. Regardless, if your kitchen is dirty as a woman, you ought to be ashamed of yourself. Let's tell ourselves the truth and stop sounding Western. The other question would be, how long will you live with a maid when you have a wife? If she bath and clean up herself, then she's just lazy to do chores, which is bad. You're going to have kids if you don't have one already, this will increase the work load that those things she finds difficult doing, she'll have them in abundance waiting to get done. Men don't groom kids, women do. With a dirty wife, your kids will eat way worse things than cockroaches if her habits don't change.

You've noticed the hypocrisy too going on around this forum for sometime. Thanks for being you

GrabHisBalls:
Before you tie the knot with your supposed wife, pay her a surprise visit if you're the type who can't deal with dirt. Clothe dey cover plenty things. I've seen a girl of just 19 yrs of age use a pot with soot for 3 months. All she does is wash inside. You could make a mental picture of what her surrounding would look like, but she slays while going out.

It's easier to manage a dirty man than a dirty woman.

Claps

GrabHisBalls:
They were all reasoning in one direction. Trying to show off a politically correct viewpoint. I don't know the difference between having a dirty wife and one with very bad character. I can't deal with any if I were a man.

No one should deal with any, but OP has married one. He has to find a way to deal with her.

On politically correct, the guys would have said worse if tables turn. So, OP should keep talking, doing it or outsource it. It is his cross...

ctleurocollege:



She doesn't trust you, you can get an elderly woman of 50+

Exactly my thought too. She doesn't trust you with a maid.
You can go an elderly live-in househelp or one that comes in the morning and leaves in the evening.

sisisioge:
Well, some people are not just cut out for chores. They would rather leave everything to clean themselves. Since she's your wife and several talk didnt worked, why not just get her a maid that would clean up the house. Issue resolved


Wisdom no go keel me

Hmm quite a long while, how have you been?

bobobooge:


Hmm quite a long while, how have you been?

Hallos...I dey o. You? Definitely been a while.

My attempts at sarcasm is always lost on the intended. How could they not have thought about getting a maid nau

Please, Op call your wife's mum and show a sample of her daughter's dirty kitchen if she refusing a maid...

What sef,

Saao:
Hi everyone,

How do you handle a wife that careless about dirt? I complained about it to her several times but she is comfortable with it, and I'm getting comfortable eating out than in my house. I'm the type that if I noticed dirt I won't forget it. I know how to cook but it will be wrong for me to ignore her food and walk to kitchen to go and cook. Last time I'm almost ate cockroach in my soup thank God I didn't.

If you see her out side, she looked clean but her kitchen hmm, I talked severally nothing is changing.

What's the best way to handle such persons? Don't forget, she's my wife.

If she hasn't realised that she is dirty in the kitchen, up on all your talk talk, then it will be very had for her to be clean

Stop giving her time and attention

If she ask you why, tell her she and the kitchen irritates you

Eat out if you want and eat in if you can endure the mess

Before we can be able to advice you on what to do, we need to know if your wife is dirty in all areas.
1 how many times a day does she takes her bath?
2. How many times does she put on a particular cloth before she wash it?
3. How often does your wife change her pants?
4, does you wave shave down there?
5 does she smell down there too?

Try using Afterlife Cleaning Services, 08180458852, www.afterlifecleaning.com. They have different plans to suit your cleaning needs. Please don't kill your wife o, she is not a slave.

pocohantas:


Honestly you made some points I agree with. I didn't comment at first because I couldn't understand why a woman would be dirty, even in the kitchen she cooks meals.

I take that as a very serious character flaw. One that hiring a maid can't fix. This is dirtiness we are talking of here!!

A woman who can't clean her kitchen? But she will makeup and wear fine clothe? Because those are the things that matter. She has issues. Serious one. She has to change.

I don't even want to imagine the metal drain it is taking on him. Dirty and untidy people drain me. I am even drained reading the post and imagining it. No jokes o

you dey talk sense o, and I dey like read your comments but at times you dey dey brutal, but all the same you are a wise woman.