anslem04:

A lot of people view things from one perspective, d moment u av r/ship issues is either u're broke or jobless ... so wen d advice start rollin in, its all about go n make money or get a job or face ur career,aint yu pple tayad of these move on chorus. are there no solutions or way around tins other than discarding
2yrs ago my bestie had small issue wit his gf of 4yrs I was in position to resolve it but my chorus was move on, face ur career, make more money buh after 2guy my guy is yet to av even one serious r/ship that wil last 6months. most guys here are struggling dey don't knw hw hard its to find a wife wen yu are rich... d best time is b4 u make dat money.

MedicH:

You're not very ok.

trustyshoess:
This whole thing smells like insecurity to me bruh. I would need a break too. Let her breathe

Jewessgratitude:


Who is ever ok after being dumped? Tell me...is it "ok" to be dumped? Then I wish you all shades of dumping.

For the records, I'm alright and better now. Ive gotten over it. I'm only trying to prevent others from experiencing such. No one deserves such. So you all should get off my mentions now. No thanks.

holaxi:

"For a while" .....You still want this girl but the bad news is that your heart has been pierced already, you better walk or you bleed to death.Thanks bro I think I've put my mind on her too much for real. I guess its time to let her be on her own for a while.

Rilwayne001:


May thunder fire the guy that dumped you. Na strong thing the guy do you ohh!!

But, it's a circle of life oh.. Please move on haha

holaxi:
My girlfriend and I have being together for almost three years now. We've had all the moments the good ,the bad and the ugly.

But recently she met a guy who asked her out, she refused his advances but the guy and her spend so much time on calls and chatting which I don't really like.

I've talked to her so many times about it but if she listens for a week the next week they are back in business.

Last week we were chatting and she just went offline I tried calling her to know what's up only for her number to be busy for like 20 mins. When she came back online and I told her she said she wasn't on call with anyone.

When I probed her further she said she wanted a two weeks break that I complain too much and I don't trust her.

I apologized to her so peace could reign but since then I've started losing interest in her.

Starz825:


Bro na normal thing for girls..they will still have guys coming in their dms while they are in a relationship (esp. wen they are pretty, set, good body shape- u don't need to be told guys full their dms)...stop stalking her....she isn't married to u yet(relax ur mind)... no dey put mind for girl wey no be ur wife
Ladies are like that...esp wen they are not married...they want to explore ...they want to feel another man's presence apart from you...that's the nature of most of them.....
They go through a lot of temptations( some of them will open up to some men that they are engaged, married or they are in a relationship..some men na him go still insist say they must have a taste)...esp the ones wey fine and set die....even the married ones wey fine...let their husbands check their dms...he go just faint...
.but na woman go give herself Brain as she is trained and well cultured- she go surely survive temptations...some ladies dey even inform their husbands Abt any guy wey enter their dms..




Girls within the bracket age of 18-25 are always like that...

Now, the solution.. having warned her earlier...she changed but went back to her vomit..its obvious she has lost focus....

Now...call her..sit her down and man up...tell her the situation of things..u don't need to argue with her...u ain't married yet don't forget...if u were married now it's a different ball game entirely...
Tell her she has lost focus...that she isn't committed...ask her wat the problem is...(see..there is a way u talk to ladies and they will open up to you Even if na u dey at fault Dem go tell u...they are too easy to get info from)....she will tell u..... whatever she tells you will determine ur next actions.... whether u need to move on or make it up to her...( I realized that the lady in question is not a random girl to you.. because if she was u had moved on without coming on the platform).... serious relationship is for two matured minds - iron out issues when there is a challenge - becos there will surely be one...

Jewessgratitude:


Lol...����. .I have dragged on cos it wasn't easy as I loved and still love him. Me I dont pretend.

Thanks for your concern though.

holaxi:

Thanks bro I think I've put my mind on her too much for real. I guess its time to let her be on her own for a while.

holaxi:
My girlfriend and I have being together for almost three years now. We've had all the moments the good ,the bad and the ugly.

But recently she met a guy who asked her out, she refused his advances but the guy and her spend so much time on calls and chatting which I don't really like.

I've talked to her so many times about it but if she listens for a week the next week they are back in business.

Last week we were chatting and she just went offline I tried calling her to know what's up only for her number to be busy for like 20 mins. When she came back online and I told her she said she wasn't on call with anyone.

When I probed her further she said she wanted a two weeks break that I complain too much and I don't trust her.

I apologized to her so peace could reign but since then I've started losing interest in her.

holaxi:

Thanks bro I think I've put my mind on her too much for real. I guess its time to let her be on her own for a while.

Rilwayne001:


My perspectives is different from what you're painting up here. I'm!not asking him to not engage in relationship or anything, I'm asking him to prioritize his career more than anything while playing around with girls that comes his way. It's what I'm doing and it's working great for me. I have girls I'm chasing and I have those chasing me, but my career ambition is far above the pedestal I put everyone of them, basically because I'm not ready for marriage. By the time I'm ready, it would be easier for me to pick the best out of them. It's a win win situation my friend. Simple as ABC.

anslem04:

What makes u think OP as not or is not prioritizing his career or job, that yu av so much time to play doesnt mean every one as time.
You av so many GF means nothing .. yu are jus a stakeholder what makes u think by that time u will be ready the one or two choices u had on ur mind won't av engaged or wed another bobo out of the blues.
We guys want to be @the peak of our career ,make billions own royce rolls b4 we marry buh we 4get these gurls don't av time, so as u dey make ur plan even that chick dey reason other alternatives. naa wen u ready u go know wassup ... shebi e easy jus pick abi..lol !

Jewessgratitude:


Who is ever ok after being dumped? Tell me...is it "ok" to be dumped? Then I wish you all shades of dumping.

For the records, I'm alright and better now. Ive gotten over it. I'm only trying to prevent others from experiencing such. No one deserves such. So you all should get off my mentions now. No thanks.

Sweeetheart:



charity kee you there. imagine this kind of thinking in 21 century


which angel mould your brain because you and me is not saying the same thing

deltateam:


Hahaha. Bros easy. That's the way most women are wired. They seek comfort. Otherwise how else do you explain Regina Daniels marrying Ned Nwoko?

Rilwayne001:


It took a whooping 6 months before I got over mine too, but ever since

lefulefu:
maybe the new guy she"s chatting with has promised to take her to dubai or milan.u know how some babes loose their sanity when dem hear abroad .

Rilwayne001:


okay what's your suggestion? I want to learn.

How do you expect a broke ass nigga to manage a relationship with girls of this age?

Sweeetheart:



there are still women who have a working brain. those you're making reference of valued their pussy than their brain

I have once meet a lady who's ready to change my fortune for good but because of my commitment with my fiance I declined, so no one can tell me not to monitor her

holaxi:

You might be right though cos I don't know what a guy and girl will be talking about at after 11pm for 43mins+. But I try my best for her. If my best isn't enough then she's free to do whatever pleases her. One bad thing about me is once I lose the feelings, there's no gong back.

holaxi:

Your words seem harsh but they are the bitter truth. I'll show her my other side soon. Thanks

Ladylite:


Am really sorry on behalf of ladies on how you have been treated by your lady.

But I need to explain some few things
You may have not understood about ladies.... So you do not make the mistake again in your next relationshipssss

You can kiss a lady and still not know her
. You can sex a lady very well and she will still not be yours.
You may even spend money on her education, looks, parents, health and in gratitude she will cheat on you.

The key to a Lady's heart, soul and body is COMMUNICATION.

Once a guy has good communications with a lady NOT just talk games o, the girl is owned even if she denies it vehemently.

Many guys stop pursuing impressive communication once they have gotten the girl to date them or marry them. That's man's biggest mistake or oversight about women.

Communication is a life long work both parties must do for the relationship to remain strong and grow.

TanyLoe:






Yes I agree to this
A man that can make a woman laugh and has good listening ears and communication skills
Are dangerous
I must say