Offpoint:
Everyone's saying you did the right thing", but I'm offpoint I don't like taking same train with everyone... life will be filled with Bordon if we all reason alike.

Dude! you did the wrong thing, you came in in less than a year and wreck a union that has been on before the birth of "Junior". you should have mind your business, your brother knows the kinda woman he married, but you came in and played the "Nice Guy" card and flipped everything outside down. put yourself in little junior shoes, if I happen to be little junior and found out you fücked up a once peaceful family and separate me from my mom... I'll pay your kids back in folds by ruining your marriage in the future.

yeah, that's the train I'm taking

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MichaelBukamzy:


He remarried.they are happy.the girl no even send.

divorcing and remarrying is against Christian doctrine. he should have stayed unmarried

I enjoyed reading this

Home wrecker..u should HV sent her those nude pics first and warn her to desist from it.then if she continues u can now expose her,u didn't even consider the little kids..u turned her good of allowing u stay in her house to bad

chiomzy86:
Home wrecker..u should HV sent her those nude pics first and warn her to desist from it.then if she continues u can now expose her,u didn't even consider the little kids..u turned her good of allowing u stay in her house to bad

Shut up. Her list wrecked her home not the Op, birds of the same feather. Marriage is for sane people

chiomzy86:
Home wrecker..u should HV sent her those nude pics first and warn her to desist from it.then if she continues u can now expose her,u didn't even consider the little kids..u turned her good of allowing u stay in her house to bad

I think you should have done what this poster suggested first before wrecking a home where you were welcomed

MichaelBukamzy:
ADVICE NEEDED please.
It happened on last year.i came to abuja from enugu to learn buisness from my uncle who is a tyre dealer.Our initial plan was to stay with my brother at his house with his wife and two kids.when i came,i was offered the visitors room.everything was moving fine except my observations on his wife's excessive chats and calls when uncle is not arround.i was suspecting her of cheating on my uncle but i didnt have a concrete evidence.my uncle is a very busy man,not too educated,rich.Wifey is a house wife,always at home chatting or watching movies(very lazy)nothing lacks at home.whenever big bro is arround, she conducts herself so well like virgin mary,but immediately he steps out,she turns nicky minaj(my agemate and school mate back then,now talks to her school head boy anyhow)I decided oneday, to be on her matter because her cheating on my brother was so much.i started looking for a way to hack her phone for evidences(her phone is always on lock). one sunday,junior was playing winning eleven with her phone,i snatched it from him ,searched her facebook and whatsapp,lo and behold!!! I was right.i saw her nude pictures and love messages from 2 men which from their pictures, whould be above 50.then i saw an unsaved number too,opened the picture and saw our neighbore's sent kiss smileys. I was shocked.immediately,i took a screen shot and sent them to my own account.
After about one week of contemplating on wheather to spill the bean or not,i decided to.After an advice from a friend,i bought a new sim,opened whatsap with it and sent those nudies and screen shot chats to my uncle's whatsap number. I came back from church on sunday, and met uncle beating wifey.he stopped immediatelly i came in.tommorrow morning,they travelled to village where uncle dumped her.we later found out that uncle had once caught her snapping naked,after a short quarell,he forgave her and kept his cool.He also overheard her saying "i love you too" after a lenghty phone call.he still let it slide.and many other misbehaviours of hers that pains my brother.At village,wifey conffessed of cheating(landlord's son,pastor,and two other men). Her family begged for weeks but uncle said it is over.

My problem now is that whenever i travel to the village and see her hanging arround with these village touts,i feel disturbed.my mind always tells me that i did the wrong thing but i was just trying to save my uncle.adive me on what do please.i always feel like am the cause of her predicaments.

Pardon my poor grammer please.

My brother you did well jare, only a fool will complain about what you did and the way you did it to avoid one bitch from nowhere bringing untimely death to your family. As long as you gathered all the concrete evidence believe me she is nothing but an Olosho sorry for that.

Much has already been said, and I'll keep these thinking points brief.
1. Would you like a trusted someone to snatch and snoop your phone, to expose you for whatever you may have done?
2. Would you like your houseguest to self-appoint themselves to be the moral authority in your household, and make changes according to their own sensibilities?
3. If you were happy in your marriage, would you like someone to anonymously send you nude pics of your wife, or would you rather be happy with your illusion until (if) the marriage fell apart of its own accord?
These are mostly for the OP, who is thinking after he has acted.

The woman dey addicted to sex

DateMynd44:
divorcing and remarrying is against Christian doctrine. he should have stayed unmarried

what makes you feel the man is a christian?