you're not shy, you've just run out of things to talk about for now. take her to a movie and allow her pick the movie. you can discuss the plot, characters and alternative endings over ice cream and fries or Pepsi and popcorn. then schedule another date for the following week.

if she's up for it, you can go foodstuff shopping together and make the meal together. you'll bond without breaking the bank.

these are just a couple of suggestions and please keep sex off the table, at least for now. there's a high chance it'll ruin your chances at something lasting. also ensure you're clean and well groomed too.

and remember, you're a student first. having good grades is another way to stay attractive.

Rubbiish:
How old are u

22

If You love Somebody Walk uP to Her Tell Am
don't be Shy If She Said No It Means No But If She Says Yes She Still Mean Yes Don't Give Up

I see no problem here my guy. If confidence doesn't come natural to you, trying to wear it may put you in an awkward position. Don't become a loquacious clown because you want to make her laugh.
My guy, if I've learnt one thing in life, it's never try to impress any woman with niceties if it doesn't come natural. By not trying to impress them, they become puzzled. They are used to being center of attraction. Don't make her feel like anything. Another guy is treating her like rag somewhere.

Keep your option of crushes open o. Don't crush on only one girl. Crush on as many girls as possible, even the most beautiful. No fear my guy. Las las all of them dey bend down piss.

Remember!!! Never try to impress women. Boring and shy is better than awkward loquaciousness.

Relax....the bare necessities of life would come to you especially, romance. Time and chance happen to us all

Strica:
you're not shy, you've just run out of things to talk about for now. take her to a movie and allow her pick the movie. you can discuss the plot, characters and alternative endings over ice cream and fries or Pepsi and popcorn. then schedule another date for the following week.

if she's up for it, you can go foodstuff shopping together and make the meal together. you'll bond without breaking the bank.

these are just a couple of suggestions and please keep sex off the table, at least for now. there's a high chance it'll ruin your chances at something lasting. also ensure you're clean and well groomed too.

and remember, you're a student first. having good grades is another way to stay attractive.

noted

LOGOBELT:
A shy guy for this 21st century? Guy send me her number, let me help you talk to her, she will say yes to me in no time......Oh sorry! She will say yes to you in no time.


Guy, work on yourself, your boldness matters alot. Apart from that Girl, you need boldness for your Seminar Defense, Project Defense and even Interview when you are done with your studies.

Your boldness will make most people believe you even when what you have to say is stupid.

Now when you have boldness, when you have accomplished it, then you will not look for what to say to THAT GIRL you said you dont want to LOSE, what to say WILL COME ITSELF

We Nairalanders won't help you, rather YOU GAT TO HELP YOURSELF. Thank You

You have done well.

Whatever you do don't have sex on your first date, from what I know girls like shy guys, take her out on a date, ask about her hobbies, learn more about it when you ask her out next date discuss it extensively like a pro, congratulations you have won her heart.

Harlequeen baby, anytime I see your handwriting on this forum, my body go just dey shake somehow and na so my heart go just dey beat fast, my dada go come dey plait. I dey trip for you o Harlequeen baby.

visijo:
Before you marry someone, first sleep with them just to make sure they don't snore. You don't want to spend the remaining evenings of your life feeling like you are in a lorry

Since you guys have started talking ask her for advice chikena.

Jamelmusic:
If You love Somebody Walk uP to Her Tell Am
don't be Shy If She Said No It Means No But If She Says Yes She Still Mean Yes Don't Give Up

I dey wonder whether una dey sing until I see ur monicker

mrpoul:
I'm Confused, I Don't Want To Lose Her

There is this girl that I met in lecture theater, we sat down together, we chatted but it was concerning the lecture.

After the lecture, I disappeared because I'm this kind of very shy person, I didn't know what to talk to her aside the lecture.

So I saw her on Facebook, I added her and chatted her, up. It happen that evening I wanted to go eat in a restaurant, I told her she can join me jokingly. Surprisingly, she came, we talked but it was mostly about me and herself. After, we finished eating, I told her to come and know my place, but when she came I was nervous and she did not stay up to 5 mins. I told her we need to go, that her roomie maybe worried about her. The next day when she saw me in school, she was excited to see me.

After then our communication sucks, I will call her and be asking all this boring questions, before I know it, sometimes she will see my chat and will not reply. Now I'm confuse, I don't know what to do again. I don't wanna lose her.

What do you suggest I do from here? pardon my grammatical blunder.

mumu

mrpoul:
I'm Confused, I Don't Want To Lose Her

There is this girl that I met in lecture theater, we sat down together, we chatted but it was concerning the lecture.

After the lecture, I disappeared because I'm this kind of very shy person, I didn't know what to talk to her aside the lecture.

So I saw her on Facebook, I added her and chatted her, up. It happen that evening I wanted to go eat in a restaurant, I told her she can join me jokingly. Surprisingly, she came, we talked but it was mostly about me and herself. After, we finished eating, I told her to come and know my place, but when she came I was nervous and she did not stay up to 5 mins. I told her we need to go, that her roomie maybe worried about her. The next day when she saw me in school, she was excited to see me.

After then our communication sucks, I will call her and be asking all this boring questions, before I know it, sometimes she will see my chat and will not reply. Now I'm confuse, I don't know what to do again. I don't wanna lose her.

What do you suggest I do from here? pardon my grammatical blunder.

All u need are 2 things abit of confident and how to have a good conversation(u don’t have to keep talking if u have nothing meaningful to say. Just end the convo and catch up later. As u get comfortable with her u will ease out and get better. Ure just too nervous Bt it’s normal for learners don’t beat urself up for dat. Then the rest is go with the flow and do what u like with sense oh!

Heh Heh!!

Seventy7kings:
Harlequeen baby, anytime I see your handwriting on this forum, my body go just dey shake somehow and na so my heart go just dey beat fast, my dada go come dey plait. I dey trip for you o Harlequeen baby.

mrpoul:
I'm Confused, I Don't Want To Lose Her

There is this girl that I met in lecture theater, we sat down together, we chatted but it was concerning the lecture.

After the lecture, I disappeared because I'm this kind of very shy person, I didn't know what to talk to her aside the lecture.

So I saw her on Facebook, I added her and chatted her, up. It happen that evening I wanted to go eat in a restaurant, I told her she can join me jokingly. Surprisingly, she came, we talked but it was mostly about me and herself. After, we finished eating, I told her to come and know my place, but when she came I was nervous and she did not stay up to 5 mins. I told her we need to go, that her roomie maybe worried about her. The next day when she saw me in school, she was excited to see me.

After then our communication sucks, I will call her and be asking all this boring questions, before I know it, sometimes she will see my chat and will not reply. Now I'm confuse, I don't know what to do again. I don't wanna lose her.

What do you suggest I do from here? pardon my grammatical blunder.

What I suggest is that you should concentrate on on your studies that is what I suggest you should do. The beautiful ones are not yet born my boy.

Sometimes I think it pays to be an introvert.We don't know how to chat up a girl,we just go straight to the point
"I like you and I will like us to be friends",all this beating around the bush is waste of time and energy.

ericsmith:




Look who we av here given r/ship advice ... relationship don suffer

Lol, she might not give you an instant answer even if you ask her you are interested in her, just summon courage and tell her and don't break her heart once she agrees for you.

emddi:
Sometimes I think it pays to be an introvert.We don't know how to chat up a girl,we just go straight to the point
"I like you and I will like us to be friends",all this beating around the bush is waste of time and energy.

Gbam?

Well, maybe you should find another girl? Try some kind of dating site, for example a site with Dating Latina Women may be a good option for you. Especially if you are open to discussions with people of different mentalities. So try

Woo Chang concentrate on your studies

Rubbiish:

How old are u

This is not about age o. There are some married men that are shy to look their wife in the face after sex.

Ilovebigboobs:
Heh Heh!!

NoGender:
Your Grammar sef dislocate my neck.

Girl wey you dey cry for has probably gone fucking in another niggas crib.

You swallow lizard for mouth? What was stopping you from making your intentions known from the first day, just tell her one big talk;

"I can't seem to understand my self since I left you the previous time, I'm losing it and have got no coherent way to put this. Do I like that I've got nothing to say when we see? Not inherently, but please understand that I may be meandering and trying to lull but I've got you and your thoughts full to the brim in my heart"

Two seconds she go..!!

Eh! Format

emddi:
Sometimes I think it pays to be an introvert.We don't know how to chat up a girl,we just go straight to the point
"I like you and I will like us to be friends", all this beating around the bush is waste of time and energy.

We the introverts, we don't even have the bush to beat about.

You started well, but ended badly. Don't make the mistake of asking her out, that will give her an edge over you.

The girl came to your place prolly because she was bored and instead of you to switch things up you were asking her to go because of her roommate, what nonsense.

You could have entertained her, made her feel comfortable, play games (games that gets you to know her more) with her, and prolly Bleep her.

I see some people saying, don't Bleep her. Here's the thing, if you want sex go for it, delaying it will make you do stupid things. Things you would later regret.

If a girl digs you, she'll want to have sex with you immediately.

Don't be an asshole with her, or try to be shady. Show her how cool you are (but not at your expense), if you are shy, let her know, do things together. Be open, but not too open (only say the things that will help your cause)

A girl recently came to my house, we played a lot of games such as sharing house chores and racing to see who would finish first (it was her first time coming to my house), and I bleeped her that same day. And I was able to do this because I got to know her and what she stands for and used it.

Always know your girl first, always know what you want, then go for it. She would either oblige you or not.

But first, always be a cool guy.

Continue being shy. When one Bhad Guy approaches her and starts kpanshing her now you will start complaining of friend zoning. And how girls love bad guys.
Open up to her immediately and let her know your mind. If she isn't game, move on asap

mrpoul:
I'm Confused, I Don't Want To Lose Her

There is this girl that I met in lecture theater, we sat down together, we chatted but it was concerning the lecture.

After the lecture, I disappeared because I'm this kind of very shy person, I didn't know what to talk to her aside the lecture.

So I saw her on Facebook, I added her and chatted her, up. It happen that evening I wanted to go eat in a restaurant, I told her she can join me jokingly. Surprisingly, she came, we talked but it was mostly about me and herself. After, we finished eating, I told her to come and know my place, but when she came I was nervous and she did not stay up to 5 mins. I told her we need to go, that her roomie maybe worried about her. The next day when she saw me in school, she was excited to see me.

After then our communication sucks, I will call her and be asking all this boring questions, before I know it, sometimes she will see my chat and will not reply. Now I'm confuse, I don't know what to do again. I don't wanna lose her.

What do you suggest I do from here? pardon my grammatical blunder.

Woo her via WhatsApp if you're too shy. A suitor once proposed to me via text message, and when I asked why he couldn't propose face to face, he said there is nothing wrong with text message proposal because, after all, his father proposed to his mum via NIPOST. No joke.

This technological era has made life a lot easier in many aspects. This is the Jet Age. Harness it's many opportunities!

mrpoul:


how did u overcome shyness?

The only way is to start interacting with people, there is no other way. Join a small group where u will be force to contribute to discussions. Approach random girls and engage them in short conversation, u will certainly make mistakes, but u will be building your confidence level. First step is to join a small group in your church if u re a christian or dept. Volunteer to take opening and closing prayers, to give vote of thanks etc. Please avoid bad boys, with this your shy & timid state, they can easily influence u negatively.

paix:
We the introverts, we don't even have the bush to beat about.

haha,we don't even have the energy to sight the bush