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I have never been this confused in my life. I started dating my girl like 3 months ago. This is a girl that is committed to Gods things and firmly stands on christian value and principle in her dealings all around.

Shortly along the line of our relationship, she revealed to me that she is a virgin which I doubted until she allowed me to verify like I was taken child delivery for her. She is 24 years old, her dad is a deeper life pastor and a solder at the same time.

Funny enough, her dress does not suggest that she has anything at all to do with deeper life, though she doesn't wear trousers and doesn't put on hair rings. But in all of these, her look still doesn't bear semblance with a typical religious person.

She asked me if I can wait until marriage in terms of sex because she is not ready to give up her virginity for anything at all until official solemnisation, firstly because she doesn't want to disappoint her dad and secondly, because she doesn't want to betray her Christian value and believe. I was so happy to have a woman of such rarely found quality in my life and never thought it twice before striking a relationship deal of no sex with her.

All was going fine. Once in a while we passionately kissed when such opportunity presents it self. While doing this, I sometimes got carried away by stretching my hands towards the location of NO GO AREA clearly defined in the preagreement terms of our relationship. But her determination in protecting that area is second to none.

Honestly, I fell in love with this girl and even the scar of satisfying her is still visible on my body. I did all I could to make her persistently happy.

To cut it short, just this morning, she sent me a breakup message. It was unbelievable and came as a shock because breakup message is what I least expected from her at this nascent stage of our relationship.

Meanwhile, just yesternight which is barely 12 hours ago, we had a good conversation on WhatsApp like we used to have, in which she was asking me about my day, what I ate, my activities for that day and all that. The conversation was so mutual and ran smooth that it didn't suggest any hostility or preconceived plan of breaking up.

Since I saw the message, I have been muttering to my self about what could actually be the real reasons for such spontaneous decision. Though when I pressured her about the real reasons for this action, she told me that a guy broke her heart in 2017, and since that time she has been finding it difficult to love.

Pls how can I handle this situation ? I love this girl genuinely and at the same time, at this stage of my life, I don't want to waste anytime by making repetitive appeal and persuasion in hope that probably she is gonna change her mind...

Ur sex drive made her run oh nothing more either u ain't satisfying her or dey stuff dey enter her throat she can't endure again

Person Don enter bus dey go e tell you bye bye you dey tell driver make he wait. Even if driver wait he go still go last last

I like the girl already. Na correct girl. You want use prick scatter her life. She japa. Very good girl.

May our female kids get sense like this one o. Unlike all the Lagos Ibadan expressways punna wey full this forum

I feel she's just using that sex talk as an excuse to quit the relationship which I feel is so childish of her.

You might have a good intention for the said daughter of a pastor, but..... Oh well, Just cheer up, drink a bottle of Fanta and delete every memory of her.


You'll find true love again.

someone else bust the cherry either before you guys dated or very recently, she won't own up to you cos she knows eventually if she keeps dating you you'll find out and leave her.


better to end it herself and keep her sanity
she'll start afresh with a new guy who she won't lie to that she is a virgin, probably the guy who bust it.

the things is virgins just want someone bold enough to convince them and deceive them into giving up the cherry, trust me women just want someone to blame other than themselves , be that person they'll blame for leading them astray and they won't leave you.

Power of obodo oyibo xmas returnees.
Don't worry bro, her eye go clear for January and she will come begging.

Shibaraba:
Person Don enter bus dey go e tell you bye bye you dey tell driver make he wait. Even if driver wait he go still go last last

I like the girl already. Na correct girl. You want use prick scatter her life. She japa. Very good girl.

May our female kids get sense like this one o. Unlike all the Lagos Ibadan expressways punna wey full this forum

Bro waiting u think say ah fit do nah

She's started seeing someone else. Take it or leave it.

The girl don go chop preek aswear, big gbola don reset her brain. You better move on.

O.P, make more money.

I repeat, make more money.
The sex drive is just an excuse, she never really loved you.

She lost her virginity recently to someone else and she knows u will be devastated if u find out so she chose to smartly end the relationship. Though she loves u more than the other guy but the shit happened between them, If u were in her shoes u would do the same.

Once love is one sided, the story never ends well. Whoever is meant to be in your life will stay and appreciate you and whoever is not meant to stay would fall out by omission or commission and be unappreciative of the special moments you had together. Ignore the excuse and just man up, mourn her 'demise' from your world for a while and move on with life. Las, las, you'll be fine....I promise you.

tayooluwole:


While doing this, I sometimes got carried away by stretching my hands towards the location of NO GO AREA clearly defined in the preagreement terms of our relationship. But her determination in protecting that area is second to none.

The bolded tells me that you were determined to get to that area and was always confronted by stiff resistance. If you are so determined.... what conclusion should she come to other than the one she spelled out? After all... she was trying to love you.... but got tired of fighting to keep you away from the promised land.... when you already knew it was NO GO. Look in the mirror bro... don't blame her.
After all.... the way she dresses and all that.... nothing close to a Deeper Life doesn't matter..... her heart is Deeper Life.

Don't judge a book by its cover

thundafire:
Ur sex drive made her run oh nothing more either u ain't satisfying her or dey stuff dey enter her throat she can't endure again

Come on man he said she is a fargin and that it was till marriage before them do the do so cross that out of ur thinking....

Small children love can funny sometimes?

rtdCivilservant:
She lost her virginity recently to someone else and she knows u will be devastated if u find out so she chose to smartly end the relationship. Though she loves u more than the other guy but the shit happened between them, If u were in her shoes u would do the same.

op dem don talk am all.

She have do d do and didn't want you to know dat she has don it.

Abeg no go beg am say if she have lost her virginity, dat you'll still forgive her.

Abeg no go beg am. Move on

czarr:
someone else bust the cherry either before you guys dated or very recently, she won't own up to you cos she knows eventually if she keeps dating you you'll find out and leave her.


better to end it herself and keep her sanity
she'll start afresh with a new guy who she won't lie to that she is a virgin, probably the guy who bust it.

the things is virgins just want someone bold enough to convince them and deceive them into giving up the cherry, trust me women just want someone to blame other than themselves , be that person they'll blame for leading them astray and they won't leave you.

Hm. U made some nice statement up there...

@op she has given you her why are u confused. She tried to love you but it just isn’t happening and she doesn’t want to waste your time. That’s a valid reason to me while you are in love with her she just isn’t loving you the same. She is a very matured girl and from a responsible home for her to tell you the truth and not sugar coat it. There are more fishes in the ocean my friend

Shuo! Egbon Tayo kilode? Na only you Waka come? If I'm not mistaken your former babe jilted you early this year. . .

Now you come find another one a few months later and she sef don give you red card?

As we move into the new year, I think careful self introspection might be inorder, IMO.

tayooluwole:
I have never been this confused in my life. I started dating my girl like 3 months ago. This is a girl that is committed to Gods things and firmly stands on christian value and principle in her dealings all around.

Shortly along the line of our relationship, she revealed to me that she is a virgin which I doubted until she allowed me to verify like I was taken child delivery for her. She is 24 years old, her dad is a deeper life pastor and a solder at the same time.

Funny enough, her dress does not suggest that she has anything at all to do with deeper life, though she doesn't wear trousers and doesn't put on hair rings. But in all of these, her look still doesn't bear semblance with a typical religious person.

She asked me if I can wait until marriage in terms of sex because she is not ready to give up her virginity for anything at all until official solemnisation, firstly because she doesn't want to disappoint her dad and secondly, because she doesn't want to betray her Christian value and believe. I was so happy to have a woman of such rarely found quality in my life and never thought it twice before striking a relationship deal of no sex with her.

All was going fine. Once in a while we passionately kissed when such opportunity presents it self. While doing this, I sometimes got carried away by stretching my hands towards the location of NO GO AREA clearly defined in the preagreement terms of our relationship. But her determination in protecting that area is second to none.

Honestly, I fell in love with this girl and even the scar of satisfying her is still visible on my body. I did all I could to make her persistently happy.

To cut it short, just this morning, she sent me a breakup message. It was unbelievable and came as a shock because breakup message is what I least expected from her at this nascent stage of our relationship.

Meanwhile, just yesternight which is barely 12 hours ago, we had a good conversation on WhatsApp like we used to have, in which she was asking me about my day, what I ate, my activities for that day and all that. The conversation was so mutual and ran smooth that it didn't suggest any hostility or preconceived plan of breaking up.

Since I saw the message, I have been muttering to my self about what could actually be the real reasons for such spontaneous decision. Though when I pressured her about the real reasons for this action, she told me that a guy broke her heart in 2017, and since that time she has been finding it difficult to love.

Pls how can I handle this situation ? I love this girl genuinely and at the same time, at this stage of my life, I don't want to waste anytime by making repetitive appeal and persuasion in hope that probably she is gonna change her mind...

it's simple move on what else can you do?
the lady was never in love with you right from the beginning.

Shey she dey deny you sex no cos she be virgin {I don't believe tho}
Bro just::
1. Locate any night club near you tonight have fun drink like a brewery
2. Carry one olosho Bleep am with your vexnation anger fury nor forget to take man power Sha by tomorrow morning you go forget shap shap

Your to hide her name in your screen shots before posting. Haba.

tayooluwole:
I have never been this confused in my life. I started dating my girl like 3 months ago. This is a girl that is committed to Gods things and firmly stands on christian value and principle in her dealings all around.

Shortly along the line of our relationship, she revealed to me that she is a virgin which I doubted until she allowed me to verify like I was taken child delivery for her. She is 24 years old, her dad is a deeper life pastor and a solder at the same time.

Funny enough, her dress does not suggest that she has anything at all to do with deeper life, though she doesn't wear trousers and doesn't put on hair rings. But in all of these, her look still doesn't bear semblance with a typical religious person.

She asked me if I can wait until marriage in terms of sex because she is not ready to give up her virginity for anything at all until official solemnisation, firstly because she doesn't want to disappoint her dad and secondly, because she doesn't want to betray her Christian value and believe. I was so happy to have a woman of such rarely found quality in my life and never thought it twice before striking a relationship deal of no sex with her.

All was going fine. Once in a while we passionately kissed when such opportunity presents it self. While doing this, I sometimes got carried away by stretching my hands towards the location of NO GO AREA clearly defined in the preagreement terms of our relationship. But her determination in protecting that area is second to none.

Honestly, I fell in love with this girl and even the scar of satisfying her is still visible on my body. I did all I could to make her persistently happy.

To cut it short, just this morning, she sent me a breakup message. It was unbelievable and came as a shock because breakup message is what I least expected from her at this nascent stage of our relationship.

Meanwhile, just yesternight which is barely 12 hours ago, we had a good conversation on WhatsApp like we used to have, in which she was asking me about my day, what I ate, my activities for that day and all that. The conversation was so mutual and ran smooth that it didn't suggest any hostility or preconceived plan of breaking up.

Since I saw the message, I have been muttering to my self about what could actually be the real reasons for such spontaneous decision. Though when I pressured her about the real reasons for this action, she told me that a guy broke her heart in 2017, and since that time she has been finding it difficult to love.

Pls how can I handle this situation ? I love this girl genuinely and at the same time, at this stage of my life, I don't want to waste anytime by making repetitive appeal and persuasion in hope that probably she is gonna change her mind...

I will say it the way it is

Immorality will kill both you

Cease and Desist from fornication

I guess this is part of the fruit of final solution Retreat that just ended

I guess this is part of the fruit of final solution Retreat that just ended
She only retraced her steps.

Lol

My brother do you want to know the real message this girl is passing?... You guys need to wise up ooo, cuz naija girl don turn dating to yahoo yahoo.

God just answer ur prayer , u going into new year without gf stress u going to see this 2020 gonna be a greater year bros be happy and move on ASAP . The babe is fucking another guy look at her response ( should I be lying for u ) bros waka jeje

jagaban002:
God just answer ur prayer , u going into new year without gf stress u going to see this 2020 gonna be a greater year bros be happy and move on ASAP . The babe is fucking another guy look at her response ( should I be lying for u ) bros waka jeje

my brother your starting was correct,but your end statement is incorrect. I dey street! things are happening really fast our women are catching up really fast,dey don learn new format (psychology) to make our young men miserable....I no wan reveal much cuz of suckers



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